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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What/who do you class as a time waster?
I’ve been told many a time that I’m a time waster because I’m not meeting. But I’m still unsure who’s time I have been wasting  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn’t call you a time waster if you’re up front at the start and say you’re not meeting.
I save that term for people I’ve made plans to meet with and they haven’t turned up |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I wouldn’t call you a time waster if you’re up front at the start and say you’re not meeting.
I save that term for people I’ve made plans to meet with and they haven’t turned up"
Couldn't agree more.
If you are stating youre not looking to meet from the off then nothing more should be expected  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I wouldn’t call you a time waster if you’re up front at the start and say you’re not meeting.
I save that term for people I’ve made plans to meet with and they haven’t turned up
Couldn't agree more.
If you are stating youre not looking to meet from the off then nothing more should be expected "
It’s literally on my profile. They message me to say they’ve read my profile, and I’m a time waster. Okay  |
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"What/who do you class as a time waster?
I’ve been told many a time that I’m a time waster because I’m not meeting. But I’m still unsure who’s time I have been wasting "
Someone who agrees to meet, then either cancels last minute, or fails to show, I class a time waster  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What/who do you class as a time waster?
I’ve been told many a time that I’m a time waster because I’m not meeting. But I’m still unsure who’s time I have been wasting "
I don't think you qualify, I'd say someone who goes through all the motions, agrees to meet, even picks a place and time only to change their mind at the last moment or continually postpone the meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What/who do you class as a time waster?
I’ve been told many a time that I’m a time waster because I’m not meeting. But I’m still unsure who’s time I have been wasting "
I think that's just people living in hope because they think you will change your mind ha |
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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago
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If you state not meeting, not a time waster.
If you message asking to meet without reading the "not meeting" status = self time waster.
If you fail to turn up after arranging to meet = time waster for both parties.
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"Also for me, a time waster is someone who chats to ya, arranges a meet and bails/ghosts ya
Wanna meet on the pier at 3.43pm today? 
Yes sir!"
oooooh!  I’ll be wearing a cowboy hat at a jaunty angle and spurs. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Also someone that refuses to send a face picture until the afternoon before an evening meet  "
Ooooft I wouldn’t be arranging anything until I see their face  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Also for me, a time waster is someone who chats to ya, arranges a meet and bails/ghosts ya
Wanna meet on the pier at 3.43pm today?
Yes sir!
oooooh! I’ll be wearing a cowboy hat at a jaunty angle and spurs. "
See ya soon buddy
I’ll be wearing purple leather trousers |
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"What/who do you class as a time waster?
I’ve been told many a time that I’m a time waster because I’m not meeting. But I’m still unsure who’s time I have been wasting "
Your are no time waster as you are clear and to the point you're not interested in meeting quite obvious but what is a time wasting is arranging to meet I'm not showing up string people who have have 0 chance of ever gaining from the exchange.
Not sure you need to worry.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Time wasters to me are those asking questions in messages that are answered in the profile. We've spent the time writing the profile, won't waste our time repeating sections of it in messages.
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