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Bi Mates Match

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Right. This has been prompted by Cluster Fucktress’s thread and some conversations Ive been have with Fab forum friends about bi MMFs.

There have been numerous mentions of women fantasising about meetiings with two or more bi men. However as RachelMark said on the CF’s thread bi male mates are difficult to find. Also the prospect of meeting two bi guys is both exciting and scary and if the vibe isn’t right it wont happen.

So my question is. Should the bi guys on Fab do more on developing friendships with other bi guys with the potential to team up? Is there a call for it? Is it a shit idea? What could we do if it is a good idea? Etc etc.

Your thoughts and feelings on the subject?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Tag team? Could work

Do they have to have names? Can I be in The Legion of Doom?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Tag team? Could work

Do they have to have names? Can I be in The Legion of Doom?

I think bi tag teams could be a good tag line. I like the idea of names too. Perhaps some naked wrestling thrown in

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I met a gay guy on fabguys last year. I wouldn't call him a mate, but we've kept in touch as we got on really well and he's a lovely decent man.

He's never been with a woman and would like a MMF threesome.

He's the only guy I'd ask if I was to find a woman that wanted the same.

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By *iddlesticksMan over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

Mates with other bi guys, nah, it won’t work, we can’t play in the same Darts team if we’ve sucked each other’s cocks.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've been advocating this for a while on my page. Always up for drinks and mates anyway... if anything more comes out of it. Bonus...

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Mates with other bi guys, nah, it won’t work, we can’t play in the same Darts team if we’ve sucked each other’s cocks.

You keep,your darts away from me. But we could call ourselves the Arse Arrows

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I've been advocating this for a while on my page. Always up for drinks and mates anyway... if anything more comes out of it. Bonus..."

Agreed. I think building the friendships is a key part of it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I met a gay guy on fabguys last year. I wouldn't call him a mate, but we've kept in touch as we got on really well and he's a lovely decent man.

He's never been with a woman and would like a MMF threesome.

He's the only guy I'd ask if I was to find a woman that wanted the same.

Why is he the only guy you’d ask if you don’t mind me asking?

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By *iddlesticksMan over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

"Mates with other bi guys, nah, it won’t work, we can’t play in the same Darts team if we’ve sucked each other’s cocks.

You keep,your darts away from me. But we could call ourselves the Arse Arrows

I think there’s some form of smutty innuendo in going for the bulls eye somewhere in this.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Mates with other bi guys, nah, it won’t work, we can’t play in the same Darts team if we’ve sucked each other’s cocks.

You keep,your darts away from me. But we could call ourselves the Arse Arrows

I think there’s some form of smutty innuendo in going for the bulls eye somewhere in this. "

Easy tiger

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

In all honesty I find the idea of "teams" a bit...hmmm not sure what the right word is but whenever I see a MM profile that is two guys teaming up "to give the ladies a good time" it just doesn't sit right with me - know you don't mean it that way bro, but it's what springs to mind.

I think the scenario you suggest needs to happen a little more organically than being a specific "thing" that you set out to find or set up.

Always enjoy bi MMF though, definitely my favourite way to play

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"In all honesty I find the idea of "teams" a bit...hmmm not sure what the right word is but whenever I see a MM profile that is two guys teaming up "to give the ladies a good time" it just doesn't sit right with me - know you don't mean it that way bro, but it's what springs to mind.

I think the scenario you suggest needs to happen a little more organically than being a specific "thing" that you set out to find or set up.

Always enjoy bi MMF though, definitely my favourite way to play"

I think youre right that why I was hesitant about posting this. I don't quite know the best way to frame it.

One of the things I have noticed is bar a couple of friends like you I don't really talk to other bi guys. The conversations on messages from them when my filters are open are in not focused on developing friendships and even on the forum few of us interact with each other much

Therefore when opportunities arise, the conditions for something to work aren’t in place.

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By *iddlesticksMan over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

G Man Fiddles and the Doc, we could be the stars of a bisexual middle age porn film, or a new age folk band who wear naturally died wool underpants and play instruments made of old kipper boxes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"G Man Fiddles and the Doc, we could be the stars of a bisexual middle age porn film, or a new age folk band who wear naturally died wool underpants and play instruments made of old kipper boxes. "

Hey,hey I play guitar and sing already so may be the joke isn’t such a joke and a I know there are other bi guys that are musicians too.

As for the Porn film I’m not sure who’d watch

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I met a gay guy on fabguys last year. I wouldn't call him a mate, but we've kept in touch as we got on really well and he's a lovely decent man.

He's never been with a woman and would like a MMF threesome.

He's the only guy I'd ask if I was to find a woman that wanted the same.

Why is he the only guy you’d ask if you don’t mind me asking?"

Lots of reasons. I haven't met with loads of men. Most were just one off's. A few I've seen more than once.

I got on so well with this guy. We had a laugh, had similar personalities and just hit it off.

He seems respectfull and I wouldn't have a problem introducing him to a woman.

Some blokes have come across as arrogant or pushy and I wouldn't want to meet them myself again let alone introduce them to someone else.

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By *uryWhipMan over a year ago

Harringay

I've had guys suggest teaming up but nothing ever comes of it. I'm also finding it difficult to find bi socials but, not really casting my net that fat