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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

What's the difference? Obviously curvy people have curves, but everyone does to some extent. What makes you curvy rather than average, or ample rather than curvy in your opinion?

I know the words we choose on our profiles don't matter really, recent photos are a much better illustrator of body type, and it's all very subjective. I'm just interested as to why people choose particular labels.

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By *hunky GentMan  over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Big and proud

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Big and proud "

Best way

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By *epsonWoman  over a year ago

Biddulph

I am not fat, I am not slim. I have hips, boobs of a more than small size, so curvy is what I use.

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By *hunky GentMan  over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I am not fat, I am not slim. I have hips, boobs of a more than small size, so curvy is what I use."

Amen to that.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

My personal opinion

Athletic, self explanatory

Curvy, hour glass type figure, Kelly Brook typeish

Average, somewhere between the last two maybe.

Ample, larger than average

Fabulous, larger than ample.

Don't ask me where the line is between the last 2, I don't really care

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple  over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

Think im now curvy was slim but middle age has put paid to that ..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It matters not its the spark that lights the fire to open the girls legs for some woopie

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Because I'm fabulous

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan  over a year ago

Aylesbury

People claim different words that mean the same depending on their personality. It goes for other things like mental health and stuff. At least that's what I believe.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Fabulous and proud

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Men use the word .. athletic or medium build .. sort of covers it for my body type..As for you girlies .. horses for courses .. some men like curvy some like slim..Best to look at profile .. after all you are all beautiful specimens x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'd say curvy is size 12-16, generous size boobs and hour glass figure. Marilyn monroe had a beautiful curvy body.

I think size 18 and above is still curvy depending on shape and height, but edging onto ample. Ample is thick waist and thick thighs and wobbly bits.

That's just how I see it, obviously everyone's interpretation of the description won't be the same.

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By *luebell888Woman  over a year ago

Glasgowish

I was not sure how to class myself. My friend thought i was athletic so i just went for that.x

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

God only knows tbh

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By *est Wales WifeCouple  over a year ago

Near Carmarthen

"Average" is pointless.

If you were born in 1957, the average British woman was 5ft 2ins tall, weighed 9st 10lbs, had size three feet and was a dress size 12. (There has also been dress size inflation in that time as well)

Today’s British women are 5ft 5ins tall on average, weigh 11st, have size six feet and dress size 16.

Most noticeable, however, is just how much bra sizes has increased - 60 years ago, women were wearing 34B bras on average, whereas today it’s 36DD.

It would seem much simpler just to have a height and weight drop-down box that people could use if they wish.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By *acey_RedWoman  over a year ago

Liverpool

I choose curvy as I'm not slim but I have a small waist. I've had many feel the need to tell me I'm both too small and too big to call myself that though. I guess that's how I know I've picked the right one .

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Mine says large as fat isn't an option

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I dont even know what i put on my profile

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By *hunky GentMan  over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"God only knows tbh"

This God says you're fabulously curvy.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I think everyone should just put fabulous down.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"So for me, I would define curvy as slim/average with bigger hips, bum and/or boobs.

I would describe myself as ample as I don’t particularly have an hour glass figure and I’m bigger than average. It’s hard to know exactly though because everyone views people differently and one persons average is a another’s large/slim. "

it is ... Each to their own

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I think everyone should just put fabulous down. "

That's a great idea! The others are too confusing. Like I'm not slim, but I also don't have an hourglass figure- just a huge ass. :')

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Altho amazon should be an option

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By *hunky GentMan  over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I think everyone should just put fabulous down. "

Can I have fabulously fat? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I think everyone should just put fabulous down.

That's a great idea! The others are too confusing. Like I'm not slim, but I also don't have an hourglass figure- just a huge ass. :') "

Yeah I thought I was bigger than average then I saw someone said what average actually was, so now I’m confused. I’ve got big boobs but no hips/waist definition so I wouldn’t describe myself as curvy. I honestly don’t know what I am!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I think everyone should just put fabulous down.

That's a great idea! The others are too confusing. Like I'm not slim, but I also don't have an hourglass figure- just a huge ass. :')

Yeah I thought I was bigger than average then I saw someone said what average actually was, so now I’m confused. I’ve got big boobs but no hips/waist definition so I wouldn’t describe myself as curvy. I honestly don’t know what I am! "

Amazing, that's what you are =)

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By *essie.Woman  over a year ago

Serendipity

I have fabulous as it’s subjective. I don’t hide the fact I’m larger than average.

