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Punching above?

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Do you think this site is designed for women to fuck blokes they would never dream of getting in real life just because they open their legs?

As well as genuine swingers of course.

Seems it’s a one way game in a lot of respects x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No, I don’t think it is.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I take it you’re not having a very good time on fab

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By *mberWoman over a year ago

Preston

What?

This isn't real life?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I personally wouldnt go for anyone on here I didnt think I could get in the outside world

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No not at all it’s whatever you want it to be and for some people an escape from there everyday life and meet new people they like not everyone will open there legs for anyone

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I take it you’re not having a very good time on fab "

Lol more to do with arrogance more than anything x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

In your case OP, judging by your verification, it appears it is for “straight” guys to entertain other “straight” guys on camera

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Another disgruntled man I see! Men have their own minds as well as the women they fuck! They can also say NO should that be their choice

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"What?

This isn't real life?

Lol far from it x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have self worth

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh dear...

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Another disgruntled man I see! Men have their own minds as well as the women they fuck! They can also say NO should that be their choice

Not that at all, just think some people have had a fuck from people who wouldn’t look at them twice if it wasn’t on a plate x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I take it you’re not having a very good time on fab

Lol more to do with arrogance more than anything x"

Maybe tone the arrogance down and you might have more luck?

This site can be really fun if you give it a chance

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What?

This isn't real life?

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By *mberWoman over a year ago

Preston

"What?

This isn't real life?

Lol far from it x"

So it's imaginary then?

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By *lceeWoman over a year ago

Leeds

Oh boy, here we go. *stretches and settles back into the sofa to watch*

I have this quaint view that there is no such thing as ‘punching above’. If I’m naked in a bedroom with Chris Hemsworth and his cock is hard, then I’m exactly what he’s looking for. Simple as that. What I find good looking, most women seem to find odd...I’d go for Phil Mitchell over Jude Law any day of the week.

So, erm, nope. I find that view of this place being a playground for ugly women who wouldn’t get a fuck from a Friday night bar to be small-minded and petty.

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By *ustBoWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

No I'm fussy about who I fuck on here. Doesn't mean I am punching above my weight or spreading my legs for anyone I think is better than me. The guys I meet are decent guys not ones who have an attitude that women are less than them funnily enough.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Don’t think you can make such statements as you maybe aren’t having the best time right now. This is a different world for people to be themselves and be who with whoever they wish. It’s also a highly sexist comment . They’re are people out there , just got to keep looking

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No not at all it’s whatever you want it to be and for some people an escape from there everyday life and meet new people they like not everyone will open there legs for anyone "

This... Definitely do not "open my legs" for just anyone.. Charming I must say by the way

Take it you thought you would join and have women on your doorstep within an hour lol. Dial-a-fuck sort of thing

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh boy, here we go. *stretches and settles back into the sofa to watch*

So, erm, nope. I find that view of this place being a playground for ugly women who wouldn’t get a fuck from a Friday night bar to be small-minded and petty."

Love this

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh boy, here we go. *stretches and settles back into the sofa to watch*

So, erm, nope. I find that view of this place being a playground for ugly women who wouldn’t get a fuck from a Friday night bar to be small-minded and petty."

Spot on

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I take it you’re not having a very good time on fab

Lol more to do with arrogance more than anything x

Maybe tone the arrogance down and you might have more luck?

This site can be really fun if you give it a chance

Absolutely no arrogance on my behalf, only negatives coming one way lol by women not as blessed as yourself x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"What?

This isn't real life?

Lol far from it x

So it's imaginary then?"

No, fantasy x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh boy, here we go. *stretches and settles back into the sofa to watch*

So, erm, nope. I find that view of this place being a playground for ugly women who wouldn’t get a fuck from a Friday night bar to be small-minded and petty."

What she said.

There is no such thing as punching above!

If you find each other attractive then go for it, and just because you find each other attractive doesn’t mean others will.

That’s the annoying thing about these pesky humans, they have minds of their own.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Wow OP, your on a roll tonight

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By *wholeLotOfRosieWoman over a year ago

Pontypridd

I get the same guys on here as I do in the real world. Maybe too many women are selling themselves short because some arrogant men have been telling them that they are punching above their weight whenever we are deemed to have scored a hottie?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I take it you’re not having a very good time on fab

Lol more to do with arrogance more than anything x

Maybe tone the arrogance down and you might have more luck?

