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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’m bored so I’m trying to count “theee number” it’s bad when you are referring to them by place names! I.e blonde Magaluf or Welsh Girl uni! Has anyone else compiled such a list of your number of sexual partners? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"786
I send them all Christmas cards
Do an email one next year. Be cheaper 
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Yeah. I was thinking that.
Cant shag anymore. The price of postage is shocking |
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By *vcarolTV/TS
over a year ago
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This is an oh dear...
Men..... err lost count a long time ago, if it were a bed post and notches there on..... all four whittled away to stumps.
Women, each one is held very, very special. I remember each and every one. Not even using toes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have fallen head over heels totally in love 3 times in my lifetime
my first love will always be the one I think of in my head often, sadly she passed away 7 years back. |
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I had a discussion with a friend about this and we got onto the subject of "what counts". She claimed it only counted if there was "penetrative sex with an orgasm for at least one participant" whereas I was saying any intimate sexual contact counted
I think my criteria freaked her out because she had given so many random noshes in her university days so her number was way higher than she liked to think it was. I didn't like her criteria because some of my really fun threesomes counted as a zero |
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"I had a discussion with a friend about this and we got onto the subject of "what counts". She claimed it only counted if there was "penetrative sex with an orgasm for at least one participant" whereas I was saying any intimate sexual contact counted
I think my criteria freaked her out because she had given so many random noshes in her university days so her number was way higher than she liked to think it was. I didn't like her criteria because some of my really fun threesomes counted as a zero "
It can’t just be penetrative sex that counts or lots of things with two women wouldn’t count. I have it on good authority that they definitely do |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have fallen head over heels totally in love 3 times in my lifetime
my first love will always be the one I think of in my head often, sadly she passed away 7 years back."
Sorry to hear that.  |
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"I had a discussion with a friend about this and we got onto the subject of "what counts". She claimed it only counted if there was "penetrative sex with an orgasm for at least one participant" whereas I was saying any intimate sexual contact counted
I think my criteria freaked her out because she had given so many random noshes in her university days so her number was way higher than she liked to think it was. I didn't like her criteria because some of my really fun threesomes counted as a zero
It can’t just be penetrative sex that counts or lots of things with two women wouldn’t count. I have it on good authority that they definitely do"
That was my issue with it too! I felt like it wasn't the best criteria for bi people.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had a discussion with a friend about this and we got onto the subject of "what counts". She claimed it only counted if there was "penetrative sex with an orgasm for at least one participant" whereas I was saying any intimate sexual contact counted
I think my criteria freaked her out because she had given so many random noshes in her university days so her number was way higher than she liked to think it was. I didn't like her criteria because some of my really fun threesomes counted as a zero "
I always just counted penetrative sex and whilst I don't know my exact figure, it's between two and three hundred. You're right about it ruling out a lot of fun sexual play, but the terms of the count would have to be defined somewhere, else a quick squeeze through clothing and a meaningful look would end up being included in the total!
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"I had a discussion with a friend about this and we got onto the subject of "what counts". She claimed it only counted if there was "penetrative sex with an orgasm for at least one participant" whereas I was saying any intimate sexual contact counted
I think my criteria freaked her out because she had given so many random noshes in her university days so her number was way higher than she liked to think it was. I didn't like her criteria because some of my really fun threesomes counted as a zero "
I count any sexual contact. Otherwise how does it work with other women?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I had a discussion with a friend about this and we got onto the subject of "what counts". She claimed it only counted if there was "penetrative sex with an orgasm for at least one participant" whereas I was saying any intimate sexual contact counted
I think my criteria freaked her out because she had given so many random noshes in her university days so her number was way higher than she liked to think it was. I didn't like her criteria because some of my really fun threesomes counted as a zero "
lol. I’ve counted them all! Men woman and TVs |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’m up to about 50 give or take. For some perspective I got to 40 four years ago so I’ve slowed down quite considerably. "
I am in same ball park as you! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to keep a list until I found my ex did the same (although she had a rating system) and we equaled numbers and I don't know why it freaked us both out so we threw them away.
Slightly narsisitic of me really but inbetween relationships I've been blown by 67 guys in 2 years and I think I've slept with around 170 women (but only 2 on here who have since deactivated) only a handful of these have been sober
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By *ne4meMan
over a year ago
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I was married for a very long time ( too long) to my second lover. Since becoming free I’ve added one a year so I’m now on 5.
Like a hardly used classic car, I’m like new and provides a ride quality you’ll remember for life |
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I (Mr) tried to count them all up and got to around 175. As with the OP some where just place names. Quite a few were many years ago, and I suppose there will be some that I've forgotten (especially from my early swinger club days) so I would guess at around 200.
Since we've been swinging together Mrs has fucked around 400. An average of about 40 per year in the 10 years we've been doing this.
Some years were a bit thin (10 or a dozen) but last year was a bit wild and she fucked over 100.
I suppose we are not the most prolific on here but I don't think we've done too badly.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Seriously tho
If you’ve actually lost count
Does that mean Alzheimer’s is setting in or your a complete n utter slut ? Asking for a friend "
See what I mean? "judgy"  |
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"Seriously tho
If you’ve actually lost count
Does that mean Alzheimer’s is setting in or your a complete n utter slut ? Asking for a friend
See what I mean? "judgy" "
I think “twattish” rather than judgy, but it’s your call.
