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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you constantly chat with people who you want to meet? "
No, God forbid I ever find mY self a fekkin pen pal. Alough today I have been ovley active on fourms. So kinda making you all. Y tempory pen pals for the day. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No, I’m awkward as fuck and feel like I’m bothering them. Yay"
This is how I feel. I rarely if ever meet anyone, but I feel like I'm hassling women.. Because they get a lot of messages. |
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I chat enough with people of interest but, until I meet, I'm not going to do excessive chat, as we may not be compatible.
I keep ny actions appropriate to the type and depth of the relationships that I have |
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By *epsonWoman
over a year ago
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"I chat enough with people of interest but, until I meet, I'm not going to do excessive chat, as we may not be compatible.
I keep ny actions appropriate to the type and depth of the relationships that I have "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I message then they reply or vice versa, not always right away. This goes on indefinitely until such time as we are either no longer "friends" or one of us has died |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No, I’m awkward as fuck and feel like I’m bothering them. Yay
This is how I feel. I rarely if ever meet anyone, but I feel like I'm hassling women.. Because they get a lot of messages. "
I don't feel the need to constantly message them if you had something to chat about you have to message surely |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope.
We regularly chat to those we may want to meet but only constantly chat to each other.
Thank fuck free minutes, texts, WhatsApp and wifi for vid calls are a thing or we may die from withdrawal symptoms from each other
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nope.
We regularly chat to those we may want to meet but only constantly chat to each other.
Thank fuck free minutes, texts, WhatsApp and wifi for vid calls are a thing or we may die from withdrawal symptoms from each other
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So yes really that's what I mean should've phrased it better  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I once got blocked by someone I was due to meet off here, because I read but didn't reply to one of her messages within 24 hours  "
To be fair I'd probably do the same |
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"I once got blocked by someone I was due to meet off here, because I read but didn't reply to one of her messages within 24 hours
To be fair I'd probably do the same"
The meet wasn't for a couple of weeks, and some people have lives away from fab as well ya know  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I once got blocked by someone I was due to meet off here, because I read but didn't reply to one of her messages within 24 hours
To be fair I'd probably do the same
The meet wasn't for a couple of weeks, and some people have lives away from fab as well ya know "
Still not a reason to ignore someone for a day |
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"I once got blocked by someone I was due to meet off here, because I read but didn't reply to one of her messages within 24 hours
To be fair I'd probably do the same
The meet wasn't for a couple of weeks, and some people have lives away from fab as well ya know
Still not a reason to ignore someone for a day "
Crikey, you're needy. It was only gonna be a social meet anyway  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When someone really piques my interest then I’ll chat to them a lot usually on WhatsApp leading up to meeting. I let them send me pictures of themselves and videos as well. All good. |
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"When someone really piques my interest then I’ll chat to them a lot usually on WhatsApp leading up to meeting. I let them send me pictures of themselves and videos as well. All good."
Was going to ask if they must have nice rims |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Very hard to know how much to chat, how much isn't bothering them. I'm in that situation atm and feel I'm going to put her off before we get to meet  "
If she ain't into it it ain't right |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"When someone really piques my interest then I’ll chat to them a lot usually on WhatsApp leading up to meeting. I let them send me pictures of themselves and videos as well. All good."