This site can be really fun if you give it a chance

Absolutely no arrogance on my behalf, only negatives coming one way lol by women not as blessed as yourself x"

No one woman is ‘as blessed’ over another. Seems like you’re the problem here

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By *adylydfordWoman over a year ago

altinkum

I dont think im punching above my weight per say. Usually its guys choosing me. I rarely have to go on the hunt. What i do find weird is that when i go out in real life i never get pulled or chatted up. ... i must give off a flock off and leave me alone vibe in the flesh.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Oh boy, here we go. *stretches and settles back into the sofa to watch*

So, erm, nope. I find that view of this place being a playground for ugly women who wouldn’t get a fuck from a Friday night bar to be small-minded and petty."

If you read that I’m sorry, just meant some people have a bit of a distorted and arrogant identity on hear. If your not interested, fine. But don’t be mean and act as gods gift x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do you think this site is designed for women to fuck blokes they would never dream of getting in real life just because they open their legs?

As well as genuine swingers of course.

Seems it’s a one way game in a lot of respects x"

I think you've nailed it!

This site us just a plethora of smoking hot men who just ooze charm and scintillating conversation. It's a secret goldmine of testosterone and dickpics that hard up women keep to themselves so that they can attain that seemly impossible goal of getting laid without having to share it with others. Shhhhh!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No not at all it’s whatever you want it to be and for some people an escape from there everyday life and meet new people they like not everyone will open there legs for anyone

This... Definitely do not "open my legs" for just anyone.. Charming I must say by the way

Take it you thought you would join and have women on your doorstep within an hour lol. Dial-a-fuck sort of thing"

Think you may have read that totally wrong as i did say “not everyone will open there legs for anyone” and it’s a whatever you want it to be but hey that’s your own opinion

I never mentioned anything about having people on my doorstep or anything we’re picky and will only meet if we get on

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By *mberWoman over a year ago

Preston

"What?

This isn't real life?

Lol far from it x

So it's imaginary then?

No, fantasy x"

So, if I met a man via Fab, and we have a mutual attraction, which leads to a sexual encounter. It's not really happened - it's a fantasy and he's only going there because I've spread my legs because I couldn't pull him in a normal situation? (which I assume would mean keeping my legs shut)

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"No I'm fussy about who I fuck on here. Doesn't mean I am punching above my weight or spreading my legs for anyone I think is better than me. The guys I meet are decent guys not ones who have an attitude that women are less than them funnily enough. "

You’re obviously not arrogant x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do you think this site is designed for women to fuck blokes they would never dream of getting in real life just because they open their legs?

As well as genuine swingers of course.

Seems it’s a one way game in a lot of respects x

I think you've nailed it!

LOL

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I take it you’re not having a very good time on fab

Lol more to do with arrogance more than anything x

Maybe tone the arrogance down and you might have more luck?

This site can be really fun if you give it a chance

Absolutely no arrogance on my behalf, only negatives coming one way lol by women not as blessed as yourself x"

With the greatest respect, my love, you have canvassed opinion in your 'yes or no' thread

What were you expecting?

Exactly?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"No not at all it’s whatever you want it to be and for some people an escape from there everyday life and meet new people they like not everyone will open there legs for anyone

This... Definitely do not "open my legs" for just anyone.. Charming I must say by the way

Take it you thought you would join and have women on your doorstep within an hour lol. Dial-a-fuck sort of thing"

No, just didn’t think I’d have women being as mean as they are who aren’t anywhere near better than I am personality or physically (not that I’m an Adonis). Just blows my mind x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do you think this site is designed for women to fuck blokes they would never dream of getting in real life just because they open their legs?

As well as genuine swingers of course.

Seems it’s a one way game in a lot of respects x"

Nope. Nor do the guys I meet. But a lot of bitter, frustrated incel types think that. Be careful that you don't make yourself look like one of them cos they tend to have a bad time here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No not at all it’s whatever you want it to be and for some people an escape from there everyday life and meet new people they like not everyone will open there legs for anyone

This... Definitely do not "open my legs" for just anyone.. Charming I must say by the way

Take it you thought you would join and have women on your doorstep within an hour lol. Dial-a-fuck sort of thing

Think you may have read that totally wrong as i did say “not everyone will open there legs for anyone” and it’s a whatever you want it to be but hey that’s your own opinion

I never mentioned anything about having people on my doorstep or anything we’re picky and will only meet if we get on "

No hunny I was agreeing with you.. Then I added my own thoughts xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do you think this site is designed for women to fuck blokes they would never dream of getting in real life just because they open their legs?

