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I’m sure we have all been there.
You find yourself free. You arrange a meet. Maybe it’s a social and it’s just a coffee In town. They write you a veri (display it or not - it’s there on the newsfeed!) and then the shit in your inbox starts from others who have some notion that you should have been meeting them instead.
It’s put me off meeting anyone.   |
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Always hate this. Worse still when someone I've met gets aggro after a veri of mine.
I get the importance some people place on the veri system. I just wish some other people could refrain from abuse.
Guess that is a general wish, though.  |
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over a year ago
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"I’m sure we have all been there.
You find yourself free. You arrange a meet. Maybe it’s a social and it’s just a coffee In town. They write you a veri (display it or not - it’s there on the newsfeed!) and then the shit in your inbox starts from others who have some notion that you should have been meeting them instead.
It’s put me off meeting anyone. "
I ask people not to leave veris. I only like social ones. |
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"I’m sure we have all been there.
You find yourself free. You arrange a meet. Maybe it’s a social and it’s just a coffee In town. They write you a veri (display it or not - it’s there on the newsfeed!) and then the shit in your inbox starts from others who have some notion that you should have been meeting them instead.
It’s put me off meeting anyone.
I ask people not to leave veris. I only like social ones. "
Mine are 90% social and I’ve even had it for those before. Like Christ almighty. It was a and a bacon sandwich  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m sure we have all been there.
You find yourself free. You arrange a meet. Maybe it’s a social and it’s just a coffee In town. They write you a veri (display it or not - it’s there on the newsfeed!) and then the shit in your inbox starts from others who have some notion that you should have been meeting them instead.
It’s put me off meeting anyone.
I ask people not to leave veris. I only like social ones.
Mine are 90% social and I’ve even had it for those before. Like Christ almighty. It was a and a bacon sandwich "
I know it’s ridiculous. Only problems I’ve ever had on here have been due to bloody veris!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes! Or if I say I'm only looking to meet women at the moment I get messages from men insisting that I should meet them because men have left me verifications in the past. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m sure we have all been there.
You find yourself free. You arrange a meet. Maybe it’s a social and it’s just a coffee In town. They write you a veri (display it or not - it’s there on the newsfeed!) and then the shit in your inbox starts from others who have some notion that you should have been meeting them instead.
It’s put me off meeting anyone. "
Where was my fucking invite. Cant believe you met him but not me ffs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Simple. Post no veris. It's what I do, problem solved. No one needs to know my business and I don't ask after people's either  "
Has someone taken the jam out of your doughnut today my darling. Do you need a nora hug?  |
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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago
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"I’m sure we have all been there.
You find yourself free. You arrange a meet. Maybe it’s a social and it’s just a coffee In town. They write you a veri (display it or not - it’s there on the newsfeed!) and then the shit in your inbox starts from others who have some notion that you should have been meeting them instead.
It’s put me off meeting anyone. "
Thats what happens when your a fab princess, everyone whats some of your time. With great power comes great responsibility |
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"I’m sure we have all been there.
You find yourself free. You arrange a meet. Maybe it’s a social and it’s just a coffee In town. They write you a veri (display it or not - it’s there on the newsfeed!) and then the shit in your inbox starts from others who have some notion that you should have been meeting them instead.
It’s put me off meeting anyone.
Where was my fucking invite. Cant believe you met him but not me ffs "
Omg my cock is bigger than his you missed out on the fuck of your life hun. Do better next time, you know where I am. |
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over a year ago
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"See il fight em or get one of the groupies to give em a slap put what you want send the nobheads to me iv got plenty rage to express"
Oh Christ do you need a hug too?!! |
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"I’m sure we have all been there.
You find yourself free. You arrange a meet. Maybe it’s a social and it’s just a coffee In town. They write you a veri (display it or not - it’s there on the newsfeed!) and then the shit in your inbox starts from others who have some notion that you should have been meeting them instead.
It’s put me off meeting anyone.
Where was my fucking invite. Cant believe you met him but not me ffs
Omg my cock is bigger than his you missed out on the fuck of your life hun. Do better next time, you know where I am. "
But mine cums 300 thimbles full at a time... |
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over a year ago
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"See il fight em or get one of the groupies to give em a slap put what you want send the nobheads to me iv got plenty rage to express
Oh Christ do you need a hug too?!!"
no im in a good mood at the min but fuck with my mates and you gonna snooze |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"Simple. Post no veris. It's what I do, problem solved. No one needs to know my business and I don't ask after people's either
Has someone taken the jam out of your doughnut today my darling. Do you need a nora hug? "
Your hugs are always welcome  |
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"I’m sure we have all been there.
You find yourself free. You arrange a meet. Maybe it’s a social and it’s just a coffee In town. They write you a veri (display it or not - it’s there on the newsfeed!) and then the shit in your inbox starts from others who have some notion that you should have been meeting them instead.
It’s put me off meeting anyone.
Where was my fucking invite. Cant believe you met him but not me ffs
Omg my cock is bigger than his you missed out on the fuck of your life hun. Do better next time, you know where I am.
But mine cums 300 thimbles full at a time..."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m sure we have all been there.
You find yourself free. You arrange a meet. Maybe it’s a social and it’s just a coffee In town. They write you a veri (display it or not - it’s there on the newsfeed!) and then the shit in your inbox starts from others who have some notion that you should have been meeting them instead.
