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Yes Most of single folk on here are Married so what is go on for us to feel the need to be on here?
Im my hubby's carer I have the ok from him to be but he dont want to know details
So yes some might say I have it made
But the truth is why are we all on who married what is going on for us to have this Need? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everyone has an individual story.
Bottom line i guess, thdy cant get slong, fallen out of love, but can't face upto it-financial, family, kids, parents, personal cowardice sll contrivute to them trying to effectively cheat. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would assume if someone was married but on here secretly, they see it as an 'easy' way to cheat, however, they would have probably cheated anyway, with ot without fab. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm about to be amicably divorced but have had no ties financial or other for almost 9 years of separation and been on and off here for most of that time, being most active on this profile. I have my own reasons for being here.
Good question (I've PMd you). From chatting or meeting fella's, I've since realised everyone has a story to tell - it's not always clearly cut/black and white why married or attached fella's are here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most are not married. A few are married.
I'm married and not to Beast. I'm in an open marriage. Here with his full consent and he's here too. I am polygamous, I have been in the swinging lifestyle but much prefer what I have now which is the feelings I have for Beast - which I am open to my husband about. He has met beast and they get on well but apart from that he has no impact on the relationship I have with beast. |
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"Most are not married. A few are married.
I'm married and not to Beast. I'm in an open marriage. Here with his full consent and he's here too. I am polygamous, I have been in the swinging lifestyle but much prefer what I have now which is the feelings I have for Beast - which I am open to my husband about. He has met beast and they get on well but apart from that he has no impact on the relationship I have with beast. "
Wow sounds a wonderful arrangement ... would love something like that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get a lot of people brand new with the married label and then don’t speak to me because they think they smell a fish.
Few who ruin blokes who ruin it for many but I guess everyone’s individual wants and needs are vastly different to someone else’s. we’re all unique after all. |
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"One things for sure a married single woman will get a much easier ride than a married single man"
From some people that might be true but there's lots of folks on here that won't meet cheats of either sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I suspect most guys here won't care if the woman is married..
But many women will not want to meet a married man of which the wife is unaware.
But Correct me if wrong."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't say it's a need for me. I'm here because my husband said he liked the idea of me sleeping with other people so I agreed to give it a try. He doesn't like to get involved, he just likes me to tell him about it later.
For myself I'm here mostly for women since I'm bisexual and largely same sex attracted.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think everyone has their own reasons and they can differ greatly.
Whatever that reason is the person doing it feels it's sufficient to justify their actions. |
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"I don't think most single people here are married. Lots, but not most.
Thank you NSA not all of us are 
Yup....don't tar us all with your own brush op"
What brush is there to tar with? She's here with her husband's blessing. |
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"I don't think most single people here are married. Lots, but not most.
Thank you NSA not all of us are
Yup....don't tar us all with your own brush op
What brush is there to tar with? She's here with her husband's blessing."
The brush which says most single people on here are married.... |
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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago
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"I don't think most single people here are married. Lots, but not most.
Thank you NSA not all of us are
Yup....don't tar us all with your own brush op
What brush is there to tar with? She's here with her husband's blessing.
The brush which says most single people on here are married...."
Any one who thinks swinging is not cheating is living in cuckoo land I enjoy the land lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There will be those who are here because they have been told they can look for their fun elsewhere as long as they still go home afterwards."
Sums me up ....I won't do married guys cheating on the wife tho
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"I don't think most single people here are married. Lots, but not most.
Thank you NSA not all of us are
Yup....don't tar us all with your own brush op
What brush is there to tar with? She's here with her husband's blessing.
The brush which says most single people on here are married...."
What's wrong with being married? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't think most single people here are married. Lots, but not most.
Thank you NSA not all of us are
Yup....don't tar us all with your own brush op
What brush is there to tar with? She's here with her husband's blessing.
The brush which says most single people on here are married....
What's wrong with being married?"
I'd get jealous |
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"I don't think most single people here are married. Lots, but not most.
Thank you NSA not all of us are
Yup....don't tar us all with your own brush op
What brush is there to tar with? She's here with her husband's blessing.
