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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah, a guy who works in Tesco spotted me. Sent me a message to ask if he could chat next time, I said no, I’m anxious as fuck
So what does he do? Comes up to me while I’m pregnant and with my two sisters (15 and 11 at the time) and starts chatting about fab. My husband steers my sisters and I away, and I go have a panic attack in the bathroom.
He always tries chatting when I’m there now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I was still living in Manchester I definitely caught eye contact on the street with people I recognised from Fab, they seemed to recognise me too. Nothing was said though, bit awkward haha |
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I've recognised people and been recognised by folk in public, but it doesn't occur to me to say anything. People's lives are their own, I guess.
Plus I don't have the proper confidence in my own words to say, like, "Hey, fab sweater!" without sounding like a right flump irl. |
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No but i've been seen.
Once by my postbox looking like death and he messaged me to say he'd seen me
Once I was in a car with rellies and never noticed the other bloke..... he too messaged me to tell me he'd seen me.
Once again I was in a car and got a message saying .. 'Just seen you.Where do you work?'
I've never seen anyone from here.
Once saw someone from another site though as he told me where he worked and I happened to have to go there one time ( my friend not me ) . He'd never seen me so I just watched him at work thinking .......fuck this is weird i'm glad it's not the other way around. I never mentioned who I was. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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But I do get seen pretty often. I remember me and C took our dogs for a big walk around town and I had seven different men message me to say they saw me. Three of them verified me. I didn’t spot any of them.
I even bumped into one guy who I had been chatting to. He has cute chihuahuas and my husband spotted them and said ‘oh babe look you’ll love them’ so I went over to see the dogs without seeing who had them.
I didn’t know he was married and me and C stood for ten mins chatting to him and his wife. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's a couple down the road who are on here. Occasionally see them when out,always wave & say hello.
Fab not been mentioned by either of us. Discression is everything. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No but i've been seen.
Once by my postbox looking like death and he messaged me to say he'd seen me
Once I was in a car with rellies and never noticed the other bloke..... he too messaged me to tell me he'd seen me.
Once again I was in a car and got a message saying .. 'Just seen you.Where do you work?'
I've never seen anyone from here.
Once saw someone from another site though as he told me where he worked and I happened to have to go there one time ( my friend not me ) . He'd never seen me so I just watched him at work thinking .......fuck this is weird i'm glad it's not the other way around. I never mentioned who I was. "
Haha get this all the time on gay app Grindr |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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I got recognised by someone whilst on holiday, he didn't approach me at the time but sent a message on here later to tell me. We were in the same place the next three nights and saw each other then as well. Nice guy. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I saw a lady in costa and recognised her tattoo and as I walked out i said ‘fab tattoo’ and she grinned. Normally, if I saw someone I recognised, I’d not say a word. "
What made you say that to her ? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes they luckily kept on walking by but did text when got to the end of the street to ask if they should come back..., erm no two very separate worlds "
Can you imagine actually going back. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I recognise a gorgeous lady off here in tesco, but I'd never say anything to them. It wouldn't bother me if a female recognised me and spoke, but I'm sure it would bother most people |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A guy delivered to my house then messaged me to say we'd met, when I said we hadn't he said he could prove it and asked me how the takeaway I'd just had was. My response must have scared him sufficiently as I never heard from him again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't chat to local people so I'm unlikely to recognise anyone and vice versa. I'd be annoyed beyond belief if I were recognised though which is why I give nothing away to locals. |
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"Yes they luckily kept on walking by but did text when got to the end of the street to ask if they should come back..., erm no two very separate worlds
Can you imagine actually going back."
If he’d stopped him I wouldn’t have been amused, but would have covered it up
Honestly I was a bit taken aback to see him, seeing as though he was from Scotland and just happened to walk past my local pub near work, which is not on a main street |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve had 2 encounters.
1 on Oxford Street and the second on the underground tube late at night.
Oxford street she was red faced.
On the tube we kept looking at each other and smiling. We got off and go up to stuff. Was fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have been recognised a few times, had a few funny looks when we were in town but generally who ever recognises us sends us a 'ive just seen you' message on here" never had that and I never do it public but will give knowing nod if I can would hate if some one but on the spot in public with my anxiety |
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Was in a local coffee shop to me and saw a lady who I saw on fab, was like seeing a celebrity, sent her a message asking if I could join her for a coffee, she happily agreed half hour into our coffee and chat show asked if I would like a blowjob in the toilet i happily agreed, one of the best blow jobs I've had to this day.... went back to finish our coffee and get the odd naughty pic sent on here but nothing more has came of it yet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bumped into a member in Morrisons .. Emm didn't know her but got chatting about cake decorating etc...lol i knew her but was discrete about Fab but dropped a hint about a new project she had mentioned. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes!!! At work of all places. Slight shock.
