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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Is it wrong to get annoyed at someone else flirting?

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By *andybeachWoman  over a year ago

In the middle

Yes

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By *ex HolesMan  over a year ago

Up North

Yes, it’s a swingers sex site

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman  over a year ago

On a mooch

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Flirting is good for the soul! Doesn't mean anything and it can provide a nice happy feeling for those involved.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Is it wrong to get annoyed at someone else flirting? "

A bit of context here would help

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Flirting is good for the soul! Doesn't mean anything and it can provide a nice happy feeling for those involved."

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Human emotion isn’t wrong, it’s how you deal with it

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By *eliWoman  over a year ago

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"Human emotion isn’t wrong, it’s how you deal with it"

Yep. Sometimes people do it deliberately to try and get a rise out of you. Others they are doing it because they genuinely enjoy it and it's just a bit of fun and a mood lifter. Try to not give too much thought on it either way and focus on that which makes you truly happy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Here is the context. I just constantly see them flirting with another person and it's pissing me off. I ain't doing anything about it

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Yes, it’s a swingers sex site "

Agreed don't think I'm cut out for it

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan  over a year ago

Northampton

Affirmative

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Here is the context. I just constantly see them flirting with another person and it's pissing me off. I ain't doing anything about it "

Would depend on the "who".

If I saw B flirting loads with someone I didn't like it would piss me right off. Would I do something about it? Even if I didn't, my fucking face would say it all.

P

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Here is the context. I just constantly see them flirting with another person and it's pissing me off. I ain't doing anything about it "

Them?

People on here you mean?

Why would other people's flirty chat piss you off?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Here is the context. I just constantly see them flirting with another person and it's pissing me off. I ain't doing anything about it

Would depend on the "who".

If I saw B flirting loads with someone I didn't like it would piss me right off. Would I do something about it? Even if I didn't, my fucking face would say it all.

P"

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By *wisted999Man  over a year ago

North Bucks

Nature of the site mate.

Be easy dude

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By *icentiousCouple  over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"Nature of the site mate.

Be easy dude "

And tell the person who is getting annoyed at you flirting to think about it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No I love you doing it bro !

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Take a chill pill ,it’s swingers site ,schwwwwwwing

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By *100Man  over a year ago

Essex

I love a bit of flirting it makes my willy tickle lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Here is the context. I just constantly see them flirting with another person and it's pissing me off. I ain't doing anything about it

Would depend on the "who".

If I saw B flirting loads with someone I didn't like it would piss me right off. Would I do something about it? Even if I didn't, my fucking face would say it all.

P"

This, beast is quite flirty naturally but if he was aiming all his flirtiness at one person I would want to know why

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Is it wrong to get annoyed at someone else flirting? "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I met a lass off here a few times like 3/4 we had fun a bit to much fun on her part she started to fall for me

She had meets lined up left right and centre didn't bother me at all but I set a meet I got blocked deleted and screamed at this has put me off multiple meets do not want that again

So be jealous tell her how you feel but don't go feckin bonkers

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Is it wrong to get annoyed at someone else flirting? "

Who's been flirting, sexy boy? xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Here is the context. I just constantly see them flirting with another person and it's pissing me off. I ain't doing anything about it

Would depend on the "who".

If I saw B flirting loads with someone I didn't like it would piss me right off. Would I do something about it? Even if I didn't, my fucking face would say it all.

P"

I don't dislike them lol it's just annoys me tbh

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It depends? Are you going around punching bus stop windows and kicking bins over? Or are you sat there like a hurt human just thinking about kicking bins over?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Why does it annoy you?

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By *a LunaWoman  over a year ago

South Wales

I don’t particularly like seeing someone i’m keen on flirting it up, but then i’m quite a jealous hot tempered nightmare so.....comes with the territory.

Only human. We feel what we feel.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Here is the context. I just constantly see them flirting with another person and it's pissing me off. I ain't doing anything about it

Them?

People on here you mean?

Why would other people's flirty chat piss you off?

"

Dunno it just does piss me off because I thought they fancied me but seems like they don't tbh

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Is it wrong to get annoyed at someone else flirting?

Who's been flirting, sexy boy? xxx

"

Not you for a start

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Here is the context. I just constantly see them flirting with another person and it's pissing me off. I ain't doing anything about it

Them?

People on here you mean?

Why would other people's flirty chat piss you off?

Dunno it just does piss me off because I thought they fancied me but seems like they don't tbh "

People can fancy more than one person ya know. Is it on fab or in the big bad world?

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman  over a year ago

On a mooch


"Here is the context. I just constantly see them flirting with another person and it's pissing me off. I ain't doing anything about it

Them?

People on here you mean?

Why would other people's flirty chat piss you off?

Dunno it just does piss me off because I thought they fancied me but seems like they don't tbh "

That’s the thing with this site, they might fancy you, but also many others. It could also just be flirty banter. It’s how you deal with it OP

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Do you think they’re flirting to make you jealous?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Here is the context. I just constantly see them flirting with another person and it's pissing me off. I ain't doing anything about it

Them?

People on here you mean?

Why would other people's flirty chat piss you off?

Dunno it just does piss me off because I thought they fancied me but seems like they don't tbh

People can fancy more than one person ya know. Is it on fab or in the big bad world?"

Yeah but I just thought they did but now I've seen them flirting with this other person it seems diff so makes me think they don't actually fancy me.

It's more my ego annoying me tbh

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Do you think they’re flirting to make you jealous?"

No defo not

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Here is the context. I just constantly see them flirting with another person and it's pissing me off. I ain't doing anything about it

Them?

People on here you mean?

Why would other people's flirty chat piss you off?

Dunno it just does piss me off because I thought they fancied me but seems like they don't tbh

People can fancy more than one person ya know. Is it on fab or in the big bad world?

Yeah but I just thought they did but now I've seen them flirting with this other person it seems diff so makes me think they don't actually fancy me.

It's more my ego annoying me tbh "

At least you’re self aware enough to admit it’s your ego

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/stories/967074

My thoughts on this of it’s of any interest

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I hate flirting cos I’m shite at it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Here is the context. I just constantly see them flirting with another person and it's pissing me off. I ain't doing anything about it

Them?

