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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Someone told me she is thinking about leaving this site because of other womens "bitchynes" towards here.
Is this a common thing on fab? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ah! I see what you're trying to do here  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Heard about it as a single when it comes to verifications the claws come out |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ah! I see what you're trying to do here "
You do  |
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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago
Shrewsbury |
Yes all women are bitches when they need to be! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Are they  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive not experienced it, but I dont speak to many women, but the ones I have they are lovely. I wouldn't entertain it anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Would rather make friends than enemies |
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By *asha86Couple
over a year ago
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I havent come across any bitchiness as of yet....that's not to say it doesnt exist on here. I treat others how I would like to be treated and that's with respect xT |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've also been told that claws come out over verifications.
I've also been told to join the dots on who's been with who and be careful.
I've also been told that some are really nice till you touch someone the want, have had or regularly flirt with.
And I've only been here 4 months ish. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ive not experienced it, but I dont speak to many women, but the ones I have they are lovely. I wouldn't entertain it anyway. "
Exactly this. I’m sure there are some bitches on here, as there are in all walks of life; but despite showing my veris ( I know some dont to avoid any nastiness) I’ve had no problems at all and feel lucky to know some ladies on here who are attractive inside and outside x |
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I absolutely love the ladies I’ve met on here. Don’t have any issues. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've also been told that claws come out over verifications.
I've also been told to join the dots on who's been with who and be careful.
I've also been told that some are really nice till you touch someone the want, have had or regularly flirt with.
And I've only been here 4 months ish. "
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As far as we are aware it isn't common. No one should have to consider leaving because of other peoples behaviour towards them..
Tell her to stay. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve heard about it, and only one person has been a bitch to me x |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"Someone told me she is thinking about leaving this site because of other womens "bitchynes" towards here.
Is this a common thing on fab? "
What does she mean by bitchiness? In what way? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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 I think the whole putting women against women thing is a tired and boring stereotype. Men are just as capable of being bitchy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I haven't come across any personally, but was really surprised to be told by another lady that she doesn't let on when she mets up with a regular forumite because "the other girls don't like it" |
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It happens. There's no need for it and I have absolutely no clue what they are hoping to gain from it, but some people just aren't very nice |
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The women I've chatted to on here have been uniformly lovely and very supportive.
I'm sure there are some bitchy women on here as in real life, but I'm fortunate enough to have not seen any of that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you bitch about veris, it shows you have jealous tendancies...maybe swinging is not for you.
I have heard it, seen it and do not understand it. I want to sleep with women not fight them  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've also been told that claws come out over verifications.
I've also been told to join the dots on who's been with who and be careful.
I've also been told that some are really nice till you touch someone the want, have had or regularly flirt with.
And I've only been here 4 months ish. "
I'd keep a close eye on the one who told you all that.  |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
Hillside desolate |
"Ive not experienced it, but I dont speak to many women, but the ones I have they are lovely. I wouldn't entertain it anyway. "
Same here, I pretty much keep myself to myself. Well, myself and some fab sex Gods. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"As far as we are aware it isn't common. No one should have to consider leaving because of other peoples behaviour towards them..
Tell her to stay. "
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Don't know much about what women say behind our backs .
Only what they told me, about me in conversations, not much bitching , usually rather nice and uplifting.
I have been here properly for a few weeks and see the intention behind "verified genuine profile " somehow became a "shag rating" .
Respect is word used a lot on fab but "she sucked my dick like a Dyson Hoover" doesn't qualify for respectful way to verify a meet with someone ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ive not experienced it, but I dont speak to many women, but the ones I have they are lovely. I wouldn't entertain it anyway.
Same here, I pretty much keep myself to myself. Well, myself and some fab sex Gods. "
We need to become best friends |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've also been told that claws come out over verifications.
I've also been told to join the dots on who's been with who and be careful.
I've also been told that some are really nice till you touch someone the want, have had or regularly flirt with.
And I've only been here 4 months ish.
I'd keep a close eye on the one who told you all that. "
It wasn't just one |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Instead of leaving why not just block the nasty ones ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've seen it happen on the forums at times. But it's not just women, some men can be bitchy too. I just try to stay away. I see so many lovely and kind people on here and they are my kind of people.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" I think the whole putting women against women thing is a tired and boring stereotype. Men are just as capable of being bitchy "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep. Lots of cat fights on the forums....purrrrrr  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Someone told me she is thinking about leaving this site because of other womens "bitchynes" towards here.
Is this a common thing on fab?
What does she mean by bitchiness? In what way? "
I'm not sure exactly because I didn't go into it.