It actually really did make me smile though. Literally crossed paths in the corridor. We stopped had a little natter. I loved it ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I got 'outed' on a night out, some young lad recognised me and mentioned it in front of my friends! He then messaged me, he got told and blocked. "
Ah, if only they learn to keep their tongues from wagging !! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes iv met 2 in my taxi (not a fake taxi) lol I just said cheers n goodbye n happy fabbing lol 1 was devastated he never got to do anything in my taxi "
I was just gonna say ... what taxis be these you find yourself in ;p |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been recognised at work and subsequently messaged to say they saw me. I'd totally drop in a 'fab' comment if I recognised someone and they were Alone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I went to Halfords to pick up a car stereo I had ordered and behind the counter was the cute guy who had messaged earlier in the week...
I never mentioned Fab and he never recognised me.
I would never dream of saying anything to people I recognise in town, I wouldn't like to be approached so I offer the same courtesy, especially with him being at work. You don't mess with people's jobs that is a line not to be crossed
I have recognised a few local guys from Fab I have chatted too, always get a cursory nod or quick acknowledgement which is fine, but hate for a public declaration
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"A guy delivered to my house then messaged me to say we'd met, when I said we hadn't he said he could prove it and asked me how the takeaway I'd just had was. My response must have scared him sufficiently as I never heard from him again. "
What was your response? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, I have. It was all polite and no one else would have realised
"Have you ever met someone from here while out and about in public ? Did they say anything ? Would it annoy you if they referred to fab? "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes, I have. It was all polite and no one else would have realised
Have you ever met someone from here while out and about in public ? Did they say anything ? Would it annoy you if they referred to fab? "
Best way for it. |
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Get recognised quite a lot. Some have said hello, some have just smiled and then messaged on here some have just messaged to say they had seen me.
It doesn't phase me if they say hello as long as I an not with anyone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I had public face pics up I used to get recognised.
Luckily they never said anything in public, just messaged me on here.
It did annoy me though whenever anyone said they saw me in public but would never show themselves to me.
Fucking cowards. |
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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago
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There is a guy who works in the unit two doors away with a profile on fab guys. He has full face pictures and it's obvious.
As on here all my pictures are discreet. It's a small industrial estate with only 5 units. Surely he must wonder who the Tv is that will keep coming up within touching distance is?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I believe discretion and respect for others privacy is key , I often see others from here in the shop or on the school run etc and it’s just a case of smile and carry on x |
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A guy I met on another site recognised me on here and we've met up 2 or 3 times since. He's now turned into a creep again threatening to out me to my husband because I didnt reply to his messages. I should have known better than to have gone there again with him but nevermind.
I'm prepared to deal with the consequences if he isn't just all talk but I don't think he'll cope too well if my OH went after him! |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"A guy I met on another site recognised me on here and we've met up 2 or 3 times since. He's now turned into a creep again threatening to out me to my husband because I didnt reply to his messages. I should have known better than to have gone there again with him but nevermind.
I'm prepared to deal with the consequences if he isn't just all talk but I don't think he'll cope too well if my OH went after him!"
Wtf. That's just wrong. Bloody childish. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Jesus.
A few years ago I had to pop out to Tesco, quite late at night, like half 10/11. I got home and I'd received a message from a blank profile asking if I was at a specific place at a specific time, which I was and it scared the crap out of me. Since then I've never had a face photo up on here and the postcode that I use is for an entirely different town/city.
I think some people just don't think or have any social skills on here. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"When I had public face pics up I used to get recognised.
Luckily they never said anything in public, just messaged me on here.
It did annoy me though whenever anyone said they saw me in public but would never show themselves to me.
Fucking cowards."
That would annoy me too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was seen once and he text me later saying "...looking good in x outfit" which was spot on. He said he just watched me walk through the shopping centre looking hot! Haha actually turned me on knowing he was stopped in his tracks for those two mins. Mrs x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you ever met someone from here while out and about in public ? Did they say anything ? Would it annoy you if they referred to fab? " i have met a few met a guy in a pub in Bournemouth was having a beer on my own and it was busy two guys sat at a table outside said i could sit at their table got chatting he showed me a pic on his phone i said " you on fab" and he was and so happy to find me lol i go occasionally to a pole dancing club and one of the dancers was on fab |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Must be super scary for ladies to get the creepy messages saying they've been spotted etc, so I can understand not wanting to be approached by anyone.