I bet you do you naughty minx |
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"I once got blocked by someone I was due to meet off here, because I read but didn't reply to one of her messages within 24 hours
To be fair I'd probably do the same
The meet wasn't for a couple of weeks, and some people have lives away from fab as well ya know
Still not a reason to ignore someone for a day "
People do have lives away from Fab and unfortunately for you your not their number 1 priority |
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"I once got blocked by someone I was due to meet off here, because I read but didn't reply to one of her messages within 24 hours
To be fair I'd probably do the same
The meet wasn't for a couple of weeks, and some people have lives away from fab as well ya know
Still not a reason to ignore someone for a day
Crikey, you're needy. It was only gonna be a social meet anyway "
Oh, and we had been chatting for quite a while beforehand, how much shit can you chat before you meet someone without actually meeting them and having naff all to say to them face to face?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I once got blocked by someone I was due to meet off here, because I read but didn't reply to one of her messages within 24 hours
To be fair I'd probably do the same
The meet wasn't for a couple of weeks, and some people have lives away from fab as well ya know
Still not a reason to ignore someone for a day
People do have lives away from Fab and unfortunately for you your not their number 1 priority "
So you're so busy you can't respond in a day  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I once got blocked by someone I was due to meet off here, because I read but didn't reply to one of her messages within 24 hours
To be fair I'd probably do the same
The meet wasn't for a couple of weeks, and some people have lives away from fab as well ya know
Still not a reason to ignore someone for a day
Crikey, you're needy. It was only gonna be a social meet anyway
Oh, and we had been chatting for quite a while beforehand, how much shit can you chat before you meet someone without actually meeting them and having naff all to say to them face to face? "
Alot actually |
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"I once got blocked by someone I was due to meet off here, because I read but didn't reply to one of her messages within 24 hours
To be fair I'd probably do the same
The meet wasn't for a couple of weeks, and some people have lives away from fab as well ya know
Still not a reason to ignore someone for a day
People do have lives away from Fab and unfortunately for you your not their number 1 priority
So you're so busy you can't respond in a day "
Sometimes yes. Fab doesn’t rule my world. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I once got blocked by someone I was due to meet off here, because I read but didn't reply to one of her messages within 24 hours
To be fair I'd probably do the same
The meet wasn't for a couple of weeks, and some people have lives away from fab as well ya know
Still not a reason to ignore someone for a day
People do have lives away from Fab and unfortunately for you your not their number 1 priority
So you're so busy you can't respond in a day
Sometimes yes. Fab doesn’t rule my world. "
Fab has to rule your world to reply to someone in a day???? Unless you're sending essays to each other I don't see how it takes 2 minutes to reply |
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I think it finds its own level.
Personally I can do either end of the scale (lots of messages, or virtually none), without a preference. So I tend to fall in line with what the other person seems to be up for. |
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"I once got blocked by someone I was due to meet off here, because I read but didn't reply to one of her messages within 24 hours
To be fair I'd probably do the same
The meet wasn't for a couple of weeks, and some people have lives away from fab as well ya know
Still not a reason to ignore someone for a day
People do have lives away from Fab and unfortunately for you your not their number 1 priority
So you're so busy you can't respond in a day
Sometimes yes. Fab doesn’t rule my world.
Fab has to rule your world to reply to someone in a day???? Unless you're sending essays to each other I don't see how it takes 2 minutes to reply "
It does seem very needy to expect someone to drop everything just cause you say so |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not constantly, but the guys I like and plan to meet check in regularly.
I check in regularly regardless "
Not in approximately 2hrs and 33.5. 5th of a second you havent!
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"I once got blocked by someone I was due to meet off here, because I read but didn't reply to one of her messages within 24 hours
To be fair I'd probably do the same
The meet wasn't for a couple of weeks, and some people have lives away from fab as well ya know
Still not a reason to ignore someone for a day
People do have lives away from Fab and unfortunately for you your not their number 1 priority
So you're so busy you can't respond in a day
Sometimes yes. Fab doesn’t rule my world.
Fab has to rule your world to reply to someone in a day???? Unless you're sending essays to each other I don't see how it takes 2 minutes to reply
It does seem very needy to expect someone to drop everything just cause you say so"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I once got blocked by someone I was due to meet off here, because I read but didn't reply to one of her messages within 24 hours
To be fair I'd probably do the same
The meet wasn't for a couple of weeks, and some people have lives away from fab as well ya know
Still not a reason to ignore someone for a day
People do have lives away from Fab and unfortunately for you your not their number 1 priority
So you're so busy you can't respond in a day
Sometimes yes. Fab doesn’t rule my world.
