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What do you worry about, before a meet!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Interested in both men’s and women’s thoughts.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Will he notice the stray pubes?

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By *aven RedWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

Will they be normal. Will my nerves get the better of me and will I chat utter gibberish the whole time x

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By *rmrs1234Couple over a year ago

Waterford

If my stomach is sticking out, what is he notices my cellulite, what if i make a complete arse of everything lol

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By *olden RatioWoman over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

Will I be safe?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If I’m attractive to them and they actually have the personality they claim to have

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan over a year ago

Northampton

Timing, I don't like to be late.

Also smell, not that I smell, but I would like me/her to be able to smell my aftershave

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Will they see I’m watching them haha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Performance issues, although Indo my best to let go of them and relax

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That they're not so tedious that spending an hour with them over a drink doesn't feel like the longest day of our lives

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By *affron40Woman over a year ago

manchester

Will there be chemistry...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Will he see beyond the potatoeyness and see the real me...

Does he like bacon?

How soon can we get married?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Will they like what I'm wearing, will they be turned on by me

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By *nabelle21Woman over a year ago

B38

"Timing, I don't like to be late.

Also smell, not that I smell, but I would like me/her to be able to smell my aftershave

Smelling good is important to me also

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Will there be snacks

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Everything!

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By *nabelle21Woman over a year ago

B38

"Will he see beyond the potatoeyness and see the real me...

Does he like bacon?

How soon can we get married?"

*Chuckling*

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If I've missed any rogue hairs whilst shaving.

If ive missed any rogue whiskers whilst plucking

If I eat, will they tell me if I look like Ace Ventura? Shall I take a toothbrush just in case?

Have a had a poo today? Will I need one? When did I last eat? If I eat I may need a poo, if I don't I may end up with empty gut breath

What shall I wear? Dear god what shall I wear?

Shall I straighten my hair? Nah, last time I did that at a club someone stood on it yanking my head and I could have had a penis biting incident if it had been 20 seconds earlier. But I like my hair straight? Shall I? Nah fuck it, go for curls. But it's so long straight. Yeah but I can't go to the toilet without tying it up coz it's too long straight if ya catch my drift. Yeah curls.. nah, straight.

Fuck it, it'll all end up in my gob whatever I do so tie it back ya daft bitch.

Did I eat yet, I've forgotten.

Time the washing machine so everything is super fresh.

Shit, what perfume?

Fuck a duck, what eye shadow?

Shit, I need to choose my outfit to know what eyeshadow.

Are my elbows feeling elbowy? I need them at full elbow strength in case I need to bust someones nose if they turn out to be a freako liar stalker murderer.

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"Will there be snacks

I set that out as a deal breaker in advance.

I worry about everything, in a nervous excitement sort of way.

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By *nabelle21Woman over a year ago

B38

That I can find the exit

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

... Like P says...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If he will find me attractive, if we will click in the flesh, if he will think I’m fat and grossed out at seeing me naked.

Lots of things I always over think.

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By *affron40Woman over a year ago

manchester

"If I've missed any rogue hairs whilst shaving.

If ive missed any rogue whiskers whilst plucking

If I eat, will they tell me if I look like Ace Ventura? Shall I take a toothbrush just in case?

Have a had a poo today? Will I need one? When did I last eat? If I eat I may need a poo, if I don't I may end up with empty gut breath

What shall I wear? Dear god what shall I wear?

Fuck it, it'll all end up in my gob whatever I do so tie it back ya daft bitch.

Did I eat yet, I've forgotten.

Time the washing machine so everything is super fresh.

Shit, what perfume?

Fuck a duck, what eye shadow?

Shit, I need to choose my outfit to know what eyeshadow.

Are my elbows feeling elbowy? I need them at full elbow strength in case I need to bust someones nose if they turn out to be a freako liar stalker murderer.

Ha ha you never fail to make me chuckle.. whilst also relating into words what happens in my head...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What shoes should i wear... How many should I take with me

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By *a LunaWoman over a year ago

South Wales

1. If there are toilets nearby (social meet)

2. If I’m going to need the toilet.

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By *nabelle21Woman over a year ago

B38

"If I've missed any rogue hairs whilst shaving.