As well as genuine swingers of course.

Seems it’s a one way game in a lot of respects x"

This site is most definitely not designed for that

I get blokes on here AND in the real world. No promise of leg opening EVER. Always just a social.

Any guy who thought they were above me in any way would be ignored. No one is better than anyone else

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"What?

This isn't real life?

Lol far from it x

So it's imaginary then?

No, fantasy x

Not talking about you personally but I mean Fab is a fantasy it’s not real life x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I get the same guys on here as I do in the real world. Maybe too many women are selling themselves short because some arrogant men have been telling them that they are punching above their weight whenever we are deemed to have scored a hottie?"

No I mean women are being mean to guys they couldn’t get in a real world relationship because they fucked a hot guy who was horny who wanted anal x

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

If people are abusive then block and report them, don't come on the forum and insult all the women here, you've just reduced yourself to their level.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I take it you’re not having a very good time on fab

Lol more to do with arrogance more than anything x

Maybe tone the arrogance down and you might have more luck?

This site can be really fun if you give it a chance

Absolutely no arrogance on my behalf, only negatives coming one way lol by women not as blessed as yourself x

No one woman is ‘as blessed’ over another. Seems like you’re the problem here "

No woman is blessed over another? Are you joking????? Lol x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No not at all it’s whatever you want it to be and for some people an escape from there everyday life and meet new people they like not everyone will open there legs for anyone

This... Definitely do not "open my legs" for just anyone.. Charming I must say by the way

Take it you thought you would join and have women on your doorstep within an hour lol. Dial-a-fuck sort of thing"

If the women are opening their legs for anyone but OP isn't getting any success, says more about him than the leg openers

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"No not at all it’s whatever you want it to be and for some people an escape from there everyday life and meet new people they like not everyone will open there legs for anyone

This... Definitely do not "open my legs" for just anyone.. Charming I must say by the way

Take it you thought you would join and have women on your doorstep within an hour lol. Dial-a-fuck sort of thing

If the women are opening their legs for anyone but OP isn't getting any success, says more about him than the leg openers

It’s the woman that are been mean, how do you not understand that? X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No not at all it’s whatever you want it to be and for some people an escape from there everyday life and meet new people they like not everyone will open there legs for anyone

This... Definitely do not "open my legs" for just anyone.. Charming I must say by the way

Take it you thought you would join and have women on your doorstep within an hour lol. Dial-a-fuck sort of thing

If the women are opening their legs for anyone but OP isn't getting any success, says more about him than the leg openers

Valid point

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Treat everyone individual as you would out in the real world .. I take as I find

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ehm no as women on here are a tad more discerning that guys normal women don’t just open their legs I say you have a lot to learn about women on here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No not at all it’s whatever you want it to be and for some people an escape from there everyday life and meet new people they like not everyone will open there legs for anyone

This... Definitely do not "open my legs" for just anyone.. Charming I must say by the way

Take it you thought you would join and have women on your doorstep within an hour lol. Dial-a-fuck sort of thing

If the women are opening their legs for anyone but OP isn't getting any success, says more about him than the leg openers

That's not fair. He's only been on here (or hear?) 5 weeks and he's already had a cam meet. He's a regular ladies man. The truth is when you're that hot the sheer numbers force you to be selective...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No I mean women are being mean to guys they couldn’t get in a real world relationship because they fucked a hot guy who was horny who wanted anal x"

Suppose the woman refused anal but the hot guy still wanted to meet them? And then wanted to meet them again and again?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Ehm no as women on here are a tad more discerning that guys normal women don’t just open their legs I say you have a lot to learn about women on here

I know what your nipples look like so let’s stop the discerning angle please x

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By *icentiousCouple over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Nope, we haven’t had a problem, so I suspect we haven’t even been in the ring,

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"No not at all it’s whatever you want it to be and for some people an escape from there everyday life and meet new people they like not everyone will open there legs for anyone

This... Definitely do not "open my legs" for just anyone.. Charming I must say by the way

Take it you thought you would join and have women on your doorstep within an hour lol. Dial-a-fuck sort of thing

If the women are opening their legs for anyone but OP isn't getting any success, says more about him than the leg openers

That's not fair. He's only been on here (or hear?) 5 weeks and he's already had a cam meet. He's a regular ladies man. The truth is when you're that hot the sheer numbers force you to be selective..."

