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How do you flirt?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So I’m in the play park with my boys, a regular thing (obviously before you get on, not everyone wants to flirt / have sex). Chatting with people becomes common and easy. I always find myself checking ring fingers and flirting.
My question is, how do you flirt?! |
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I like to stare without blinking until they become uncomfortable and walk away, and then I like to follow at no great distance.
It doesn't have the highest success rate if I'm completely honest, but one day... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It just kind of happens, I don't think I've ever made the decision consciously to flirt with anyone.
For me it's a 2 way thing, we bounce off each other. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like to stare without blinking until they become uncomfortable and walk away, and then I like to follow at no great distance.
It doesn't have the highest success rate if I'm completely honest, but one day..."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I like to stare without blinking until they become uncomfortable and walk away, and then I like to follow at no great distance.
It doesn't have the highest success rate if I'm completely honest, but one day..."
Hahaha I’m pretty sure that’s some form of stalking  |
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"(Lou) I have no idea how to flirt and have no idea if anyone is flirting with me  "
Don't I know it 
To be fair I'm the same because I'm very chatty and outgoing I just think others are the same and that's it !
Part of my profession I have to read people and work with their triggers/buying signals but that's easy because it's detached and clinical, where emotions of affection and lust are concerned I'm about as good at reading signals as Hippo on roller skates !!!
Ray
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’m great at flirting when I think it’s just all for laughs, but bloody awful at it when I think they might be serious, I just get all goofy and tongue tied  "
I can relate to this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t really, I become sheepish and awkward "
I’m much the same. I can’t flirt to save my life , I wouldn’t know if someone fancied me unless they directly told me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Badly I presume nobody would want to flirt with me so I'm just friendly with everyone. "
Same , everyone in work say I’m a big flirt but I just talk to anyone and I talk a lot ! And I’m really friendly and outgoing to everyone I meet.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t really, I become sheepish and awkward
I’m much the same. I can’t flirt to save my life , I wouldn’t know if someone fancied me unless they directly told me. "
I can chat along all day to any one. But I’m always the last to know that some one is flirting with me. I just assume they’re being friendly back |
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"I don’t really, I become sheepish and awkward
I’m much the same. I can’t flirt to save my life , I wouldn’t know if someone fancied me unless they directly told me.
I can chat along all day to any one. But I’m always the last to know that some one is flirting with me. I just assume they’re being friendly back "
Reading the replies it seems most of us are like this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Flirting is a fine art .... it doesn’t go hand in hand with ‘letching’ which is where a considerable number of men end up!! It’s not a desirable place to be 
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I don’t think one can try and flirt. It’s like being sexy you can’t try and be sexy. You either are or you’re not. If you try at these things I don’t think it works. |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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"So I’m in the play park with my boys, a regular thing (obviously before you get on, not everyone wants to flirt / have sex). Chatting with people becomes common and easy. I always find myself checking ring fingers and flirting.
My question is, how do you flirt?! "
I ask lots of questions, you’ll quickly know if they’re interested or not! Try the supermarket checkout you have such a limited time window, and much more of a challenge! |
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"Flirting is a fine art .... it doesn’t go hand in hand with ‘letching’ which is where a considerable number of men end up!! It’s not a desirable place to be
I don’t think one can try and flirt. It’s like being sexy you can’t try and be sexy. You either are or you’re not. If you try at these things I don’t think it works. "
Exactly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh I’m such a flirt. Eyes, words, body language are my weapons of choice "
Teach us. Im a massive flirt but im not always confident if i really like them all my flirt drys me up and am like...hi....nice weather aint it haha |
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