If ive missed any rogue whiskers whilst plucking

If I eat, will they tell me if I look like Ace Ventura? Shall I take a toothbrush just in case?

Have a had a poo today? Will I need one? When did I last eat? If I eat I may need a poo, if I don't I may end up with empty gut breath

What shall I wear? Dear god what shall I wear?

Fuck it, it'll all end up in my gob whatever I do so tie it back ya daft bitch.

Did I eat yet, I've forgotten.

Time the washing machine so everything is super fresh.

Shit, what perfume?

Fuck a duck, what eye shadow?

Shit, I need to choose my outfit to know what eyeshadow.

Are my elbows feeling elbowy? I need them at full elbow strength in case I need to bust someones nose if they turn out to be a freako liar stalker murderer.

I fucking love you P x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Needing a shit mid meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"If I've missed any rogue hairs whilst shaving.

If ive missed any rogue whiskers whilst plucking

If I eat, will they tell me if I look like Ace Ventura? Shall I take a toothbrush just in case?

Have a had a poo today? Will I need one? When did I last eat? If I eat I may need a poo, if I don't I may end up with empty gut breath

What shall I wear? Dear god what shall I wear?

Fuck it, it'll all end up in my gob whatever I do so tie it back ya daft bitch.

Did I eat yet, I've forgotten.

Time the washing machine so everything is super fresh.

Shit, what perfume?

Fuck a duck, what eye shadow?

Shit, I need to choose my outfit to know what eyeshadow.

Are my elbows feeling elbowy? I need them at full elbow strength in case I need to bust someones nose if they turn out to be a freako liar stalker murderer.

Omg, I laughed so much I had to spit my tea back in my cup, half of it went on my lap so now I look like I’ve wet myself, and I’m still choking a bit

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If I've missed any rogue hairs whilst shaving.

If ive missed any rogue whiskers whilst plucking

If I eat, will they tell me if I look like Ace Ventura? Shall I take a toothbrush just in case?

Have a had a poo today? Will I need one? When did I last eat? If I eat I may need a poo, if I don't I may end up with empty gut breath

What shall I wear? Dear god what shall I wear?

Fuck it, it'll all end up in my gob whatever I do so tie it back ya daft bitch.

Did I eat yet, I've forgotten.

Time the washing machine so everything is super fresh.

Shit, what perfume?

Fuck a duck, what eye shadow?

Shit, I need to choose my outfit to know what eyeshadow.

Are my elbows feeling elbowy? I need them at full elbow strength in case I need to bust someones nose if they turn out to be a freako liar stalker murderer.

Ha ha you never fail to make me chuckle.. whilst also relating into words what happens in my head...

And that's only part of it!

Me and B have hit the stinky feet, unshaven, bed headed birds nest of doom stage. Must be love.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Jeez. I’d love that anyone who is meeting me feels relaxed very quickly. I thought I worried

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By *lex46TV/TS over a year ago

Near Wells

Will they turn up?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If I've missed any rogue hairs whilst shaving.

If ive missed any rogue whiskers whilst plucking

If I eat, will they tell me if I look like Ace Ventura? Shall I take a toothbrush just in case?

Have a had a poo today? Will I need one? When did I last eat? If I eat I may need a poo, if I don't I may end up with empty gut breath

What shall I wear? Dear god what shall I wear?

Fuck it, it'll all end up in my gob whatever I do so tie it back ya daft bitch.

Did I eat yet, I've forgotten.

Time the washing machine so everything is super fresh.

Shit, what perfume?

Fuck a duck, what eye shadow?

Shit, I need to choose my outfit to know what eyeshadow.

Are my elbows feeling elbowy? I need them at full elbow strength in case I need to bust someones nose if they turn out to be a freako liar stalker murderer.

I fucking love you P x"

back at ya x

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By *abs..Woman over a year ago

Will either of us be disappointed.

Will there be chemistry between us.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Will I be safe? "

This is probably the one consistent thought I also have. I know it sounds strange given I am so tall but it is always there in background.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If I've missed any rogue hairs whilst shaving.

