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Social before meets yay or nay
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So I’ll keep it brief..
kind of new to all this... been something wanted to do for a while kind... just never had confidence ... anyways I like to meet/social before hand. Yet some people wanna just do n go lol (I get that- after all it’s what this site is)
But would socials be such a bad thing .... is it a bad move to have convo beforehand ?
Please pros and cons everyone please..
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I prefer socials but its not a set in stone rule for me.
Having said that, because I prefer semi-regular meets to one offs I tend to be more interested in local couples and single women who are open to the idea. |
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A social is a definite plus, usually my meets have a big social element anyway but always start with a coffee or drink.
Most meets ive had usually end with a few drinks at mine, music and more than likely me cooking while we chat and flirt etc. Makes for a much more human experience than cold fucking. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I've always had a social of sorts first; in a coffee shop or a hotel bar or a museum or a gig etc There's more often than not the potential for more if we want it on the day. I'm quite fond of those type of socials. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've always had a social of sorts first; in a coffee shop or a hotel bar or a museum or a gig etc There's more often than not the potential for more if we want it on the day. I'm quite fond of those type of socials."
this.....
as a guy I totally agree, a social is essential to find if there is an initial click, but even more than a social, possibly after, I need a kiss, or lots of kissing
if the snogs dont work, the sex wont happen. not with me anyway. |
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By *rufinWoman
over a year ago
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I say always social ..
But I have had some amazing meets that started in hotel bars, room already booked, just a quick drink beforehand to get ten minutes chitchat/use my patented 'check not a serial killer' device on them.
So ... case by case basis? Mostly social first. Importantly - if you get any negative vibes on the social - don't ignore them. That's been my mistake - overlooking bad chemistry in a social. It didn't improve on the meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Always without exception a social first because on here chatting you can write any old bollocks so it’s not a real portray of who you are.
For example “IVE GOT A TEN INCH COCK AND ITS ROCK HARD” I haven’t its 2 inches and as floopy as fuck.
So social, click, hopefully more or if my wife is not happy not!!
Plus if I’m not happy with the social then not!!!
Good luck and enjoy.
T |
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By *athan 123Man
over a year ago
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"So I’ll keep it brief..
kind of new to all this... been something wanted to do for a while kind... just never had confidence ... anyways I like to meet/social before hand. Yet some people wanna just do n go lol (I get that- after all it’s what this site is)
But would socials be such a bad thing .... is it a bad move to have convo beforehand ?
Please pros and cons everyone please..
Thanks for reading " . Ney |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Up to you, i prefer to have a fair few socials, get to know the person... connection = awesome sex
Ive tried the 'meet & fuck' it just disappoints and is unforfilling. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Make this site work for you the way YOU want it. You don't owe anyone anything and those that don't go along with your requirements are not the match for you.
When I was a single lady on here meeting I would always have at least one social, if not more. Beast had to sit through 2 socials with me then a third on the night we got down to it. I only fuck people I know, I couldn't feel comfortable spending the night with someone I didn't feel a connection with.
Also with a couple of socials you know they are really into you and not just carrying on because your there |
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