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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I was just wondering what people prefer, especially some of you more seasoned swingers out there. Do you prefer friends that you have met many times before or do you prefer new encounters with new people? |
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
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I just go with the flow and sometimes that means a one-off, sometimes I might meet people more than once.
But its not something that I particularly think about in advance, so guess I dont really have a preference |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"both
i like the familiarity of knowing someone, but i also like the thrill of the unknown
so it's gotta be a mix-up"
I get the both bit but how many repeats till it gets to being more than a meet? It all has me wondering after talking to one or two. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We like a mix of both,it could be months between meeting someone we've already met which is fine as boredom is'nt something I want to feel with any playmates
I never want to see the same person too regularly,and I don't expect they do either  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"both
i like the familiarity of knowing someone, but i also like the thrill of the unknown
so it's gotta be a mix-up
I get the both bit but how many repeats till it gets to being more than a meet? It all has me wondering after talking to one or two. "
it all depends what you both feel and take from it
i have been meeting one guy for 3 years
we have zero contact for weeks sometimes months and then we will say 'hi' and arrange to meet
he comes in, we have sex, have a lie on the bed and a chat for a while and then he showers and leaves
no veri's, no thanks, no great to see you's, just an attraction and a mutual liking for the same things
at the other extreme, i have a fb who i have known since 2006, he knows my mrs (and yes they get on), he knows all my mates, we have been away together, we exchange gifts at christmas and holidays, but we live seperate lives
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love the anticipation of a new meet, but am getting to the point where for now there r a few guys I know who just give me what I need and want. If I am going to the effort of meeting someone I want it to be good, and a few have been more mouth than trousers and not in a good way 
One in particular I would jump through hoops to get to and fight of snakes with my bare hands
It's pure lust, and I hope to whoever that it lasts 
Just no lovey dovey shit thanks, though I am sure there r those who do develop feelings with regulars    |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"One in particular I would jump through hoops to get to and fight of snakes with my bare hands
flattery will get you anywhere young lady "
It's the best cock I ever met, and a nice guy too, so glad I decided to answer his message all those months ago, imagine if I hadn't |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"One in particular I would jump through hoops to get to and fight of snakes with my bare hands
flattery will get you anywhere young lady
It's the best cock I ever met, and a nice guy too, so glad I decided to answer his message all those months ago, imagine if I hadn't "
Makes you wonder all those that ignore messages  |
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"I was just wondering what people prefer, especially some of you more seasoned swingers out there. Do you prefer friends that you have met many times before or do you prefer new encounters with new people?"
I like both... but... with the repeats there tends to be a flurry of meets one after the other and then I tend to want to space it out a bit more to stop it feeling samey. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have met people again if Ive had a really good meet and got on really well with them, but there will be quite a bit of time inbetween meets. We do prefer new adventures |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"One in particular I would jump through hoops to get to and fight of snakes with my bare hands
flattery will get you anywhere young lady
It's the best cock I ever met, and a nice guy too, so glad I decided to answer his message all those months ago, imagine if I hadn't
Makes you wonder all those that ignore messages "
Well as he sent a decent message with a face pic first time as profile requests it would have been rude not to say hello but that I wasn't available that night
Then he proceeded to sweet talk me and after an hour on the phone it was a done deal, we clicked
U can't do that with every message
Saying that I reply to the dross too, I am a lady after all haha |
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