As long as you have recent photos that gives more of an idea to anyone who’s reading your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I think everyone should just put fabulous down.

That's a great idea! The others are too confusing. Like I'm not slim, but I also don't have an hourglass figure- just a huge ass. :')

Yeah I thought I was bigger than average then I saw someone said what average actually was, so now I’m confused. I’ve got big boobs but no hips/waist definition so I wouldn’t describe myself as curvy. I honestly don’t know what I am! "

You're beautiful

You're beautiful

You're beautiful, it's true

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Here you go, have an earworm

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By *hunky GentMan  over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I think everyone should just put fabulous down.

That's a great idea! The others are too confusing. Like I'm not slim, but I also don't have an hourglass figure- just a huge ass. :')

Yeah I thought I was bigger than average then I saw someone said what average actually was, so now I’m confused. I’ve got big boobs but no hips/waist definition so I wouldn’t describe myself as curvy. I honestly don’t know what I am! "

What you are is: God damn sexy. End of.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I think everyone should just put fabulous down.

That's a great idea! The others are too confusing. Like I'm not slim, but I also don't have an hourglass figure- just a huge ass. :')

Yeah I thought I was bigger than average then I saw someone said what average actually was, so now I’m confused. I’ve got big boobs but no hips/waist definition so I wouldn’t describe myself as curvy. I honestly don’t know what I am!

Amazing, that's what you are =)"

I wish we lived closer so we could be gal pals

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By *aitonelMan  over a year ago

Travelling


"I think everyone should just put fabulous down.

That's a great idea! The others are too confusing. Like I'm not slim, but I also don't have an hourglass figure- just a huge ass. :')

Yeah I thought I was bigger than average then I saw someone said what average actually was, so now I’m confused. I’ve got big boobs but no hips/waist definition so I wouldn’t describe myself as curvy. I honestly don’t know what I am! "

Nobody really knows what they are, you just have to go with what makes sense really. What makes sense for you won't really make sense for others.

They are nothing more than general labels at giving a quick descriptive idea of body shape.

The female body generally has more varied "shapes" individually than men do. We are very basic in that department.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I think everyone should just put fabulous down.

That's a great idea! The others are too confusing. Like I'm not slim, but I also don't have an hourglass figure- just a huge ass. :')

Yeah I thought I was bigger than average then I saw someone said what average actually was, so now I’m confused. I’ve got big boobs but no hips/waist definition so I wouldn’t describe myself as curvy. I honestly don’t know what I am!

Amazing, that's what you are =)

I wish we lived closer so we could be gal pals "

Me too! A move southward might be on the cards for me nearer to the end of the year, so who knows =)

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I think everyone should just put fabulous down.

That's a great idea! The others are too confusing. Like I'm not slim, but I also don't have an hourglass figure- just a huge ass. :')

Yeah I thought I was bigger than average then I saw someone said what average actually was, so now I’m confused. I’ve got big boobs but no hips/waist definition so I wouldn’t describe myself as curvy. I honestly don’t know what I am!

Nobody really knows what they are, you just have to go with what makes sense really. What makes sense for you won't really make sense for others.

They are nothing more than general labels at giving a quick descriptive idea of body shape.

The female body generally has more varied "shapes" individually than men do. We are very basic in that department. "

I think it’s been agreed we’re all just gonna put fabulous down

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I think everyone should just put fabulous down.

That's a great idea! The others are too confusing. Like I'm not slim, but I also don't have an hourglass figure- just a huge ass. :')

Yeah I thought I was bigger than average then I saw someone said what average actually was, so now I’m confused. I’ve got big boobs but no hips/waist definition so I wouldn’t describe myself as curvy. I honestly don’t know what I am!

Amazing, that's what you are =)

I wish we lived closer so we could be gal pals

Me too! A move southward might be on the cards for me nearer to the end of the year, so who knows =)"

Keep me updated!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I think everyone should just put fabulous down.

That's a great idea! The others are too confusing. Like I'm not slim, but I also don't have an hourglass figure- just a huge ass. :')

Yeah I thought I was bigger than average then I saw someone said what average actually was, so now I’m confused. I’ve got big boobs but no hips/waist definition so I wouldn’t describe myself as curvy. I honestly don’t know what I am!

Amazing, that's what you are =)

I wish we lived closer so we could be gal pals

Me too! A move southward might be on the cards for me nearer to the end of the year, so who knows =)

Keep me updated! "

I think I speak for everyone when i say keep us all updated

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Do you think they'll ever have body type 'sack of mash'

asking for a friend (Princess Peach)

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I think everyone should just put fabulous down.

