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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
I would never *expect* someone to provide protection - it's my sexual health, so I take responsibility for it and always come prepared accordingly.
Obviously if they have their own and prefer to use it then not a problem (by the time I meet I trust people enough) |
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"Hi all..
Pondering a recent meet, when meeting up with a single male would you expect them to provide protection or the other way around??
Curious..  "
I do not provide specifically but I do bring some with me incase needed x |
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As a single guy, I carry my own, because I know which brands are "comfortable" for me to wear, I tend to choose latex free as that negates a problem that may occur.
Most of the people I have met, also have their own and it is a question of trust. In that some people could use a pin if a) they want to get pregnant, or b) they are just an arsehole that gets off on that.
For this reason I always open a fresh box when meeting with someone for the first time and I would only ever use someone elses if they insisted and there was a fresh box available. Doesn't reduce all the issues, but it is managing risk somewhat. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"As a single guy, I carry my own, because I know which brands are "comfortable" for me to wear, I tend to choose latex free as that negates a problem that may occur.
Most of the people I have met, also have their own and it is a question of trust. In that some people could use a pin if a) they want to get pregnant, or b) they are just an arsehole that gets off on that.
For this reason I always open a fresh box when meeting with someone for the first time and I would only ever use someone elses if they insisted and there was a fresh box available. Doesn't reduce all the issues, but it is managing risk somewhat."
Wow. That really is a lot of thought and actually makes sense. Thanks for the openness  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I would never *expect* someone to provide protection - it's my sexual health, so I take responsibility for it and always come prepared accordingly.
Obviously if they have their own and prefer to use it then not a problem (by the time I meet I trust people enough) "
Agreed that it’s the health of all parties involved therefore my opinion would be that if a single male is playing with a couple that he’d want to be careful himself and not expect the couple to provide condoms nor bareback! Especially when it’s indicated in our profile. |
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By *euschMan
over a year ago
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"I'd add that one of the topics of conversation before meeting is always about protection, if they have a preference, any allergies etc - and if necessary I will buy fresh accordingly "
Wow, that is thinking ahead, not a bad thing |
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