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Have you ever been unfaithful and why
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Yes, when I was 19/20. He was a narcissist and I was extremely unhappy. He'd been accusing me of cheating on him for the previous 2 years anyway. It gave me the mental strength to get out of the relationship so I have no regrets. |
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over a year ago
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No I haven't been unfaithful.
I've seen a few profiles by women who are in relationships without husbands knowing they are on this site.
I wonder what is the main thing which drives them to do it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Yes, when I was 19/20. He was a narcissist and I was extremely unhappy. He'd been accusing me of cheating on him for the previous 2 years anyway. It gave me the mental strength to get out of the relationship so I have no regrets. "
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I have, when I was younger and he was cheating on me again (3rd time) so I got my own back. Didn't feel good though so I plucked up the courage to move out and heal me rather than continue cheating |
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Nope.
I've always said that for me to Risk everything I/we have invested over 30 year's, all the love,all the happiness and heartbreak , emotions, family, finances, friends everything that goes into a long term relationship
Just for a shag!!!!
That would be insanity
We swing to supplement our sex life.
We are both at a point where cuddling up together and watching TV or falling asleep together is everybit as fulfilling as sex.
The point is, if you are in a relationship it's not always going to be full on sex, great parties, fun fun fun.
You have to invest time and effort.
It's like building a house you start with building the foundation's and keep building and working at it.
I'm not saying our relationship is perfect but two things have always kept us steady.
Communication and trust.
And to jeopardize all of this for a shag???
No thank you very much |
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"Nope.
I've always said that for me to Risk everything I/we have invested over 30 year's, all the love,all the happiness and heartbreak , emotions, family, finances, friends everything that goes into a long term relationship
Just for a shag!!!!
That would be insanity
We swing to supplement our sex life.
We are both at a point where cuddling up together and watching TV or falling asleep together is everybit as fulfilling as sex.
The point is, if you are in a relationship it's not always going to be full on sex, great parties, fun fun fun.
You have to invest time and effort.
It's like building a house you start with building the foundation's and keep building and working at it.
I'm not saying our relationship is perfect but two things have always kept us steady.
Communication and trust.
And to jeopardize all of this for a shag???
No thank you very much"
Extremely well said. I met my wife when we were 15 year old kids been with her ever since and no I’ve never been unfaithful to her and still love her to bits now. |
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No.... but after finding out my ex wife had been having an affair for a while i wished i had. Then after a while i realised that i did not because of love. I loved her. Just a shame she did not love me.
Yeah i know...soppy. life goes on. |
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Cheating is never a good thing.... I cheated on my right hand once and used my left it was the worst sex ever and now my right hand isn’t talking to me so I’ve ruined everything..... I’ve now found myself chatting up the hoover in the hope of a blow job knowing full well it won’t work..... cos it’s an upright |
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