That's a great idea! The others are too confusing. Like I'm not slim, but I also don't have an hourglass figure- just a huge ass. :')

Yeah I thought I was bigger than average then I saw someone said what average actually was, so now I’m confused. I’ve got big boobs but no hips/waist definition so I wouldn’t describe myself as curvy. I honestly don’t know what I am!

Amazing, that's what you are =)

I wish we lived closer so we could be gal pals

Me too! A move southward might be on the cards for me nearer to the end of the year, so who knows =)

Keep me updated!

I think I speak for everyone when i say keep us all updated "

You don’t

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I think everyone should just put fabulous down.

That's a great idea! The others are too confusing. Like I'm not slim, but I also don't have an hourglass figure- just a huge ass. :')

Yeah I thought I was bigger than average then I saw someone said what average actually was, so now I’m confused. I’ve got big boobs but no hips/waist definition so I wouldn’t describe myself as curvy. I honestly don’t know what I am!

Amazing, that's what you are =)

I wish we lived closer so we could be gal pals

Me too! A move southward might be on the cards for me nearer to the end of the year, so who knows =)

Keep me updated!

I think I speak for everyone when i say keep us all updated

You don’t "

Soz

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm ripped to shreds

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I have visible muscle, that's unusual for a woman, so I'm athletic. I'm also curvy.

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By *iglesMan  over a year ago

Helston

You are what you are! and there are lots of different things that draws to each other. Just enjoy being you for who you are!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Do you think they'll ever have body type 'sack of mash'

asking for a friend (Princess Peach)"

Everyone at work is getting chips or a jacket tonight. I'm taking mash off the menu

P

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Why do people assume that, because I refer to myself as fat, that I am insulting myself, or that I don't think very highly of myself? It's all in our mindset and mine tells me the truth... I am fat and bloody wonderful

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Why do people assume that, because I refer to myself as fat, that I am insulting myself, or that I don't think very highly of myself? It's all in our mindset and mine tells me the truth... I am fat and bloody wonderful "

Because reclaiming the word is still in process

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I think everyone should just put fabulous down.

That's a great idea! The others are too confusing. Like I'm not slim, but I also don't have an hourglass figure- just a huge ass. :')

Yeah I thought I was bigger than average then I saw someone said what average actually was, so now I’m confused. I’ve got big boobs but no hips/waist definition so I wouldn’t describe myself as curvy. I honestly don’t know what I am!

Amazing, that's what you are =)

I wish we lived closer so we could be gal pals

Me too! A move southward might be on the cards for me nearer to the end of the year, so who knows =)

Keep me updated!

I think I speak for everyone when i say keep us all updated

You don’t "

Noted, I'll update everyone except this guy :')

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By *acey_RedWoman  over a year ago

Liverpool


"I'm ripped to shreds "

Sounds painful.

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By *entakuruMan  over a year ago

Exeter


"I think everyone should just put fabulous down.

That's a great idea! The others are too confusing. Like I'm not slim, but I also don't have an hourglass figure- just a huge ass. :')

Yeah I thought I was bigger than average then I saw someone said what average actually was, so now I’m confused. I’ve got big boobs but no hips/waist definition so I wouldn’t describe myself as curvy. I honestly don’t know what I am!

Amazing, that's what you are =)

I wish we lived closer so we could be gal pals

Me too! A move southward might be on the cards for me nearer to the end of the year, so who knows =)

Keep me updated! "

Move to Devon! :D

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I’m not really sure there’s even a need for body type on here, you can’t search by it and it’s really subjective anyway. Had to check what we are even down as!

Think we both used to describe ourselves as athletic but the ravages of time and injuries meant we changed to average and curvy a while ago. Doesn’t really mean anything other than neither of us feel in the shape we used to be so wouldn’t say we’re athletic. People will still decide based on what they see anyway, so just a pointless feature for us.

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By *0FrankMan  over a year ago

The South!

I had a conversation about this yesterday... Some of you ladies have a very strange opinion of what you look like... I'd say 50% of the females on here put themselves in an above average category when they clearly are not.

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I had a conversation about this yesterday... Some of you ladies have a very strange opinion of what you look like... I'd say 50% of the females on here put themselves in an above average category when they clearly are not. "

And you can look at pictures, ask for yourself, without being publicly derogatory.