I'd generally talk to absolutely anyone if they approached and said hello though, just my friendly nature. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I was seen once and he text me later saying "...looking good in x outfit" which was spot on. He said he just watched me walk through the shopping centre looking hot! Haha actually turned me on knowing he was stopped in his tracks for those two mins. Mrs x "
That would be a turn on. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I got recognised by someone whilst on holiday, he didn't approach me at the time but sent a message on here later to tell me. We were in the same place the next three nights and saw each other then as well. Nice guy. "
At least he didn't say anything |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you ever met someone from here while out and about in public ? Did they say anything ? Would it annoy you if they referred to fab? " someone from here is a takeaway delivery driver for Chinese( i met him once a long time ago with a male friend ....my eldest orders every few weeks and he stands at the door trying to chat....the kids just Think he fancies me( they dont know im on here)
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I recognised a lady in town and managed to get her phone number.
The funny thing is she called me a minger online and blocked me lol. "
How did you get her number ? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Have you ever met someone from here while out and about in public ? Did they say anything ? Would it annoy you if they referred to fab? someone from here is a takeaway delivery driver for Chinese( i met him once a long time ago with a male friend ....my eldest orders every few weeks and he stands at the door trying to chat....the kids just Think he fancies me( they dont know im on here)"
Oh awkward |
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I was at a meet and great recently and meet a girl that I would meet regularly in real life through work. Neither of us have mentioned it. Personally I’m not interested in mixing business and pleasure. Fab is an escape |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I saw 2 sisters from here at the supermarket, I felt it would be better not to approach and offer to carry their bags while throwing in the line are you on fabs line lol
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I saw 2 sisters from here at the supermarket, I felt it would be better not to approach and offer to carry their bags while throwing in the line are you on fabs line lol
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Can you imagine lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve seen a couple of guys from here and they’ve recognised me, I’d rather they didn’t say anything though, different worlds completely x" its the same world unless one of you is an alien |
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I don’t get all this awkwardness of people being civil and polite when meeting others in public, anyone is free to say hi to us, so long as they are discreet and don’t mention fab if we are with others.
Some people don’t get discretion sadly! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t get all this awkwardness of people being civil and polite when meeting others in public, anyone is free to say hi to us, so long as they are discreet and don’t mention fab if we are with others.
Some people don’t get discretion sadly!" exactly its more about being polite and mannerable and thoughtful |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There is a lady who works in my local coop who was on here..not sure if she still is. Thought about saying something to her in the past but chose not to to save the embarresment. |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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Many times and it totally does my nut in.
A bloke chasing around me in Sainsbury's when I was with my daughter, somebody else approaching me on the train.
And then someone. coming up to me when I'm with all lots of family in Primark.
Don't do it!!! |
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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago
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Yep, happened a few times given my face is all over my profile. Mainly train commuters, it seems. I usually get a smile swiftly followed by a message on fab asking if I’m on the train. Had a fair few fun chats out of the blue that way |
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"Yep, happened a few times given my face is all over my profile. Mainly train commuters, it seems. I usually get a smile swiftly followed by a message on fab asking if I’m on the train. Had a fair few fun chats out of the blue that way "
I only said ‘tickets please’ |
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By *tooveMan
over a year ago
belfast |
Girl in work is on here. She told me last year at work Xmas do. I never told her I was on and haven't actively looked for her. Also stood at traffic lights beside a girl from here a few months ago. |
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I was in my local pub a while back, sat at the only empty chair I could find and got chatting to the guys. A great quantity of drinks later, one of them admits he's here on Fab.
We chatted quite a while, and we now each have a new veri. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you ever met someone from here while out and about in public ? Did they say anything ? Would it annoy you if they referred to fab? "
Many times seen fabswingers on the streets but I walk on by! |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
West Wales |
H has had a few give the knowing smile while out, usually with the kids so they've kept quiet & just walked on by.
There was one really hot woman who kept looking & smiling as we crossed trolleys in ASDA but she was with her elderly mum & we the kids. We were hoping she might message when home but never happened. P'haps she wasn't on here & just fancied us anyway who knows
Bit difficult not being spotted really with H's hair, but as long as no one actually approaches when she/we have the kids we dont mind.
