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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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As you can see in my profile, I am quite tall and when out, I feel women have holdbacks to approach me... Am I intimidating? Or should be ALWAYS the other way around?  |
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"As you can see in my profile, I am quite tall and when out, I feel women have holdbacks to approach me... Am I intimidating? Or should be ALWAYS the other way around? "
Do you want to be intimidating? 
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You would definitely stand out from a crowd, but I would not say your height alone would intimidate me, lots of factors would determine that such as stance, body language, facial gestures...
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"You would definitely stand out from a crowd, but I would not say your height alone would intimidate me, lots of factors would determine that such as stance, body language, facial gestures...
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I will be more aware of that as well, but might be just in my head?? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Being tall myself, I like tall men"
Recently discovered how amazing sex with a petite girl can be 
Can’t seem to be able to approach them when going out though |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You would definitely stand out from a crowd, but I would not say your height alone would intimidate me, lots of factors would determine that such as stance, body language, facial gestures...
I will be more aware of that as well, but might be just in my head??"
Are you conscious because of your height though?
Fwiw I think you look great, and no you would intimidate me |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"You would definitely stand out from a crowd, but I would not say your height alone would intimidate me, lots of factors would determine that such as stance, body language, facial gestures...
I will be more aware of that as well, but might be just in my head??
Are you conscious because of your height though?
Fwiw I think you look great, and no you would intimidate me"
You are right, I Might be self aware, and that puts me off . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fwiw I think you look great, and no you would intimidate me
You are right, I Might be self aware, and that puts me off ."
A confidence thing then? Don't let it put you off!
My son is 6ft 6, he looks good and knows it.
Own your height, it is a great attribute |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Was out last night but couldn’t break the ice with a couple if “ pocket rockets “ as I felt would not be appropriate. ..and I mean at lease half my size  ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Very tall guys can be quite intimidating to a short girl, it’s also very difficult to catch their eye in a flirty way if they are a lot taller than me. X |
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People can make themselves accessible, intimidating etc. You can't redress others' prior experiences that may deter, perhaps due to knowing someone similar but you can be inviting and warm.
If you consider your height stops some, spend time at a lower more accessible level.
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"Was out last night but couldn’t break the ice... as I felt would not be appropriate. ..and I mean at lease half my size )"
That was your interpretation - which provides you with the opportunity to change that in future, to one that's going to create potential opportunities. You used the word 'feel', yet referred to a belief.
You look fine from your profile and photos and I'd have been impressed if you'd made the effort to talk, even if it hadn't been to chat me up. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’m only 5’4” (and in Bristol same as you!) and I wouldn’t be intimidated by your height!
Maybe it’s your body language instead?
Hard to say without having seen you in a bar.... "
Have you ever approached a very tall guy? Like, made the first step? |
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"Was out last night but couldn’t break the ice with a couple if “ pocket rockets “ as I felt would not be appropriate. ..and I mean at lease half my size )"
At least half your size would be below 3’3” then lol
Where the hell were you?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As you can see in my profile, I am quite tall and when out, I feel women have holdbacks to approach me... Am I intimidating? Or should be ALWAYS the other way around? "
Your height wouldn't stop me from approaching you at all. |
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Friend is 7ft.. smiley happy guy who's always being approached by girls. If anything his height has been a conversation starter. However he has the humble confidence to approach women as well as being approached.
We would say your height isn't a factor, it's all about attitude and the signals you give off. If you look approachable and friendly people will be more open towards you.
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"Friend is 7ft.. smiley happy guy who's always being approached by girls. If anything his height has been a conversation starter. However he has the humble confidence to approach women as well as being approached.
We would say your height isn't a factor, it's all about attitude and the signals you give off. If you look approachable and friendly people will be more open towards you.
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The more I get response from you guys I realise that it is my attitude more than anything else at a subconscious level |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Friend is 7ft.. smiley happy guy who's always being approached by girls. If anything his height has been a conversation starter. However he has the humble confidence to approach women as well as being approached.
We would say your height isn't a factor, it's all about attitude and the signals you give off. If you look approachable and friendly people will be more open towards you.
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7ft??  Will close the thread and fly away then |
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"Friend is 7ft.. smiley happy guy who's always being approached by girls. If anything his height has been a conversation starter. However he has the humble confidence to approach women as well as being approached.
We would say your height isn't a factor, it's all about attitude and the signals you give off. If you look approachable and friendly people will be more open towards you.
The more I get response from you guys I realise that it is my attitude more than anything else at a subconscious level "
Its good to look in the mirror and 'check' yourself, but also good to look on the inside;-)  and well done to you for that.
Ps. Not to be rude and answer the question. I'm average height. Not a model.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Friend is 7ft.. smiley happy guy who's always being approached by girls. If anything his height has been a conversation starter. However he has the humble confidence to approach women as well as being approached.
We would say your height isn't a factor, it's all about attitude and the signals you give off. If you look approachable and friendly people will be more open towards you.
The more I get response from you guys I realise that it is my attitude more than anything else at a subconscious level
Its good to look in the mirror and 'check' yourself, but also good to look on the inside;-) and well done to you for that.
Ps. Not to be rude and answer the question. I'm average height. Not a model. "
Thanks, much appreciated, all this positive feedback;) |
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