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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi everyone. Me and my wife we’re a bit new to this livestyle. We both agreed to step into it, we very enjoy the idea, but there’s a small dilemma.
We are a bit confused about kissing between other halfs. We consider this very intimate and we settled as our rule: no french kissing.
So we are more than happy to hear from experienced couples with a logical explanation on both scenario.
Thank you and happy fabbing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some couples don’t kiss with other couples. And that’s fine. I’m not 100% comfortable kissing anyone other than my husband. Just make sure you let people you want to meet know in advanced. Kissing is a deal breaker for some.
Don’t let anyone try guilt trip you into it, make you feel odd for not kissing others etc. Good luck  |
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By *epsonWoman
over a year ago
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I personally couldn't have sex without passionate kissing, especially kissing with a cut off point. How to cut off part way through a kiss in the height of passion would be a bit tricky for me. But your comfort zone and rules should be exactly what you want from swinging. As long as it is clear on your profile,go for it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I don’t mind seeing my wife being gangbanged by 3-4 bulls,but seeing her involved into a passionate kissing with some other men will scatter lots of questions in my head.
Se is on the same side with me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t mind seeing my wife being gangbanged by 3-4 bulls,but seeing her involved into a passionate kissing with some other men will scatter lots of questions in my head.
Se is on the same side with me."
Then don’t kiss other people. Simple as that |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
There are plenty of people that don't like to kiss, just as there are those that won't do anal, won't do pain etc - they're all preferences and boundaries is all.
As others have said the key is being clear about your boundaries to those you meet, ideally beforehand, and finding those that either match or are willing to accept your boundaries |
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You need to do what's right for you. It will limit the number of couples who would engage with you and as long as you accept that then it's all fine. Nobody should try to convince you that your choice is wrong. |
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I replied on your other thread.
You must do what is right for you.
We don't kiss our casual sex partners, it hasn't limited is any more than our other preferences. A lot of people say they won't meet us because we don't kiss what they don't realise is we won't meet them either, therefore it's not limiting us at all  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Many thanks for your advice beautiful people.
We are now very clear about it.
We’ll accept body kissing and that’s more than enough for us to get arouse. |
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By *acplayMan
over a year ago
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Im currently single but have been on the scene a while and played as a couple. Have always thought this rule a bit odd myself. Its the communication point for me. You can feel so much of the others desire in a kiss. Would rather soft swap than have no kissing. Surely intercourse is the most intimate part or any play. Kissing is the tease the foreplay the true indicator of interest/desire in that encounter.. just my view. |
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"Im currently single but have been on the scene a while and played as a couple. Have always thought this rule a bit odd myself. Its the communication point for me. You can feel so much of the others desire in a kiss. Would rather soft swap than have no kissing. Surely intercourse is the most intimate part or any play. Kissing is the tease the foreplay the true indicator of interest/desire in that encounter.. just my view. "
That's your prerogative but other people have different ways of doing things.
We should all respect each other's ways of playing surely. |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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Lots have a no kissing others rule, personally for me I wouldn't be able to join anybody if we couldn't kiss, as that literally is the beginning of it for me and my "on" button, but there are plenty of people who feel very different and have the same rule as you.
Just make it clear to others so they are aware before anything else starts so they are aware of your preferences. |
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By *acplayMan
over a year ago
Melton Mowbray |
Totally agree. Rules of play are essential in any situation. Ladies are always in control. Communication is vital. Comments are my opinion not set in stone. Would always prefer no play than to have upset even one person/lady or her partner ever.. wouldnt be right. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi everyone. Me and my wife we’re a bit new to this livestyle. We both agreed to step into it, we very enjoy the idea, but there’s a small dilemma.
We are a bit confused about kissing between other halfs. We consider this very intimate and we settled as our rule: no french kissing.
So we are more than happy to hear from experienced couples with a logical explanation on both scenario.
Thank you and happy fabbing."
Ain't no play with others going on if no kissing allowed |
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