I think it's a case of jealousy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I tend not to get involved in all the bollocks
A woman once told a man I liked the look of that he shouldn’t meet me
Is that bitchy?
I care not
I walk away from negative crap |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Someone told me she is thinking about leaving this site because of other womens "bitchynes" towards here.
Is this a common thing on fab? "
Something I’ve never encountered . I’ve seen some ‘cliques last and heard things . But I left school many years ago so I’m here to lift women up |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"Ive not experienced it, but I dont speak to many women, but the ones I have they are lovely. I wouldn't entertain it anyway.
Same here, I pretty much keep myself to myself. Well, myself and some fab sex Gods.
We need to become best friends "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you bitch about veris, it shows you have jealous tendancies...maybe swinging is not for you.
I have heard it, seen it and do not understand it. I want to sleep with women not fight them "
Seconding this |
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I dont take any notice of the bitchyness |
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" I think the whole putting women against women thing is a tired and boring stereotype. Men are just as capable of being bitchy "
It does happen. But men also bitch, and that can be worse. It's not a gendered issue.
I think you go out, do the best you can, be wary but also open to people. And communicate. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its laughable to suggest that bitchiness on this site is limited to women. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Its laughable to suggest that bitchiness on this site is limited to women. "
I'm not suggesting that |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Fab is but a microcosm of society in general and attracts all sorts so it's no surprise that it happens, just as it's no surprise that you get men who get bent out of shape over stuff.
Is there any place for it? Not at all, and I find it very sad that people feel the need to hide stuff, or be careful what they say - but that applies as much to normal life as it does here.
Personally I just get on with it and try not to get involved as much as I can - sure there are people who grate with me, and people I have no time for, just as in the real world, but like the real world I ignore as much as I can, and just go about my business without letting it get to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well I have been here for 10 years on and off under different guises and can honestly say I haven't experienced bitchiness really...I had a nasty PM off a woman once.
On the whole I have found the majority of ladies on the forum lovely and have had some great chats with some |
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The women I chat to are all supportive of one another. I avoid drama and it's avoided me. Women should support and empower each other x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its laughable to suggest that bitchiness on this site is limited to women.
I'm not suggesting that "
You are. Or at the very least, intentionally or not, you are encouraging a thread about how women bitch about other women. Which then becomes a self fulfilling prophecy as people cite examples even if they arent the norm and 175 posts in it'll be a thoroughly depressing but not representative read |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I once met a lady who is popular then got contacted by another lady after her veri to me to meet her as she is a better fuck. I met her then got blocked by the First Lady |
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"The women I chat to are all supportive of one another. I avoid drama and it's avoided me. Women should support and empower each other x"
Shouldn't all fabbers support eachother ? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Its laughable to suggest that bitchiness on this site is limited to women.
I'm not suggesting that
You are. Or at the very least, intentionally or not, you are encouraging a thread about how women bitch about other women. Which then becomes a self fulfilling prophecy as people cite examples even if they arent the norm and 175 posts in it'll be a thoroughly depressing but not representative read "
I didn't say its limited to women. I can write a thread about whatever I like.
I can't see what your problem is here. |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"The women I chat to are all supportive of one another. I avoid drama and it's avoided me. Women should support and empower each other x
Shouldn't all fabbers support eachother ? "
Yes, but this thread is about women. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its laughable to suggest that bitchiness on this site is limited to women.
I'm not suggesting that
You are. Or at the very least, intentionally or not, you are encouraging a thread about how women bitch about other women. Which then becomes a self fulfilling prophecy as people cite examples even if they arent the norm and 175 posts in it'll be a thoroughly depressing but not representative read
I didn't say its limited to women. I can write a thread about whatever I like.
I can't see what your problem is here. "
You should of said men and women to the thread title. Would stop any bitching |
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"Its laughable to suggest that bitchiness on this site is limited to women.
I'm not suggesting that
You are. Or at the very least, intentionally or not, you are encouraging a thread about how women bitch about other women. Which then becomes a self fulfilling prophecy as people cite examples even if they arent the norm and 175 posts in it'll be a thoroughly depressing but not representative read "
Nice one Monkey.
Hijack the thread and make it a happy one.
Fabbers unite, don't fight .
