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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Being single I don’t have much luck on this site but what’s worse. Been single and not having an luck or been in a relationship and constantly having you advances rejected? |
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Being in a relationship as there are emotional feelings involved. The person you are with is meant to be tactile, physical and sexy and should want to be that way with you. It hurts and can cut like a knife when they reject you time after time. |
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"Being in a relationship as there are emotional feelings involved. The person you are with is meant to be tactile, physical and sexy and should want to be that way with you. It hurts and can cut like a knife when they reject you time after time."
Exactly this, I remember very vividly how that knife cuts in a shitty relationship.
Takes a long time to get over the constant rejection by someone who supposedly cares for you. |
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"Being single I don’t have much luck on this site but what’s worse. Been single and not having an luck or been in a relationship and constantly having you advances rejected?"
The 2nd one is why i am more than happy to be single now. Constantly being rejected is soul destroying
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By *uke OzadeMan
over a year ago
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"Being single I don’t have much luck on this site but what’s worse. Been single and not having an luck or been in a relationship and constantly having you advances rejected?
The 2nd one is why i am more than happy to be single now. Constantly being rejected is soul destroying
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I agree and that’s precisely why I’m single now too and so much better for it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Being single I don’t have much luck on this site but what’s worse. Been single and not having an luck or been in a relationship and constantly having you advances rejected?
The 2nd one is why i am more than happy to be single now. Constantly being rejected is soul destroying
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Totally agree |
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"Being in a bad relationship. I’d take being single everytime than endure being made to feel unloved, uncared for and undersexed by someone sharing my bed and my life.
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I (Luke) agree with this. While I was married I thought that if my marriage ended I would just go back to being single, play the field and shun relationships. The I met Hannah and it turns out there are relationships that can be pretty damn good. My marriage was so awful being single definitely would have been better. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Being in a bad relationship. I’d take being single everytime than endure being made to feel unloved, uncared for and undersexed by someone sharing my bed and my life.
I (Luke) agree with this. While I was married I thought that if my marriage ended I would just go back to being single, play the field and shun relationships. The I met Hannah and it turns out there are relationships that can be pretty damn good. My marriage was so awful being single definitely would have been better. "
Having come out of a similar relationship I was hoping for some success when single but as of yet ( coming to a year now) nothing and it just gets you thinking |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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I don't think you can necessarily compare the two OP - they're very different things and states of mind, both of which can be lonely experiences and existences - as with anything the key is finding the changes you need to make to turn the situation around.
I would say that if lack of "success" on here is getting to you, in the kindest possible way, you possibly need to rethink your expectations of the site. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I don't think you can necessarily compare the two OP - they're very different things and states of mind, both of which can be lonely experiences and existences - as with anything the key is finding the changes you need to make to turn the situation around.
I would say that if lack of "success" on here is getting to you, in the kindest possible way, you possibly need to rethink your expectations of the site."
My expectations are pretty low lol having used the site some years ago as a couple profile and due to other things I thought I would test the water as a single guy. Totally agree both scenarios are a state of mind |
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"I don't think you can necessarily compare the two OP - they're very different things and states of mind, both of which can be lonely experiences and existences - as with anything the key is finding the changes you need to make to turn the situation around.
I would say that if lack of "success" on here is getting to you, in the kindest possible way, you possibly need to rethink your expectations of the site."
 wise words as always |
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"A bad relationship is a hundred times lonelier than being alone.
been there and it's the loneliest feeling x storm x"
Me too. It's incredibly lonely and so hurtful. Then you find someone else and realise just how fantastic and fulfilling a marriage can be.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Being in a bad relationship. I’d take being single everytime than endure being made to feel unloved, uncared for and undersexed by someone sharing my bed and my life.
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. I share the same opinion as this lady |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Being in a bad relationship. I’d take being single everytime than endure being made to feel unloved, uncared for and undersexed by someone sharing my bed and my life.
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the same opinion as this lady"
I think a lot of us do but every now and then it’s good to get the confirmation from other people |
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Both give you opportunity to change things. Being in a relationship gives you all a chance to communicate and negotiate the terms of it, learn and allow it to evolve or end. Single guys here can learn and adapt as well as leave. Both are positive, not negative. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Both give you opportunity to change things. Being in a relationship gives you all a chance to communicate and negotiate the terms of it, learn and allow it to evolve or end. Single guys here can learn and adapt as well as leave. Both are positive, not negative. "
Very true |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Being in a bad relationship. I’d take being single everytime than endure being made to feel unloved, uncared for and undersexed by someone sharing my bed and my life.
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Absolutely agree, was relieved when the last relationship ended (worst from missing the step kids like crazy)
But everyone in work noticed a complete change for the better and I was out of a hostile situation....give me single life and good times and looking forward to the future any day  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Being in a bad relationship. I’d take being single everytime than endure being made to feel unloved, uncared for and undersexed by someone sharing my bed and my life.
Absolutely agree, was relieved when the last relationship ended (worst from missing the step kids like crazy)
But everyone in work noticed a complete change for the better and I was out of a hostile situation....give me single life and good times and looking forward to the future any day "
Good luck mate |
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