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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Someone you've planned to meet for a social?
Do you quiet so you have things to talk about?
Or don't want to appear to keen?
or do you keep them chatting to keep them interested?
Or do you think that because they've agreed to a social meet you don't need to keep chatting? |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
It varies from person to person, some I will have a constant flow of chat back and forth, others it'll be occasional messages, there really is no set agenda with each person I've met we tend to find what works for us naturally |
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I'm a talker. If I've arranged a social, I'm still a talker. I carry right on talking because if I'm meeting them then I'm clearly interested in them, and I don't worry that we'll run out of things to talk about!
It's not to keep them interested per se, it's because I'm enjoying the conversation and I trust they are too. |
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I enjoy a good conversation whether it’s on here or face-to-face. It’s nice to have a laugh and a decent fact-finding conversation with someone and of course going with the flow that’s all you need to do
Of course that’s just my opinion  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I chat for ages before the suggestion of a meet even comes up. Best way to get a feel for genuine connection and interest..That said I can be spontaneous.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I was meeting I wouldn't even social until I knew I was initially really interested and that would come from talking. Think I chatted to beast for about 6 weeks before meeting him. Then we had 2 socials before he got me in bed and he's barely been able to kick me out of it since |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Someone you've planned to meet for a social?
Do you quiet so you have things to talk about?
Or don't want to appear to keen?
or do you keep them chatting to keep them interested?
Or do you think that because they've agreed to a social meet you don't need to keep chatting? "
It should flow naturally if it don’t it’s false pretences  |
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