Sorry guys just got to say I know the women on this get lots of attention but is it really that hard not to be rude... Iv had a number of conversations recently which I have been very kind and all of a sudden gets deleted. I know there are some weird people out there, but if someone is being nice a simple no would do. Women should not be treated like meat but also so shouldnt men... Rant over |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
 |
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Lol ok
Please say if you think differently...
I think differently.
Come on speak up if you've got a different veiw.. "
Why do you feel it's disrespectful if the chat just tails off? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Lol ok
Please say if you think differently...
I think differently.
Come on speak up if you've got a different veiw..
Why do you feel it's disrespectful if the chat just tails off?"
Because it doesn't tail off or go dry it's more like a chat then suddenly poof gone.. Like you would never have a conversation with someone in person and mid sentence just walk off.. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Lol ok
Please say if you think differently...
I think differently.
Come on speak up if you've got a different veiw..
Why do you feel it's disrespectful if the chat just tails off?
Because it doesn't tail off or go dry it's more like a chat then suddenly poof gone.. Like you would never have a conversation with someone in person and mid sentence just walk off.. "
I would if they were getting on my nerves  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Lol ok
Please say if you think differently...
I think differently.
Come on speak up if you've got a different veiw..
Why do you feel it's disrespectful if the chat just tails off?
Because it doesn't tail off or go dry it's more like a chat then suddenly poof gone.. Like you would never have a conversation with someone in person and mid sentence just walk off..
I would if they were getting on my nerves "
Could understand if they did something wrong.. Like I said I know there's alot of weirdos about but come on. especially if they give them a compliment first then bugger off cuz I replyed to the compliment. Haha |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *lan157Man
over a year ago
a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex |
"Lol ok
Please say if you think differently...
I think differently.
Come on speak up if you've got a different veiw..
Why do you feel it's disrespectful if the chat just tails off?
Because it doesn't tail off or go dry it's more like a chat then suddenly poof gone.. Like you would never have a conversation with someone in person and mid sentence just walk off.. "
You are quite right OP in that you would not walk off in mid sentence with someone you were having a conversation with in person but fab is not really a conversation at all unfortunately. It's often seen as a conversation by only one of the parties . The other just sees it as an exchange of messages and after the exchange of a couple something more interesting appears in the inbox or something else in real life rears its head like the need to sleep etc . Its really irritating I get that but it's just the Fab world. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Lol ok
Please say if you think differently...
I think differently.
Come on speak up if you've got a different veiw..
Why do you feel it's disrespectful if the chat just tails off?
Because it doesn't tail off or go dry it's more like a chat then suddenly poof gone.. Like you would never have a conversation with someone in person and mid sentence just walk off..
You are quite right OP in that you would not walk off in mid sentence with someone you were having a conversation with in person but fab is not really a conversation at all unfortunately. It's often seen as a conversation by only one of the parties . The other just sees it as an exchange of messages and after the exchange of a couple something more interesting appears in the inbox or something else in real life rears its head like the need to sleep etc . Its really irritating I get that but it's just the Fab world. "
How dare women need to sleep lmao |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Lol ok
Please say if you think differently...
I think differently.
Come on speak up if you've got a different veiw..
Why do you feel it's disrespectful if the chat just tails off?
Because it doesn't tail off or go dry it's more like a chat then suddenly poof gone.. Like you would never have a conversation with someone in person and mid sentence just walk off..
You are quite right OP in that you would not walk off in mid sentence with someone you were having a conversation with in person but fab is not really a conversation at all unfortunately. It's often seen as a conversation by only one of the parties . The other just sees it as an exchange of messages and after the exchange of a couple something more interesting appears in the inbox or something else in real life rears its head like the need to sleep etc . Its really irritating I get that but it's just the Fab world. "
I do understand that and thank you for actually taken the time to understand what I mean, but I'm an ideal world it would be nice to have a minimal understanding or that, like I'm going or not interested sorry. But just deleting the conversation is just abit insalting really.. haha |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago
Fabville |
"Sorry guys just got to say I know the women on this get lots of attention but is it really that hard not to be rude... Iv had a number of conversations recently which I have been very kind and all of a sudden gets deleted. I know there are some weird people out there, but if someone is being nice a simple no would do. Women should not be treated like meat but also so shouldnt men... Rant over "
OP
Firstly, your version of a kind conversation may be different to the women you have been messaging.
2. Even a 'simple no' can result in a tirade of abuse from the man.
3. Lots of people de-clutter their in-boxes, myself included. That is not rude. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"Lol ok
Please say if you think differently...
I think differently.
Come on speak up if you've got a different veiw..
Why do you feel it's disrespectful if the chat just tails off?
Because it doesn't tail off or go dry it's more like a chat then suddenly poof gone.. Like you would never have a conversation with someone in person and mid sentence just walk off..
I would if they were getting on my nerves "
I would say I’m bored now and then walk off |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Op, just accept that she's moved on from the conversation and get over it. Yes, it's irksome but some random lady on the Internet does not owe yiu the courtesy of saying "sorry, but I'm getting bored of this conversation and I need to focus on chatting to the hot guy that's just messaged me asking about a photo and sex meet" |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Lol ok
Please say if you think differently...
I think differently.
Come on speak up if you've got a different veiw.. "
Jeeeez I was putting my baby back to sleep 
Why do I think differently? Because I’d much rather stop chatting to someone than to explain ‘actually I’m not interested’ and get a fuck tone of abuse back. I’m fed up with people thinking they’re entitled to chat.
You think it’s rude? Cool. Would you want to chat to someone you think is rude anyway? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
The fact that this has happened to you a number of times suggests to me you need to look at your messaging skills, if you were sending messages that interested or engaged these women it wouldn't happen. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I don't think it is rude if you simply delete someone. It gets a point across.
If she all of the sudden called you names and blocked you, that would be rude. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
I think you got it, bud .....”there are some weird people out there.....” the ladies are thinking that too so delete and block. Don’t worry about it. Find someone else. If it keeps happening then look closer to home for a possible reason. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
She lost interest. Big deal?
Has it not happened to you before outside fab? Someone stopped texting and life went on?
I'd be ranting if someone I see on a regular basis stopped contact suddenly and not someone I never met before. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"She lost interest. Big deal?
Has it not happened to you before outside fab? Someone stopped texting and life went on?
I'd be ranting if someone I see on a regular basis stopped contact suddenly and not someone I never met before."
This, this and this again 1000x over |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Lol ok
Please say if you think differently...
I think differently.
Come on speak up if you've got a different veiw..
Why do you feel it's disrespectful if the chat just tails off?
Because it doesn't tail off or go dry it's more like a chat then suddenly poof gone.. Like you would never have a conversation with someone in person and mid sentence just walk off..
You are quite right OP in that you would not walk off in mid sentence with someone you were having a conversation with in person but fab is not really a conversation at all unfortunately. It's often seen as a conversation by only one of the parties . The other just sees it as an exchange of messages and after the exchange of a couple something more interesting appears in the inbox or something else in real life rears its head like the need to sleep etc . Its really irritating I get that but it's just the Fab world. "
 |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *ng1983Couple
over a year ago
Newcastle upon tyne |
If you look at the FAQ section, no reply/deleted messages mean not interested. She is operating within the sites rules. Fab land is different to the real world. No reply/deleted messages are acceptable. Plus women usually get a torrent of abuse for being honest and turning guys down. They're just trying to save themselves some aggro most of the time |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