Thanks mate, you’re a genuine hero

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think women could still pull the same men if they met then from another site or in a bar.

Because most horny men can't refuse sex when it's offered.

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By *hMyGawdCouple over a year ago

Midlands

It is a one way game OP you're right

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

wise man told me no such thing as leagues

about attitude I always try make women smile that's my style and try not treat them like meat some have different levels with pics and flirting than others and I try to respect that best I can in person or online doesn't matter fab or not

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No not at all it’s whatever you want it to be and for some people an escape from there everyday life and meet new people they like not everyone will open there legs for anyone

This... Definitely do not "open my legs" for just anyone.. Charming I must say by the way

Take it you thought you would join and have women on your doorstep within an hour lol. Dial-a-fuck sort of thing

If the women are opening their legs for anyone but OP isn't getting any success, says more about him than the leg openers

It’s the woman that are been mean, how do you not understand that? X"

How are they being mean?

I simply ignore or politely decline (and yet get lambasted for both).

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

No I mean women are being mean to guys they couldn’t get in a real world relationship because they fucked a hot guy who was horny who wanted anal x

Suppose the woman refused anal but the hot guy still wanted to meet them? And then wanted to meet them again and again? "

What a good story that would be. Right a script! It’s the new pretty woman x

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By *affron40Woman over a year ago

manchester

OP this is never going to end well for you... block the rude women like we block the entitled men. Everyone has a choice, even if the odds are stacked in the women’s favour. It’s your choice who you interact with so make good choices.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"No not at all it’s whatever you want it to be and for some people an escape from there everyday life and meet new people they like not everyone will open there legs for anyone

This... Definitely do not "open my legs" for just anyone.. Charming I must say by the way

Take it you thought you would join and have women on your doorstep within an hour lol. Dial-a-fuck sort of thing

If the women are opening their legs for anyone but OP isn't getting any success, says more about him than the leg openers

It’s the woman that are been mean, how do you not understand that? X

How are they being mean?

I simply ignore or politely decline (and yet get lambasted for both). "

Because it’s not about you my lovely x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This old hash again

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No I mean women are being mean to guys they couldn’t get in a real world relationship because they fucked a hot guy who was horny who wanted anal x

Suppose the woman refused anal but the hot guy still wanted to meet them? And then wanted to meet them again and again?

What a good story that would be. Right a script! It’s the new pretty woman x"

Well that's what's happened to me. Lots of times. I don't look nothing like Julie thingie though and Richard Gere is a bit effeminate for my taste

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"OP this is never going to end well for you... block the rude women like we block the entitled men. Everyone has a choice, even if the odds are stacked in the women’s favour. It’s your choice who you interact with so make good choices."

If the rude women got blocked the same as you bloke rude men. 5000 guys would be fighting over 200 women (which would probably suit you) lol x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Lol.. Night all xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"This old hash again

I recommend you start a guys profile and see the difference lol x

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By *affron40Woman over a year ago

manchester

If the rude women got blocked the same as you bloke rude men. 5000 guys would be fighting over 200 women (which would probably suit you) lol x"

I rarely meet anyone so makes no odds to me. I prefer the weird looking ones with manners anyway

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If the rude women got blocked the same as you bloke rude men. 5000 guys would be fighting over 200 women (which would probably suit you) lol x

I rarely meet anyone so makes no odds to me. I prefer the weird looking ones with manners anyway

I might have a chance then lmao

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I really don’t understand the mentality of some people on here these posts are so regular about why aren’t I getting any action etc or similar

The site is a swinging site swinging isn’t all about sex it’s part of it there is also friendship and the social part it isn’t always about getting your night on

If your after sex from who you say when you say you need to look elsewhere yes some people may drop the draws for anyone Men and women but that’s a minority and stil doesn’t mean they will drop them for you