If ive missed any rogue whiskers whilst plucking

If I eat, will they tell me if I look like Ace Ventura? Shall I take a toothbrush just in case?

Have a had a poo today? Will I need one? When did I last eat? If I eat I may need a poo, if I don't I may end up with empty gut breath

What shall I wear? Dear god what shall I wear?

Fuck it, it'll all end up in my gob whatever I do so tie it back ya daft bitch.

Did I eat yet, I've forgotten.

Time the washing machine so everything is super fresh.

Shit, what perfume?

Fuck a duck, what eye shadow?

Shit, I need to choose my outfit to know what eyeshadow.

Are my elbows feeling elbowy? I need them at full elbow strength in case I need to bust someones nose if they turn out to be a freako liar stalker murderer.

Omg, I laughed so much I had to spit my tea back in my cup, half of it went on my lap so now I look like I’ve wet myself, and I’m still choking a bit

That means you know it's true!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Our first meet is always strictly social in a public environment.

Therefore we worry about nowt! Either he likes us and vice versa or we don't and move on to the next

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By *rAitchMan over a year ago

Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe

A meet! Hmm. If I were lucky enough to have a meet, nothing would worry me. It will be what it is.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Based on last week, will the fucker turn up

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If he wants me to walk on him, will i break his ribs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Size of my penis.

I've posted about this before, some one I met about 4 years ago pointed and mocked it's size when I got naked.

Now I am perfectly happy with it and it's size, confident with it too. But something like that never leaves you and meeting some one new that memory always rears its head briefly.

Thankfully no one has ever complained since, not to my face any way

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By *r_Jake70Man over a year ago

London

Will the chicken costume put them off.

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By *ubsteffTV/TS over a year ago

Portsmouth

Will they be in?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"If I've missed any rogue hairs whilst shaving.

If ive missed any rogue whiskers whilst plucking

If I eat, will they tell me if I look like Ace Ventura? Shall I take a toothbrush just in case?

Have a had a poo today? Will I need one? When did I last eat? If I eat I may need a poo, if I don't I may end up with empty gut breath

What shall I wear? Dear god what shall I wear?

Fuck it, it'll all end up in my gob whatever I do so tie it back ya daft bitch.

Did I eat yet, I've forgotten.

Time the washing machine so everything is super fresh.

Shit, what perfume?

Fuck a duck, what eye shadow?

Shit, I need to choose my outfit to know what eyeshadow.

Are my elbows feeling elbowy? I need them at full elbow strength in case I need to bust someones nose if they turn out to be a freako liar stalker murderer.

Omg, I laughed so much I had to spit my tea back in my cup, half of it went on my lap so now I look like I’ve wet myself, and I’m still choking a bit

That means you know it's true!

You’re brilliant!

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By *ngels of Sin 69Couple over a year ago

High Wycombe

"If I've missed any rogue hairs whilst shaving.

If ive missed any rogue whiskers whilst plucking

If I eat, will they tell me if I look like Ace Ventura? Shall I take a toothbrush just in case?

Have a had a poo today? Will I need one? When did I last eat? If I eat I may need a poo, if I don't I may end up with empty gut breath

What shall I wear? Dear god what shall I wear?

Fuck it, it'll all end up in my gob whatever I do so tie it back ya daft bitch.

Did I eat yet, I've forgotten.

Time the washing machine so everything is super fresh.

Shit, what perfume?

Fuck a duck, what eye shadow?

Shit, I need to choose my outfit to know what eyeshadow.

Are my elbows feeling elbowy? I need them at full elbow strength in case I need to bust someones nose if they turn out to be a freako liar stalker murderer.

This is brillant and proper made us laugh haha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Will either of us be disappointed.

Will there be chemistry between us. "
my thoughts

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Timing, I don't like to be late.

Also smell, not that I smell, but I would like me/her to be able to smell my aftershave

A guy wearing sexy aftershave is a must! Jesus, weak knees from that alone...;) lol Mrs x

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By *nabelle21Woman over a year ago

B38

"Size of my penis.

