Always go first, just as at a club, as an opportunity to learn. Treat yourself - relax, observe, have some hot chocolate. Notice how people are behaving and the habits. Pick up too anything that's disruptive.
All sex anywhere must be with consent. So when you do venture that far, ensure you are respectful to everyone and gain consent for everything.
I'm not giving you a step by step guide as that is better to come from observation. Maybe go several times before you engage.
People dislike those who cinstantly have to keep driving around, every few minutes or those that encroach on others. If you just sit and observe for a while, as you learn, you'll generally be OK, except people won't know you. Plan a few short trips. There is risk there, including police visits, that's why you should also know it. Think about visiting the spot ib daylight too, so you know the layout. |
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