It’s put me off meeting anyone. "
I've had this happen occasionally from ladies I've met in the past tbf and it did feel somewhat like I should take up being a peacekeeper for the UN!
To help put it in perspective though, you can do one of two things;
A) Remind yourself that they must have a high opinion of you to be kicking up such a stink and if they are regular meets simply tell them that you'd love to meet with them as soon as you can, but it's unfair of them to monopolise your time so you ARE prioritising meets that you don't get so much shit from. They "should" then ease off.
B ) If you haven't made any arrangements to meet with them at all, tell them so plainly and any further grief, block and forget. The way I see it, you're getting negative shit in that scenario for no positives whatsoever, best to give them the heave ho. 
B |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
No one should ever make anyone feel like they're the deli counter at sainsburys. You meet who you meet, when you want to meet them!
As others have said though; this is part of the issue with the verification system.
It really shouldn't be anyone's business who you meet or why, the only people who need to know about it are those that met.
Surely after a certain point verifications become completely redundant anyway? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Simple. Post no veris. It's what I do, problem solved. No one needs to know my business and I don't ask after people's either
Has someone taken the jam out of your doughnut today my darling. Do you need a nora hug?
Your hugs are always welcome "
On my way  |
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Ugh, luckily i havent had this but I wouldn't have much patience for it. I always aim to be respectful to people I meet but nobody is entitled to all your free time and unless it's been specified otherwise, it's surely a bit of a given on a site like this that you won't only be meeting them. |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"I’m sure we have all been there.
You find yourself free. You arrange a meet. Maybe it’s a social and it’s just a coffee In town. They write you a veri (display it or not - it’s there on the newsfeed!) and then the shit in your inbox starts from others who have some notion that you should have been meeting them instead.
It’s put me off meeting anyone.
I've had this happen occasionally from ladies I've met in the past tbf and it did feel somewhat like I should take up being a peacekeeper for the UN!
To help put it in perspective though, you can do one of two things;
A) Remind yourself that they must have a high opinion of you to be kicking up such a stink and if they are regular meets simply tell them that you'd love to meet with them as soon as you can, but it's unfair of them to monopolise your time so you ARE prioritising meets that you don't get so much shit from. They "should" then ease off.
B ) If you haven't made any arrangements to meet with them at all, tell them so plainly and any further grief, block and forget. The way I see it, you're getting negative shit in that scenario for no positives whatsoever, best to give them the heave ho.
B"
Well said brother I fortunately no longer have this problem and meet people who are mature and know the realities of fab |
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I believe if you don’t show your verification summary, even if someone leaves you a veri and you don’t show it, the fact you received a veri won’t show in the feed updates.
It’s not worth the hassle but unfortunately it still happens. For this reason I only show social veris and not my verification summary |
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"No one should ever make anyone feel like they're the deli counter at sainsburys. You meet who you meet, when you want to meet them!
As others have said though; this is part of the issue with the verification system.
It really shouldn't be anyone's business who you meet or why, the only people who need to know about it are those that met.
Surely after a certain point verifications become completely redundant anyway?"
Yeah now I've got a few to prove I'm real I feel like any more is a bit pointless. I return them when left or give them if asked but otherwise I'm not that bothered. I worry it might offend someone one day though haha. |
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Unfortunately arseholes are going to be arseholes no matter what you do 
That said, that is the main reason that I don't display my verifications - I just can't be bothered with the pettiness of it all |
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"I believe if you don’t show your verification summary, even if someone leaves you a veri and you don’t show it, the fact you received a veri won’t show in the feed updates.
It’s not worth the hassle but unfortunately it still happens. For this reason I only show social veris and not my verification summary "
Same |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Nah fuck it. Don't let it put you off people you want to meet. I think you can get shit off whatever you do on here, it's a bit bloody ridiculous.
I like the veri system, it can be nice to look back on memories as it were. And read how others see you. Also, I'm bloody nosey. On the other hand, it can be used as a weird weapon.
Anyway - people still talk about who they have met. Whether or not they display the veris. |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"No one should ever make anyone feel like they're the deli counter at sainsburys. You meet who you meet, when you want to meet them!
As others have said though; this is part of the issue with the verification system.
It really shouldn't be anyone's business who you meet or why, the only people who need to know about it are those that met.
Surely after a certain point verifications become completely redundant anyway?
Yeah now I've got a few to prove I'm real I feel like any more is a bit pointless. I return them when left or give them if asked but otherwise I'm not that bothered. I worry it might offend someone one day though haha."
I know that some people use them as mementos of meets, etc. That's up to them, the point of verifications is to prove you're real. I'm not getting any more real by collecting more veris! |
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"No one should ever make anyone feel like they're the deli counter at sainsburys. You meet who you meet, when you want to meet them!
As others have said though; this is part of the issue with the verification system.
It really shouldn't be anyone's business who you meet or why, the only people who need to know about it are those that met.
Surely after a certain point verifications become completely redundant anyway?
Yeah now I've got a few to prove I'm real I feel like any more is a bit pointless. I return them when left or give them if asked but otherwise I'm not that bothered. I worry it might offend someone one day though haha.
I know that some people use them as mementos of meets, etc. That's up to them, the point of verifications is to prove you're real. I'm not getting any more real by collecting more veris! "
Yeah I have no issue with others doing it differently, it's just how I started feeling about them recently. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When I had a meet the other day half the ladies on here were the ones having a go at me
And yet you've no verification... "
Exactly these chicks are crazy for us |
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