People on here you mean?

Why would other people's flirty chat piss you off?

Dunno it just does piss me off because I thought they fancied me but seems like they don't tbh

That’s the thing with this site, they might fancy you, but also many others. It could also just be flirty banter. It’s how you deal with it OP"

I'm not dealing with it anyway really just wanted people's thoughts just gonna leave it at me being pissed off

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By *ed-monkeyCouple  over a year ago

Hailsham


"Here is the context. I just constantly see them flirting with another person and it's pissing me off. I ain't doing anything about it

Them?

People on here you mean?

Why would other people's flirty chat piss you off?

Dunno it just does piss me off because I thought they fancied me but seems like they don't tbh

That’s the thing with this site, they might fancy you, but also many others. It could also just be flirty banter. It’s how you deal with it OP

I'm not dealing with it anyway really just wanted people's thoughts just gonna leave it at me being pissed off "

Someone has the will power to resist your advances and spurn you for someone else??

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm curious, is this someone you've met?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Here is the context. I just constantly see them flirting with another person and it's pissing me off. I ain't doing anything about it

Them?

People on here you mean?

Why would other people's flirty chat piss you off?

Dunno it just does piss me off because I thought they fancied me but seems like they don't tbh

That’s the thing with this site, they might fancy you, but also many others. It could also just be flirty banter. It’s how you deal with it OP

I'm not dealing with it anyway really just wanted people's thoughts just gonna leave it at me being pissed off

Someone has the will power to resist your advances and spurn you for someone else?? "

Exactly this is my problem I think

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I'm curious, is this someone you've met? "

No

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By *orraine999Woman  over a year ago

Somewhere

If the flirting leads to a meet which leads to more, isn't that why we're all here?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"If the flirting leads to a meet which leads to more, isn't that why we're all here?"

Yes exactly. I'm just annoyed because they prefer someone else over me that's all. Maybe my ego is too big who would've thought

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm curious, is this someone you've met?

No"

So you're jealous that someone on a swinging site that you haven't even met is not giving you the attention you want?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Is it wrong to get annoyed at someone else flirting? "

If it's someone on a swinging site who you've never met/you're not in some sort of exclusive relationship with. Then yeah, I'd say it is.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I'm curious, is this someone you've met?

No

So you're jealous that someone on a swinging site that you haven't even met is not giving you the attention you want?

"

No giving someone else the attention I want. Not jealous just annoyed

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By *aitonelMan  over a year ago

Liverpool


"I'm curious, is this someone you've met?

No

So you're jealous that someone on a swinging site that you haven't even met is not giving you the attention you want?

No giving someone else the attention I want. Not jealous just annoyed "

That is jealous...

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman  over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Is it me again ?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman  over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

and no it's not wrong

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm curious, is this someone you've met?

No

So you're jealous that someone on a swinging site that you haven't even met is not giving you the attention you want?

No giving someone else the attention I want. Not jealous just annoyed "

Well done for admitting it however grubby those feelings are. Now comes the fun part of learning to live with it and personal growth. Man.

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By *ed-monkeyCouple  over a year ago

Hailsham


"Is it me again ?"

No it's me, the monkey

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Is it wrong to get annoyed at someone else flirting?

If it's someone on a swinging site who you've never met/you're not in some sort of exclusive relationship with. Then yeah, I'd say it is."

Fair

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I'm curious, is this someone you've met?

No

So you're jealous that someone on a swinging site that you haven't even met is not giving you the attention you want?

No giving someone else the attention I want. Not jealous just annoyed

That is jealous... "

Really I'm not jealous of the person they're flirting with so please explain

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"and no it's not wrong"
yes and thanks GC

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm curious, is this someone you've met?

No

So you're jealous that someone on a swinging site that you haven't even met is not giving you the attention you want?

No giving someone else the attention I want. Not jealous just annoyed "

So less jealous and more possessive is how you see it? And it's someone you've not met.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman  over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Is it me again ?

No it's me, the monkey"

You must stop teasing. He's delicate.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I'm curious, is this someone you've met?

No

So you're jealous that someone on a swinging site that you haven't even met is not giving you the attention you want?

No giving someone else the attention I want. Not jealous just annoyed

Well done for admitting it however grubby those feelings are. Now comes the fun part of learning to live with it and personal growth. Man. "

It hasn't really affected me that much just annoying lol don't like being 2nd best

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By *aitonelMan  over a year ago

Liverpool


"I'm curious, is this someone you've met?

No

So you're jealous that someone on a swinging site that you haven't even met is not giving you the attention you want?

No giving someone else the attention I want. Not jealous just annoyed

That is jealous...

Really I'm not jealous of the person they're flirting with so please explain "

Fair enough, it may not be jealous. It is envious though, two sides of the same coin. Doesn't matter if you are annoyed, you want what somebody else has.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I'm curious, is this someone you've met?

No

So you're jealous that someone on a swinging site that you haven't even met is not giving you the attention you want?

No giving someone else the attention I want. Not jealous just annoyed

So less jealous and more possessive is how you see it? And it's someone you've not met."

I don't think you understand what I'm saying. How is it possessive to get annoyed that someone prefers someone else to me??, I haven't told them and I am not showing them that I'm annoyed and just leaving it at that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I'm curious, is this someone you've met?

No

So you're jealous that someone on a swinging site that you haven't even met is not giving you the attention you want?

No giving someone else the attention I want. Not jealous just annoyed

That is jealous...

Really I'm not jealous of the person they're flirting with so please explain

Fair enough, it may not be jealous. It is envious though, two sides of the same coin. Doesn't matter if you are annoyed, you want what somebody else has. "

Not I'm not envious. I don't want them if I'm not there first choice

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I dont understand this thread

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By *emini ManMan  over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"I dont understand this thread"

Welcome to Fab Sapster

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By *hunky GentMan  over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I dont understand this thread"

Does it annoy you that you don't understand? Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I dont understand this thread"

What part don't you get ??