The brush which says most single people on here are married....
What's wrong with being married?"
Are you being deliberately obtuse? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't think most single people here are married. Lots, but not most.
Thank you NSA not all of us are
Yup....don't tar us all with your own brush op
What brush is there to tar with? She's here with her husband's blessing.
The brush which says most single people on here are married....
What's wrong with being married?"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't think most single people here are married. Lots, but not most.
Thank you NSA not all of us are
Yup....don't tar us all with your own brush op
What brush is there to tar with? She's here with her husband's blessing.
The brush which says most single people on here are married....
What's wrong with being married?"
Absolutely nothing........seems many people don’t approve! |
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"I don't think most single people here are married. Lots, but not most.
Thank you NSA not all of us are
Yup....don't tar us all with your own brush op
What brush is there to tar with? She's here with her husband's blessing.
The brush which says most single people on here are married....
What's wrong with being married?
Are you being deliberately obtuse?"
No I'm just trying to figure out what you think she's doing wrong in order to be tarring others with her brush. |
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"I don't think most single people here are married. Lots, but not most.
Thank you NSA not all of us are
Yup....don't tar us all with your own brush op
What brush is there to tar with? She's here with her husband's blessing.
The brush which says most single people on here are married....
What's wrong with being married?
Are you being deliberately obtuse?
No I'm just trying to figure out what you think she's doing wrong in order to be tarring others with her brush."
She has a single profile but is married and has accused most other singles of also being married and having single profiles....that's not true now is it? Lots of others have said the same.
That's the brush. Not that hard to comprehend really. |
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For further clarification...because it seems to be needed more and more on these forums these days...I don't care if the OP is married and playing with her partner's knowledge and acceptance. I don't care if she's fucking around behind his back.
The point is that not all or even most single profiles are people who are married. The only reason she stated that is to try to make her look.a bit better. She needn't have fond that because we all know women who play away are far superior and more widely accepted than the men on here. This thread would have flamed within 60 seconds if it were a guy posting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"One things for sure a married single woman will get a much easier ride than a married single man
Same in clubs
Guys get thrown out for touching without asking...women don't...  "
I don't think anyone should touch without asking/ consent  I think thats what you meant anyway, just making it clear |
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"For further clarification...because it seems to be needed more and more on these forums these days...I don't care if the OP is married and playing with her partner's knowledge and acceptance. I don't care if she's fucking around behind his back.
The point is that not all or even most single profiles are people who are married. The only reason she stated that is to try to make her look.a bit better. She needn't have fond that because we all know women who play away are far superior and more widely accepted than the men on here. This thread would have flamed within 60 seconds if it were a guy posting. "
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"One things for sure a married single woman will get a much easier ride than a married single man
Same in clubs
Guys get thrown out for touching without asking...women don't...
I don't think anyone should touch without asking/ consent I think thats what you meant anyway, just making it clear"
Exactly..but they don't
I have been touched several times by women uninvited
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There will be those who are here because they have been told they can look for their fun elsewhere as long as they still go home afterwards. Sums me up ....I won't do married guys cheating on the wife tho"
But what of the guy has the same situation as you?
Would you still class that as cheating? |
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"There will be those who are here because they have been told they can look for their fun elsewhere as long as they still go home afterwards."
Thats me hubby doesnt want to know details as long as I come home to him and I always will he is my rock. I just need something he cannot provide at this moment in time |
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"For further clarification...because it seems to be needed more and more on these forums these days...I don't care if the OP is married and playing with her partner's knowledge and acceptance. I don't care if she's fucking around behind his back.
The point is that not all or even most single profiles are people who are married. The only reason she stated that is to try to make her look.a bit better. She needn't have fond that because we all know women who play away are far superior and more widely accepted than the men on here. This thread would have flamed within 60 seconds if it were a guy posting. "
It just amuses me on a swinging site to see couples being judged negatively for playing separately with full consent of the other partner.
Her assessment of how many single profiles are married people may have been wrong but why does she need to make herself look better? What is wrong with what she is doing in terms of sleeping with others with consent from her husband? I.e. swinging. |
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"For further clarification...because it seems to be needed more and more on these forums these days...I don't care if the OP is married and playing with her partner's knowledge and acceptance. I don't care if she's fucking around behind his back.
