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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Anyone going to confide to me in the forum's ?
Most certainly not.
People's insecurities are usually obvious without them needing to tell you what they are."
Ok chill out |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Anyone going to confide to me in the forum's ?
Most certainly not.
People's insecurities are usually obvious without them needing to tell you what they are.
What are mine please ?"
Being too sound??? |
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"Anyone going to confide to me in the forum's ?
Most certainly not.
People's insecurities are usually obvious without them needing to tell you what they are.
What are mine please ?"
I did say usually Granny. You're a tough nut to crack. I only saw a chink in your armour once |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes im human at some point we all do
Im not the smartest cookie as in what the brains trust chat about im a gutter rat but its also a strength i also tend to over react to my passions and punnish myself over silly things
But on the positive side am one hell of a good lay and im fucking legendary   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Used to when i was 9stone with shit hair!
Two years with a PT, a hairdresser and a 4st weight gain im happy"
I know a lot of men who are insecure about that. I think things like men’s health magazine have a massive impact on people’s confidence. |
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"Anyone going to confide to me in the forum's ?
Most certainly not.
People's insecurities are usually obvious without them needing to tell you what they are.
What are mine please ?
Being too sound???"
I think you hit the nail on the head there Yuri ..... it's a cross I bear. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Used to when i was 9stone with shit hair!
Two years with a PT, a hairdresser and a 4st weight gain im happy
I know a lot of men who are insecure about that. I think things like men’s health magazine have a massive impact on people’s confidence. "
I still see my previous self when i look in a mirror, my hang ups about my size took over my life at one point ive only wore short sleeve tops in the past 8 months, when im out and a girl looks at me i get very self conscious and think theyre looking thinking 'your pathetic' its only recently my body image is becoming positive mentally. |
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"Yes im human at some point we all do
Im not the smartest cookie as in what the brains trust chat about im a gutter rat but its also a strength i also tend to over react to my passions and punnish myself over silly things
But on the positive side am one hell of a good lay and im fucking legendary "
LOO, you are intelligent. Trust me. You have talked yourself out of self belief. You are bright as a button. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Of course 
Care to divulge belle this is a safe area. "
Sure.
Insecure about my body... well not so much my body as a whole now as I’ve lost weight and I train hard, my body has changed a lot. But, my mid area and my boobs. 
My height sometimes too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I often consider my "enoughness"
Am I this enough? Am i that enough? If I was more xyz would I be a better person? If I was less ABC would I be a better person?
Then I remind myself I'm enough. I'm me.
I wonder at times if life is passing too quickly and I should take more risks, be bolder, but then what if I ruined what I already have.
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"Anyone going to confide to me in the forum's ?
Most certainly not.
People's insecurities are usually obvious without them needing to tell you what they are.
What are mine please ?
I did say usually Granny. You're a tough nut to crack. I only saw a chink in your armour once"
Oooooo what did I do say ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I often consider my "enoughness"
Am I this enough? Am i that enough? If I was more xyz would I be a better person? If I was less ABC would I be a better person?
Then I remind myself I'm enough. I'm me.
I wonder at times if life is passing too quickly and I should take more risks, be bolder, but then what if I ruined what I already have.
P"
This too! The enough thing! I get this also x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m self confident and secure with who I am and happy with that. However, I have Aspergers so being in social situations, particularly one to one where I know I’m going to struggle badly makes me feel insecure. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes I do and at the moment its affecting me quite badly. I have huge body confidence and self esteem issues. Amongst other things. "
You can change that though  |
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"Anyone going to confide to me in the forum's ?
Most certainly not.
People's insecurities are usually obvious without them needing to tell you what they are.
What are mine please ?
I did say usually Granny. You're a tough nut to crack. I only saw a chink in your armour once
Oooooo what did I do say ??"
You revealed something about your private life once. You never do that |
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"I often consider my "enoughness"
Am I this enough? Am i that enough? If I was more xyz would I be a better person? If I was less ABC would I be a better person?