I've posted about this before, some one I met about 4 years ago pointed and mocked it's size when I got naked.

Now I am perfectly happy with it and it's size, confident with it too. But something like that never leaves you and meeting some one new that memory always rears its head briefly.

Thankfully no one has ever complained since, not to my face any way

That is a truly awful situation to be in.

I'm glad that your over it..they should be ashamed

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"1. If there are toilets nearby (social meet)

2. If I’m going to need the toilet.

Oh god yes, that too!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I hope she's really a woman..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I hope she's really a woman.."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

most worries me if they don't enjoy themselves inside and outside bedroom

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I hope she's really a woman.."
well that as well

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I hope she's really a woman..

fab....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

my bills

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By *illyredWoman over a year ago

stockport

how long after the introduction should i leave it before going in for a feel

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

When arranging a social and you walk into the pub to discover someone you know well also in there!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"how long after the introduction should i leave it before going in for a feel

"
nice to see some from my local area

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By *a LunaWoman over a year ago

South Wales

I also worry how I’m going to know if they like the look of me, as I’m shit at reading things like that.

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By *pider-WomanWoman over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

I don't worry about anything. It's like meeting a friend for a drink. What's the worst that can happen!!

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By *hav02Man over a year ago

Glasgow/London

Will they turn up?

Will I be alive by tonight?

After the initial safety panic,

Do i need to brush my teeth again?

Do i need to spray cologne?

Have i got the condoms....

Will they like me in person too?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't worry about anything. It's like meeting a friend for a drink. What's the worst that can happen!! "
you could be tango'd

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By *urvyandCurious999Woman over a year ago

Hiding from twats

Will they be normal

Will we get on

Will I be safe

How will I get out of there if I don't feel safe or there's no chemistry

Do I look ok

Have I missed any bits when I was shaving

Are my makeup/hair/nails/clothes ok

Will they try to sneakily not use a condom

Generally though I look forward to meeting new people. It's just a few experiences that have made me much more wary.

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By *orraine999Woman over a year ago

Somewhere

Honestly, I think about everything.

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By *wholeLotOfRosieWoman over a year ago

Pontypridd

Will he turn up.

Have I tucked my skirt into my knickers.

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By *acey_RedWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

Cellulite

My stomach/arm fat

How recent my wax was

Smelly feet

Bad breath

Sweating

What if I get gassy

Accidentally getting my hair down my throat and that time I had to pull it out like some sort of sword swallower

Starting bleeding during sex

Falling over in my heels

Having to wee between the pre meet shower and the sex

Will I live up to expectations or be dissapointing

What if their cock is huge and I'm scared to take it

Will they be dissapointed that I'm not that into doggy

Will they be one of those painfully furious clit strummers

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Cellulite

My stomach/arm fat

How recent my wax was

Smelly feet

Bad breath

Sweating

What if I get gassy

Accidentally getting my hair down my throat and that time I had to pull it out like some sort of sword swallower

Starting bleeding during sex

Falling over in my heels

Having to wee between the pre meet shower and the sex

Will I live up to expectations or be dissapointing

What if their cock is huge and I'm scared to take it

Will they be dissapointed that I'm not that into doggy

Will they be one of those painfully furious clit strummers"

That last sentence, yes! But also

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Right I'm ready. Looking swish, smelling fresh. I'd bang me.

Got half an hour to kill before final teeth brushing and getting shoes on. SHIIIITTTTT shoes! Oh fuck oh fuck, what shoes?

Calm down ya tit and think.

I need to know if there are any steps.

Yes. Exact gradient and height, I ain't making a cunt of myself toppling in heels coz of death steps from hell, I suppose I could always bum shuffle down? Don't be a dick.

Maybe he could piggy back me ?

Helloooooooooooo fucknugget get a grip woman.

Ok, I'll brave the stairs. I believe in me.

*puts on shoes*

Looking fiiiiiine.

Bollocks, didn't check if it's a cobble road.

Fuck it, flats it is, be safe.

*look of horror*

The only ones that go with my outfit are my work ones, they've had my trotters in them running round the restaurant for 11 solid hours

they're gonna smell like a skunks ringpiece. Febreeze baby girl, you got time.