Make love(and sex) , not war .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The women I chat to are all supportive of one another. I avoid drama and it's avoided me. Women should support and empower each other x
Shouldn't all fabbers support eachother ? "
If only |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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"The women I chat to are all supportive of one another. I avoid drama and it's avoided me. Women should support and empower each other x
Shouldn't all fabbers support each other ? "
In an ideal world yes, but just as I said above, like life in general, not everyone will get on with everyone, add sex into the mix and it's a recipe for people to get bent out of shape unnecessarily, and that is where it all goes downhill for some sadly - fine you don't like someone, or can't get along with them, it's natural, but leave it at that rather than resorting to snide and pointless comments and behind the scenes shit stirring. |
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The most pointless laughable ~drama~ I've dealt with on Fab has been between men who felt the need to involve me for whatever reason.
The gossip, hard/hurt feelings and fallout female to female, there was always a reason, even if ultimately it was a misunderstanding in some cases. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Its laughable to suggest that bitchiness on this site is limited to women.
I'm not suggesting that
You are. Or at the very least, intentionally or not, you are encouraging a thread about how women bitch about other women. Which then becomes a self fulfilling prophecy as people cite examples even if they arent the norm and 175 posts in it'll be a thoroughly depressing but not representative read
I didn't say its limited to women. I can write a thread about whatever I like.
I can't see what your problem is here.
You should of said men and women to the thread title. Would stop any bitching "
Yeah lol. But the thread is about someone who I chatted with and she's a woman.
If men are feeling left out then bitch away. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its laughable to suggest that bitchiness on this site is limited to women.
I'm not suggesting that
You are. Or at the very least, intentionally or not, you are encouraging a thread about how women bitch about other women. Which then becomes a self fulfilling prophecy as people cite examples even if they arent the norm and 175 posts in it'll be a thoroughly depressing but not representative read
I didn't say its limited to women. I can write a thread about whatever I like.
I can't see what your problem is here.
You should of said men and women to the thread title. Would stop any bitching
Yeah lol. But the thread is about someone who I chatted with and she's a woman.
If men are feeling left out then bitch away. "
Or start a thread about men bitching
No point in going off topic |
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On the flip side, I've had incredible support and love from both men and women here. It's not all a horrible competition. If you look, there's humanity just like everywhere else. You just see a broader range of it than you might otherwise day to day. |
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It upsets me does all this stuff. I literally haven’t a problem with anyone.
That said, gossip is so rife that I’ve heard things about myself that I didn’t even know |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"Someone told me she is thinking about leaving this site because of other womens "bitchynes" towards here.
Is this a common thing on fab? "
Do people really still think fab or any other online forum will be any different to the real world?
Why should it be any different?
It's not some kind of utopia where it's all unicorns and fluffy bunnies.
Of course people bitch and moan. But people also have a lot of fun, enjoy the socialising whether virtual or real and make friends.
Just like the real world.
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"It upsets me does all this stuff. I literally haven’t a problem with anyone.
That said, gossip is so rife that I’ve heard things about myself that I didn’t even know "
I'm dead boring; if someone wanted to start some gossip about me I'd probably back them up if it sounded interesting. |
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I've heard other women talk about it but never witnessed or experienced any myself. Hopefully it stays that way. Though I have had men message me to bad mouth other women . They get a speedy block!
Pretty shocking to see it happens over other women meeting a man they like or have met. This is a swinging site. Also people aren't possessions and nobody is worth fighting over! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m so confused as to how there’s so much drama. I’ve never come across it except on the forums when people take shots at each other over difference of opinion
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It upsets me does all this stuff. I literally haven’t a problem with anyone.
That said, gossip is so rife that I’ve heard things about myself that I didn’t even know
I'm dead boring; if someone wanted to start some gossip about me I'd probably back them up if it sounded interesting. "
Id be so excited if I was interesting enough to gossip about too  |
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"It upsets me does all this stuff. I literally haven’t a problem with anyone.
That said, gossip is so rife that I’ve heard things about myself that I didn’t even know
I'm dead boring; if someone wanted to start some gossip about me I'd probably back them up if it sounded interesting. "
Have you heard the _uriousscouser has a tattoo of Boris Johnson on her Mary! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It upsets me does all this stuff. I literally haven’t a problem with anyone.
That said, gossip is so rife that I’ve heard things about myself that I didn’t even know
I'm dead boring; if someone wanted to start some gossip about me I'd probably back them up if it sounded interesting.
Have you heard the _uriousscouser has a tattoo of Boris Johnson on her Mary!"
Oh oh oh! Make one up about me next |
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"It upsets me does all this stuff. I literally haven’t a problem with anyone.
That said, gossip is so rife that I’ve heard things about myself that I didn’t even know
I'm dead boring; if someone wanted to start some gossip about me I'd probably back them up if it sounded interesting.
Have you heard the _uriousscouser has a tattoo of Boris Johnson on her Mary!"