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

If the rude women got blocked the same as you bloke rude men. 5000 guys would be fighting over 200 women (which would probably suit you) lol x

I rarely meet anyone so makes no odds to me. I prefer the weird looking ones with manners anyway

You’re the one I’ve been waiting for!! Xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I got a message today from someone who said on his profile ‘we both know you wouldn’t get a second look out on the street, that’s why you’re on here’ yet he said he didn’t need to be on here to get a shag. Guess he was doing all of us ugly desperados a favour. I mean, it’s not like I’ve made a living off how I look or anything. I’m only here cos I’m ugly and can’t get it anywhere else

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Truth be known in the early days of fab the leg spreaders were a real problem. Real men like us were getting all these desperate women throwing themselves at us. We were seriously outnumbered and we would get messages that just said hi and the a lot of leg spread photos from every angle with sky remotes and deodorant cans. So we fought back. Fought fire with fire! We got their numbers right down, but still bombard them with dickpics and FAF messages. They've learned their lesson and now those legs are tightly crossed. We are legends....

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By *affron40Woman over a year ago

manchester

If the rude women got blocked the same as you bloke rude men. 5000 guys would be fighting over 200 women (which would probably suit you) lol x

I rarely meet anyone so makes no odds to me. I prefer the weird looking ones with manners anyway

You’re the one I’ve been waiting for!! Xx"

Obvs.. who doesn’t love a grouchy Manc???

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By *affron40Woman over a year ago

manchester

If the rude women got blocked the same as you bloke rude men. 5000 guys would be fighting over 200 women (which would probably suit you) lol x

I rarely meet anyone so makes no odds to me. I prefer the weird looking ones with manners anyway

I might have a chance then lmao

Ha ha oh behave you!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I really don’t understand the mentality of some people on here these posts are so regular about why aren’t I getting any action etc or similar

The site is a swinging site swinging isn’t all about sex it’s part of it there is also friendship and the social part it isn’t always about getting your night on

Again, missing the point. I’m talking about SINGLE women who are outwardly mean for no reason. I’m not saying a NO is bad, I’m saying the arrogance of a mean woman purposely trying to hurt someone. That’s not swinging either x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What?

This isn't real life?

This is fab life. Lol x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why is there not a yawn emoji?

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By *eeleyWoman over a year ago

Dudley

"No not at all it’s whatever you want it to be and for some people an escape from there everyday life and meet new people they like not everyone will open there legs for anyone

This... Definitely do not "open my legs" for just anyone.. Charming I must say by the way

Take it you thought you would join and have women on your doorstep within an hour lol. Dial-a-fuck sort of thing

No, just didn’t think I’d have women being as mean as they are who aren’t anywhere near better than I am personality or physically (not that I’m an Adonis). Just blows my mind x "

What makes you think they aren't 'anywhere near better' than you are?

Plus, if you're so amazing, why are you contacting these lesser humans?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Lol.. Night all xx"

Goodnight xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It took me two years from the day I met my boyfriend (which is almost ten years ago) to agree to go out with him. The main reason was that I saw him as completely out of my league. I didn't want to face being rejected by someone I saw as too good for me, that I wasn't good enough for. I didn't want to be used for sex and discarded because I wasn't sufficiently attractive enough to be serious about. We've just had the most amazing Christmas together and he turns my stomach to butterflies just like he did the day I met him. And I cannot tell you how much I regret those wasted two years. We play here together too and he doesn't see anyone as being out of my league. He just laughs if I even suggest it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh boy, here we go. *stretches and settles back into the sofa to watch*

So, erm, nope. I find that view of this place being a playground for ugly women who wouldn’t get a fuck from a Friday night bar to be small-minded and petty."