Phew... I'm good.

what if he wants to toe suck?

Fuck it, if I break my neck and ankle so be it.

*waddles off like Vicki Pollard doing her poshest catwalk*

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’ve not had a meet off here, but imagine it would be like a date. So I would generally worry about all sorts:

What if the conversation is bad?

I hope I don’t pass gas/burp

I hope I/they smell nice

I hope there is chemistry.

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By *ea monkeyMan over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Without writing a James Joyce-esque stream of consciousness monologue like the inimitable P,

It runs along the lines of;

How do I look, did I trim/shave/manscape adequately, do I smell good, will they like me, will I like them, what happens if we don't get on, what happens if we do get on, not too much tongue for the love of god, what if they're a bad kisser, what if they think I'm a bad kisser...

Etc, etc. Until the point of actually meeting them!

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

What to wear but I wouldn't class it as a worry more a frustration.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Without writing a James Joyce-esque stream of consciousness monologue like the inimitable P,

It runs along the lines of;

Etc, etc. Until the point of actually meeting them! "

Worst bit is I say it all out loud to myself

it's far from internal

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

the cats

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nothing im the king of seduction

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By *hortarseWoman over a year ago

Norfolk

"Nothing im the king of seduction"

Prove it

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

That they won’t like me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Will I get to keep my pants

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By *uriousscouserWoman over a year ago

Wirral

For a social: will they turn up, will they hold up their end of the conversation, will they take one look at me and bolt, will I be safe?

After the social: will I be safe, will they still want me after I strip my clothes off or will they take one look and try to claw their way out of the bedroom, will my stupidly irregular periods choose that exact moment to show up, will I be safe, will they want to do anything really bizarre that freaks me out and they've not mentioned it yet because they know it's bizarre, will I be safe?

Please don't be a murderer: https://youtu.be/iH3FPrI_Cuw

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If I've missed any rogue hairs whilst shaving.

If ive missed any rogue whiskers whilst plucking

If I eat, will they tell me if I look like Ace Ventura? Shall I take a toothbrush just in case?

Have a had a poo today? Will I need one? When did I last eat? If I eat I may need a poo, if I don't I may end up with empty gut breath

What shall I wear? Dear god what shall I wear?

Fuck it, it'll all end up in my gob whatever I do so tie it back ya daft bitch.

Did I eat yet, I've forgotten.

Time the washing machine so everything is super fresh.

Shit, what perfume?

Fuck a duck, what eye shadow?

Shit, I need to choose my outfit to know what eyeshadow.

Are my elbows feeling elbowy? I need them at full elbow strength in case I need to bust someones nose if they turn out to be a freako liar stalker murderer.

This is brillant and proper made us laugh haha

Awesome! This is the real stuff we worry about too.

Along with... is my tummy bloated? Did I forget the 'ffs don't eat bread today rule?'.

What underwear shall I wear, have I worn it to this place before or for this person before?

Then turning to my better half .... babe dont forget to nip to the barbers, trim your beard and when you get home trim your pubes.... as he is doing sit ups and press ups to get his body looking good.

We go through all of this in the name of swinging and its actually all part of the fun

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By *aughtyLondonGuyMan over a year ago

london

What if she’s exhausted after the first 2 hours

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Am I doing the right thing, will it be awkward and will they like me.

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By *opinovMan over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

Will they like me?..

Will they think I'm too weird?..

Will I know what to say?..

Will they be disappointed?..

Will I they be happy?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Will I be attracted to them in the flesh ?

Will the conversation be stilted or will it flow easily?

Will they bore the fuck out of me?

Can I leave yet?

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

This thread hasn’t just dented my confidence, it’s chewed it up and spat it out

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nothing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"This thread hasn’t just dented my confidence, it’s chewed it up and spat it out

I think it’s good to know we all have worries and doubts. We’re all human.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This thread hasn’t just dented my confidence, it’s chewed it up and spat it out

Just make sure you have snacks and toothpaste

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Interested in both men’s and women’s thoughts.