I don’t care how many anyone has had, I just hope lots have been excellent and we can laugh while talking about the ones that were crap |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Actual sex I'm unsure but if you count cock/pussy play in that I'd say about 100-150
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That’s a busy night  "
I was monogamous for 18 years in total too
So that's been in 9 years of sexual activity counting before my first serious relationship and after my last.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Seriously tho
If you’ve actually lost count
Does that mean Alzheimer’s is setting in or your a complete n utter slut ? Asking for a friend
Nice"
You flirting again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Seriously tho
If you’ve actually lost count
Does that mean Alzheimer’s is setting in or your a complete n utter slut ? Asking for a friend
Nice
You flirting again "
No champ
Really, no |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Seriously tho
If you’ve actually lost count
Does that mean Alzheimer’s is setting in or your a complete n utter slut ? Asking for a friend
Nice
You flirting again
No champ
Really, no"
Ok chum !! Wind ya neck in it was a joke ! Look up humour ,google if you must x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can't remember the numbers of any of my former partners.
I imagine most of them have probably moved by now, or got new phones, so won't be on the same number anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Seriously tho
If you’ve actually lost count
Does that mean Alzheimer’s is setting in or your a complete n utter slut ? Asking for a friend
Nice
You flirting again
No champ
Really, no
Ok chum !! Wind ya neck in it was a joke ! Look up humour ,google if you must x "
I'll do that right away |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anyone ever shag a fun sponge ???
Like one of those contraceptives, you mean? Why would you shag one of those?"
You need to google fun sponge as well dear |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anyone ever shag a fun sponge ???
Like one of those contraceptives, you mean? Why would you shag one of those?
You need to google fun sponge as well dear "
I'll do that when I've finished ironing my man's shirts and polishing his shoes |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"This is eye opening. I stopped counting when I was in my very early 20’s. long before I was on a swinger/sex site. I’m surprised anyone on here considers the number to be important. "
Myself as the OP would not consider it as important. I just think it’s a bit of fun. I’m giggling more at myself as I’m referencing some ppl on my list by location, hair colour, ethnicity. I went to uni in Liverpool at you by any chance my 14th entry referred to as “ crazy house brunette circa 2007”
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"This is eye opening. I stopped counting when I was in my very early 20’s. long before I was on a swinger/sex site. I’m surprised anyone on here considers the number to be important. Myself as the OP would not consider it as important. I just think it’s a bit of fun. I’m giggling more at myself as I’m referencing some ppl on my list by location, hair colour, ethnicity. I went to uni in Liverpool at you by any chance my 14th entry referred to as “ crazy house brunette circa 2007” "
Haha it’s possible |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"This is eye opening. I stopped counting when I was in my very early 20’s. long before I was on a swinger/sex site. I’m surprised anyone on here considers the number to be important. Myself as the OP would not consider it as important. I just think it’s a bit of fun. I’m giggling more at myself as I’m referencing some ppl on my list by location, hair colour, ethnicity. I went to uni in Liverpool at you by any chance my 14th entry referred to as “ crazy house brunette circa 2007”
Haha it’s possible "
I’m glad you seen the humour in it! If you’ve a tattoo down your left side it Defo was you lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just sat and counted, in my head. Was good reliving the past.
31.
Depends if you just count oral? I've given oral to a number of women with either oral in return or nothing. Does non penetrative sex count?
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"This is eye opening. I stopped counting when I was in my very early 20’s. long before I was on a swinger/sex site. I’m surprised anyone on here considers the number to be important. Myself as the OP would not consider it as important. I just think it’s a bit of fun. I’m giggling more at myself as I’m referencing some ppl on my list by location, hair colour, ethnicity. I went to uni in Liverpool at you by any chance my 14th entry referred to as “ crazy house brunette circa 2007”
Haha it’s possible I’m glad you seen the humour in it! If you’ve a tattoo down your left side it Defo was you lol "
Ah damn. Wasn’t me. That’s one of only a few places that don’t have a tattoo ha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is eye opening. I stopped counting when I was in my very early 20’s. long before I was on a swinger/sex site. I’m surprised anyone on here considers the number to be important. Myself as the OP would not consider it as important. I just think it’s a bit of fun. I’m giggling more at myself as I’m referencing some ppl on my list by location, hair colour, ethnicity. I went to uni in Liverpool at you by any chance my 14th entry referred to as “ crazy house brunette circa 2007”
Haha it’s possible I’m glad you seen the humour in it! If you’ve a tattoo down your left side it Defo was you lol
Ah damn. Wasn’t me. That’s one of only a few places that don’t have a tattoo ha "
Krazy House 1998-2004. Best club in the world. |
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"This is eye opening. I stopped counting when I was in my very early 20’s. long before I was on a swinger/sex site. I’m surprised anyone on here considers the number to be important. Myself as the OP would not consider it as important. I just think it’s a bit of fun. I’m giggling more at myself as I’m referencing some ppl on my list by location, hair colour, ethnicity. I went to uni in Liverpool at you by any chance my 14th entry referred to as “ crazy house brunette circa 2007”
Haha it’s possible I’m glad you seen the humour in it! If you’ve a tattoo down your left side it Defo was you lol
Ah damn. Wasn’t me. That’s one of only a few places that don’t have a tattoo ha
Krazy House 1998-2004. Best club in the world. "
Yup. Spent many a wild evening there. Possibly a few years earlier than you tho. Ha |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Lots. I remember the first time, so we'll. Benidorm, Maria, on hols. I wonder where she is now. "
probably on a mobility scooter going up and down the straight in Benidorm thinking of you big lad
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all when I was a teenager before I met Jo, Jo has had 3 men and 3 women
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