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm curious, is this someone you've met?

No

So you're jealous that someone on a swinging site that you haven't even met is not giving you the attention you want?

No giving someone else the attention I want. Not jealous just annoyed

That is jealous...

Really I'm not jealous of the person they're flirting with so please explain

Fair enough, it may not be jealous. It is envious though, two sides of the same coin. Doesn't matter if you are annoyed, you want what somebody else has.

Not I'm not envious. I don't want them if I'm not there first choice "

Maybe try tinder, this is a swingers site not dating. Women love the attention as do some of us fellas and on here there are alot more fellas than women sadly. At the end of rhe day she is allowed to do as she pleases, if it makes you feel uncomfortable you are in the wrong place

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By *emini ManMan  over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"I'm curious, is this someone you've met?

No

So you're jealous that someone on a swinging site that you haven't even met is not giving you the attention you want?

No giving someone else the attention I want. Not jealous just annoyed

So less jealous and more possessive is how you see it? And it's someone you've not met.

I don't think you understand what I'm saying. How is it possessive to get annoyed that someone prefers someone else to me??, I haven't told them and I am not showing them that I'm annoyed and just leaving it at that."

By posting a thread about it you're doing exactly that albeit indirectly

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By *abs..Woman  over a year ago

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They are your feelings so it can’t be wrong as such. People often flirt and it can be with multiple people - right before they move on to someone else. Try not to focus on it otherwise it will drive you nuts

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It's a bit ridiculous if you ask me

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I dont understand this thread

Welcome to Fab Sapster "

Thanks Mr Gemini

I'm only a little,naive,newbie girly

Can you help me please?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I'm curious, is this someone you've met?

No

So you're jealous that someone on a swinging site that you haven't even met is not giving you the attention you want?

No giving someone else the attention I want. Not jealous just annoyed

That is jealous...

Really I'm not jealous of the person they're flirting with so please explain

Fair enough, it may not be jealous. It is envious though, two sides of the same coin. Doesn't matter if you are annoyed, you want what somebody else has.

Not I'm not envious. I don't want them if I'm not there first choice

Maybe try tinder, this is a swingers site not dating. Women love the attention as do some of us fellas and on here there are alot more fellas than women sadly. At the end of rhe day she is allowed to do as she pleases, if it makes you feel uncomfortable you are in the wrong place "

I don't feel uncomfortable whatsoever and I'm on tinder -cheers

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I'm curious, is this someone you've met?

No

So you're jealous that someone on a swinging site that you haven't even met is not giving you the attention you want?

No giving someone else the attention I want. Not jealous just annoyed

So less jealous and more possessive is how you see it? And it's someone you've not met.

I don't think you understand what I'm saying. How is it possessive to get annoyed that someone prefers someone else to me??, I haven't told them and I am not showing them that I'm annoyed and just leaving it at that.

By posting a thread about it you're doing exactly that albeit indirectly "

Oh dear god what an absolute ridiculous statement

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

At least you’re honest enough to admit it OP.

V x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yes, it’s a swingers sex site

Agreed don't think I'm cut out for it "

it eventually moves on from flirting how will you deal with that

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By *emini ManMan  over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"I dont understand this thread

Welcome to Fab Sapster

Thanks Mr Gemini

I'm only a little,naive,newbie girly

Can you help me please?"

Well first off you let the man put his finger in your belly button (but only if he's wearing rubber gloves) then you watch all the other men get jealous and smile sweetly at them until the next one puts the marigolds on...

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By *SAchickWoman  over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"At least you’re honest enough to admit it OP.

V x"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I dont understand this thread

Welcome to Fab Sapster

Thanks Mr Gemini

I'm only a little,naive,newbie girly

Can you help me please?

Well first off you let the man put his finger in your belly button (but only if he's wearing rubber gloves) then you watch all the other men get jealous and smile sweetly at them until the next one puts the marigolds on..."

My goodness, yes. They will have to be wearing rubber gloves

I dont know where they've been

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I’d say if it’s making you feel like this before you’ve even met then your feelings will only intensify once you’ve met. The fear that you have of losing them will be the thing that pushes them away. At this stage I would advise you to step back from the situation, try and (discreetly) find a distraction so you’re not focused on them, and then there’ll be a slight shift in the dynamics as they pick up on the fact you’re not completely hung up on them anymore.

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By *hunky GentMan  over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"

My goodness, yes. They will have to be wearing rubber gloves

I dont know where they've been"

The rubber glove factory.

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By *emini ManMan  over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"I dont understand this thread

Welcome to Fab Sapster

Thanks Mr Gemini

I'm only a little,naive,newbie girly

Can you help me please?

Well first off you let the man put his finger in your belly button (but only if he's wearing rubber gloves) then you watch all the other men get jealous and smile sweetly at them until the next one puts the marigolds on...

My goodness, yes. They will have to be wearing rubber gloves

I dont know where they've been"

Exactly...picking their noses, scratching their bums...could have been anywhere

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By *iss.HoneyWoman  over a year ago

...


"Human emotion isn’t wrong, it’s how you deal with it

Yep. Sometimes people do it deliberately to try and get a rise out of you. Others they are doing it because they genuinely enjoy it and it's just a bit of fun and a mood lifter. Try to not give too much thought on it either way and focus on that which makes you truly happy. "

I'm one of those annoyers.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yes!

No?

Fancy a fuck anyone

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By *emini ManMan  over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"I'm curious, is this someone you've met?

No

So you're jealous that someone on a swinging site that you haven't even met is not giving you the attention you want?

No giving someone else the attention I want. Not jealous just annoyed

So less jealous and more possessive is how you see it? And it's someone you've not met.

I don't think you understand what I'm saying. How is it possessive to get annoyed that someone prefers someone else to me??, I haven't told them and I am not showing them that I'm annoyed and just leaving it at that.

