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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Why is it hardly any of my messages even get read? I send a message with attached photos (no dick pics) but they don’t even get opened!?
How are you supposed to meet anyone on here?
I’m only getting attention from men!
I know women must be inundated with messages but what’s the secret?? |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Can't give profile advice because you've not asked for any but often when people say they're not getting the response they hope for that is where the problem is...
...so take a look at yours and ask if it sells you well, does it put across some personality and make you stand out from the crowd of generic profiles? Does it have a good selection of pictures that entice and tease? Does it tell the reader a little about you and what you are looking for, and can offer?
Be brutally honest with yourself and if it doesn't do any of those things then make changes.
Also remember there are other ways to interact with people then sending cold messages, like getting involved in the forums or chat rooms, or getting along to socials or clubs - all of which are good ways to get to know people and get yourself known. |
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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago
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OP. You've only been on here 7 weeks.
What did you expect? Hordes of ladies beating a path to your door or flooding your In-Box?
It's a numbers thing. You are up against so many other guys all seeking the same thing.
Your profile is too short, and doesn't say what you SEEK from a meet, but also what you can CONTRIBUTE to one.
Get into clubs, socials and so on, even involve yourself in the Forums, as it's all about being NOTICED! You have to SELL yourself, in other words!
Patience, Perseverance and even more Patience are key elements. Plus a thick skin at times too.
Put the effort in, and it will work ... eventually.
Good Luck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You’re cute so it’s probably your height. It took me a good few years to get over my obsession with height. People around your age may still have a lot of requirements in a guy before they realise that things like height don’t really matter.
Just stay polite in the face of rejection and remember it the real world women won’t be so rigid in their requirements. |
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"Shit thought the age was in the twenties! Anyway, a lot of women come here for fantasy fulfilment so they have a specific type of guy they wanna meet. "
You always come up with the best usernames 
Anyway OP, you say that you've been here before?
Maybe have a pic of you without a bottle of beer in yer gob, write a profile that explains what you can provide, and what you are looking for. Inject some kind of humour into it, and after all that effort, don't expect to be knee deep in clunge after only a few weeks 
Good luck   |
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People view the profiles of people who send them messages, so interest starts or ends there, depending on the quality of it.
Read the many posts on how to improve profiles, if it seems a likely opportunity to improve your success. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Like it's already been said - patience.
Join in on the forums.
Just be nice.
If a fat fucker like me can get to meet a lady then anybody can.  "
And be able to cook !!! |
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By *xycpl699Couple
over a year ago
kilmarnock |
"Can't give profile advice because you've not asked for any but often when people say they're not getting the response they hope for that is where the problem is...
...so take a look at yours and ask if it sells you well, does it put across some personality and make you stand out from the crowd of generic profiles? Does it have a good selection of pictures that entice and tease? Does it tell the reader a little about you and what you are looking for, and can offer?
Be brutally honest with yourself and if it doesn't do any of those things then make changes.
Also remember there are other ways to interact with people then sending cold messages, like getting involved in the forums or chat rooms, or getting along to socials or clubs - all of which are good ways to get to know people and get yourself known."
great advice. Hollie |
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What do your messages say? We get messages from guys who probably think they are being polite and they are absolutey devoid of an interest.
Post an example message and we can give you more tips.
We can see the first part of a message without opening it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A good profile helps also attend clubs and socials, be decent and do things the right way and you will be fine. Everyone isn’t for everyone and you are up against lots of competition as such, so being patient and easy going about it will help. Maybe find a nice female friend and go to clubs together and do it that way, might be easier and a great way to meet people who are on here but don’t use the forum’s. Good luck |
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Depends what you say, how you say it, who you say it to, if they are willing recipients, if your profile is good. If they fancy you, if they have time.....
So many variables that you can’t guess which one is stopping them replying, so don’t stress over something you have no control over. Concentrate on improving those aspects that you can control, |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is it hardly any of my messages even get read? I send a message with attached photos (no dick pics) but they don’t even get opened!?
How are you supposed to meet anyone on here?
I’m only getting attention from men!
I know women must be inundated with messages but what’s the secret??"
Top tip #1, read. The. Profile.
That's the top reason why I delete messages without reading them, because I know immediately that the person hasn't bothered to read my profile. |
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"Damn it, im going to be fed to the spelling police now  "
Yep, I've found you!
I'll let you off with a warning this time. Here's some apostrophes, full stops and commas for later use.
Please take them with you. I won't be so lenient next time.
,.',.',.',....'''',,,,..',.',,,,''''.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is it hardly any of my messages even get read? I send a message with attached photos (no dick pics) but they don’t even get opened!?
How are you supposed to meet anyone on here?
I’m only getting attention from men!
I know women must be inundated with messages but what’s the secret??"
make your profile which is your advert the best it can be, you have a great profile pic but maybe more pics and patience how did you get on previous time you were here? |
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