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By *acey_RedWoman  over a year ago

Liverpool


"I had a conversation about this yesterday... Some of you ladies have a very strange opinion of what you look like... I'd say 50% of the females on here put themselves in an above average category when they clearly are not. "

Really? I heard we're all fugly munters who have too high of an opinion of ourselves

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I had a conversation about this yesterday... Some of you ladies have a very strange opinion of what you look like... I'd say 50% of the females on here put themselves in an above average category when they clearly are not.

Really? I heard we're all fugly munters who have too high of an opinion of ourselves "

I've got room on my fugly munter bench. Who's with me?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I had a conversation about this yesterday... Some of you ladies have a very strange opinion of what you look like... I'd say 50% of the females on here put themselves in an above average category when they clearly are not.

Really? I heard we're all fugly munters who have too high of an opinion of ourselves

I've got room on my fugly munter bench. Who's with me? "

Budge up, I'll take a seat

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm ripped to shreds "

Obvs

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By *uenevereWoman  over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I chose curvy because I am.

I'm a 2 hourglass

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By *hunky GentMan  over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I had a conversation about this yesterday... Some of you ladies have a very strange opinion of what you look like... I'd say 50% of the females on here put themselves in an above average category when they clearly are not.

Really? I heard we're all fugly munters who have too high of an opinion of ourselves

I've got room on my fugly munter bench. Who's with me? "

That bench you speak of is my lap.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Mine says large as fat isn't an option"

Same

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By *ea monkeyMan  over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I do understand the need for body type information on profiles, I also understand that they are intended to be body positive. However, everyone has a different subjective opinion of what that description is (with the exception of athletic, I think that's fairly clear), that coupled with people being intentionally misleading about their body shape/using old pictures/fake pictures renders the descriptions next to useless.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

To me:

Athletic - toned/muscly

Slim - skinny

Average - neither thin nor fat

Curvy - big hips, boobs and ass

Ample - more to love

Large - probably a lot of jiggling about when being fucked (me lol)

Fabulous - all of the above

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Even if you have fabulous you still get the your not fabulous..just a fat c**t reply’s

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I had a conversation about this yesterday... Some of you ladies have a very strange opinion of what you look like... I'd say 50% of the females on here put themselves in an above average category when they clearly are not. "

I'd say it's very subjective and a lot comes down to how you've been treated in the past, your upbringing, having confidence or lack of instilled in you.

I mean, I'm an above average human in lots of areas, below average in others.

In looks I'd say I'm above average if I was slapped in the centre of redneck county 70 years ago but when I look in the mirror I see a normal, average person.

P

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I had a conversation about this yesterday... Some of you ladies have a very strange opinion of what you look like... I'd say 50% of the females on here put themselves in an above average category when they clearly are not.

I'd say it's very subjective and a lot comes down to how you've been treated in the past, your upbringing, having confidence or lack of instilled in you.

I mean, I'm an above average human in lots of areas, below average in others.

In looks I'd say I'm above average if I was slapped in the centre of redneck county 70 years ago but when I look in the mirror I see a normal, average person.

P"

I use the word normal sparingly in my own case

P

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By *eannaTV/TS  over a year ago

Cwmfelifach, nr Newport


"I'd say curvy is size 12-16, generous size boobs and hour glass figure. Marilyn monroe had a beautiful curvy body.

I think size 18 and above is still curvy depending on shape and height, but edging onto ample. Ample is thick waist and thick thighs and wobbly bits.

That's just how I see it, obviously everyone's interpretation of the description won't be the same.

"

I think you are absolutely right and I agree 100%

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"What's the difference? Obviously curvy people have curves, but everyone does to some extent. What makes you curvy rather than average, or ample rather than curvy in your opinion?

I know the words we choose on our profiles don't matter really, recent photos are a much better illustrator of body type, and it's all very subjective. I'm just interested as to why people choose particular labels.

"

We class curvy as a more fuller figure like I have.

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan  over a year ago

Northampton

I'm listed as average which I think is about right

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm just a tiny version of every other woman, I have extra weight now and fat bits just like we all do. I'm more curvy then I used to be.

So I just use slim to say I'm small. I hate the body type labels.

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By *a LunaWoman  over a year ago

South Wales

I’m tall and fat. They didn’t have a fat option so i just went with what was there.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I had a conversation about this yesterday... Some of you ladies have a very strange opinion of what you look like... I'd say 50% of the females on here put themselves in an above average category when they clearly are not. "

Think Frank needs a wank

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By *esse1972Man  over a year ago

Rugeley

I’m ample which is the polite term for fat or large, trying to get back down to cuddly

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We're both runners, Mrs size 12 I'm 32" waist and slim.

