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Does anyone believe in love at first sight?
So you meet someone and both of you feel there is a very strong connection but you can’t explain it
You don’t want to part ways and you can’t wait to see each other. When you look at each other, you get lost in the others eyes
When you make love, you literally feel like your heart is going to explode out of your chest
Nothing matters except being together |
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"I had that last year. Sadly he turned out to be a compulsive liar who broke my heart over and over again.
I won't believe it ever again "
Ah if it's too good to be true it usually is. Sorry you had that experience. |
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"I had that last year. Sadly he turned out to be a compulsive liar who broke my heart over and over again.
I won't believe it ever again
Ah if it's too good to be true it usually is. Sorry you had that experience."
Exactly.
Lust and chemistry are great but keeping my heart out of it from now on.
I hope your situation is different OP xx |
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Had it when i met my ex husband, we both said the same when we eventually started talking after seeing each other in my parents pub several times. Lasted 8 years and produced 2 gorgeous children. |
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It's feasible that you can assess compatibility fairly quickly but I take love to be a very deep attachment that's formed via trust, understanding and really knowing each other, which is unlikely very quickly. I reserve the right to say yes to marriage within a few minutes though, as I could be very wrong and able to marry you. |
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I've not experienced love at first sight but I'm sure serendipity is a thing - have observed it first hand a few times with two people introduced to one another who seem to fall in love over a weekend and are still together. Most recent have been together for about a decade and going strong. |
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"I had that last year. Sadly he turned out to be a compulsive liar who broke my heart over and over again.
I won't believe it ever again
Ah if it's too good to be true it usually is. Sorry you had that experience.
Exactly.
Lust and chemistry are great but keeping my heart out of it from now on.
I hope your situation is different OP xx"
Unfortunately not - he was married
We both felt the same (so I thought) and he was the one that chased me as I was resisting initially. Then one day he just disappeared, blocked me and decided that he wanted to make a go of his marriage as his wife found out |
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"I've not experienced love at first sight but I'm sure serendipity is a thing - have observed it first hand a few times with two people introduced to one another who seem to fall in love over a weekend and are still together. Most recent have been together for about a decade and going strong. "
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Interesting responses
I agree that trust plays a huge role in being totally in love as without trust you don’t have anything
But for all of you that have managed to stay with your partners following that initial magical chemistry - well done you! |
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"I had that last year. Sadly he turned out to be a compulsive liar who broke my heart over and over again.
I won't believe it ever again
Ah if it's too good to be true it usually is. Sorry you had that experience.
Exactly.
Lust and chemistry are great but keeping my heart out of it from now on.
I hope your situation is different OP xx"
Sadly not, totally fell for him but he told me he felt the same. Talked about being together forever and then one day just disappeared |
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"I had that last year. Sadly he turned out to be a compulsive liar who broke my heart over and over again.
I won't believe it ever again
Ah if it's too good to be true it usually is. Sorry you had that experience.
Exactly.
Lust and chemistry are great but keeping my heart out of it from now on.
I hope your situation is different OP xx
Sadly not, totally fell for him but he told me he felt the same. Talked about being together forever and then one day just disappeared "
Hope your doing ok OP
It can happen it was just the wrong guy for you at this time.
Hugs and kisses from us  |
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True love? I think that must be exceptionally rare. I think people often mistake lust for love. It’s a heady feeling when we find someone we are attracted to or connect with but that doesn’t make it love. |
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Used to believe everything the hormones make me believe. Took some time to realise that it's all bullshit. I would prefer knowing a person well before l decide if she is the one. |
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"True love? I think that must be exceptionally rare. I think people often mistake lust for love. It’s a heady feeling when we find someone we are attracted to or connect with but that doesn’t make it love. "
Good morning lovely! Hope you slept well. 
My true love was a maths professor. She is my X and I am left wondering Y?  |
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"True love? I think that must be exceptionally rare. I think people often mistake lust for love. It’s a heady feeling when we find someone we are attracted to or connect with but that doesn’t make it love.
Good morning lovely! Hope you slept well.
My true love was a maths professor. She is my X and I am left wondering Y? "
 good morning lovely. |
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"I had that last year. Sadly he turned out to be a compulsive liar who broke my heart over and over again.
I won't believe it ever again
Ah if it's too good to be true it usually is. Sorry you had that experience.
Exactly.
Lust and chemistry are great but keeping my heart out of it from now on.
I hope your situation is different OP xx
Sadly not, totally fell for him but he told me he felt the same. Talked about being together forever and then one day just disappeared
Hope your doing ok OP
It can happen it was just the wrong guy for you at this time.
Hugs and kisses from us "
Thank you |
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