It's true; if I queef it's like he's talking |
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"It upsets me does all this stuff. I literally haven’t a problem with anyone.
That said, gossip is so rife that I’ve heard things about myself that I didn’t even know "
Haha snap |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
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Yeah I've known it to happen, a woman telling people I 'steal' men from her, men neither of us have even met, I only talk to them. I just let it carry on, I'm not going to rise to it.
I've had some bitchy women from couples too, more so than single women. |
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"I've also been told that claws come out over verifications.
I've also been told to join the dots on who's been with who and be careful.
I've also been told that some are really nice till you touch someone the want, have had or regularly flirt with.
And I've only been here 4 months ish. "
I got the same warnings.
Just do as you please, it’s your experience  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes very much so......
I had left the site due to a woman on here chatting shit about me, typically down to 1 guy I saw him for a while.
Few weeks ago randomly bumped into him with her good luck to them I wouldn’t wanna be with a fella who had previously spoken badly about me.
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"It upsets me does all this stuff. I literally haven’t a problem with anyone.
That said, gossip is so rife that I’ve heard things about myself that I didn’t even know
I'm dead boring; if someone wanted to start some gossip about me I'd probably back them up if it sounded interesting.
Have you heard the _uriousscouser has a tattoo of Boris Johnson on her Mary!
Oh oh oh! Make one up about me next "
I heard Jamie.hants has a sex tape with the go compare man and got paid off with a lifetime of free insurance to keep it quiet! |
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"On the flip side, I've had incredible support and love from both men and women here. It's not all a horrible competition. If you look, there's humanity just like everywhere else. You just see a broader range of it than you might otherwise day to day."
I have to second that , especially as a new person making an appearance on forums over last few weeks .
Good advice , plenty of support , good banter , words of encouragement .
Had my share of "false labeling" and other stuff but positive outshines the bad |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It upsets me does all this stuff. I literally haven’t a problem with anyone.
That said, gossip is so rife that I’ve heard things about myself that I didn’t even know
I'm dead boring; if someone wanted to start some gossip about me I'd probably back them up if it sounded interesting.
Have you heard the _uriousscouser has a tattoo of Boris Johnson on her Mary!
Oh oh oh! Make one up about me next
I heard Jamie.hants has a sex tape with the go compare man and got paid off with a lifetime of free insurance to keep it quiet!"
Ok that’s more of a fantasy than a rumour but I’ll take it. |
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I've had weird pushback from all demographics about my verifications. Good to know, and block. |
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Nobody really leaves this site and talks about it first.
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"It upsets me does all this stuff. I literally haven’t a problem with anyone.
That said, gossip is so rife that I’ve heard things about myself that I didn’t even know
I'm dead boring; if someone wanted to start some gossip about me I'd probably back them up if it sounded interesting.
Have you heard the _uriousscouser has a tattoo of Boris Johnson on her Mary!
Oh oh oh! Make one up about me next
I heard Jamie.hants has a sex tape with the go compare man and got paid off with a lifetime of free insurance to keep it quiet!
Ok that’s more of a fantasy than a rumour but I’ll take it. "
I don't suppose there's any copies of the tape floating around? |
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"It upsets me does all this stuff. I literally haven’t a problem with anyone.
That said, gossip is so rife that I’ve heard things about myself that I didn’t even know
I'm dead boring; if someone wanted to start some gossip about me I'd probably back them up if it sounded interesting.
Id be so excited if I was interesting enough to gossip about too "
I'm not, and yet... |
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"It upsets me does all this stuff. I literally haven’t a problem with anyone.
That said, gossip is so rife that I’ve heard things about myself that I didn’t even know
I'm dead boring; if someone wanted to start some gossip about me I'd probably back them up if it sounded interesting.
Have you heard the _uriousscouser has a tattoo of Boris Johnson on her Mary!
It's true; if I queef it's like he's talking "
Probably makes more sense than him |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The only negativity I've experienced has been from men and one couple.
Fab women seem lovely from my perspective |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It upsets me does all this stuff. I literally haven’t a problem with anyone.
That said, gossip is so rife that I’ve heard things about myself that I didn’t even know
I'm dead boring; if someone wanted to start some gossip about me I'd probably back them up if it sounded interesting.
Have you heard the _uriousscouser has a tattoo of Boris Johnson on her Mary!
Oh oh oh! Make one up about me next
I heard Jamie.hants has a sex tape with the go compare man and got paid off with a lifetime of free insurance to keep it quiet!
Ok that’s more of a fantasy than a rumour but I’ll take it.