By posting a thread about it you're doing exactly that albeit indirectly

Oh dear god what an absolute ridiculous statement"

How is it ridiculous? You're broadcasting your annoyance and possessiveness across the forums to all and sundry that read them (including possibly the person in question) - I wouldn't think that makes my suggestion as ridiculous as you say

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"It's a bit ridiculous if you ask me"

What's ridiculous?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It's a bit ridiculous if you ask me

What's ridiculous?"

it is

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By *iss.HoneyWoman  over a year ago

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"It's a bit ridiculous if you ask me

What's ridiculous?"

Getting jealous of flirting in the ether presumably.

Unless some bitch is licking his balls and flashing her gaping hole...we gotta be restrained.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It's a bit ridiculous if you ask me

What's ridiculous?"

Being annoyed at someone flirting as per your original post

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By *aitonelMan  over a year ago

Liverpool


"It's a bit ridiculous if you ask me

What's ridiculous?it is "

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I’d say if it’s making you feel like this before you’ve even met then your feelings will only intensify once you’ve met. The fear that you have of losing them will be the thing that pushes them away. At this stage I would advise you to step back from the situation, try and (discreetly) find a distraction so you’re not focused on them, and then there’ll be a slight shift in the dynamics as they pick up on the fact you’re not completely hung up on them anymore. "

Honestly I'm not sitting here constantly thinking about them getting annoyed about how they prefer someone else. Each to there own I don't have strong feelings for them. They can do what they like, my post really should have said would it annoy you this is more what my thread is about not a look at me and feel sorry for me

I haven't come to an arrangement with this person I just chat to them constantly that's about it really it's just pissed me off because they fancy this person and not me I'm not making a big deal of it.

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By *uke OzadeMan  over a year ago

Ho Chi Minge City


"It's a bit ridiculous if you ask me

What's ridiculous?

Getting jealous of flirting in the ether presumably.

Unless some bitch is licking his balls and flashing her gaping hole...we gotta be restrained. "

Would you lick my balls and flash your gaping hole or would this be classed as unashamedly flirting?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

You think it's ridiculous that I'm annoyed because she prefers someone else to me???? I wouldn't call that ridiculous surely that's human nature

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By *B69Woman  over a year ago

Wiltshire

Why don’t you arrange to meet the person if you like them that much

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By *iss.HoneyWoman  over a year ago

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"It's a bit ridiculous if you ask me

What's ridiculous?

Getting jealous of flirting in the ether presumably.

Unless some bitch is licking his balls and flashing her gaping hole...we gotta be restrained.

Would you lick my balls and flash your gaping hole or would this be classed as unashamedly flirting? "

I don't have a gaping hole...

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I'm curious, is this someone you've met?

No

So you're jealous that someone on a swinging site that you haven't even met is not giving you the attention you want?

No giving someone else the attention I want. Not jealous just annoyed

So less jealous and more possessive is how you see it? And it's someone you've not met.

I don't think you understand what I'm saying. How is it possessive to get annoyed that someone prefers someone else to me??, I haven't told them and I am not showing them that I'm annoyed and just leaving it at that.

By posting a thread about it you're doing exactly that albeit indirectly

Oh dear god what an absolute ridiculous statement

How is it ridiculous? You're broadcasting your annoyance and possessiveness across the forums to all and sundry that read them (including possibly the person in question) - I wouldn't think that makes my suggestion as ridiculous as you say"

I'm broadcasting my possessiveness dear god.

The person in question will not have a clue it's them and how can you broadcast possessiveness? All I've said is it's annoyed me. Stop twisting my words.

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By *uke OzadeMan  over a year ago

Ho Chi Minge City


"It's a bit ridiculous if you ask me

What's ridiculous?

Getting jealous of flirting in the ether presumably.

Unless some bitch is licking his balls and flashing her gaping hole...we gotta be restrained.

Would you lick my balls and flash your gaping hole or would this be classed as unashamedly flirting?

I don't have a gaping hole... "

Needs work but we will get there!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Why don’t you arrange to meet the person if you like them that much"

Don't want to meet them yet

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It's a bit ridiculous if you ask me

What's ridiculous?

Getting jealous of flirting in the ether presumably.

Unless some bitch is licking his balls and flashing her gaping hole...we gotta be restrained.

Would you lick my balls and flash your gaping hole or would this be classed as unashamedly flirting?

I don't have a gaping hole... "

have you ever got a hole in one?

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By *iss.HoneyWoman  over a year ago

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"You think it's ridiculous that I'm annoyed because she prefers someone else to me???? I wouldn't call that ridiculous surely that's human nature "

Did we answer wrong?

That slag.. she doesn't know what she missing...bitch. teach her a lesson.

Flirting little hussy.

Wait no. Still don't care. Have a cry wank, you'll be grand.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman  over a year ago

On a mooch


"You think it's ridiculous that I'm annoyed because she prefers someone else to me???? I wouldn't call that ridiculous surely that's human nature "

Yes OP it’s human nature. Referring back to your original question, it’s not something that works on this site though

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By *iss.HoneyWoman  over a year ago

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"It's a bit ridiculous if you ask me

What's ridiculous?

Getting jealous of flirting in the ether presumably.

Unless some bitch is licking his balls and flashing her gaping hole...we gotta be restrained.

Would you lick my balls and flash your gaping hole or would this be classed as unashamedly flirting?

I don't have a gaping hole... have you ever got a hole in one? "

Only when the wind blows in the right direction

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"You think it's ridiculous that I'm annoyed because she prefers someone else to me???? I wouldn't call that ridiculous surely that's human nature "

Yes, accept it and move on.

You said you thought she fancied you, if she doesn't then no point in being annoyed about it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"You think it's ridiculous that I'm annoyed because she prefers someone else to me???? I wouldn't call that ridiculous surely that's human nature

Did we answer wrong?

That slag.. she doesn't know what she missing...bitch. teach her a lesson.

Flirting little hussy.

Wait no. Still don't care. Have a cry wank, you'll be grand."

how old are you

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"You think it's ridiculous that I'm annoyed because she prefers someone else to me???? I wouldn't call that ridiculous surely that's human nature

Yes OP it’s human nature. Referring back to your original question, it’s not something that works on this site though "

What doesn't work ?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It's a bit ridiculous if you ask me

What's ridiculous?