Then I remind myself I'm enough. I'm me.
I wonder at times if life is passing too quickly and I should take more risks, be bolder, but then what if I ruined what I already have.
P"
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I wonder if I should take more risks sometimes too. So I do, then I realise why I don't. Risk is some scary stuff! |
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"Anyone going to confide to me in the forum's ?
Most certainly not.
People's insecurities are usually obvious without them needing to tell you what they are.
What are mine please ?
I did say usually Granny. You're a tough nut to crack. I only saw a chink in your armour once
Oooooo what did I do say ??
You revealed something about your private life once. You never do that"
No I don't ! So don't remind me  x
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Of course
Care to divulge belle this is a safe area.
Sure.
Insecure about my body... well not so much my body as a whole now as I’ve lost weight and I train hard, my body has changed a lot. But, my mid area and my boobs.
My height sometimes too."
Your height ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Of course
Care to divulge belle this is a safe area.
Sure.
Insecure about my body... well not so much my body as a whole now as I’ve lost weight and I train hard, my body has changed a lot. But, my mid area and my boobs.
My height sometimes too.
Your height ? "
Yep! You’d be surprised at how many men always ask when they know my height if I wear really high heels all the time or could I wear really high heels when I meet them so it doesn’t look so odd! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not insecurities. More a couple of things I'd like to change and I'm going to. I'm done with beating myself up with perceived flaws and failings, there's enough people who'll do that. "
Good on you _eli |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Of course
Care to divulge belle this is a safe area.
Sure.
Insecure about my body... well not so much my body as a whole now as I’ve lost weight and I train hard, my body has changed a lot. But, my mid area and my boobs.
My height sometimes too.
Your height ?
Yep! You’d be surprised at how many men always ask when they know my height if I wear really high heels all the time or could I wear really high heels when I meet them so it doesn’t look so odd! "
Weirdos |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I should become a doctor is anyone feeling better after this session so far I know I am "
Are you kidding??? I’m now sat here thinking about every insecurity I have  |
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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago
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"Yes I do and at the moment its affecting me quite badly. I have huge body confidence and self esteem issues. Amongst other things.
You can change that though "
Not easily!! Its not quite that simple for me. I want to change it and I'm trying to. It's going to take a long time. I have some mental health issues which have a big impact on my self esteem. They also cause me to binge eat which in turn makes things worse. |
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"Of course
Care to divulge belle this is a safe area.
Sure.
Insecure about my body... well not so much my body as a whole now as I’ve lost weight and I train hard, my body has changed a lot. But, my mid area and my boobs.
My height sometimes too.
Your height ?
Yep! You’d be surprised at how many men always ask when they know my height if I wear really high heels all the time or could I wear really high heels when I meet them so it doesn’t look so odd! "
I
Blimey! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I should become a doctor is anyone feeling better after this session so far I know I am
Are you kidding??? I’m now sat here thinking about every insecurity I have "
FFS always one come on let's hear them it will make everything better in the world |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Of course
Care to divulge belle this is a safe area.
Sure.
Insecure about my body... well not so much my body as a whole now as I’ve lost weight and I train hard, my body has changed a lot. But, my mid area and my boobs.
My height sometimes too.
Your height ?
Yep! You’d be surprised at how many men always ask when they know my height if I wear really high heels all the time or could I wear really high heels when I meet them so it doesn’t look so odd! I
Blimey! "
I know! Always something  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Only my height really. Always has been always will be I suppose. "
Woman I work with is about 6ft 3 and she is unreal and I don't even think if her height |
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"Of course
Care to divulge belle this is a safe area.
Sure.
Insecure about my body... well not so much my body as a whole now as I’ve lost weight and I train hard, my body has changed a lot. But, my mid area and my boobs.
My height sometimes too.
Your height ?