We've both been told that we were too fat to let things go further by people who we've met socially.

It's all about perception of oneself and how others size you up.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I look as curvy being an hour glass shape regardless of size for ladies, for men and women average as slim with a little padding, ample as having lots more padding

Slim is self explanatory as is athletic but I do view that as fit but can be different shapes

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By *good-being-badMan  over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

No idea what any of the descriptors mean. its open to each and everyones own interpretation its not like there are guidelines given.

If folk are really bothered by the descriptors .. Whatever you choose its likely to open up some opportunities and close some others.

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By *alcon404Man  over a year ago

London


"I'd say 50% of the females on here put themselves in an above average category when they clearly are not. "

That’s subjective. How you view people will be different to how I view people and different to how they view themselves. Your opinion ain’t fact.

And I’m sure plenty have an opinion on you which doesn’t match how you are yourself.

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By *alcon404Man  over a year ago

London

Don’t care about the difference tbh.

Good set of pictures that show the woman I want to meet accurately is enough for me

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By *uriouscat71Woman  over a year ago

Bristol

I think I’d prefer to use fabulous rather than BBW! I really don’t like that

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By *manaWoman  over a year ago

Basingstoke

Im curvy... I think

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I had a conversation about this yesterday... Some of you ladies have a very strange opinion of what you look like... I'd say 50% of the females on here put themselves in an above average category when they clearly are not.

Think Frank needs a wank "

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By *m3232Man  over a year ago

maidenhead

I always hold by if you can pinch more than a inch you are carrying too much weight.

My preference is gym toned ladies with muscle. Although there’s nothing wrong with large framed ladies that don’t carry the hanging fat of some of the bbw types frames.

The great thing about it is there’s plenty of different types to go around for everyone and all types are perfect for someone

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By *hunky GentMan  over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Im curvy... I think "

Beautiful curves. But I'm a little bias.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I’ve put curvy as my body type because I am curvy.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I had a conversation about this yesterday... Some of you ladies have a very strange opinion of what you look like... I'd say 50% of the females on here put themselves in an above average category when they clearly are not. "

And who has decided that then? You? Thank you for expressing your opinion.

We’re all free to use whatever language we like when describing ourselves. Perception being what it is, pics are also very handy

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Don’t care about the difference tbh.

Good set of pictures that show the woman I want to meet accurately is enough for me"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm more than the sum of my lumps and bumps.

I discribe myself how I choose and many over my time on fab have felt the need to challenge me on that.

I couldn't care less what the actual definitions are, I chose how I discribe myself and no one else.

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By *ea monkeyMan  over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Im curvy... I think "

I'd call you perfect...

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By *manaWoman  over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Im curvy... I think

I'd call you perfect... "

Ahh! You're biased though! xx

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By *ea monkeyMan  over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"I'm more than the sum of my lumps and bumps.

I discribe myself how I choose and many over my time on fab have felt the need to challenge me on that.

I couldn't care less what the actual definitions are, I chose how I discribe myself and no one else. "

I think that's the point with regards to the definitions given, people can use them however they see fit. Personally, I think that there needs to be a degree of consensus of definition otherwise they mean nothing.

I'm not saying that people are wrong, my issue is mainly when an overweight person calls themselves athletic but that's because it's the only one with a quantifiable definition

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By *londie8399Couple  over a year ago

blackpool

I'm curvy on the bottom but athletic on the top half how does that work lol

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By *.L.0460.Woman  over a year ago

Bognor Regis

I'm a size 16 & describe myself as ample. It fits my conception of myself better than any of the other terms.

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By *ornyhappyCouple  over a year ago

perth


"I'm more than the sum of my lumps and bumps.

I discribe myself how I choose and many over my time on fab have felt the need to challenge me on that.

I couldn't care less what the actual definitions are, I chose how I discribe myself and no one else.

I think that's the point with regards to the definitions given, people can use them however they see fit. Personally, I think that there needs to be a degree of consensus of definition otherwise they mean nothing.

I'm not saying that people are wrong, my issue is mainly when an overweight person calls themselves athletic but that's because it's the only one with a quantifiable definition"

I've a female friend who is 5'10, a size 18, she plays women's rugby and could probably crush a man's skull with her extremely muscular thighs... Technically she would be classed as overweight but she is undoubtedly athletic

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By *ntrigued32Couple  over a year ago

Nottingham

I class myself as curvy because my hips and bum are bigger than my waist.

