Messages in themselves don't have to be with an intention to meet.
I often talk to those I have previously met, some more often than others. And then I message some getting a feel for them or just friendly messages. |
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I don't have a count or much clue, as I typically get to know people over a fairly long time period.
They don't all start to chat at rhe same point, it's staggered. They're not appkying for a solitary pozition, like a presidential election - they may all prove to be successful.
I don't just chat with people who may become fbs either. The fb mailbox is often the worst bit here.
I'd guess I've 10 or so people who are currently chatting and may be suitable but some fall off the radar, don't make ut etc |
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"Yeah but if everyone you speak too is online, how many do you think you could actually speak to at once  ."
I don't think it's a straight forward thing to measure, I pop on and off. Sometimes I check messages and reply to one, sometimes I reply to however many I have sat there, sometimes I just look at the forums and don't even look at my mail. |
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"Yeah but if everyone you speak too is online, how many do you think you could actually speak to at once ."
I have one mate I chat to on a pretty much daily basis. Others come and go |
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"Yeah but if everyone you speak too is online, how many do you think you could actually speak to at once .
I don't think it's a straight forward thing to measure, I pop on and off. Sometimes I check messages and reply to one, sometimes I reply to however many I have sat there, sometimes I just look at the forums and don't even look at my mail. "
FFS there's always one.
If you're only online looking at messages, how many conversations do you reckon you could properly have with people. |
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"Yeah but if everyone you speak too is online, how many do you think you could actually speak to at once .
I don't think it's a straight forward thing to measure, I pop on and off. Sometimes I check messages and reply to one, sometimes I reply to however many I have sat there, sometimes I just look at the forums and don't even look at my mail.
FFS there's always one.
If you're only online looking at messages, how many conversations do you reckon you could properly have with people."
374 |
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"Yeah but if everyone you speak too is online, how many do you think you could actually speak to at once .
I don't think it's a straight forward thing to measure, I pop on and off. Sometimes I check messages and reply to one, sometimes I reply to however many I have sat there, sometimes I just look at the forums and don't even look at my mail.
FFS there's always one.
If you're only online looking at messages, how many conversations do you reckon you could properly have with people.
374"
Fucking hell lads anyone messaging Venus you could be 374th in the queue so don't get your hopes up. |
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"Yeah but if everyone you speak too is online, how many do you think you could actually speak to at once .
I don't think it's a straight forward thing to measure, I pop on and off. Sometimes I check messages and reply to one, sometimes I reply to however many I have sat there, sometimes I just look at the forums and don't even look at my mail.
FFS there's always one.
If you're only online looking at messages, how many conversations do you reckon you could properly have with people.
374
Fucking hell lads anyone messaging Venus you could be 374th in the queue so don't get your hopes up."
I type fast, it's all good. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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It varies - sometimes I can have several conversations ongoing at a time, sometimes I'll focus on just one, other people we swap occasional lengthier messages as and when - as VM said there really is no science to it |
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"Yeah but if everyone you speak too is online, how many do you think you could actually speak to at once .
I don't think it's a straight forward thing to measure, I pop on and off. Sometimes I check messages and reply to one, sometimes I reply to however many I have sat there, sometimes I just look at the forums and don't even look at my mail.
FFS there's always one.
If you're only online looking at messages, how many conversations do you reckon you could properly have with people.
374
Fucking hell lads anyone messaging Venus you could be 374th in the queue so don't get your hopes up.
I type fast, it's all good. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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Like Gemini Man it varies from someone I talk to every day to others I message less frequently but at length. They are first and foremost friends. Anything else if it ever happens would be a bonus. |
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"It varies - sometimes I can have several conversations ongoing at a time, sometimes I'll focus on just one, other people we swap occasional lengthier messages as and when - as VM said there really is no science to it"
I can't hold more than 1 convo tbh |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"It varies - sometimes I can have several conversations ongoing at a time, sometimes I'll focus on just one, other people we swap occasional lengthier messages as and when - as VM said there really is no science to it
I can't hold more than 1 convo tbh "
Like I said very much depends on the style and type of conversation - quick fire chat of the newsy type then I can hold several - something more in depth and meaningful I may focus on just one |
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"It varies - sometimes I can have several conversations ongoing at a time, sometimes I'll focus on just one, other people we swap occasional lengthier messages as and when - as VM said there really is no science to it
I can't hold more than 1 convo tbh
Like I said very much depends on the style and type of conversation - quick fire chat of the newsy type then I can hold several - something more in depth and meaningful I may focus on just one"
I only engage in meaningful dialogue that's my problem |
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"None. Nothing but tumblewe*eds in my inbox
There are so many answers I could give to this "
This is a surprise to see you here! I dont remember saying your name three times in a mirror at midnight. Are you well?! |
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"None. Nothing but tumblewe*eds in my inbox
That's bull !!!
Genuinely I’ve had maybe 2 messages today
I always message you you cow !!!"
Not today you haven’t  |
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"None. Nothing but tumblewe*eds in my inbox
That's bull !!!
Genuinely I’ve had maybe 2 messages today
I always message you you cow !!!
Not today you haven’t "
Yet !!! |
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"None. Nothing but tumblewe*eds in my inbox
There are so many answers I could give to this
This is a surprise to see you here! I dont remember saying your name three times in a mirror at midnight. Are you well?!"
Somewhat perplexed to find myself vertical during day light. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It varies. There's a couple of people I chat with regularly. Some maybe once or twice a month. Some hardly ever.
But if they all sent messages at the same time I'd reply to them all |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I chat to people on several platforms and in forums lol.. Its not difficult to hold separate conversations 
There is one person i prioritise "
Thanks Hun  |
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By *onty1971Man
over a year ago
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I enjoy the Forums and sometimes that creates a direct message chat about fun in Europe where I am or about a skill e.g. Massaging or less so about when I am in London to set up a Social.
There is one Lady I would a Social with who is on the Forum a lot but I don't think my hint was clear enough and don't want to pester ever anyone.
Mainly the more active I am on the Forum the more messages there are. |
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Twist it. I wonder if there is anyone who chats just with one person. I highly doubt. Most keep their options open. No matter how special they claim you are, is best not to have illusion that its just more than a carrot to keep you around. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Chatting as in just conversation or with an intent to meeting?
I find that there are often different levels of conversation on here. "
Any type of conversation |
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"Twist it. I wonder if there is anyone who chats just with one person. I highly doubt. Most keep their options open. No matter how special they claim you are, is best not to have illusion that its just more than a carrot to keep you around. "
Of course I just realized I can't really focus on more than one convo |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"Twist it. I wonder if there is anyone who chats just with one person. I highly doubt. Most keep their options open. No matter how special they claim you are, is best not to have illusion that its just more than a carrot to keep you around. "
That's true. I do usually have a favourite though  |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
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"Twist it. I wonder if there is anyone who chats just with one person. I highly doubt. Most keep their options open. No matter how special they claim you are, is best not to have illusion that its just more than a carrot to keep you around. "
With intent to meet we only chat to people one at a time..
We have in the past had five or six different chats running simultaneously & tbh you lose track without referring back all the time & you get sweet fa done elsewhere so it’s now severely curtailed & we are currently not messaging anyone.
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