Getting jealous of flirting in the ether presumably.

Unless some bitch is licking his balls and flashing her gaping hole...we gotta be restrained.

Would you lick my balls and flash your gaping hole or would this be classed as unashamedly flirting?

I don't have a gaping hole... have you ever got a hole in one?

Only when the wind blows in the right direction "

that'll be the sprouts

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"You think it's ridiculous that I'm annoyed because she prefers someone else to me???? I wouldn't call that ridiculous surely that's human nature

Yes, accept it and move on.

You said you thought she fancied you, if she doesn't then no point in being annoyed about it. "

So it wouldn't annoy you do you not have emotions

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By *iss.HoneyWoman  over a year ago

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"You think it's ridiculous that I'm annoyed because she prefers someone else to me???? I wouldn't call that ridiculous surely that's human nature

Did we answer wrong?

That slag.. she doesn't know what she missing...bitch. teach her a lesson.

Flirting little hussy.

Wait no. Still don't care. Have a cry wank, you'll be grand.

how old are you "

57. Now get to bed. You'll be late for school.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"You think it's ridiculous that I'm annoyed because she prefers someone else to me???? I wouldn't call that ridiculous surely that's human nature

Did we answer wrong?

That slag.. she doesn't know what she missing...bitch. teach her a lesson.

Flirting little hussy.

Wait no. Still don't care. Have a cry wank, you'll be grand.

how old are you

57. Now get to bed. You'll be late for school."

Wow

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By *eliWoman  over a year ago

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"Human emotion isn’t wrong, it’s how you deal with it

Yep. Sometimes people do it deliberately to try and get a rise out of you. Others they are doing it because they genuinely enjoy it and it's just a bit of fun and a mood lifter. Try to not give too much thought on it either way and focus on that which makes you truly happy.

I'm one of those annoyers. "

Yes you are. You own it so it's grand.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman  over a year ago

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"Human emotion isn’t wrong, it’s how you deal with it

Yep. Sometimes people do it deliberately to try and get a rise out of you. Others they are doing it because they genuinely enjoy it and it's just a bit of fun and a mood lifter. Try to not give too much thought on it either way and focus on that which makes you truly happy.

I'm one of those annoyers.

Yes you are. You own it so it's grand. "

Cares not. One must make ones own amusement

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"You think it's ridiculous that I'm annoyed because she prefers someone else to me???? I wouldn't call that ridiculous surely that's human nature

Did we answer wrong?

That slag.. she doesn't know what she missing...bitch. teach her a lesson.

Flirting little hussy.

Wait no. Still don't care. Have a cry wank, you'll be grand.

how old are you

57. Now get to bed. You'll be late for school."

shes 35

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By *B69Woman  over a year ago

Wiltshire

How do you know she prefers them to you?

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By *iss.HoneyWoman  over a year ago

...


"You think it's ridiculous that I'm annoyed because she prefers someone else to me???? I wouldn't call that ridiculous surely that's human nature

Did we answer wrong?

That slag.. she doesn't know what she missing...bitch. teach her a lesson.

Flirting little hussy.

Wait no. Still don't care. Have a cry wank, you'll be grand.

how old are you

57. Now get to bed. You'll be late for school.

Wow "

Come on pickle, I'll tuck you in with a story

'Once upon a time there lived a man who was in love with a princess, the princess loved the stable boy...and so the man burned down the stable. The end'

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"How do you know she prefers them to you?"

I just know, it is what it is I'm not even that annoyed about it there's plenty more fish in the sea.

It's some of the people on this thread who are annoying me 10x as they all seem to be sociopaths. It's as if because your on fab you shouldn't have feelings it's quite sad really

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"You think it's ridiculous that I'm annoyed because she prefers someone else to me???? I wouldn't call that ridiculous surely that's human nature

Did we answer wrong?

That slag.. she doesn't know what she missing...bitch. teach her a lesson.

Flirting little hussy.

Wait no. Still don't care. Have a cry wank, you'll be grand.

how old are you

57. Now get to bed. You'll be late for school.

Wow

Come on pickle, I'll tuck you in with a story

'Once upon a time there lived a man who was in love with a princess, the princess loved the stable boy...and so the man burned down the stable. The end'"

Grow up you child

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"You think it's ridiculous that I'm annoyed because she prefers someone else to me???? I wouldn't call that ridiculous surely that's human nature

Yes, accept it and move on.

You said you thought she fancied you, if she doesn't then no point in being annoyed about it.

So it wouldn't annoy you do you not have emotions "

No, it wouldn't annoy me. I'd accept it and move on

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By *iss.HoneyWoman  over a year ago

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"You think it's ridiculous that I'm annoyed because she prefers someone else to me???? I wouldn't call that ridiculous surely that's human nature

Did we answer wrong?

That slag.. she doesn't know what she missing...bitch. teach her a lesson.

Flirting little hussy.

Wait no. Still don't care. Have a cry wank, you'll be grand.

how old are you

57. Now get to bed. You'll be late for school.

Wow

Come on pickle, I'll tuck you in with a story

'Once upon a time there lived a man who was in love with a princess, the princess loved the stable boy...and so the man burned down the stable. The end'

Grow up you child "

P.s

It probably would annoy me, initially. But after being a bit of a twat and letting them know I was annoyed I would get over it. Slowly

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"You think it's ridiculous that I'm annoyed because she prefers someone else to me???? I wouldn't call that ridiculous surely that's human nature

Yes, accept it and move on.

You said you thought she fancied you, if she doesn't then no point in being annoyed about it.

So it wouldn't annoy you do you not have emotions

No, it wouldn't annoy me. I'd accept it and move on"

You'd accept that someone who you thought fancied but clearly fancies someone else more than you wouldn't annoy you? I moved on after about 20 minutes but that initial annoyance was there. It's a simple question you've said no. I would hardly call it ridiculous

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"You think it's ridiculous that I'm annoyed because she prefers someone else to me???? I wouldn't call that ridiculous surely that's human nature "

On fab nothing really is ever fair and that’s whether you’re the chooser or the chosen.