I don't suppose there's any copies of the tape floating around?"
Part of the NDA, I’m not allowed to share it otherwise I’d have posted it on my profile |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes very much so! Especially on the forums. |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"It upsets me does all this stuff. I literally haven’t a problem with anyone.
That said, gossip is so rife that I’ve heard things about myself that I didn’t even know
I'm dead boring; if someone wanted to start some gossip about me I'd probably back them up if it sounded interesting.
Have you heard the _uriousscouser has a tattoo of Boris Johnson on her Mary!
Oh oh oh! Make one up about me next
I heard Jamie.hants has a sex tape with the go compare man and got paid off with a lifetime of free insurance to keep it quiet!
Ok that’s more of a fantasy than a rumour but I’ll take it.
I don't suppose there's any copies of the tape floating around?
Part of the NDA, I’m not allowed to share it otherwise I’d have posted it on my profile "
Dammit! |
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"Yeah I've known it to happen, a woman telling people I 'steal' men from her, men neither of us have even met, I only talk to them. I just let it carry on, I'm not going to rise to it.
I've had some bitchy women from couples too, more so than single women. "
Jesus wept. People can't be stolen. Unless you're drugging and abducting these men! Which I doubt you would admit to on the forums . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It upsets me does all this stuff. I literally haven’t a problem with anyone.
That said, gossip is so rife that I’ve heard things about myself that I didn’t even know
I'm dead boring; if someone wanted to start some gossip about me I'd probably back them up if it sounded interesting.
Id be so excited if I was interesting enough to gossip about too
I'm not, and yet... "
I've heard nothing here, You're safe with me |
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"It upsets me does all this stuff. I literally haven’t a problem with anyone.
That said, gossip is so rife that I’ve heard things about myself that I didn’t even know
I'm dead boring; if someone wanted to start some gossip about me I'd probably back them up if it sounded interesting.
Have you heard the _uriousscouser has a tattoo of Boris Johnson on her Mary!
Oh oh oh! Make one up about me next
I heard Jamie.hants has a sex tape with the go compare man and got paid off with a lifetime of free insurance to keep it quiet!
Ok that’s more of a fantasy than a rumour but I’ll take it.
I don't suppose there's any copies of the tape floating around?
Part of the NDA, I’m not allowed to share it otherwise I’d have posted it on my profile
Dammit!"
Sorry Keeley! I only know about it because I slept with him too. The moustache tickles a little! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It upsets me does all this stuff. I literally haven’t a problem with anyone.
That said, gossip is so rife that I’ve heard things about myself that I didn’t even know
I'm dead boring; if someone wanted to start some gossip about me I'd probably back them up if it sounded interesting.
Have you heard the _uriousscouser has a tattoo of Boris Johnson on her Mary!
Oh oh oh! Make one up about me next
I heard Jamie.hants has a sex tape with the go compare man and got paid off with a lifetime of free insurance to keep it quiet!
Ok that’s more of a fantasy than a rumour but I’ll take it.
I don't suppose there's any copies of the tape floating around?
Part of the NDA, I’m not allowed to share it otherwise I’d have posted it on my profile
Dammit!
Sorry Keeley! I only know about it because I slept with him too. The moustache tickles a little!"
Can’t believe you know! He promised he wouldn’t tell anyone  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you bitch about veris, it shows you have jealous tendancies...maybe swinging is not for you.
I have heard it, seen it and do not understand it. I want to sleep with women not fight them "
This |
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"I've also been told that claws come out over verifications.
I've also been told to join the dots on who's been with who and be careful.
I've also been told that some are really nice till you touch someone the want, have had or regularly flirt with.
And I've only been here 4 months ish. "
This is spot on. I’ve had women I’ve never spoken to send nasty messages accusing me of seeing people I shouldn’t (single guys btw!) because they see veris. And I’ve had the ones that won’t meet a guy if he keeps seeing me. Utter nonsense from insecure people. It doesn’t phase me - the women I talk to and meet are cool, and the petty ones are irrelevant. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've also been told that claws come out over verifications.
I've also been told to join the dots on who's been with who and be careful.
I've also been told that some are really nice till you touch someone the want, have had or regularly flirt with.
And I've only been here 4 months ish.
I got the same warnings.
Just do as you please, it’s your experience "
I intend to. I'll just hide veris for a quiet life and a bit of mystery |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There is always bitching in all walks of life however through fab I've made some true girl friends so that by far out weighs the bitching |
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"I've also been told that claws come out over verifications.
I've also been told to join the dots on who's been with who and be careful.