Phil Mitchell here .. Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I got a message today from someone who said on his profile ‘we both know you wouldn’t get a second look out on the street, that’s why you’re on here’ yet he said he didn’t need to be on here to get a shag. Guess he was doing all of us ugly desperados a favour. I mean, it’s not like I’ve made a living off how I look or anything. I’m only here cos I’m ugly and can’t get it anywhere else

He’s obviously a prick and you’re obviously good looking so it doesn’t count x

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By *ustBoWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

"Truth be known in the early days of fab the leg spreaders were a real problem. Real men like us were getting all these desperate women throwing themselves at us. We were seriously outnumbered and we would get messages that just said hi and the a lot of leg spread photos from every angle with sky remotes and deodorant cans. So we fought back. Fought fire with fire! We got their numbers right down, but still bombard them with dickpics and FAF messages. They've learned their lesson and now those legs are tightly crossed. We are legends....

you are definitely a legend and you were right to teach us lessons

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It took me two years from the day I met my boyfriend (which is almost ten years ago) to agree to go out with him. The main reason was that I saw him as completely out of my league. I didn't want to face being rejected by someone I saw as too good for me, that I wasn't good enough for. I didn't want to be used for sex and discarded because I wasn't sufficiently attractive enough to be serious about. We've just had the most amazing Christmas together and he turns my stomach to butterflies just like he did the day I met him. And I cannot tell you how much I regret those wasted two years. We play here together too and he doesn't see anyone as being out of my league. He just laughs if I even suggest it. "

Don't believe that for a second. He's the lucky one

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"No not at all it’s whatever you want it to be and for some people an escape from there everyday life and meet new people they like not everyone will open there legs for anyone

This... Definitely do not "open my legs" for just anyone.. Charming I must say by the way

Take it you thought you would join and have women on your doorstep within an hour lol. Dial-a-fuck sort of thing

No, just didn’t think I’d have women being as mean as they are who aren’t anywhere near better than I am personality or physically (not that I’m an Adonis). Just blows my mind x

What makes you think they aren't 'anywhere near better' than you are?

Plus, if you're so amazing, why are you contacting these lesser humans?"

I connected because I found them attractive, I’m better because they’re nasty and I’m not x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I really don’t understand the mentality of some people on here these posts are so regular about why aren’t I getting any action etc or similar

The site is a swinging site swinging isn’t all about sex it’s part of it there is also friendship and the social part it isn’t always about getting your night on

But you asked what people thought of your profile, and whether they would fuck you!!

You did

I read it

With my eyes

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I really don’t understand the mentality of some people on here these posts are so regular about why aren’t I getting any action etc or similar

The site is a swinging site swinging isn’t all about sex it’s part of it there is also friendship and the social part it isn’t always about getting your night on

We both used to have single accounts on here and know what it’s like it’s not missing the point is knowing when to use the block button and when to know to not respond and to ignore the insults it’s the same wherever you go there will always be nasty people who get there kicks out of being rude

Another thing we both have noticed a lot of the so called single women who were rude weren’t actually women they were fakes and yes they also had fake verifications so be careful and don’t tarnish everyone with the same brush

No all you see is real and you have to be careful and sometimes do your homework to find out the truth

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Don't believe that for a second. He's the lucky one

Dude when I met him he looked like Wladimir Klitschko. He was the most beautiful thing I'd ever seen. And he just wouldn't quit. One of his kids told me he never chases but he chased me for two years. It still blows my mind he'd even look at me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

OP you say on your profile that you "love all types of women" and yet you find it hard to believe that other men do too?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

you are definitely a legend and you were right to teach us lessons

Help! There's a resurgence!!! I'm being attacked! (What do I do now)

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"OP you say on your profile that you "love all types of women" and yet you find it hard to believe that other men do too?

I’m taking about mean women x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think mibby you should quit while you’re ahead hun

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I really don’t understand the mentality of some people on here these posts are so regular about why aren’t I getting any action etc or similar

The site is a swinging site swinging isn’t all about sex it’s part of it there is also friendship and the social part it isn’t always about getting your night on

No all you see is real and you have to be careful and sometimes do your homework to find out the truth "

How did you find out they were fakes?!?? Did you employ a detective or did they confess? X

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By *eeleyWoman over a year ago

Dudley

"No not at all it’s whatever you want it to be and for some people an escape from there everyday life and meet new people they like not everyone will open there legs for anyone

This... Definitely do not "open my legs" for just anyone.. Charming I must say by the way

Take it you thought you would join and have women on your doorstep within an hour lol. Dial-a-fuck sort of thing

No, just didn’t think I’d have women being as mean as they are who aren’t anywhere near better than I am personality or physically (not that I’m an Adonis). Just blows my mind x

What makes you think they aren't 'anywhere near better' than you are?

