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Have you ever fallen for your first meet ?
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By *ylan11 OP Man
over a year ago
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When I first ventured into this field I thought it was simply you meet and complete each other’s desires and you left .
My first meet threw me a-bit to say the least , it was intense and emotional on all levels but I forgot to leave my emotions at the door .
When you was new to fab did you come across this fence ? Did you fall or take the leap ? |
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By *ylan11 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Do you remember the first time?
I can't remember a worst time,
But we've changed so much since then,
We've grown....."
The first time I was well nervous as to are they genuine are they for real and so on . |
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over a year ago
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No but I've had someone say they'd fallen for me and wanted me in their life forever.
Not what I expected at all!!
But he was fucking someone else the whole time
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By *ylan11 OP Man
over a year ago
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"No but I've had someone say they'd fallen for me and wanted me in their life forever.
Not what I expected at all!!
But he was fucking someone else the whole time
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There’s a lot of that on this site you’ve just got to be wary X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No but I've had someone say they'd fallen for me and wanted me in their life forever.
Not what I expected at all!!
But he was fucking someone else the whole time
You can't half pick 'em.  "
That's makes it sound like there's been loads!  |
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By *ylan11 OP Man
over a year ago
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"No but I've had someone say they'd fallen for me and wanted me in their life forever.
Not what I expected at all!!
But he was fucking someone else the whole time
You can't half pick 'em.
Lol
That's makes it sound like there's been loads! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No but I've had someone say they'd fallen for me and wanted me in their life forever.
Not what I expected at all!!
But he was fucking someone else the whole time
There’s a lot of that on this site you’ve just got to be wary X"
Think I'll quit while I'm ahead then! |
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By *ylan11 OP Man
over a year ago
osterley |
"No but I've had someone say they'd fallen for me and wanted me in their life forever.
Not what I expected at all!!
But he was fucking someone else the whole time
There’s a lot of that on this site you’ve just got to be wary X
Think I'll quit while I'm ahead then! "
Dam I’ve just DM’d you lol x |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"No but I've had someone say they'd fallen for me and wanted me in their life forever.
Not what I expected at all!!
But he was fucking someone else the whole time
You can't half pick 'em.
That's makes it sound like there's been loads! "
I didn't mean it like that. Sorry. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be honest feelings don’t scare me like they do a lot of people. I prefer it. I know I’ll only ever want a FWB situation, and with only one person. I don’t want anything else and never will. I make that very clear from the start. Don’t know how people can have a regular thing long term with people without some sort of feelings! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cringe warning!
My first meet became one of my best friends and I do love her. But probably not in the sense you mean in the OP"
Same. But it was my second. He’s one of my bestest friends in the world and we love each other to bits. |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"To be honest feelings don’t scare me like they do a lot of people. I prefer it. I know I’ll only ever want a FWB situation, and with only one person. I don’t want anything else and never will. I make that very clear from the start. Don’t know how people can have a regular thing long term with people without some sort of feelings! "
We're all different.
Each to their own. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To be honest feelings don’t scare me like they do a lot of people. I prefer it. I know I’ll only ever want a FWB situation, and with only one person. I don’t want anything else and never will. I make that very clear from the start. Don’t know how people can have a regular thing long term with people without some sort of feelings!
We're all different.
Each to their own. "
Oh yes. I know. Didn’t mean it was wrong to not have. I already know I’m not the norm on this site  |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"To be honest feelings don’t scare me like they do a lot of people. I prefer it. I know I’ll only ever want a FWB situation, and with only one person. I don’t want anything else and never will. I make that very clear from the start. Don’t know how people can have a regular thing long term with people without some sort of feelings!
We're all different.
Each to their own.
Oh yes. I know. Didn’t mean it was wrong to not have. I already know I’m not the norm on this site "
I know you didn't.
'norm' on this site - sod that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To be honest feelings don’t scare me like they do a lot of people. I prefer it. I know I’ll only ever want a FWB situation, and with only one person. I don’t want anything else and never will. I make that very clear from the start. Don’t know how people can have a regular thing long term with people without some sort of feelings!
We're all different.
Each to their own.
Oh yes. I know. Didn’t mean it was wrong to not have. I already know I’m not the norm on this site
I know you didn't.
'norm' on this site - sod that. "
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Spent over a year with my first meet and I still think the world of him. We stopped at a good time and I have no regrets. Had the greatest time but it wasn’t meant to be anything more than it was for either of us. The key is communication and knowing when it’s time to step it up or make a change. |
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By *ylan11 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Spent over a year with my first meet and I still think the world of him. We stopped at a good time and I have no regrets. Had the greatest time but it wasn’t meant to be anything more than it was for either of us. The key is communication and knowing when it’s time to step it up or make a change."