Pretty much everyone important knows we have a GF & some know we are on here anyway.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We see local fabbers all the time. Mostly ships pass by, but sometimes eye contact is made so a nod and (hopefully) a friendly smile. There have been a couple of occasions where we spotted someone in Asda and sent a cheeky message, then had a meet before putting the milk in the fridge lol. |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
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"I've never met anyone from fab in everyday life and if I did, I wouldn't say anything. I wouldn't want them to either, I'd think they were overstepping."
Agreed,
Thing is the social skills of many here are poor & to think those same poor social skills are any different off of here is a bit daft.
Only person ever to approach us both when we had kids with us was a guy & he blatantly approached H directly. She just looked to me at the same time he did. She said if looks could kill he would have burst into flames on the spot. He quickly said "Sorry" & scooted off..
Still don't know who the hell it was though..
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don’t get all this awkwardness of people being civil and polite when meeting others in public, anyone is free to say hi to us, so long as they are discreet and don’t mention fab if we are with others.
Some people don’t get discretion sadly!"
A lot don't |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm on the flip side of the coin. I play hockey and there is a girl on here who plays for one of the woman's teams of a club I used to play for.
Never said anything on here or at the club and I never would. Wouldn't be fair for either of us. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm on the flip side of the coin. I play hockey and there is a girl on here who plays for one of the woman's teams of a club I used to play for.
Never said anything on here or at the club and I never would. Wouldn't be fair for either of us. "
Fair play to you. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Been told a few times eve been seen but I've a public job
I never say anything except to the cheeky the bus driver we have banter now haha "
Easier say nothing. |
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By *quatMan
over a year ago
raynes park |
I saw naughty nymphomaniac waiting for a bus not so long ago as i was sat in traffic, did a double take and it was definitely her, i didnt and wouldnt have dreamed of shouting out the van at her tho |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you ever met someone from here while out and about in public ? Did they say anything ? Would it annoy you if they referred to fab? "
I saw someone in the town - she didn’t know me but I was100% certain she was on the site
Would never dream of mentioning this. I have a friend on here who doesn’t know I know they are on!
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"Yeah, a guy who works in Tesco spotted me. Sent me a message to ask if he could chat next time, I said no, I’m anxious as fuck
So what does he do? Comes up to me while I’m pregnant and with my two sisters (15 and 11 at the time) and starts chatting about fab. My husband steers my sisters and I away, and I go have a panic attack in the bathroom.
He always tries chatting when I’m there now "
Not acceptable.
Discretion is everything!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Have you ever met someone from here while out and about in public ? Did they say anything ? Would it annoy you if they referred to fab?
I saw someone in the town - she didn’t know me but I was100% certain she was on the site
Would never dream of mentioning this. I have a friend on here who doesn’t know I know they are on!
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At least you don't feel the need to tell them. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If it was someone we had been chatting to on here and by some chance they saw us in public an said hello we would be delighted "
Even if you were with other company. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We wouldn't like it if someone recognised us and mentioned Fab.
This is our private life, that we wan't keeping that way. We would hope people would be 100% discrete, just as we would be. "
I'd be the same |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"A man messaged me saying he saw me in town and had a hard on following\watching me WTF! Even worse than talking to me I think!"
That's a little creepy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've seen a few.....the first time it happened I msgd the girl on here...she was so nice about it and said I should've came over and said hi..
Then for a couple of months I was catching the same bus as a girl that I saw on here...I came on here and msgd her..she went mental .I could clearly see I had upset her and that wasnt what I was trying to do..so as a rule I say nothing now. I can see why it would freak out some people...the girl from the bus is hot as fuck and I was gutted to get blocked by her because all I wanted to do was apologise |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've seen a few.....the first time it happened I msgd the girl on here...she was so nice about it and said I should've came over and said hi..
Then for a couple of months I was catching the same bus as a girl that I saw on here...I came on here and msgd her..she went mental .I could clearly see I had upset her and that wasnt what I was trying to do..so as a rule I say nothing now. I can see why it would freak out some people...the girl from the bus is hot as fuck and I was gutted to get blocked by her because all I wanted to do was apologise "
Can't blame her either though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah, a guy who works in Tesco spotted me. Sent me a message to ask if he could chat next time, I said no, I’m anxious as fuck
So what does he do? Comes up to me while I’m pregnant and with my two sisters (15 and 11 at the time) and starts chatting about fab. My husband steers my sisters and I away, and I go have a panic attack in the bathroom.
He always tries chatting when I’m there now "
What a knob. I had someone verify me on an old profile saying they’d just seen me on the self serve but nothing as bad as what you’ve had. |
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"Yeah, a guy who works in Tesco spotted me. Sent me a message to ask if he could chat next time, I said no, I’m anxious as fuck
So what does he do? Comes up to me while I’m pregnant and with my two sisters (15 and 11 at the time) and starts chatting about fab. My husband steers my sisters and I away, and I go have a panic attack in the bathroom.
