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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We had this conversation the other night. The fella classes any form of orgasm play as having sex, even if he doesn't penetrate me, where I'm more just penetrate me |
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By *apmanMan
over a year ago
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"I love foreplay, builds tension and can go on for as long or little as you want, hands roaming, lips exploring
Even if it doesn't lead to sex?"
Just makes it more intense when you do. Occasions when there isn't time or place to go further, but ramps up the energy when there is. |
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over a year ago
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"I love foreplay, builds tension and can go on for as long or little as you want, hands roaming, lips exploring
Even if it doesn't lead to sex?"
Yeah, even if it doesn't, it can be satisfying in itself. |
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"For me you can’t have sex without fore play
FP is essential to getting all the nerve endings awakened, the senses alive and edging each other until you can’t take it no more "
Fore play without sex is pointless, sex without fore play is just a quicky. Proper fun require presence of both.
My preference is hot fore play and then banging sex |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I love foreplay, builds tension and can go on for as long or little as you want, hands roaming, lips exploring
Even if it doesn't lead to sex?
Just makes it more intense when you do. Occasions when there isn't time or place to go further, but ramps up the energy when there is. "
True |
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"For me you can’t have sex without fore play
FP is essential to getting all the nerve endings awakened, the senses alive and edging each other until you can’t take it no more
Fore play without sex is pointless, sex without fore play is just a quicky. Proper fun require presence of both.
My preference is hot fore play and then banging sex "
Fore play without sex isn’t pointless at all. You can get so much pleasure and satisfaction from fore play without the need of traditional penetration. There is nothing quick about fore play unless you choose to make it that way ! |
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"For me you can’t have sex without fore play
FP is essential to getting all the nerve endings awakened, the senses alive and edging each other until you can’t take it no more
Fore play without sex is pointless, sex without fore play is just a quicky. Proper fun require presence of both.
My preference is hot fore play and then banging sex
Fore play without sex isn’t pointless at all. You can get so much pleasure and satisfaction from fore play without the need of traditional penetration. There is nothing quick about fore play unless you choose to make it that way ! "
Ok agree, FP is very satisfactory and can be carried for long and can be very exciting(love edging btw) but it's also named fore play for a reason, to worm up all the nerves and tissues for Grande finalle. All I'm saying is all that build up is fantastic and I love it even if it doesn't lead to penetrative sex but leads to satisfactory end of play time |
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"For me you can’t have sex without fore play
FP is essential to getting all the nerve endings awakened, the senses alive and edging each other until you can’t take it no more
Fore play without sex is pointless, sex without fore play is just a quicky. Proper fun require presence of both.
My preference is hot fore play and then banging sex
Fore play without sex isn’t pointless at all. You can get so much pleasure and satisfaction from fore play without the need of traditional penetration. There is nothing quick about fore play unless you choose to make it that way !
Ok agree, FP is very satisfactory and can be carried for long and can be very exciting(love edging btw) but it's also named fore play for a reason, to worm up all the nerves and tissues for Grande finalle. All I'm saying is all that build up is fantastic and I love it even if it doesn't lead to penetrative sex but leads to satisfactory end of play time "
We agree |
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"For me you can’t have sex without fore play
FP is essential to getting all the nerve endings awakened, the senses alive and edging each other until you can’t take it no more
Fore play without sex is pointless, sex without fore play is just a quicky. Proper fun require presence of both.
My preference is hot fore play and then banging sex
Fore play without sex isn’t pointless at all. You can get so much pleasure and satisfaction from fore play without the need of traditional penetration. There is nothing quick about fore play unless you choose to make it that way !
Ok agree, FP is very satisfactory and can be carried for long and can be very exciting(love edging btw) but it's also named fore play for a reason, to worm up all the nerves and tissues for Grande finalle. All I'm saying is all that build up is fantastic and I love it even if it doesn't lead to penetrative sex but leads to satisfactory end of play time
We agree "
great as I started to think I suddenly got old and traditional and lost the plot lol |
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"For me you can’t have sex without fore play
FP is essential to getting all the nerve endings awakened, the senses alive and edging each other until you can’t take it no more
Fore play without sex is pointless, sex without fore play is just a quicky. Proper fun require presence of both.