How did you know ? |
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Feelings apart from friendship don’t come into it. I’m clear from the start how I am and I have intention of any feelings either way (except friendship) materialise. If I get a hint of anything more than that, I’m off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Spent over a year with my first meet and I still think the world of him. We stopped at a good time and I have no regrets. Had the greatest time but it wasn’t meant to be anything more than it was for either of us. The key is communication and knowing when it’s time to step it up or make a change."
Remember I fell over... a bar stool when we first met |
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"Spent over a year with my first meet and I still think the world of him. We stopped at a good time and I have no regrets. Had the greatest time but it wasn’t meant to be anything more than it was for either of us. The key is communication and knowing when it’s time to step it up or make a change.
How did you know ? "
Just felt like something needed to change... it had run its course. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Feelings apart from friendship don’t come into it. I’m clear from the start how I am and I have intention of any feelings either way (except friendship) materialise. If I get a hint of anything more than that, I’m off. "
But I loves ya chick. Don’t leave me!!! |
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My third meet turned into a stalker. It wasn't nice and won't go into details here. I've also had others that want me to become "regular", I've had over 30 years of that and not what I'm looking for now from swinging. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cringe warning!
My first meet became one of my best friends and I do love her. But probably not in the sense you mean in the OP
Same. But it was my second. He’s one of my bestest friends in the world and we love each other to bits. "
This wasn't you about you Nora. Keep out of my pants please |
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By *ylan11 OP Man
over a year ago
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"My third meet turned into a stalker. It wasn't nice and won't go into details here. I've also had others that want me to become "regular", I've had over 30 years of that and not what I'm looking for now from swinging. "
Hope your well and called the police x |
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"Feelings apart from friendship don’t come into it. I’m clear from the start how I am and I have intention of any feelings either way (except friendship) materialise. If I get a hint of anything more than that, I’m off.
But I loves ya chick. Don’t leave me!!!"
Haha Nora, you daft bat, I’m not going anywhere.... friends love is way different |
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"My third meet turned into a stalker. It wasn't nice and won't go into details here. I've also had others that want me to become "regular", I've had over 30 years of that and not what I'm looking for now from swinging.
Hope your well and called the police x"
I didn't have to because I knew where he worked so threatened him with that. But I would have done. Thanks for message x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Feelings apart from friendship don’t come into it. I’m clear from the start how I am and I have intention of any feelings either way (except friendship) materialise. If I get a hint of anything more than that, I’m off.
But I loves ya chick. Don’t leave me!!!
Haha Nora, you daft bat, I’m not going anywhere.... friends love is way different "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cringe warning!
My first meet became one of my best friends and I do love her. But probably not in the sense you mean in the OP
Same. But it was my second. He’s one of my bestest friends in the world and we love each other to bits.
This wasn't you about you Nora. Keep out of my pants please "
Hahahaha. Yes sir |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve fallen in the past, and to be honest I think that sparked the end of this lifestyle for me. It turned into a regular thing for several months... and I only wanted him. I haven’t met anyone since.
This was 2 years ago |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’ve fallen in the past, and to be honest I think that sparked the end of this lifestyle for me. It turned into a regular thing for several months... and I only wanted him. I haven’t met anyone since.
This was 2 years ago "
If you ever change your mind, I'd do you |
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By *ylan11 OP Man
over a year ago
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"I’ve fallen in the past, and to be honest I think that sparked the end of this lifestyle for me. It turned into a regular thing for several months... and I only wanted him. I haven’t met anyone since.
This was 2 years ago "
It’s a rough ride , pardon the pun all the best x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve fallen in the past, and to be honest I think that sparked the end of this lifestyle for me. It turned into a regular thing for several months... and I only wanted him. I haven’t met anyone since.
This was 2 years ago
If you ever change your mind, I'd do you"
Ha reassuring to know!
It really can be OP, right when you least expect it too! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve fallen in the past, and to be honest I think that sparked the end of this lifestyle for me. It turned into a regular thing for several months... and I only wanted him. I haven’t met anyone since.
This was 2 years ago
If you ever change your mind, I'd do you
Ha reassuring to know!
It really can be OP, right when you least expect it too!"
I dont like to talk about it much, but I did recently win some awards that might impress you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When I first ventured into this field I thought it was simply you meet and complete each other’s desires and you left .
My first meet threw me a-bit to say the least , it was intense and emotional on all levels but I forgot to leave my emotions at the door .
When you was new to fab did you come across this fence ? Did you fall or take the leap ?"