I've also been told that some are really nice till you touch someone the want, have had or regularly flirt with.
And I've only been here 4 months ish.
I got the same warnings.
Just do as you please, it’s your experience
I intend to. I'll just hide veris for a quiet life and a bit of mystery "
Same here. Enjoy lovely |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My only time I've ever really noticed it was when Beast first changed his profile to being exclusive to me and girls messaged him bitching about me saying that they couldn't believe he would save himself for me |
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"It upsets me does all this stuff. I literally haven’t a problem with anyone.
That said, gossip is so rife that I’ve heard things about myself that I didn’t even know
I'm dead boring; if someone wanted to start some gossip about me I'd probably back them up if it sounded interesting.
Have you heard the _uriousscouser has a tattoo of Boris Johnson on her Mary!
Oh oh oh! Make one up about me next
I heard Jamie.hants has a sex tape with the go compare man and got paid off with a lifetime of free insurance to keep it quiet!
Ok that’s more of a fantasy than a rumour but I’ll take it.
I don't suppose there's any copies of the tape floating around?
Part of the NDA, I’m not allowed to share it otherwise I’d have posted it on my profile
Dammit!
Sorry Keeley! I only know about it because I slept with him too. The moustache tickles a little!
Can’t believe you know! He promised he wouldn’t tell anyone "
He can't be trusted that go compare man! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve noticed that any thread certain users don’t like.
They fill it up with tripe to get it to end |
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"My only time I've ever really noticed it was when Beast first changed his profile to being exclusive to me and girls messaged him bitching about me saying that they couldn't believe he would save himself for me "
Grrrrrrr |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've experienced some bitching in forums long time ago when some women didn't like that someone was flirting with me. They made up a little group and said stupid things about me and the guy. But since then I haven't had anything on here. |
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By *B69Woman
over a year ago
Wiltshire |
I’ve had no experience of bitchiness, all the lovely ladies I’ve had conversations with have always been positive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's easy to avoid bitchiness... don't interact with those you don't want to meet for sex. I've never experienced anything bitchy and probably wouldn't notice. I'd ignore it though. And i certainly wouldn't leave because of it. That is the victim's way of dealing with stuff and I'm not a victim. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve noticed that any thread certain users don’t like.
They fill it up with tripe to get it to end "
Yeah. There's a name for them. Begins with c... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was stalked by a woman on here. That was weird |
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In six years on fab I’ve had issues with less than a handful of forumites - Male or female.
I’m aware that I can be marmite though - I’m not exactly the quiet, shy, retiring type - so I fully understand that I’m not everyone’s cup of tea!
If someone doesn’t like me for that, that’s fine - but on the club scene I’ve historically had problems with women spreading total bullshit about me in order to prevent hot guys from meeting me.
This used to upset me a lot - but as I very rarely meet now anyway it matters not a jot - and the wonderful women I’ve met by far outnumber the nasty ones! |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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I don’t chat to women so if there is bitching about me then i’m happily oblivious.
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"Someone told me she is thinking about leaving this site because of other womens "bitchynes" towards here.
Is this a common thing on fab? "
Apart from the terrible grammar and spelling, I think you ladies should burst into a bra fight.
Men are here to save you! |
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"I don’t chat to women so if there is bitching about me then i’m happily oblivious.
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In all honesty - now that I rarely meet it’s probably my friendships with some amazing women - and a few men - that keeps me on here.
I genuinely believe that those ladies who don’t interact/form friendships with other ladies on here are really missing out. X |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"I don’t chat to women so if there is bitching about me then i’m happily oblivious.
In all honesty - now that I rarely meet it’s probably my friendships with some amazing women - and a few men - that keeps me on here.
I genuinely believe that those ladies who don’t interact/form friendships with other ladies on here are really missing out. X"
Agreed! I've met far more amazing women than bitchy ones. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t chat to women so if there is bitching about me then i’m happily oblivious.
In all honesty - now that I rarely meet it’s probably my friendships with some amazing women - and a few men - that keeps me on here.
I genuinely believe that those ladies who don’t interact/form friendships with other ladies on here are really missing out. X
Agreed! I've met far more amazing women than bitchy ones."
It's off putting when you get warnings from other women about women being bitchy on here to form any friendships though. Makes you just keep yourself to yourself and stay out of harms way. I'd love more women friends. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes of course it happens Mickey. Why should here be any different to real life? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes of course it happens Mickey. Why should here be any different to real life? "
Good point.
I just wanted to hear some more bitchiness at its finest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just as many bitchy men on here |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"I don’t chat to women so if there is bitching about me then i’m happily oblivious.