Yep! You’d be surprised at how many men always ask when they know my height if I wear really high heels all the time or could I wear really high heels when I meet them so it doesn’t look so odd! I
Blimey!
I know! Always something "
Nobody has ever mentioned my height and I struggle to make the claimed 5ft 1 on our profile.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Of course
Care to divulge belle this is a safe area.
Sure.
Insecure about my body... well not so much my body as a whole now as I’ve lost weight and I train hard, my body has changed a lot. But, my mid area and my boobs.
My height sometimes too.
Your height ?
Yep! You’d be surprised at how many men always ask when they know my height if I wear really high heels all the time or could I wear really high heels when I meet them so it doesn’t look so odd! I
Blimey!
I know! Always something "
I told you, wear your cons. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lots
My body
My weight
My hair
My clothes
My personality at times
Jesus if you can't live yourself how in the hell you gonna love somebody else"
Not the best comment. You’re asking people to tell their insecurities which in itself isn’t easy. I would have thought this thread would be more of a supportive thread given the title. |
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By *uke OzadeMan
over a year ago
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"Lots
My body
My weight
My hair
My clothes
My personality at times
Jesus if you can't live yourself how in the hell you gonna love somebody else
Not the best comment. You’re asking people to tell their insecurities which in itself isn’t easy. I would have thought this thread would be more of a supportive thread given the title. "
Spot on! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lots
My body
My weight
My hair
My clothes
My personality at times
Jesus if you can't live yourself how in the hell you gonna love somebody else
Not the best comment. You’re asking people to tell their insecurities which in itself isn’t easy. I would have thought this thread would be more of a supportive thread given the title. "
fuck me theres me thinking i had the subtlety of a sledge hammer this dudes like a train |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Of course
Care to divulge belle this is a safe area.
Sure.
Insecure about my body... well not so much my body as a whole now as I’ve lost weight and I train hard, my body has changed a lot. But, my mid area and my boobs.
My height sometimes too.
Your height ?
Yep! You’d be surprised at how many men always ask when they know my height if I wear really high heels all the time or could I wear really high heels when I meet them so it doesn’t look so odd! I
Blimey!
I know! Always something
Nobody has ever mentioned my height and I struggle to make the claimed 5ft 1 on our profile. "
I’m 5 ft nothing! I hate being this small but at least we can wear high heels and still be smaller!  L x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Lots
My body
My weight
My hair
My clothes
My personality at times
Jesus if you can't live yourself how in the hell you gonna love somebody else
Not the best comment. You’re asking people to tell their insecurities which in itself isn’t easy. I would have thought this thread would be more of a supportive thread given the title. "
I am being supportive it's ru Paul I'm making the point that she shouldn't be insecure about these things and should love herself |
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"Of course
Care to divulge belle this is a safe area.
Sure.
Insecure about my body... well not so much my body as a whole now as I’ve lost weight and I train hard, my body has changed a lot. But, my mid area and my boobs.
My height sometimes too.
Your height ?
Yep! You’d be surprised at how many men always ask when they know my height if I wear really high heels all the time or could I wear really high heels when I meet them so it doesn’t look so odd! I
Blimey!
I know! Always something
Nobody has ever mentioned my height and I struggle to make the claimed 5ft 1 on our profile.
I’m 5 ft nothing! I hate being this small but at least we can wear high heels and still be smaller! L x"
I don't care about my height. It's a pain when I can't reach stuff in cupboards or on top of the fridge or top shelf of the wardrobe but I have a handy pair of steps for that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lots
My body
My weight
My hair
My clothes
My personality at times
Jesus if you can't live yourself how in the hell you gonna love somebody else
Not the best comment. You’re asking people to tell their insecurities which in itself isn’t easy. I would have thought this thread would be more of a supportive thread given the title.