No she asked me for anal and cover my cock I’m s*it lol though I met my partner on fab |
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"Nah you have to do whats best for business,
Fuck em and chuck em, then you can't get too attached
Remind me to never meet you then  "
I'm devastated ,not sure I'm gonna get over it.
Might as well delete my account...
Get over yourself love |
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"Nah you have to do whats best for business,
Fuck em and chuck em, then you can't get too attached
Remind me to never meet you then
I'm devastated ,not sure I'm gonna get over it.
Might as well delete my account...
Get over yourself love "
Perfect response. You answered the question truthfully from your perspective. I don’t see why somebody else would take offence to it and get in a strut. Everyone is entitled to their preference of arrangements. Some prefer the long-engagements, others, on-demand NSA. One isn’t better than the other.  |
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"Nah you have to do whats best for business,
Fuck em and chuck em, then you can't get too attached
Remind me to never meet you then "
Would you rather people got emotionally attached to you after every meet?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I developed some feelings for one guy a couple of years ago. He was my regular fabber and so far best sex I had. But over the time he became an asshole and eventually I had to block him and forget about him. |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
Paisley |
Not my first meet on here but fell for one guy the first time we met. There was definitely a spark on both sides. We even had a couple profile for a while. Lasted about a year or so. It was great while it lasted. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nah you have to do whats best for business,
Fuck em and chuck em, then you can't get too attached
Remind me to never meet you then
I'm devastated ,not sure I'm gonna get over it.
Might as well delete my account...
Get over yourself love "
It’s New Years! Untwist you’re panties and lighten up. Jeeze. It’s simply I’m not a fuck and chuck type, I have had many fwb that I have seen regular and others I see on the odd occasion, we’re not all bunny boilers- honest! L x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nah you have to do whats best for business,
Fuck em and chuck em, then you can't get too attached
Remind me to never meet you then
Would you rather people got emotionally attached to you after every meet?! "
Of course not. But as long as everyone is on the same level there’s no reason it can’t be regular or a friendship too! I have a different type of relationship for everyone one of my ‘friends!’  L x |
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Not with the first but I spend a lot of my life straddling that fence. Not neccessarily falling for but I've developed strong affections. A lot of things in life turn out to be temporary, you just enjoy it in the moment. That's kind of how I approach my intimate interactions. As long as we're good and honest to each other, if it comes to an end I'll be grateful for the good times and wish them all the best in the future. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Not with the first but I spend a lot of my life straddling that fence. Not neccessarily falling for but I've developed strong affections. A lot of things in life turn out to be temporary, you just enjoy it in the moment. That's kind of how I approach my intimate interactions. As long as we're good and honest to each other, if it comes to an end I'll be grateful for the good times and wish them all the best in the future. "
Your posts on this sort of topic always echo and resonate with my thoughts. Beautifully put as ever Lacey. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When I first ventured into this field I thought it was simply you meet and complete each other’s desires and you left .
My first meet threw me a-bit to say the least , it was intense and emotional on all levels but I forgot to leave my emotions at the door .
When you was new to fab did you come across this fence ? Did you fall or take the leap ?"
No but I've fallen for my latest one. He just has every skill a girl needs sexually and he's a thoroughly nice guy too. Been seeing him for a few months now and not been much interested in anyone else to be honest. Dave is cool with it and says "You can't help who you fall in love with". |
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By *ylan11 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Not with the first but I spend a lot of my life straddling that fence. Not neccessarily falling for but I've developed strong affections. A lot of things in life turn out to be temporary, you just enjoy it in the moment. That's kind of how I approach my intimate interactions. As long as we're good and honest to each other, if it comes to an end I'll be grateful for the good times and wish them all the best in the future.
Your posts on this sort of topic always echo and resonate with my thoughts. Beautifully put as ever Lacey. "
Intriguing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One of my first ever meets - from a different site not here I have been friends with for around 13 years. He's met my family, went to my wedding but I've never felt more for him than really good friendship.
Beast and I fell for each other quite quickly although he said it first while he was d*unk! |
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By *latinumkittenWoman
over a year ago
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I saw my first for a few months and he taught me a lot, then admitted he had inner conflict and used the L word. He stepped away from me and indeed fab, which I was sad about but it did make even friendship awkward so was the right move.
I'm a very passionate person and have built some amazing friendships on here, but don't confuse that with love, it's not on my agenda. |
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Not my first meet, but my first fwb back in my Tinder days. He was in the middle of moving out of the country and we fell for each other hard. It was the biggest heartbreak of my life. He’s been back in the UK for a few years and we’re good friends |
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