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Getting lost in the mire

By *abfella69 OP Man over a year ago

Norwich

I am attempting to make this site work I am totally honest and up for doing the things I say I'm going to do and I am reliable just believe this for a start.BUT it would seem that people get 300 or so messages a day and just delete on mass or assume you're like all the bullshitters and picture collectors how can you cut through this?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Keep trying

Cliche I know

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sack of sending messages. Have fun in the forums. May take a little while but it's worth it

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By *ssexhamptonMan over a year ago

Rayleigh

Fab is just like real life......no guarantees for anything.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's like the lottery for some men. One day it could be you!! Good luck. X

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By *dward_TeagueMan over a year ago

wolverhampton

Perseverance is the key and think about attending a social.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not sure the science behind it but im convinced its not all about numbers

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I am attempting to make this site work I am totally honest and up for doing the things I say I'm going to do and I am reliable just believe this for a start.BUT it would seem that people get 300 or so messages a day and just delete on mass or assume you're like all the bullshitters and picture collectors how can you cut through this?"
give up now and give the others a chance, its the gentlemanly thing to do

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By *nnocentimesMan over a year ago

over there by that tree

Just be yourself fella, if you’re genuine and polite things do eventually start to happen - clubs/socials are the best way to get you noticed, it’s an incredibly small world & people do talk to each other, so smile and get yourself out there.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Try having only around 20 people that fits all your boxes and I have mailed them all over the last few months and there's been no one knew in weeks.

That's why I stopped paying because if someone from Belfast looks at me it's just to easy to work out who it was. Anyone else looking I don't care because they not what am looking for or to far away to worry about.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

New ops

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By *abfella69 OP Man over a year ago

Norwich

As you can see I received loads of messages in this forum so perhaps that's a different way of doing it now if only some of these people with 10 miles away or less I could make a connection

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some have said I'm a fake or I'm ugly.

Wait a min how am I ugly when they haven't seen me?

I don't need to pay the site just to prove I'm genuine

As others as said it's like a lottery in here. It happen soon enough..

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