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over a year ago
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Would you meet someone you have a strong physical attraction to, but who makes very little effort and you get the feeling they will do ypur self esteem more harm than good?
Not all that many people who message me are my type physically, and you obviously need the physical attraction in the first instance. Would you meet them to see if they come across as less of a t**t in person or woyld you avoid?
I think i know the right things to do, but I would still like spme options.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Would you meet someone you have a strong physical attraction to, but who makes very little effort and you get the feeling they will do ypur self esteem more harm than good?
Not all that many people who message me are my type physically, and you obviously need the physical attraction in the first instance. Would you meet them to see if they come across as less of a t**t in person or woyld you avoid?
I think i know the right things to do, but I would still like spme options. "
no but dont takr my advice i wont meet anyone either way  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Would you meet someone you have a strong physical attraction to, but who makes very little effort and you get the feeling they will do ypur self esteem more harm than good?
Not all that many people who message me are my type physically, and you obviously need the physical attraction in the first instance. Would you meet them to see if they come across as less of a t**t in person or woyld you avoid?
I think i know the right things to do, but I would still like spme options. "
If you feel like you are doing all the work then maybe dont meet them or at least dont drop things or shuffle your life about a bit to meet them if that makes sense. If it suits you on the way to see a friend to set hp a half hour social then fine otherwise I wouldn't go to any trouble if it looks like they couldn't be assed. Attraction is a two way street as is making the effort to make a relationship work, whether just physical or not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Nah, they could be the most beautiful human to walk the earth, but if they act like an arsehole I'm not interested. Find someone who won't make you feel bad. |
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"Would you meet someone you have a strong physical attraction to, but who makes very little effort and you get the feeling they will do ypur self esteem more harm than good?
Not all that many people who message me are my type physically, and you obviously need the physical attraction in the first instance. Would you meet them to see if they come across as less of a t**t in person or woyld you avoid?
I think i know the right things to do, but I would still like spme options. "
When I was younger I did, and suprise suprise it always ended badly.
Now I've learnt better.No fuck is worth a head fuck.
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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There are so few guys in my area who I actually fancy I think I'd have a social just to see. People can come across as totally different on here to how they are in person.
Might still be a twat, might not! |
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Kindness, intelligence and respect. Without these qualities we simply won’t meet.
It might fly in the face of cynical opinion, but there are a lot of really lovely people on Fab. It might take a while to find them, but they are truly here. Why settle for anything less than wonderful, when there are so many wonderful people available? Your self esteem deserves the best xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m way too sensitive for that. I get my feels hurt too easily that I would avoid as I know if I chanced it, it would end up with me elbow feel in cheesecake listening to James Arthur |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m way too sensitive for that. I get my feels hurt too easily that I would avoid as I know if I chanced it, it would end up with me elbow feel in cheesecake listening to James Arthur "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Would you meet someone you have a strong physical attraction to, but who makes very little effort and you get the feeling they will do ypur self esteem more harm than good?
Not all that many people who message me are my type physically, and you obviously need the physical attraction in the first instance. Would you meet them to see if they come across as less of a t**t in person or woyld you avoid?
I think i know the right things to do, but I would still like spme options. "
I (her) would not care how much of a perfect, stereotypical match this person is to my ideal playmate. I would not put myself through something which I knew would be at a detriment to my mental or emotional well being.
The fact that you mention meeting a person to see if they are less of a t#at in person, is a huge red flag in itself.
I sincerely do not want to sound patronising in any of what I have written here. And the decision to meet this guy is yours but if you want my advice (as asked) it's to avoid these situations.
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