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over a year ago
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I think they get a lot of stick on fab. They’re mostly tarred with the same brush. But, the majority of young men who join fab, are immature and don’t do well because of this. They haven’t learnt patience.
But there’s some shining stars out there 
Not for me though  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think they get a lot of stick on fab. They’re mostly tarred with the same brush. But, the majority of young men who join fab, are immature and don’t do well because of this. They haven’t learnt patience.
But there’s some shining stars out there
Not for me though "
That’s a fair point. |
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"I think they get a lot of stick on fab. They’re mostly tarred with the same brush. But, the majority of young men who join fab, are immature and don’t do well because of this. They haven’t learnt patience.
But there’s some shining stars out there
Not for me though "
I would add that they haven't learned how to talk to women or couples, although patience is part of that. |
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"I think they get a lot of stick on fab. They’re mostly tarred with the same brush. But, the majority of young men who join fab, are immature and don’t do well because of this. They haven’t learnt patience.
But there’s some shining stars out there
Not for me though
I would add that they haven't learned how to talk to women or couples, although patience is part of that. "
I have a lot more patience with someone in their teens or twenties talking to me like that than in their forties or fifties, though. There's a point at which you should just know better. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think they get a lot of stick on fab. They’re mostly tarred with the same brush. But, the majority of young men who join fab, are immature and don’t do well because of this. They haven’t learnt patience.
But there’s some shining stars out there
Not for me though
I would add that they haven't learned how to talk to women or couples, although patience is part of that. "
True. I’m usually a defender of the young guys on fab. I joined when I had just turned 20 and never got any stick for being on here so young. It’s not fair that the young men do, when the young women don’t. But some of them just prove everyone right |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think they get a lot of stick on fab. They’re mostly tarred with the same brush. But, the majority of young men who join fab, are immature and don’t do well because of this. They haven’t learnt patience.
But there’s some shining stars out there
Not for me though
I would add that they haven't learned how to talk to women or couples, although patience is part of that. "
Fair point |
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
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"I think they get a lot of stick on fab. They’re mostly tarred with the same brush. But, the majority of young men who join fab, are immature and don’t do well because of this. They haven’t learnt patience.
But there’s some shining stars out there
Not for me though "
Yes, pretty much this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's a bun fight .. just remember youngsters don't go in with cock blazing.. read the profile.. compliment.. send a face pic.. manners maketh man .. like the lady said.. be patient.. the holy grail of the yellow inbox is there if you follow the rules |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Of young lads ?
Hint message ahahah
My teenage son is fantastic, I’m very proud of him. But I could never look at his peer group in anything other than a motherly way.
Lou x "
But would you want to x |
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"Of young lads ?
Hint message ahahah
My teenage son is fantastic, I’m very proud of him. But I could never look at his peer group in anything other than a motherly way.
Lou x
But would you want to x"
Hint: that was a no |
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"Of young lads ?
Hint message ahahah
My teenage son is fantastic, I’m very proud of him. But I could never look at his peer group in anything other than a motherly way.
Lou x
But would you want to x"
No. The only time I fancied 18 yr olds was when I was aged around 16-18 myself. I also have a daughter around your age and she would be mortified if I started lusting after her male mates.
But I’m sure you’ll find someone who is interested in younger men, probably just not ladies with children of a similar age as it feels very immoral.
Best of luck.
Lou x |
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"Of young lads ?
Hint message ahahah
My teenage son is fantastic, I’m very proud of him. But I could never look at his peer group in anything other than a motherly way.
Lou x
But would you want to x
Hint: that was a no"
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think the maturity level differences are often blatantly obvious and not appealing to me.
I think younger guys get a lot of stick because people expect them to act older than their years, I say just be yourself but accept it won't appeal to most. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Of young lads ?
Hint message ahahah
My teenage son is fantastic, I’m very proud of him. But I could never look at his peer group in anything other than a motherly way.
Lou x
But would you want to x
No. The only time I fancied 18 yr olds was when I was aged around 16-18 myself. I also have a daughter around your age and she would be mortified if I started lusting after her male mates.
But I’m sure you’ll find someone who is interested in younger men, probably just not ladies with children of a similar age as it feels very immoral.
Best of luck.
Lou x "
Thank you and thanks for not being rude actually smart reply |
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"I think the maturity level differences are often blatantly obvious and not appealing to me.
I think younger guys get a lot of stick because people expect them to act older than their years, I say just be yourself but accept it won't appeal to most. "
I don't expect them to act older, although I certainly was more mature than many at that age. I just don't fancy dealing with it myself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think the maturity level differences are often blatantly obvious and not appealing to me.
I think younger guys get a lot of stick because people expect them to act older than their years, I say just be yourself but accept it won't appeal to most.
I don't expect them to act older, although I certainly was more mature than many at that age. I just don't fancy dealing with it myself. "
Maybe expected is the wrong word, I meant the advice given is generally to "fit in" with the norms of an older community. |
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"I think the maturity level differences are often blatantly obvious and not appealing to me.
I think younger guys get a lot of stick because people expect them to act older than their years, I say just be yourself but accept it won't appeal to most.
I don't expect them to act older, although I certainly was more mature than many at that age. I just don't fancy dealing with it myself.
Maybe expected is the wrong word, I meant the advice given is generally to "fit in" with the norms of an older community. "
I don't think that's bad, actually. If they want to succeed they need to bend to the norms. Don't we all? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think the maturity level differences are often blatantly obvious and not appealing to me.
I think younger guys get a lot of stick because people expect them to act older than their years, I say just be yourself but accept it won't appeal to most.
I don't expect them to act older, although I certainly was more mature than many at that age. I just don't fancy dealing with it myself.
Maybe expected is the wrong word, I meant the advice given is generally to "fit in" with the norms of an older community. "
True |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think the maturity level differences are often blatantly obvious and not appealing to me.
I think younger guys get a lot of stick because people expect them to act older than their years, I say just be yourself but accept it won't appeal to most.
I don't expect them to act older, although I certainly was more mature than many at that age. I just don't fancy dealing with it myself.
Maybe expected is the wrong word, I meant the advice given is generally to "fit in" with the norms of an older community.
I don't think that's bad, actually. If they want to succeed they need to bend to the norms. Don't we all? "
True but I know a big part of this for me is finding people who like me for me. I'm apparently a sarky bitch so finding someone who gets that is a big thing.
The same way for younger guys, finding someone who gets their humour and the way they do things would lead to better connections than if they're holding back and "behaving". |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think the maturity level differences are often blatantly obvious and not appealing to me.
I think younger guys get a lot of stick because people expect them to act older than their years, I say just be yourself but accept it won't appeal to most.
I don't expect them to act older, although I certainly was more mature than many at that age. I just don't fancy dealing with it myself.
Maybe expected is the wrong word, I meant the advice given is generally to "fit in" with the norms of an older community.
I don't think that's bad, actually. If they want to succeed they need to bend to the norms. Don't we all?
True but I know a big part of this for me is finding people who like me for me. I'm apparently a sarky bitch so finding someone who gets that is a big thing.
The same way for younger guys, finding someone who gets their humour and the way they do things would lead to better connections than if they're holding back and "behaving". "
Yeah like sarcasm and like shitty humour is my generation may come off rude but just trying to carry on |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's a bun fight .. just remember youngsters don't go in with cock blazing.. read the profile.. compliment.. send a face pic.. manners maketh man .. like the lady said.. be patient.. the holy grail of the yellow inbox is there if you follow the rules"
This sums it up for me... |
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