He always tries chatting when I’m there now
What a knob. I had someone verify me on an old profile saying they’d just seen me on the self serve but nothing as bad as what you’ve had. "
That was truly awful |
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As per a similar thread we've know two couples that we've recognised from this site, basically because both had face pics on their profiles.
We don't know whether they've identified us, we don't have face pics, but we have met at local business events and shared tables at the local business awards.
However, the subject of Fab never came up and no 'knowing looks' surfaced do we guess all our secrets are safe! |
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"As per a similar thread we've know two couples that we've recognised from this site, basically because both had face pics on their profiles.
We don't know whether they've identified us, we don't have face pics, but we have met at local business events and shared tables at the local business awards.
However, the subject of Fab never came up and no 'knowing looks' surfaced do we guess all our secrets are safe! "
That great. |
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"Have you ever met someone from here while out and about in public ? Did they say anything ? Would it annoy you if they referred to fab? "
I've often thought about this. I've spotted quite a few from here whilst out & about but never approached them.
Not even messaged them after to say that I've seen them as that seems about stalkery to me.
It's a tricky one. |
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"Have you ever met someone from here while out and about in public ? Did they say anything ? Would it annoy you if they referred to fab?
I've often thought about this. I've spotted quite a few from here whilst out & about but never approached them.
Not even messaged them after to say that I've seen them as that seems about stalkery to me.
It's a tricky one."
It's a little stalkerish |
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"Have you ever met someone from here while out and about in public ? Did they say anything ? Would it annoy you if they referred to fab? "
Seen a few people most of them men with there wives even as there profiles say single |
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Emm got spotted whilst shopping with a family member in a local town last week by a guy who we've chatted to on here, on & of, for some time. Like a true gent he said nothing but messaged, so I knew before she got home. Subsequently, Emm has told him to say hi next time if she's alone |
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"Emm got spotted whilst shopping with a family member in a local town last week by a guy who we've chatted to on here, on & of, for some time. Like a true gent he said nothing but messaged, so I knew before she got home. Subsequently, Emm has told him to say hi next time if she's alone"
Maybe one day ye will meet again |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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" Theres a few members I know on here...but they dont know I know....capiche?
Would never say anything, although I'm constantly paranoid they know!"
I'd also be paranoid |
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Someone I've known for years but rarely see or talk to shouted out fabswingers as I walked past her in a pub, it made me laugh.
I've multiple times seen someone who I've had a brief chat with on here some time ago, at my place of work, but I've not said anything and she seems to not recognise me. |
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"Someone I've known for years but rarely see or talk to shouted out fabswingers as I walked past her in a pub, it made me laugh.
I've multiple times seen someone who I've had a brief chat with on here some time ago, at my place of work, but I've not said anything and she seems to not recognise me. "
Did her shouting it out not bother you? |
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"Someone I've known for years but rarely see or talk to shouted out fabswingers as I walked past her in a pub, it made me laugh.
I've multiple times seen someone who I've had a brief chat with on here some time ago, at my place of work, but I've not said anything and she seems to not recognise me.
Did her shouting it out not bother you?"
No not at all, there was music playing and no one in the immediate vicinity, so I doubt many, if any actually heard her. |
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By *j1963Couple
over a year ago
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A guy I work with messaged me and sent me face pics of him. I said nope sorry I know you and blocked him.he still sits a few desk away and has no idea I'm on fabs and I think hes left it now |
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By *omvampmMan
over a year ago
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Depends I wudnt say something to someone I'd merely seen on here one has to respect people's privacy I may smile knowingly to myself lol tempted as I may be
If it's someone I've met depending on theee situation if I knew that it was ok obviously I'd say hi be rude not to
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Someone i had sent a face pic to for FPF spotted me at Edinburgh airport. He messaged on here and wanted me to grab a coffee with him. Sadly i could not as was with my sis. Certainly made up for it when we met 2months later at a party and shared more than a coffee |
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"Someone I've known for years but rarely see or talk to shouted out fabswingers as I walked past her in a pub, it made me laugh.
I've multiple times seen someone who I've had a brief chat with on here some time ago, at my place of work, but I've not said anything and she seems to not recognise me.
Did her shouting it out not bother you?
No not at all, there was music playing and no one in the immediate vicinity, so I doubt many, if any actually heard her. "
Not to bad so. |
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