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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Anyone find that sometimes people who you dont usually notice become more attractive through their personality?
Happens the other way too, some stunning people can instantly become ugly through their personalities too |
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I think a mix of both is needed.
For instance I don't have a type like others such as BBW, blonde, brunette race none of this is important to me.
As long as someone has a aura of confidence which is the sexiest thing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd rather someone who's averagely attractive who I can have a cracking conversation with and who I can build chemistry with, rather than someone who's absolutely stunningly attractive and a total Adonis, but who has a crappy personality and no chemistry. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm fucked on both fronts 
I'm a potato in a hat fella, but I get by rather well with my personality. Just gotta get their attention first."
They don't like it when I get their attention, as a rule. |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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Oh this one again eh?
Both, it is both. It will always be both. Nobody is going to sleep with me if they don't find me attractive to look at. Nobody is going to sleep with me if they don't like my personality.
Based purely on fab and profile scrolling, looks are more important because generally if they don't have any physical attraction they won't even bother to know your personality in the first place.
I will add, there are some that don't care about personality due to their interests purely being about fuck and go. So it's all about looks. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Oh this one again eh?
Both, it is both. It will always be both. Nobody is going to sleep with me if they don't find me attractive to look at. Nobody is going to sleep with me if they don't like my personality.
Based purely on fab and profile scrolling, looks are more important because generally if they don't have any physical attraction they won't even bother to know your personality in the first place.
I will add, there are some that don't care about personality due to their interests purely being about fuck and go. So it's all about looks. "
Well said |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Looks on here as I have to be physically attracted and not looking for a boyfriend. If personality is there then bonus and may end up FWB, I am yet to find this however x |
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By *azza80Woman
over a year ago
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When I was a teenager there was a lad who kept asking me out but I wasn't attracted to him. Over time I got to know him as a person and see the real him and fell in love with him..didn't work out then so I walked away. A bloke I have a child too was absolutely gorgeous but once got to know him properly, I found that he had a shite personality and was immature so I ended that relationship. Both made me realise something..it's definitely about personality and sense of humour..looks ain't everything, they're just a bonus xx |
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"When I was a teenager there was a lad who kept asking me out but I wasn't attracted to him. Over time I got to know him as a person and see the real him and fell in love with him..didn't work out then so I walked away. A bloke I have a child too was absolutely gorgeous but once got to know him properly, I found that he had a shite personality and was immature so I ended that relationship. Both made me realise something..it's definitely about personality and sense of humour..looks ain't everything, they're just a bonus xx"
That's the beauty of swinging, you don't have to really get to know them!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh this one again eh?
Both, it is both. It will always be both. Nobody is going to sleep with me if they don't find me attractive to look at. Nobody is going to sleep with me if they don't like my personality.
Based purely on fab and profile scrolling, looks are more important because generally if they don't have any physical attraction they won't even bother to know your personality in the first place.
I will add, there are some that don't care about personality due to their interests purely being about fuck and go. So it's all about looks. "
And I'll add there are also those that don't care about either. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"When I was a teenager there was a lad who kept asking me out but I wasn't attracted to him. Over time I got to know him as a person and see the real him and fell in love with him..didn't work out then so I walked away. A bloke I have a child too was absolutely gorgeous but once got to know him properly, I found that he had a shite personality and was immature so I ended that relationship. Both made me realise something..it's definitely about personality and sense of humour..looks ain't everything, they're just a bonus xx"
Same. I dreamt of a gorgeous FHM top 100 woman and somehow managed to pull one. She was an absolute idiot. I know toilet seats with more personality than her. Since then I dont dream of the beautiful generic 'hot' woman that society tells us is beautiful. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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How do you know that the looks don't taint your impression of personality though?
That's happened to me, once or twice.
Spun atoms by great looks, tight she was brilliant, and only afterwards realised, oh dear, not compatible at all, and if I wasn't thinking with the small brain, would have known that from the get go!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I tend to talk a lot over messages first before even seeing a pic so I guess personality first, then showing faces we can both either run or take our chances  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personality first. Got to have a laugh.
Looks isn't as important.
Fortunately most of the ladies on here are pretty.  "
Must be 6ft tall
Jump tall buildings
6 pack within 6 pack
If ya dont have the above, then dont message
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By *ertzMan
over a year ago
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Both important, though personality can sometimes outweigh initial physical attraction the more I get to know someone. If we really hit it off I'm usually more attracted physically.. hard to separate the 2 for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What's more important in the fab world?
Curious to know peoples opinion
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Looks - it is inevitable in the world of internet ‘dating’. Pictures are always visible ahead of profile (and profile rarely reveals true personality). Chat might reveal personality - but most are too lazy, or have already made up their mind by self-imposed boundaries/criteria. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If someone has a lovely personality, they are instantly more attractive. I met some Absolute stunners, but once I got to know them. Those with crap personalities became unattractive.
For me anyway |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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Has anyone ever realised they fancied someone too late , like fuck that guy / girl who just left the company was actually really hot , why the he’ll didn’t I pounce on them over the past year .... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How do you know that the looks don't taint your impression of personality though?
That's happened to me, once or twice.
Spun atoms by great looks, tight she was brilliant, and only afterwards realised, oh dear, not compatible at all, and if I wasn't thinking with the small brain, would have known that from the get go!
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My want of someone is killed pretty quickly if they aren't as attractive in the personality department... One work has put a stop to my attraction before |
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I would say personality is the most important to me, because if I think someone's a dick or they bore me to tears then I don't even want to be in their company never mind anything else. Whereas someone with an amazing personality who makes me smile or laugh instantly becomes more attractive to me.
On the other hand, there still has to be physical attraction, otherwise they'll just stay as friends and nothing else. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm greedy and selfish and therefore need both amazing looks and an amazing personality for me to want to fuck someone. But you need physical attraction in the first instance something people seem to forget. You're shallow if you want a face photo with the first message and " really shallow " for staring your preferences. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How do you know that the looks don't taint your impression of personality though?
That's happened to me, once or twice.
Spun atoms by great looks, tight she was brilliant, and only afterwards realised, oh dear, not compatible at all, and if I wasn't thinking with the small brain, would have known that from the get go!
My want of someone is killed pretty quickly if they aren't as attractive in the personality department... One work has put a stop to my attraction before "
One word even  |
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"How do you know that the looks don't taint your impression of personality though?
That's happened to me, once or twice.
Spun atoms by great looks, tight she was brilliant, and only afterwards realised, oh dear, not compatible at all, and if I wasn't thinking with the small brain, would have known that from the get go!
My want of someone is killed pretty quickly if they aren't as attractive in the personality department... One work has put a stop to my attraction before
One word even "
Yeah I get that, as much as I might like someone initially, once I've got the ick then that's it, there's no going back. |
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By *azza80Woman
over a year ago
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"How do you know that the looks don't taint your impression of personality though?
That's happened to me, once or twice.
Spun atoms by great looks, tight she was brilliant, and only afterwards realised, oh dear, not compatible at all, and if I wasn't thinking with the small brain, would have known that from the get go!
My want of someone is killed pretty quickly if they aren't as attractive in the personality department... One work has put a stop to my attraction before
One word even
Yeah I get that, as much as I might like someone initially, once I've got the ick then that's it, there's no going back. "
Exactly this x |
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