Plus, if you're so amazing, why are you contacting these lesser humans?

I connected because I found them attractive, I’m better because they’re nasty and I’m not x"

So, you found them attractive but you think you're better physically and have a better personality? Oh, and they are the nasty ones?

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By *inky SpiceWoman over a year ago

Glasgow

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By *edVelveteenCouple over a year ago

Heaven in the Midlands

No, but I think it's become a site for some men who seem to have trouble getting a woman on the outside. They think this is wall to wall guaranteed sex.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Don't believe that for a second. He's the lucky one

Maybe he just knows a good woman when he sees one. But it's beautiful to have what you have. The best relationships are when both partners feel they are lucky to have the other

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No, but I think it's become a site for some men who seem to have trouble getting a woman on the outside. They think this is wall to wall guaranteed sex."

Exactly this.

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By *inky SpiceWoman over a year ago

Glasgow

"Do you think this site is designed for women to fuck blokes they would never dream of getting in real life just because they open their legs?

As well as genuine swingers of course.

Seems it’s a one way game in a lot of respects x"

Why would you think that? Do you think this site is full of fugly women and Adonis-like men?

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By *yesgreenMan over a year ago

north and south

"OP you say on your profile that you "love all types of women" and yet you find it hard to believe that other men do too?

As a side note - the only men on here who haven't ghosted or cancelled meets last minute then disappeared have been the "above average" good looking muscle type ones that you are probably assuming wouldn't look twice at me otherwise. Funny that. "
Elcee is right I also go for women that I can't meet on the high st ,Be that taller, short , round , fuller figures,Every one is someone's cup of tea and lovely personality to match happy new year

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I really don’t understand the mentality of some people on here these posts are so regular about why aren’t I getting any action etc or similar

The site is a swinging site swinging isn’t all about sex it’s part of it there is also friendship and the social part it isn’t always about getting your night on

No all you see is real and you have to be careful and sometimes do your homework to find out the truth

How did you find out they were fakes?!?? Did you employ a detective or did they confess? X"

There are many tell tale signs as a lot of people will know that have been here a while along with fake pictures etc you can always catch them out and tell

Also google reverse image is always a good tool

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By *ustBoWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

you are definitely a legend and you were right to teach us lessons

Help! There's a resurgence!!! I'm being attacked! (What do I do now)"

Fight back go on I dare ya

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By *igboobstCouple over a year ago

barrow

No such thing as punching above you both fancy each other= instantly on a level

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"No not at all it’s whatever you want it to be and for some people an escape from there everyday life and meet new people they like not everyone will open there legs for anyone

This... Definitely do not "open my legs" for just anyone.. Charming I must say by the way

Take it you thought you would join and have women on your doorstep within an hour lol. Dial-a-fuck sort of thing

No, just didn’t think I’d have women being as mean as they are who aren’t anywhere near better than I am personality or physically (not that I’m an Adonis). Just blows my mind x

What makes you think they aren't 'anywhere near better' than you are?

Plus, if you're so amazing, why are you contacting these lesser humans?

I connected because I found them attractive, I’m better because they’re nasty and I’m not x

So, you found them attractive but you think you're better physically and have a better personality? Oh, and they are the nasty ones? "

From what they said, a definite yes x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do you think this site is designed for women to fuck blokes they would never dream of getting in real life just because they open their legs?

As well as genuine swingers of course.

Seems it’s a one way game in a lot of respects x"

Sounds bitter....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"OP you say on your profile that you "love all types of women" and yet you find it hard to believe that other men do too?

I’m taking about mean women x"

But is it not mean of you to start a thread berating women for pulling men you think they shouldn't when nobody has asked you for your opinion on the matter? Why do you think it's up to you to decide who these women should and shouldn't be meeting?

I am seeing an increase in the amount of "does he actually like me or does he just want pussy" threads being created by insecure women on here and I'm afraid that perpetrators like you are part of the problem. In your attack on these women you deem unworthy you are also targeting those who already felt vulnerable and insecure about their looks and making them feel ten times worse. Do you really want to be the reason someone is second guessing their worth, just because you're personally not having a great experience on here? Seems to me you would enjoy this place more without the toxic attitude.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No it’s working fine for me. The only problem I’ve had with this site is me.