My preference is hot fore play and then banging sex
Fore play without sex isn’t pointless at all. You can get so much pleasure and satisfaction from fore play without the need of traditional penetration. There is nothing quick about fore play unless you choose to make it that way !
Ok agree, FP is very satisfactory and can be carried for long and can be very exciting(love edging btw) but it's also named fore play for a reason, to worm up all the nerves and tissues for Grande finalle. All I'm saying is all that build up is fantastic and I love it even if it doesn't lead to penetrative sex but leads to satisfactory end of play time
We agree
great as I started to think I suddenly got old and traditional and lost the plot lol "
Haha no, we just worded it differently, the end result needed was the same |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think foreplay is an outmoded term based on a view that the culmination of sex is orgasm due to penis to vagina intercourse.
Pleasure can be found in many different acts and not all necessary leading to orgasm and certainly not all involving penetration.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"For me you can’t have sex without fore play
FP is essential to getting all the nerve endings awakened, the senses alive and edging each other until you can’t take it no more
Fore play without sex is pointless, sex without fore play is just a quicky. Proper fun require presence of both.
My preference is hot fore play and then banging sex
Fore play without sex isn’t pointless at all. You can get so much pleasure and satisfaction from fore play without the need of traditional penetration. There is nothing quick about fore play unless you choose to make it that way !
Ok agree, FP is very satisfactory and can be carried for long and can be very exciting(love edging btw) but it's also named fore play for a reason, to worm up all the nerves and tissues for Grande finalle. All I'm saying is all that build up is fantastic and I love it even if it doesn't lead to penetrative sex but leads to satisfactory end of play time
We agree "
Agreed |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I love foreplay, builds tension and can go on for as long or little as you want, hands roaming, lips exploring
I agree, but then a quickie has its place too if you’re pushed for time!!"
True |
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"I think foreplay is an outmoded term based on a view that the culmination of sex is orgasm due to penis to vagina intercourse.
Pleasure can be found in many different acts and not all necessary leading to orgasm and certainly not all involving penetration.
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This. It promotes an androcentric view of sex. Seeing as only around 18% of women report being able to orgasm from penetration alone, it de-prioritises the ways in which women typically get off |
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"For me you can’t have sex without fore play
FP is essential to getting all the nerve endings awakened, the senses alive and edging each other until you can’t take it no more
Fore play without sex is pointless, sex without fore play is just a quicky. Proper fun require presence of both.
My preference is hot fore play and then banging sex
Fore play without sex isn’t pointless at all. You can get so much pleasure and satisfaction from fore play without the need of traditional penetration. There is nothing quick about fore play unless you choose to make it that way ! "
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"I think foreplay is an outmoded term based on a view that the culmination of sex is orgasm due to penis to vagina intercourse.
Pleasure can be found in many different acts and not all necessary leading to orgasm and certainly not all involving penetration.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Foreplay all day long then sex all night!
Jo.Xx
We couldn't cope with that. We are too old to go 24 hours without sleep." never to old, never give up ha |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I love foreplay, builds tension and can go on for as long or little as you want, hands roaming, lips exploring
Even if it doesn't lead to sex?
Yeah, even if it doesn't, it can be satisfying in itself. "
It sure can |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We like it a lot, don’t like people who rush, although sometimes you do just need to tear at clothes and do it like animals! " I truly have no recollection of the last time I did that. I’m wondering if I ever have |
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By *itzimadCouple
over a year ago
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surely its the orgasm that is the aim of the journey weather thats achieved by one or both does it matter our sex lives involve a lot of fore play and mutual masturbation what ever floats your boat on the day |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Both is good but foreplay is probably more fun. I love going down on a girl and watching her bite her lip and her eyes roll back. Enjoy using my hands and fingers too so. Sex is just the end result. |
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