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Fok who play mind games on here
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The lying on here confuses me a lot. I understand some of it such as people who say they are single and they are not, even though I don't agree with it.
The lies that cause drama even when I'm never going to meet them are what get me. Think some thrive on drama, it's just isn't for me |
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"Just don’t get all the lies and fake shit .. it isn’t as though we are all looking for marriage.. there’s some sad folks on here 
Well said  "
It can be soul draining .. but fuck em and hopefully the genuines will still play  |
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What lies are we talking about here? I've come across people who don't know how to talk to a couple, people claiming to be couples who I suspect are just men, and people who appear to make up stories and pass them off as real on the forums, but I'm struggling to think of any mind games. Can you give an example? Luke |
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"What lies are we talking about here? I've come across people who don't know how to talk to a couple, people claiming to be couples who I suspect are just men, and people who appear to make up stories and pass them off as real on the forums, but I'm struggling to think of any mind games. Can you give an example? Luke "
I've come across people who have tried to manipulate me. And it was over something really pointless, it actually upset me at the time. But I've learnt from it and moved on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I only play the games that belong in the bedroom 
Only ones I'm interested in
The best kind 
Cluedo is a personal fave  "
What haven’t got a cluedo lol taken from the Chav dictionary  |
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By *zQTWoman
over a year ago
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The first ever person I met off here decided to play games. I never got it back then and to this day still don’t get it. He messaged me again recently wanting to meet and I confronted him about what he did last time and since poof blocked gone.... I will never understand why some do and feel it is okay. |
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"Think we all play mind games in one way or another be it aware of doing it or not..what I can't stand is the "leading up the garden path" technique. "
Agree we all fib to a certain extent, we're all human. But mind games are a whole different level |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Honesty is the best policy.hate liars (except mr gorgeous who is my man crush but don’t tell him!)
I'm gay 
Oh my heart skipped a beat! "
lol I spat me coffee out n laughed  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t play mind games, I don’t see the point in that silliness. I do lie though and I suspect most people lie at some point. I won’t give away anything other than the things I want to. "
Why lie? Why not just say you don’t want to answer that question rather than lying? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The last shortish time we have fab ago my wife got suckered by lies and bullshit and fakes 9 times because she is sweet and trusting and it indeed really upset her a lot.
This time we are taking a totally different route and it’s working better for us.
I chat to everyone and if needed waste the time of the time wasters and she will only chat to the fabbers that she wants to because I’m on here every hour and she’s on once or twice a day.
We look at it along the lines of if people want to lie then that’s their thing and that’s ok but we are here for a reason and if you lie I’m guessing you are not that reason but good luck eh!
T |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I'm not sure why people do it. Ego boost? Power trip? Sometimes people don't know how to do things without doing so. I've experienced it a couple of times and it's exhausting and emotionally draining trying to navigate it. The last time it happened I called it out and said it wasn't working for me because I deserve more. Basic respect and courtesy is important. |
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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm not sure why people do it. Ego boost? Power trip? Sometimes people don't know how to do things without doing so. I've experienced it a couple of times and it's exhausting and emotionally draining trying to navigate it. The last time it happened I called it out and said it wasn't working for me because I deserve more. Basic respect and courtesy is important."
THIS ^^^^ |
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