In all honesty - now that I rarely meet it’s probably my friendships with some amazing women - and a few men - that keeps me on here.
I genuinely believe that those ladies who don’t interact/form friendships with other ladies on here are really missing out. X
Agreed! I've met far more amazing women than bitchy ones.
It's off putting when you get warnings from other women about women being bitchy on here to form any friendships though. Makes you just keep yourself to yourself and stay out of harms way. I'd love more women friends. "
I can understand that it's off putting but honestly, there are far more good ones than bad. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've never experienced anything nasty .... yet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don’t hear so well so I never hear anyone bitchin’ ‘bout me.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you listen to gossip I've had a lot more sex on here than is true. Much like my irl experience.
The lies are a touch more frequent here than I'm used to. But no biggie.
Fuck it tho right? Most people here are nice, go about your day and be true to yourself.
Doubt it's gender specific. Men are just as bad where sex is concerned I reckon... |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
The ladies on here don’t bitch, they just talk about the idiosyncratic nature of others. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've also been told that claws come out over verifications.
I've also been told to join the dots on who's been with who and be careful.
I've also been told that some are really nice till you touch someone the want, have had or regularly flirt with.
And I've only been here 4 months ish.
I got the same warnings.
Just do as you please, it’s your experience
I intend to. I'll just hide veris for a quiet life and a bit of mystery "
I do similar.
I never do veris with the people I play with so I don’t contaminate the veri pool of straight men
I think we know what I mean |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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People bitch/gossip whatever. It's natural to a certain degree - if you feel wronged by someone, you'll probably talk about it with friends. I don't think women are worse than men in that regards; the things I've heard from men directly about their meets, people they don't like etc help confirm that. Men really do talk just as much as women.
But that aside, there's real support and genuine care on this site from women (and men). Sure we've all heard the bad stories because that's what we tend to focus on/remember or make "interesting" stories to share with others/write about on the fora. The good side of friendships and how supportive, fun and kind others can be are rarely highlighted in the same way. I wouldn't be part of here if it wasn't for the wonderful men and women I call friends. |
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I really appreciate my female friends here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find the men bitchier |
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"I find the men bitchier"
Oh lord they can be dreadful. |
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"I find the men bitchier
Oh lord they can be dreadful."
Whereas us monkeys just throw poop |
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It's never bothered me personally, but I've had to support fab friends who have been on the receiving end. |
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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago
the gym and random places |
"Someone told me she is thinking about leaving this site because of other womens "bitchynes" towards here.
Is this a common thing on fab? "
Incredibly common sadly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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the women are so bitchy because they rule the site op, theyre fighting for the top place |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah women can be bitchy. I personally would never meet a forumite because if I have my eye on him, chances are every other woman would too and I’m too jealous to see someone I’m interested in getting it on with anyone else. I’d rather not know what they’re up to. |
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over a year ago
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By *VineMan
over a year ago
The right place |
While most women on here are lovely, there are a few I wouldn’t trust with a bunny rabbit and a pan of hot water. |
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"the women are so bitchy because they rule the site op, theyre fighting for the top place
Alpha bitch?
top tier alpha bitch "
With claws. Meow |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah I’ve had it a few times. I’ve heard some outrageous things about myself! All part of the entertainment on here. Even funnier when you meet them and they act like they’re your best friend |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"While most women on here are lovely, there are a few I wouldn’t trust with a bunny rabbit and a pan of hot water. "
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"Yeah I’ve had it a few times. I’ve heard some outrageous things about myself! All part of the entertainment on here. Even funnier when you meet them and they act like they’re your best friend "
The latter... Yes |
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I love you all .
But only today as I'm being nice for my Birthday |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love you all .
But only today as I'm being nice for my Birthday "
Aww you love me everyday |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have experienced the wrath of the Female Forumites who gang up and chip away at you hoping you will crumble and leave. That's why I keep myself to myself and won't join kik groups etc because I don't ever want to be part of any bitching.
The bitching is usually because you have "Shared" someone and the green eyed monster comes out. I'm tough now, I couldn't give a shit what people think of me. Like me, don't like me, I really don't care anymore. |
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"I find the men bitchier
Oh lord they can be dreadful.
Whereas us monkeys just throw poop "
Bitch poop |
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"I love you all .
But only today as I'm being nice for my Birthday
Aww you love me everyday "
You are an exception of course |
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"I find the men bitchier
Oh lord they can be dreadful.
Whereas us monkeys just throw poop
Bitch poop "
I'm not discerning, it can be any poop... not just bitch poop ... depends on structural integrity and explosivity on contact |
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"I find the men bitchier
Oh lord they can be dreadful.