The point is that not all or even most single profiles are people who are married. The only reason she stated that is to try to make her look.a bit better. She needn't have fond that because we all know women who play away are far superior and more widely accepted than the men on here. This thread would have flamed within 60 seconds if it were a guy posting.
It just amuses me on a swinging site to see couples being judged negatively for playing separately with full consent of the other partner.
Her assessment of how many single profiles are married people may have been wrong but why does she need to make herself look better? What is wrong with what she is doing in terms of sleeping with others with consent from her husband? I.e. swinging."
Oh dear lord!
I don't think she needs to make herself look better but it is my assumption that she made the sweeping generalisation because she doesn't want to feel like the only one, hence make herself feel better about the situation.
I'm not judging her negatively. I was simply passing comment on the fact that I don't believe most single profiles are people who are attached and playing in whatever guise they choose.
As you will see from the post you quoted, I couldn't give a flying one of sites playing with it without consent. My comment passed no judgement, I'm not sure why you're so bothered by it really. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm here with full consent, but so is he....we love to hear about each others adventures.
Most women here don't believe he has full consent even though I'm always open to the question from any female he may be chatting to.
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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago
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"I'm here with full consent, but so is he....we love to hear about each others adventures.
Most women here don't believe he has full consent even though I'm always open to the question from any female he may be chatting to.
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None of us need consent to live our lives , Our lives are are own to be enjoyed |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't think most single people here are married. Lots, but not most. "
I'm not married, never have been, and due to a recent change in my circumstances, have updated to reflect this and am curretly not meeting, as I'm no cheater.
Maybe just a bit of a Tiger. Rawr.
If it so happens that the person I'm seeing is open to trying swinging (I have a sneaky suspicion that she might be), or should suggest that I would be free to play with others (we aren't able to hook up quite as often as we'd both like), then I will be fully open and honest about it. |
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"Most are not married. A few are married.
I'm married and not to Beast. I'm in an open marriage. Here with his full consent and he's here too. I am polygamous, I have been in the swinging lifestyle but much prefer what I have now which is the feelings I have for Beast - which I am open to my husband about. He has met beast and they get on well but apart from that he has no impact on the relationship I have with beast.
Wow sounds a wonderful arrangement ... would love something like that "
I think it sounds more fun a perfect that it actually is in reality. |
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"I'm here with full consent, but so is he....we love to hear about each others adventures.
Most women here don't believe he has full consent even though I'm always open to the question from any female he may be chatting to.
None of us need consent to live our lives , Our lives are are own to be enjoyed "
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By *osie xWoman
over a year ago
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I’m single, well, divorced ( tried marriage once and didn’t like it)
I have met a single on here that turned out married and I ended it, not because of the marriage, it was the lose of trust from the lying.
I think if you are honest from the start and the other person is ok with it then it’s all good and no one else’s business |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes Most of single folk on here are Married so what is go on for us to feel the need to be on here?
Im my hubby's carer I have the ok from him to be but he dont want to know details
So yes some might say I have it made
But the truth is why are we all on who married what is going on for us to have this Need?"
I'm single so not true but if someone is married and not getting any attention off partner or any activity in the bedroom either their is only one option get them into swinging with you or go out and find someone that will it's a tough one |
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By *eeowlsMan
over a year ago
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I’m married we have a cpl profile on here but mrs no longer plays unfortunately due to her health!!
She knows I’m here and I have her full permission!!
I’m now her carer as her health as deteriorated so much over last 2 years or so bless her!!
So yes everybody who is married has their own reasons for being on here as we swung for over 15 years together xx
My wife didn’t want me to lose out on the fun and also friendships you find on the scene!! |
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"Don't judge them till you have walked in there shoes, the reasons they are here are there reasons alone ,  "
Just the same as the people who have their own reasons for not meeting folks that cheat. |
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There is single and fab single, as long as the married ones are honest about it so a choice can be made then it makes no difference to me, when they take that choice away and lie about it then block and delete is best. |
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