If you’re talking to a pool of 5 people one of those will stand out over the rest and that one might be the last person you started speaking to. You don’t want to make anyone feel bad or feel like they’re taking a ticket at the deli to meet you, you can’t exactly say yeah I like you but there’s someone else who I just want to meet that little bit more. Also if you’re one of the chosen and you think things are going well, at any given moment someone else could rise to the top and it becomes a perpetuous cycle of annoyance or hurt feelings.

My advise and I’d take it if I were you cos I’m bat shit crazy or was I should say, anyone remember yazoo? I’ve been there when I’ve been jealous or annoyed at people flirting. Just take a step back, get another distraction. Acknowledge that it does hurt your feelings to think someone fancies someone else over you or more than you, do just pull back and they’ll sense that you have and will come back to you to gain your attention again.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"You think it's ridiculous that I'm annoyed because she prefers someone else to me???? I wouldn't call that ridiculous surely that's human nature

On fab nothing really is ever fair and that’s whether you’re the chooser or the chosen.

If you’re talking to a pool of 5 people one of those will stand out over the rest and that one might be the last person you started speaking to. You don’t want to make anyone feel bad or feel like they’re taking a ticket at the deli to meet you, you can’t exactly say yeah I like you but there’s someone else who I just want to meet that little bit more. Also if you’re one of the chosen and you think things are going well, at any given moment someone else could rise to the top and it becomes a perpetuous cycle of annoyance or hurt feelings.

My advise and I’d take it if I were you cos I’m bat shit crazy or was I should say, anyone remember yazoo? I’ve been there when I’ve been jealous or annoyed at people flirting. Just take a step back, get another distraction. Acknowledge that it does hurt your feelings to think someone fancies someone else over you or more than you, do just pull back and they’ll sense that you have and will come back to you to gain your attention again. "

Honestly it's over and done with I'm over it . Also you wear socks and sliders so obviously you know what your on about

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By *emini ManMan  over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"I'm curious, is this someone you've met?

No

So you're jealous that someone on a swinging site that you haven't even met is not giving you the attention you want?

No giving someone else the attention I want. Not jealous just annoyed

So less jealous and more possessive is how you see it? And it's someone you've not met.

I don't think you understand what I'm saying. How is it possessive to get annoyed that someone prefers someone else to me??, I haven't told them and I am not showing them that I'm annoyed and just leaving it at that.

By posting a thread about it you're doing exactly that albeit indirectly

Oh dear god what an absolute ridiculous statement

How is it ridiculous? You're broadcasting your annoyance and possessiveness across the forums to all and sundry that read them (including possibly the person in question) - I wouldn't think that makes my suggestion as ridiculous as you say

I'm broadcasting my possessiveness dear god.

The person in question will not have a clue it's them and how can you broadcast possessiveness? All I've said is it's annoyed me. Stop twisting my words."

The person in question won't have a clue? Anyone that you have been messaging constantly (your words not mine) would at least suspect you're referring to them.

And you can quite easily broadcast possessiveness by posting a forum thread about your annoyance at the fact someone you talk to flirts with others - it really is that simple and no words have been twisted just basic observations based on your posts

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By *iss.HoneyWoman  over a year ago

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"You think it's ridiculous that I'm annoyed because she prefers someone else to me???? I wouldn't call that ridiculous surely that's human nature

On fab nothing really is ever fair and that’s whether you’re the chooser or the chosen.

If you’re talking to a pool of 5 people one of those will stand out over the rest and that one might be the last person you started speaking to. You don’t want to make anyone feel bad or feel like they’re taking a ticket at the deli to meet you, you can’t exactly say yeah I like you but there’s someone else who I just want to meet that little bit more. Also if you’re one of the chosen and you think things are going well, at any given moment someone else could rise to the top and it becomes a perpetuous cycle of annoyance or hurt feelings.

My advise and I’d take it if I were you cos I’m bat shit crazy or was I should say, anyone remember yazoo? I’ve been there when I’ve been jealous or annoyed at people flirting. Just take a step back, get another distraction. Acknowledge that it does hurt your feelings to think someone fancies someone else over you or more than you, do just pull back and they’ll sense that you have and will come back to you to gain your attention again. "

Oh fucking yazoo was epic..never do that again

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I'm curious, is this someone you've met?

No

So you're jealous that someone on a swinging site that you haven't even met is not giving you the attention you want?

No giving someone else the attention I want. Not jealous just annoyed

So less jealous and more possessive is how you see it? And it's someone you've not met.

I don't think you understand what I'm saying. How is it possessive to get annoyed that someone prefers someone else to me??, I haven't told them and I am not showing them that I'm annoyed and just leaving it at that.

By posting a thread about it you're doing exactly that albeit indirectly

Oh dear god what an absolute ridiculous statement

How is it ridiculous? You're broadcasting your annoyance and possessiveness across the forums to all and sundry that read them (including possibly the person in question) - I wouldn't think that makes my suggestion as ridiculous as you say

I'm broadcasting my possessiveness dear god.

The person in question will not have a clue it's them and how can you broadcast possessiveness? All I've said is it's annoyed me. Stop twisting my words.

The person in question won't have a clue? Anyone that you have been messaging constantly (your words not mine) would at least suspect you're referring to them.

And you can quite easily broadcast possessiveness by posting a forum thread about your annoyance at the fact someone you talk to flirts with others - it really is that simple and no words have been twisted just basic observations based on your posts "

I speak to alot of people constantly, this person on question probably has no idea that I'm even that fussed on them I don't make it clear so your wrong in that aspect.

It's not possessiveness either if I told someone I'm annoyed that they like someone else it's having hurt feelings not possessiveness so maybe chose your words more carefully next time.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"How do you know she prefers them to you?

I just know, it is what it is I'm not even that annoyed about it there's plenty more fish in the sea.

It's some of the people on this thread who are annoying me 10x as they all seem to be sociopaths. It's as if because your on fab you shouldn't have feelings it's quite sad really"

Personally I don't think not being jealous because someone you've PM'd on a swinging site and have never met is flirting with someone else on the forums makes someone devoid of feelings and certainly doesn't make them a sociopath.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"How do you know she prefers them to you?

