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It happens. Easier said than done, but you shouldn’t let it get you down or indeed stress about it, especially at the time as just makes it worse
Take that time to just relax, return to foreplay and close exploration of each other and everything happen naturally again. |
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"It happens. Easier said than done, but you shouldn’t let it get you down or indeed stress about it, especially at the time as just makes it worse
Take that time to just relax, return to foreplay and close exploration of each other and everything happen naturally again. "
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"It happens. Easier said than done, but you shouldn’t let it get you down or indeed stress about it, especially at the time as just makes it worse
Take that time to just relax, return to foreplay and close exploration of each other and everything happen naturally again. "
Exactly so
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By (user no longer on site)
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I will admit most women are cool and it’s only our own hang ups that stress us. My pet peeve is when women do think we can have them at the click of a finger. As said above go back to foreplay and slow it all back down if needed. We ain’t teens so no need to finish in 5 minutes |
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"It happens. Easier said than done, but you shouldn’t let it get you down or indeed stress about it, especially at the time as just makes it worse
Take that time to just relax, return to foreplay and close exploration of each other and everything happen naturally again. "
You so wise  |
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By *icearmsMan
over a year ago
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"It happens. Easier said than done, but you shouldn’t let it get you down or indeed stress about it, especially at the time as just makes it worse
Take that time to just relax, return to foreplay and close exploration of each other and everything happen naturally again. "
If that fails pop to Sainsburys for viagra connect.. |
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By *oyo5053Man
over a year ago
Bridgwater |
"Im in 40s and it fucks me off when it happens which is virtually everytime . Wtf is going on ffs .
Women ...is this common it happens to you ?
Men are you in same boat ???"
Yes ...for me so much of whether i have (and provide!) good sex happens in my mind and if something happens that throws me off my stroke(pun intended lol!)it does help to go back to sensual foreplay and try not to put pressure on myself |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
It happens to all of us at one time or another OP and for any number of reasons (tiredness, stress, alcohol and many more).
The key, as SC said above, is how you deal with it - let it get to you and you only exacerbate the problem, move onto other things and try and relax and ignore it and usually it rights itself again.
It also helps having and understanding partner (which in my experience most women are to be honest) who is just as relaxed about it as you are.
I think one of the easy pitfalls of this site is to get a false perception that other guys all stay rock solid and can go for hours without cumming, and somehow feel inadequate as a result, which couldn't be farther from the truth. |
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"Im in 40s and it fucks me off when it happens which is virtually everytime . Wtf is going on ffs .
Women ...is this common it happens to you ?
Men are you in same boat ???"
I'll bet any money, it starts going limp a little, then you over think it and it goes soft all the way |
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