Fab has to rule your world to reply to someone in a day???? Unless you're sending essays to each other I don't see how it takes 2 minutes to reply
It does seem very needy to expect someone to drop everything just cause you say so"
drop everything for a sentence ????? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If I was going to meet someone I’d have their number and if I WhatsApp’d them and they left me on read for a day I’d assume they weren’t keen. "
Exactly |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If I was going to meet someone I’d have their number and if I WhatsApp’d them and they left me on read for a day I’d assume they weren’t keen. "
Let's all start calling the fit girl needy shall we ? No thought not |
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"I once got blocked by someone I was due to meet off here, because I read but didn't reply to one of her messages within 24 hours
To be fair I'd probably do the same
The meet wasn't for a couple of weeks, and some people have lives away from fab as well ya know
Still not a reason to ignore someone for a day
People do have lives away from Fab and unfortunately for you your not their number 1 priority
So you're so busy you can't respond in a day
Sometimes yes. Fab doesn’t rule my world.
Fab has to rule your world to reply to someone in a day???? Unless you're sending essays to each other I don't see how it takes 2 minutes to reply
It does seem very needy to expect someone to drop everything just cause you say so
drop everything for a sentence ????? "
You come across very needy pal. Just chill a bit. Try it and see if this approach works better for you. If not keep pestering them, I’m sure this is what the fit girl wants. You’ll learn grasshopper |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I once got blocked by someone I was due to meet off here, because I read but didn't reply to one of her messages within 24 hours
To be fair I'd probably do the same
The meet wasn't for a couple of weeks, and some people have lives away from fab as well ya know
Still not a reason to ignore someone for a day
People do have lives away from Fab and unfortunately for you your not their number 1 priority
So you're so busy you can't respond in a day
Sometimes yes. Fab doesn’t rule my world.
Fab has to rule your world to reply to someone in a day???? Unless you're sending essays to each other I don't see how it takes 2 minutes to reply
It does seem very needy to expect someone to drop everything just cause you say so
drop everything for a sentence ?????
You come across very needy pal. Just chill a bit. Try it and see if this approach works better for you. If not keep pestering them, I’m sure this is what the fit girl wants. You’ll learn grasshopper "
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"Not constantly, but the guys I like and plan to meet check in regularly.
I check in regularly regardless
Not in approximately 2hrs and 33.5. 5th of a second you havent!
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Not messaged you for 3 weeks!
Right best fix that! |
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"Group chat on whatsapp prior to a meet is fun, share a few naughty pics and flirt with each other. Some really get into it, some are a little uneasy being seduced in a group chat "
Group with who?? |
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Maybe it’s different with swingers but sometimes we can be out of the house all day work etc then come home have food watch a film together and not bother to check our phones till next day ........never had a issue if we don’t reply for 24 hours we simply explain and pick up where we left off .... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not constantly, but the guys I like and plan to meet check in regularly.
I check in regularly regardless
Not in approximately 2hrs and 33.5. 5th of a second you havent!
Not messaged you for 3 weeks!
Right best fix that! "
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"I once got blocked by someone I was due to meet off here, because I read but didn't reply to one of her messages within 24 hours
To be fair I'd probably do the same
The meet wasn't for a couple of weeks, and some people have lives away from fab as well ya know
Still not a reason to ignore someone for a day
Crikey, you're needy. It was only gonna be a social meet anyway
Oh, and we had been chatting for quite a while beforehand, how much shit can you chat before you meet someone without actually meeting them and having naff all to say to them face to face?
Alot actually"
Well in that case, you would probably bore me anyway |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I once got blocked by someone I was due to meet off here, because I read but didn't reply to one of her messages within 24 hours
To be fair I'd probably do the same
The meet wasn't for a couple of weeks, and some people have lives away from fab as well ya know
Still not a reason to ignore someone for a day
Crikey, you're needy. It was only gonna be a social meet anyway
Oh, and we had been chatting for quite a while beforehand, how much shit can you chat before you meet someone without actually meeting them and having naff all to say to them face to face?
Alot actually
Well in that case, you would probably bore me anyway "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If I was going to meet someone I’d have their number and if I WhatsApp’d them and they left me on read for a day I’d assume they weren’t keen.
Let's all start calling the fit girl needy shall we ? No thought not "
I’ve been here years dude, they all know I’m bat shit! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If I was going to meet someone I’d have their number and if I WhatsApp’d them and they left me on read for a day I’d assume they weren’t keen.
Let's all start calling the fit girl needy shall we ? No thought not
I’ve been here years dude, they all know I’m bat shit! "
If you were a 47 year old bloke I think you would've been in for it aswell |
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