I just know, it is what it is I'm not even that annoyed about it there's plenty more fish in the sea.

It's some of the people on this thread who are annoying me 10x as they all seem to be sociopaths. It's as if because your on fab you shouldn't have feelings it's quite sad really

Personally I don't think not being jealous because someone you've PM'd on a swinging site and have never met is flirting with someone else on the forums makes someone devoid of feelings and certainly doesn't make them a sociopath."

As I've said I'm not jealous I was annoyed.

Secondly alot of people on here seem to think it's wrong to have any type of feeling about anything which I have seen from past threads alot. As soon as anyone talks about feelings it suddenly comes tabboo it's abit pathetic really

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"You think it's ridiculous that I'm annoyed because she prefers someone else to me???? I wouldn't call that ridiculous surely that's human nature

On fab nothing really is ever fair and that’s whether you’re the chooser or the chosen.

If you’re talking to a pool of 5 people one of those will stand out over the rest and that one might be the last person you started speaking to. You don’t want to make anyone feel bad or feel like they’re taking a ticket at the deli to meet you, you can’t exactly say yeah I like you but there’s someone else who I just want to meet that little bit more. Also if you’re one of the chosen and you think things are going well, at any given moment someone else could rise to the top and it becomes a perpetuous cycle of annoyance or hurt feelings.

My advise and I’d take it if I were you cos I’m bat shit crazy or was I should say, anyone remember yazoo? I’ve been there when I’ve been jealous or annoyed at people flirting. Just take a step back, get another distraction. Acknowledge that it does hurt your feelings to think someone fancies someone else over you or more than you, do just pull back and they’ll sense that you have and will come back to you to gain your attention again.

Oh fucking yazoo was epic..never do that again "

Every time I hear Alison Moyet I think of being crazy! I’d like to think I’ve calmed down a lot since. 2017 was a horrific year for me But it’s all okay now and worked out in my favour.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman  over a year ago

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"You think it's ridiculous that I'm annoyed because she prefers someone else to me???? I wouldn't call that ridiculous surely that's human nature

On fab nothing really is ever fair and that’s whether you’re the chooser or the chosen.

If you’re talking to a pool of 5 people one of those will stand out over the rest and that one might be the last person you started speaking to. You don’t want to make anyone feel bad or feel like they’re taking a ticket at the deli to meet you, you can’t exactly say yeah I like you but there’s someone else who I just want to meet that little bit more. Also if you’re one of the chosen and you think things are going well, at any given moment someone else could rise to the top and it becomes a perpetuous cycle of annoyance or hurt feelings.

My advise and I’d take it if I were you cos I’m bat shit crazy or was I should say, anyone remember yazoo? I’ve been there when I’ve been jealous or annoyed at people flirting. Just take a step back, get another distraction. Acknowledge that it does hurt your feelings to think someone fancies someone else over you or more than you, do just pull back and they’ll sense that you have and will come back to you to gain your attention again.

Oh fucking yazoo was epic..never do that again

Every time I hear Alison Moyet I think of being crazy! I’d like to think I’ve calmed down a lot since. 2017 was a horrific year for me But it’s all okay now and worked out in my favour. "

2017 was a bag of dicks. 2020 will be better, it's the year of mad-dog

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By *ssex_tomMan  over a year ago

Chelmsford


"You think it's ridiculous that I'm annoyed because she prefers someone else to me???? I wouldn't call that ridiculous surely that's human nature

On fab nothing really is ever fair and that’s whether you’re the chooser or the chosen.

If you’re talking to a pool of 5 people one of those will stand out over the rest and that one might be the last person you started speaking to. You don’t want to make anyone feel bad or feel like they’re taking a ticket at the deli to meet you, you can’t exactly say yeah I like you but there’s someone else who I just want to meet that little bit more. Also if you’re one of the chosen and you think things are going well, at any given moment someone else could rise to the top and it becomes a perpetuous cycle of annoyance or hurt feelings.

My advise and I’d take it if I were you cos I’m bat shit crazy or was I should say, anyone remember yazoo? I’ve been there when I’ve been jealous or annoyed at people flirting. Just take a step back, get another distraction. Acknowledge that it does hurt your feelings to think someone fancies someone else over you or more than you, do just pull back and they’ll sense that you have and will come back to you to gain your attention again.

Oh fucking yazoo was epic..never do that again

Every time I hear Alison Moyet I think of being crazy! I’d like to think I’ve calmed down a lot since. 2017 was a horrific year for me But it’s all okay now and worked out in my favour. "

What happened in 2017 ?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"You think it's ridiculous that I'm annoyed because she prefers someone else to me???? I wouldn't call that ridiculous surely that's human nature

On fab nothing really is ever fair and that’s whether you’re the chooser or the chosen.

If you’re talking to a pool of 5 people one of those will stand out over the rest and that one might be the last person you started speaking to. You don’t want to make anyone feel bad or feel like they’re taking a ticket at the deli to meet you, you can’t exactly say yeah I like you but there’s someone else who I just want to meet that little bit more. Also if you’re one of the chosen and you think things are going well, at any given moment someone else could rise to the top and it becomes a perpetuous cycle of annoyance or hurt feelings.

My advise and I’d take it if I were you cos I’m bat shit crazy or was I should say, anyone remember yazoo? I’ve been there when I’ve been jealous or annoyed at people flirting. Just take a step back, get another distraction. Acknowledge that it does hurt your feelings to think someone fancies someone else over you or more than you, do just pull back and they’ll sense that you have and will come back to you to gain your attention again.

Oh fucking yazoo was epic..never do that again

Every time I hear Alison Moyet I think of being crazy! I’d like to think I’ve calmed down a lot since. 2017 was a horrific year for me But it’s all okay now and worked out in my favour.

2017 was a bag of dicks. 2020 will be better, it's the year of mad-dog"

Ooooh that takes me back, strawberry mad dog 20/20 and some hooch please!