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'd class myself as curvy. I have a big bum and hips with a smaller waist x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm very curvy. I have a big bum, I have boobs, I have a belly.. I have it all

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By *antric ecstasyMan  over a year ago

Co Durham


"My personal opinion

Athletic, self explanatory

"

Is that athletic in a Mo Farah way, an Anthony Joshua way or the chap that beat him sort of way?

All pretty open to interpretation, I think.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm more than the sum of my lumps and bumps.

I discribe myself how I choose and many over my time on fab have felt the need to challenge me on that.

I couldn't care less what the actual definitions are, I chose how I discribe myself and no one else.

I think that's the point with regards to the definitions given, people can use them however they see fit. Personally, I think that there needs to be a degree of consensus of definition otherwise they mean nothing.

I'm not saying that people are wrong, my issue is mainly when an overweight person calls themselves athletic but that's because it's the only one with a quantifiable definition"

Then that's entirely up to them.

It may be seen as deluded by others but it is not the place of someone else to say that how a person choses to discribe themselves is wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm more than the sum of my lumps and bumps.

I discribe myself how I choose and many over my time on fab have felt the need to challenge me on that.

I couldn't care less what the actual definitions are, I chose how I discribe myself and no one else.

I think that's the point with regards to the definitions given, people can use them however they see fit. Personally, I think that there needs to be a degree of consensus of definition otherwise they mean nothing.

I'm not saying that people are wrong, my issue is mainly when an overweight person calls themselves athletic but that's because it's the only one with a quantifiable definition

I've a female friend who is 5'10, a size 18, she plays women's rugby and could probably crush a man's skull with her extremely muscular thighs... Technically she would be classed as overweight but she is undoubtedly athletic"

Exactly my point.

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By *ensualtouch15Man  over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"What's the difference? Obviously curvy people have curves, but everyone does to some extent. What makes you curvy rather than average, or ample rather than curvy in your opinion?

I know the words we choose on our profiles don't matter really, recent photos are a much better illustrator of body type, and it's all very subjective. I'm just interested as to why people choose particular labels.

"

I rolled a dice

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By *iss LovelyWoman  over a year ago

Here and There


"I'm more than the sum of my lumps and bumps.

I discribe myself how I choose and many over my time on fab have felt the need to challenge me on that.

I couldn't care less what the actual definitions are, I chose how I discribe myself and no one else.

I think that's the point with regards to the definitions given, people can use them however they see fit. Personally, I think that there needs to be a degree of consensus of definition otherwise they mean nothing.

I'm not saying that people are wrong, my issue is mainly when an overweight person calls themselves athletic but that's because it's the only one with a quantifiable definition

I've a female friend who is 5'10, a size 18, she plays women's rugby and could probably crush a man's skull with her extremely muscular thighs... Technically she would be classed as overweight but she is undoubtedly athletic

Exactly my point. "

I’m 6ft tall and weight train, I’m a size 20. I could also crush lots of things with my thighs I have myself down as large because I think people expect Jessica Rabbit it you say curvy, and Jessica Ennis if you say athletic. I’m tall and broad so I think large fits best. Some would disagree, but unless Fab are going to define each category then all we can do is our best. I describe myself in my profile as best as I can, no interest in deceiving anyone.

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By *ou only live onceMan  over a year ago

London

Agree with everyone here that is pretty subjective and, more than anything, an individual's personal choice.

One thing I do find odd are male profiles describing themselves as 'curvy'. More power to them, but never entirely sure what they mean!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I think everyone should just put fabulous down.

That's a great idea! The others are too confusing. Like I'm not slim, but I also don't have an hourglass figure- just a huge ass. :')

Yeah I thought I was bigger than average then I saw someone said what average actually was, so now I’m confused. I’ve got big boobs but no hips/waist definition so I wouldn’t describe myself as curvy. I honestly don’t know what I am! "

You’re you

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By *hrista BellendWoman  over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I am ample as I have a mum tum and big tits, I am also 6ft tall and extremely muscley due to an physical job so I am athletic, from the back I am curvy, from the from I am fat and the only persons opinion who matters to me about it is mine

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By *om and JennieCouple  over a year ago

Chams or Socials

I was curvy when I joined but currently fabulous as fat wasn’t an option!

J x

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