I am being supportive it's ru Paul I'm making the point that she shouldn't be insecure about these things and should love herself "
now u call her a bloody man dressed as a woman you kid are on a roll poor lass is a cracker not a man poor lass wow |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lots
My body
My weight
My hair
My clothes
My personality at times
Jesus if you can't live yourself how in the hell you gonna love somebody else
Not the best comment. You’re asking people to tell their insecurities which in itself isn’t easy. I would have thought this thread would be more of a supportive thread given the title.
I am being supportive it's ru Paul I'm making the point that she shouldn't be insecure about these things and should love herself "
I read it in RuPauls voice. I love drag race! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Lots
My body
My weight
My hair
My clothes
My personality at times
Jesus if you can't live yourself how in the hell you gonna love somebody else
Not the best comment. You’re asking people to tell their insecurities which in itself isn’t easy. I would have thought this thread would be more of a supportive thread given the title.
I am being supportive it's ru Paul I'm making the point that she shouldn't be insecure about these things and should love herself
I read it in RuPauls voice. I love drag race! "
Exactly people don't understand my quote let's be fair look at the woman she is stunning what else am I supposed to say |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"Lets all just talk about me instead. "
I think you are wrong about the comment of everyone having insecurities...is that what you mean by talking about you?
At my age I think I have gone past the insecurities thing but did have a good few years ago.
I have purple hat syndrome |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
Hillside desolate |
"Lots
My body
My weight
My hair
My clothes
My personality at times
Jesus if you can't live yourself how in the hell you gonna love somebody else
Not the best comment. You’re asking people to tell their insecurities which in itself isn’t easy. I would have thought this thread would be more of a supportive thread given the title.
I am being supportive it's ru Paul I'm making the point that she shouldn't be insecure about these things and should love herself
I read it in RuPauls voice. I love drag race! "
Can I get an Amen up in here?! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Lets all just talk about me instead.
I think you are wrong about the comment of everyone having insecurities...is that what you mean by talking about you?
At my age I think I have gone past the insecurities thing but did have a good few years ago.
I have purple hat syndrome"
What's that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lots
My body
My weight
My hair
My clothes
My personality at times
Jesus if you can't live yourself how in the hell you gonna love somebody else
Not the best comment. You’re asking people to tell their insecurities which in itself isn’t easy. I would have thought this thread would be more of a supportive thread given the title.
I am being supportive it's ru Paul I'm making the point that she shouldn't be insecure about these things and should love herself
I read it in RuPauls voice. I love drag race!
Can I get an Amen up in here?! "
Yaaaas Queen! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have insecurities but also have each other for reassurance and support. We also try to remember that what other people think really doesn't matter in the slightest. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Lots
My body
My weight
My hair
My clothes
My personality at times
Jesus if you can't live yourself how in the hell you gonna love somebody else
Not the best comment. You’re asking people to tell their insecurities which in itself isn’t easy. I would have thought this thread would be more of a supportive thread given the title.
I am being supportive it's ru Paul I'm making the point that she shouldn't be insecure about these things and should love herself
I read it in RuPauls voice. I love drag race!
Can I get an Amen up in here?! "
Shantay you stay |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Only in relation to my kids, I want to be the best mum I can be and sometimes worry if I'm doing it right.
The fact that you worry about being the best mum you can probably means you are.
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Wise words CG |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"Lets all just talk about me instead.
I think you are wrong about the comment of everyone having insecurities...is that what you mean by talking about you?
At my age I think I have gone past the insecurities thing but did have a good few years ago.
I have purple hat syndrome
What's that"
Google for "the purple hat poem" scroll passed the pics that come up and it is on the first link ( can't post the link sorry ) |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
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"Only in relation to my kids, I want to be the best mum I can be and sometimes worry if I'm doing it right.
The fact that you worry about being the best mum you can probably means you are.
Wise words CG"
Shhhh. Too early in the year to be wise. Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"At 54 im at peace with myself. Could do with longer legs though"
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Long legs are not always a blessing, especially when it comes to buying trousers, skirts, dresses or shorts. Basically anything to go on them lol! |
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