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By *uesdaysfundayCouple  over a year ago

Sandbach

Did I miss understand something. She was flirting with both of you and now because you think she looked more interested in the other guy you are stepping back. Did you ask whether she was still interested in seeing her? She may be wondering why you suddenly stop messaging. Waiting for your email.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"How do you know she prefers them to you?

I just know, it is what it is I'm not even that annoyed about it there's plenty more fish in the sea.

It's some of the people on this thread who are annoying me 10x as they all seem to be sociopaths. It's as if because your on fab you shouldn't have feelings it's quite sad really

Personally I don't think not being jealous because someone you've PM'd on a swinging site and have never met is flirting with someone else on the forums makes someone devoid of feelings and certainly doesn't make them a sociopath.

As I've said I'm not jealous I was annoyed.

Secondly alot of people on here seem to think it's wrong to have any type of feeling about anything which I have seen from past threads alot. As soon as anyone talks about feelings it suddenly comes tabboo it's abit pathetic really"

Cam I ask a question? How would you cope if soneone you meet then meets someone else?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"How do you know she prefers them to you?

I just know, it is what it is I'm not even that annoyed about it there's plenty more fish in the sea.

It's some of the people on this thread who are annoying me 10x as they all seem to be sociopaths. It's as if because your on fab you shouldn't have feelings it's quite sad really

Personally I don't think not being jealous because someone you've PM'd on a swinging site and have never met is flirting with someone else on the forums makes someone devoid of feelings and certainly doesn't make them a sociopath.

As I've said I'm not jealous I was annoyed.

Secondly alot of people on here seem to think it's wrong to have any type of feeling about anything which I have seen from past threads alot. As soon as anyone talks about feelings it suddenly comes tabboo it's abit pathetic really

Cam I ask a question? How would you cope if soneone you meet then meets someone else?

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Depends how I felt about them

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Did I miss understand something. She was flirting with both of you and now because you think she looked more interested in the other guy you are stepping back. Did you ask whether she was still interested in seeing her? She may be wondering why you suddenly stop messaging. Waiting for your email. "

No I'm just carrying on as normal it is what it is. They don't know any different and I'm gonna keep it that way. I can tell they prefer this person so that's their choice

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By *emini ManMan  over a year ago

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"I'm curious, is this someone you've met?

No

So you're jealous that someone on a swinging site that you haven't even met is not giving you the attention you want?

No giving someone else the attention I want. Not jealous just annoyed

So less jealous and more possessive is how you see it? And it's someone you've not met.

I don't think you understand what I'm saying. How is it possessive to get annoyed that someone prefers someone else to me??, I haven't told them and I am not showing them that I'm annoyed and just leaving it at that.

By posting a thread about it you're doing exactly that albeit indirectly

Oh dear god what an absolute ridiculous statement

How is it ridiculous? You're broadcasting your annoyance and possessiveness across the forums to all and sundry that read them (including possibly the person in question) - I wouldn't think that makes my suggestion as ridiculous as you say

I'm broadcasting my possessiveness dear god.

The person in question will not have a clue it's them and how can you broadcast possessiveness? All I've said is it's annoyed me. Stop twisting my words.

The person in question won't have a clue? Anyone that you have been messaging constantly (your words not mine) would at least suspect you're referring to them.

And you can quite easily broadcast possessiveness by posting a forum thread about your annoyance at the fact someone you talk to flirts with others - it really is that simple and no words have been twisted just basic observations based on your posts

I speak to alot of people constantly, this person on question probably has no idea that I'm even that fussed on them I don't make it clear so your wrong in that aspect.

It's not possessiveness either if I told someone I'm annoyed that they like someone else it's having hurt feelings not possessiveness so maybe chose your words more carefully next time."

You say po-tar-to I'll say po-tay-to

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By *ophieslutTV/TS  over a year ago

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Emotional responses are natural but as humans we don't have to be controlled by them, as we're endowed with rational thinking abilities and some self-control. When we know our objectives for our life, we can live so that we get closer to our fulfillment of them.

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By *UNANDNICEMan  over a year ago

Basildon

I'm trying to add kik and for the life of me I can't get past the robot safety thing

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I'm curious, is this someone you've met?

No

So you're jealous that someone on a swinging site that you haven't even met is not giving you the attention you want?

No giving someone else the attention I want. Not jealous just annoyed

So less jealous and more possessive is how you see it? And it's someone you've not met.

I don't think you understand what I'm saying. How is it possessive to get annoyed that someone prefers someone else to me??, I haven't told them and I am not showing them that I'm annoyed and just leaving it at that.

By posting a thread about it you're doing exactly that albeit indirectly

Oh dear god what an absolute ridiculous statement

How is it ridiculous? You're broadcasting your annoyance and possessiveness across the forums to all and sundry that read them (including possibly the person in question) - I wouldn't think that makes my suggestion as ridiculous as you say

I'm broadcasting my possessiveness dear god.

The person in question will not have a clue it's them and how can you broadcast possessiveness? All I've said is it's annoyed me. Stop twisting my words.

The person in question won't have a clue? Anyone that you have been messaging constantly (your words not mine) would at least suspect you're referring to them.

And you can quite easily broadcast possessiveness by posting a forum thread about your annoyance at the fact someone you talk to flirts with others - it really is that simple and no words have been twisted just basic observations based on your posts

I speak to alot of people constantly, this person on question probably has no idea that I'm even that fussed on them I don't make it clear so your wrong in that aspect.

It's not possessiveness either if I told someone I'm annoyed that they like someone else it's having hurt feelings not possessiveness so maybe chose your words more carefully next time.

You say po-tar-to I'll say po-tay-to "

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Emotional responses are natural but as humans we don't have to be controlled by them, as we're endowed with rational thinking abilities and some self-control. When we know our objectives for our life, we can live so that we get closer to our fulfillment of them. "

I can control them I was asking a question and people have taken it out of proportion. Standard fab

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm trying to add kik and for the life of me I can't get past the robot safety thing "

Oh

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I'm trying to add kik and for the life of me I can't get past the robot safety thing

Oh"

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