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how would you feel if you met a woman on here who wanted to meet you man behind you back

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By *lder A Wiser Passion OP Woman over a year ago

morecambe

So come on folk what do you think of folk you meet on when you meet as a couple and and then you find out they want to meet your other half behind you back

How would you feel and how would you deal with it

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan over a year ago

Aylesbury

Hurt, betrayed, angry etc.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman over a year ago

On a mooch

Breaking the couples code as far as I’m concerned

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’d challenge her to a duel to the death

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So come on folk what do you think of folk you meet on when you meet as a couple and and then you find out they want to meet your other half behind you back

How would you feel and how would you deal with it"

You back???

Your question doesn't make sense.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan over a year ago

Aylesbury

"I’d challenge her to a duel to the death "

Pistols or swords?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’d challenge her to a duel to the death

Pistols or swords?"

Fists

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By *hMyGawdCouple over a year ago

Midlands

I wouldn't be tempted as I've yet to meet a swinger more attractive than my other half.

- Mr.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd be unsurprised, everyone here is pretty much out for themselves, for many that includes trampling all over the boundaries of others.

Unless my partner was entertaining the idea of being dishonest with me, it's got nothing to do with our relationship

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I wouldn't be tempted as I've yet to meet a swinger more attractive than my other half.

- Mr."

If they were more attractive, would you go for it?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’d challenge her to a duel to the death

Pistols or swords?

Fists "

Can we add a paddling pool full of jelly and grab chairs?

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan over a year ago

Aylesbury

"I’d challenge her to a duel to the death

Pistols or swords?

Fists "

Like a true scot

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’d challenge her to a duel to the death

Pistols or swords?

Fists

Can we add a paddling pool full of jelly and grab chairs?"

No.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I wouldn't be tempted as I've yet to meet a swinger more attractive than my other half.

- Mr.

If they were more attractive, would you go for it?"

That does seem to be the implication!

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

"I'd be unsurprised, everyone here is pretty much out for themselves, for many that includes trampling all over the boundaries of others.

Unless my partner was entertaining the idea of being dishonest with me, it's got nothing to do with our relationship "

This. Although I don't think everyone is.

I'd probably start a thread bitching about her.

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By *hMyGawdCouple over a year ago

Midlands

"If they were more attractive, would you go for it?"

No.

I'm just saying I understand people's temptations when they are with a moose, that's all.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Breaking the couples code as far as I’m concerned "

Totally agree, and they would no longer be considered a person that we would play with.

Trust in our relationship is extremely important to us, as is communication. We would tell each other immediately if this happened to us.

Respect for our relationship is equally important from people that we invite to play with us.

Our relationship is far more important than our swinging lifestyle.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

She's just ruined her chances of meeting either one of us as a couple or separate.

We entered this lifestyle as a couple to share sexy experiences, if we're able to have sex with others why would we need to cheat on eachother

anyone trying to break our trust and bond does not deserve our time. Ps I hope they get the thrush of a thousand cunts.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So come on folk what do you think of folk you meet on when you meet as a couple and and then you find out they want to meet your other half behind you back

How would you feel and how would you deal with it"
I'd tell hubby to fill his boots

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By *lder A Wiser Passion OP Woman over a year ago

morecambe

"She's just ruined her chances of meeting either one of us as a couple or separate.

We entered this lifestyle as a couple to share sexy experiences, if we're able to have sex with others why would we need to cheat on eachother

anyone trying to break our trust and bond does not deserve our time. Ps I hope they get the thrush of a thousand cunts. "
i have a boyfreind on here we met the woman from hell she tryed to push me aside and yes i fucking hate the woman now

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So come on folk what do you think of folk you meet on when you meet as a couple and and then you find out they want to meet your other half behind you back

How would you feel and how would you deal with it

You back???

Your question doesn't make sense."
you know she means your!!

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By *partharmonyCouple over a year ago

Ruislip

If it was a woman joining us wanting to meet Hannah on her own then fair enough. Woman/woman contacts are not a problem to us.

If it was a man wanting to meet Hannah separately or a woman wanting to meet Luke we'd just cut off contact. If nothing had happened I don't think we'd get upset, we'd just go our separate ways.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i get lots of guys from couples profiles wanting to meet behind there swinging partners backs so many that in the end i blocked couples .... so theres alot of people who are couples that swing yet still cheat lol beyond me ....

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

Don't have to feel anything, if you have full trust and agreed swinging rules. Just becomes someone who you don't meet again if unsuitable.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Would never happen. Any side messages if numbers have been swapped are communicated between us if they happen, if they weren't there wouldn't be a relationship.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman over a year ago

all loved up

"So come on folk what do you think of folk you meet on when you meet as a couple and and then you find out they want to meet your other half behind you back

How would you feel and how would you deal with it"
had this happen in the past. I was hurt. Angry and betrayed and felt stupid for thinking just because I would not do that.. others would not

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By *UNCHBOXMan over a year ago

folkestone

I’ve had it the other way where a female half wanted me to meet me behind her hubbies back. Had to turn her down and cut off contact with her as I’ve been cheated on (non swinging) and it’s a horrible when you find out.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd feel betrayed and hurt.

If I wasn't told right away then they'd be welcome to each other. I'd be long gone.

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By *a LunaWoman over a year ago

South Wales

You know when Thor gets his hammer when he’s angry and lightening bolts fly out of it and the sky turns stormy?

It would look like that...but with no lightening bolts.