Whereas us monkeys just throw poop
Bitch poop
I'm not discerning, it can be any poop... not just bitch poop ... depends on structural integrity and explosivity on contact "
Omg I'm eating my breakfast here  |
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When people bitch about me they have the good sense to keep it away from my sight.
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"I find the men bitchier
Oh lord they can be dreadful.
Whereas us monkeys just throw poop
Bitch poop
I'm not discerning, it can be any poop... not just bitch poop ... depends on structural integrity and explosivity on contact
Omg I'm eating my breakfast here "
Sorry ... it's a science ... I called it Bowelistics |
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"When people bitch about me they have the good sense to keep it away from my sight.
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Could be the power you wield here
Monkey tugs his forelock in reverence |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So for some bitching on the forums ain’t enough. They have to set up Kik/WhatsApp groups aswell to bitch
Shocking |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So for some bitching on the forums ain’t enough. They have to set up Kik/WhatsApp groups aswell to bitch
Shocking "
Well yeah. Gotta send multiple screenshots at a time. Duh |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not had any problems myself, any women who I’ve spoken to have all been really nice x |
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I hear a lot more about the existence of bitching than I see it. Most of the groups I've been part of have been about support and planning nights out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"While most women on here are lovely, there are a few I wouldn’t trust with a bunny rabbit and a pan of hot water. "
Fucking hell I wish I'd written that!
So so true
Lucky rabbits foot anyone?
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I’m glad I fly under the radar as I’ve never been involved in any of this, thank goodness I’m fugly enough not to be a threat to anyone |
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over a year ago
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over a year ago
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By Genuinelips285 Woman
just this minute!
St. Austell
I have heard of this happening I just dont see the point at the end of it all we are here to enjoy ourselves not bitch about whose been with who
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" I think the whole putting women against women thing is a tired and boring stereotype. Men are just as capable of being bitchy "
totally |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So for some bitching on the forums ain’t enough. They have to set up Kik/WhatsApp groups aswell to bitch
Shocking "
Bitch or to warn others |
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"So for some bitching on the forums ain’t enough. They have to set up Kik/WhatsApp groups aswell to bitch
Shocking "
What are they called? Fab burn book |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So for some bitching on the forums ain’t enough. They have to set up Kik/WhatsApp groups aswell to bitch
Shocking
Bitch or to warn others "
Gossip then |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve only experienced talking to genuinely lovely people on here.
I’m sure it happens but I haven’t seen/heard it |
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
Shangri-la |
Not experienced any bitchiness. I expect I am pretty invisible to most females on here though & I generally steer clear of any potential drama & keep a pretty low profile.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not experienced any bitchiness. I expect I am pretty invisible to most females on here though & I generally steer clear of any potential drama & keep a pretty low profile.
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Yellow |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not experienced any bitchiness. I expect I am pretty invisible to most females on here though & I generally steer clear of any potential drama & keep a pretty low profile.
Yellow "
Hello*
Damn it |
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"Not experienced any bitchiness. I expect I am pretty invisible to most females on here though & I generally steer clear of any potential drama & keep a pretty low profile.
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I see you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not experienced any bitchiness. I expect I am pretty invisible to most females on here though & I generally steer clear of any potential drama & keep a pretty low profile.
Yellow "
You calling her a yellow belly |
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
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"Not experienced any bitchiness. I expect I am pretty invisible to most females on here though & I generally steer clear of any potential drama & keep a pretty low profile.
Yellow
Hello*
Damn it"
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
Shangri-la |
"Not experienced any bitchiness. I expect I am pretty invisible to most females on here though & I generally steer clear of any potential drama & keep a pretty low profile.
I see you "
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Maybe its because most Men keep themselves to themselves and a lot of Women tend to make friends to attend socials/clubs etc Then a little drama happens and the bitching starts |
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Most of the trouble i have encountered on Fab has been caused by females. It is unbelievable how nasty and unkind some can be. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Do u hate women like some women hate men i think you must have been really hurt in the past by a girl as you seem to be serious |
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By *OXO2018Couple
over a year ago
Norfolk |
It can be awful, I had an awful experience with one lady, all because I happened to of meet a guy she was "exclusive seeing" I had no idea about this at the time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Someone told me she is thinking about leaving this site because of other womens "bitchynes" towards here.
Is this a common thing on fab? "
Yes, still have people who I met of fab and have now left (still got to fab parties) but refuse to come back on fab because of certain people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everyone’s a bitch except me |
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