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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago
margate sumwear by the sea |
Being just a social.
I've had a fue socials now and I never go to a social expecting anything more than just a social witch is a good thing as everyone of them has ended with it being a social only anyway.
Now to me I enjoy the day/evening out.
Catch up with old friends and maybe make new friends to.
But if you went to a social.
Wood you be hoping for more than just a social or wood you be happy just to have a night out ?
Have you ever been left disappointed from a social ?
If you go to a fab social what do you think / expect to happen ?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For us a social is simply that. We have played afterward and not played. A straight after play is a bonus. But we enjoy meeting other people with a view to playing at a later date. |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
I never expect anything sexual from a 1 to 1 social, apart from a snog perhaps if we liked each other. From that alone I would know if I wanted to meet them again for sex or not.
Group socials are just that, unless you're travelling and happen to be sharing a room with someone you've chatted a lot with.
I have been left feeling disappointed more than once after a social, mainly because I didn't fancy them. It takes me ages to find guys who I think are suitable but who turn out not to be |
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If the boundaries are agreed up front, there's no need to be disappointed, unless one or more finds there's no attraction. But, you've only acknowledged each other to be superficially - possibly - compatible.
Enjoy what's agreed to. |
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By *Man1263Man
over a year ago
Stockport |
"I think a lot of single guys do see a social meet as an automatic prelude to something more though and that often leads to disappointment and frustration "
From what I have heard, this.
For me it is just a time to get out, have a natter etc etc (as I have posted above)
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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago
margate sumwear by the sea |
"I think a lot of single guys do see a social meet as an automatic prelude to something more though and that often leads to disappointment and frustration "
I completely agree with you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think a lot of single guys do see a social meet as an automatic prelude to something more though and that often leads to disappointment and frustration "
You have hit the nail on the head.
Iv had guys and a few couples who wouldn't agree to a social unless I guaranteed play.
Obviously I declined as like others have said, for me a social is just that. |
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We would never see something social as a disappointment. We focus on making contacts and building friendships. When the time is right, things will happen. If things don't happen it's just because that wasn't the right time. |
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By *epsonWoman
over a year ago
Biddulph |
A social is to see if the connection that appeared to be online, is as good in the flesh. I never play on first meet, I need to see how they behave when I walk away. Any grabbing, sulking, bombardment by texts etc. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Social is just a social. To see if there is an attraction and connection and to meet new people.
I always make it clear its just that and not to expect anything else.
Good if it ends up with a good snog though. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I go to socials with the intent of having fun, seeing my friends and making new ones. I've never been to one with a +1 (apart from Lickety's birthday bash) and it's not something I would do - I want to mingle and have fun and not be thinking about where my next cocking is coming from. |
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