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What lesson took you the longest to unlearn?

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By *Vine OP Man over a year ago

The right place

Well? What was it?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

I'm still forgetting stuff I learned as a child at school etc.

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By *onty1971Man over a year ago

London St Helier Trier

There is so much I don't rem_mber that those at school know today. I fall back on experience in the workplace.

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By *mberWoman over a year ago

Preston

That my ass was a bad thing.

Told to me by a boy when I was 10.

Unlearned because of a man when I was aged 41.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

To always wear flattering clothes

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It took me best part of 40 odd years to unlearn that my feelings and urges were shameful, and that I was 'wrong'. I am not sure I am fully there yet, but the acceptance I have found on fab and especially in the forums has helped hugely.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That I shouldn't let others knock me down ever

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By *adMerWoman over a year ago

Sandwich

To always put others first.

You can’t help anyone unless you are mentally healthy yourself.

Ironically my friends and family have benefited from me becoming a bit more selfish.

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By *av_55Man over a year ago

Never forget your roots .

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By *osie xWoman over a year ago

wolverhampton

Everyone is honest.

I’m still trying to learn that I need to not trust so much.

No, I don’t want to buy your London Bridge

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By *rivateparts!Man over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

Fab friends some stay and some go.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

To trust people. But i think maybee fab has knocked that one out of me.

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By *innie The MinxWoman over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Tying my shoe laces.

Now I wear slip ons

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By *dward_TeagueMan over a year ago

wolverhampton

That the grass isn’t always greener on the other side.

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By *osie xWoman over a year ago

wolverhampton

"That the grass isn’t always greener on the other side."

It is because it’s fed on bs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not to believe everything someone says to me.

12 years later, I've finally learnt.

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By *dward_TeagueMan over a year ago

wolverhampton

"That the grass isn’t always greener on the other side.

It is because it’s fed on bs

Don’t I know it!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

To stop being so trusting...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not to trust to easy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

When I sold my BMW I had to start using indicators again. That took me ages to learn.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That enjoying anal play meant you were gay

not so much a lesson but an archaic common assumption

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm still trying to unlearn the lessons that asking people about themselves is being nosey, and that joining in a conversation that's already started is rude.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

I thought all men hit women. Took until i was 24 to unlearn that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I thought all men hit women. Took until i was 24 to unlearn that"

Sorry to hear that Diamond.

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By * and R cple4Couple over a year ago

swansea

"It took me best part of 40 odd years to unlearn that my feelings and urges were shameful, and that I was 'wrong'. I am not sure I am fully there yet, but the acceptance I have found on fab and especially in the forums has helped hugely."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’ve learnt you need to love yourself.

That we are all perfect, and that’s it’s ok to be yourself, shadows and all.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"That my ass was a bad thing.

Told to me by a boy when I was 10.

Unlearned because of a man when I was aged 41."

Oh I wouldn’t say that....you’re arse looks a very good thing

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’ve learnt that if people can’t accept you for who you are then they need to be gone, we’re all beautiful as we are and we shouldn’t ever change for anyone

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

to always listen to my instincts

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m a working progress

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By *irth.Minge.FireMan over a year ago

Seen in far off places

"I’m a working progress"

Isn't it a work in progress?

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