All of it

Might show confidence but need that conversation to be flowing to make it great.

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By *heHookyMonsterMan over a year ago

Liverpool

Not a lot to be honest - not that I'm anything special, but I take the time to get to know the person and establish a rapport beforehand, which apart from once has never failed me yet. I always try to make sure my profile shows the real me so they'll not be getting any unpleasant surprises on arrival. I'm always feeling good, but if there's one thing I do worry about it's that they're as genuine as me and I don't get stood up or ghosted.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Interested in both men’s and women’s thoughts.

And a smile

Be myself important

If he does not like me

Fuck him

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By *ourayloversCouple over a year ago

chesterfield

Nothing

We always exchange a fair few messages so everyone knows the rules and what's allowed and also to get a feel for the person

If you've done the ground work the 1st meet should be enjoyable and fun

Ray

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not a lot to be honest - not that I'm anything special, but I take the time to get to know the person and establish a rapport beforehand, which apart from once has never failed me yet. I always try to make sure my profile shows the real me so they'll not be getting any unpleasant surprises on arrival. I'm always feeling good, but if there's one thing I do worry about it's that they're as genuine as me and I don't get stood up or ghosted. "

We are all special

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By *heHookyMonsterMan over a year ago

Liverpool

"Will he see beyond the potatoeyness and see the real me...

Does he like bacon?

How soon can we get married?"

I quite like Potato!

I'm kinda partial to Bacon!

Are you free next Saturday?

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By *heHookyMonsterMan over a year ago

Liverpool

"If I've missed any rogue hairs whilst shaving.

If ive missed any rogue whiskers whilst plucking

If I eat, will they tell me if I look like Ace Ventura? Shall I take a toothbrush just in case?

Have a had a poo today? Will I need one? When did I last eat? If I eat I may need a poo, if I don't I may end up with empty gut breath

What shall I wear? Dear god what shall I wear?

Fuck it, it'll all end up in my gob whatever I do so tie it back ya daft bitch.

Did I eat yet, I've forgotten.

Time the washing machine so everything is super fresh.

Shit, what perfume?

Fuck a duck, what eye shadow?

Shit, I need to choose my outfit to know what eyeshadow.

Are my elbows feeling elbowy? I need them at full elbow strength in case I need to bust someones nose if they turn out to be a freako liar stalker murderer.

I think that just about covers it!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Will i get cum in my hair

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Will I achieve orgasm. I enjoy sex and dont mind not cumming, but it is something that can happen if the spark we had over chat wasnt exactly there in person

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Will i get cum in my hair

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Will i get cum in my hair

Yes. "

Bloody hope not, otherwise I'll have to wash it, then I'm have to remember shampoo/conditioner , hairdryer, straighteners.. 2nd suitcase... Appropriate shoes

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Will they fancy me or be otherwise disappointed when they see me face to face

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By *acey_RedWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

"Will i get cum in my hair

Or copious amounts of saliva

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By *oneyjule65Couple over a year ago

Halifax

Will they turn up....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Will i get cum in my hair

Or copious amounts of saliva

Or lube ?!

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS over a year ago

doncaster

Fanny farts

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Did I put the gaffa tape in the back of the van

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Did I put the gaffa tape in the back of the van

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman over a year ago

On a mooch

I don’t. I just treat it like going for a drink with a mate and just let things flow naturally

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By * and M lookingCouple over a year ago

Worcester

Did we lock the front door when we left the house?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nothing im the king of seduction

Prove it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

How many orgasms should i go for

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By *icearmsMan over a year ago

KIDLINGTON

Will there still be a spark.. Will they like me.. Will I like them. Don't be late .. Will they turn up...

Loads of stuff goes through my head..

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By *uenevereWoman over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I'm not a worrier.

I hope that we will get on and that it might lead to a sex meet.

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By *heHookyMonsterMan over a year ago

Liverpool

"I don’t. I just treat it like going for a drink with a mate and just let things flow naturally "

Exactly this - nothing to be seriously concerned about!

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By *heHookyMonsterMan over a year ago

Liverpool

"Did I put the gaffa tape in the back of the van

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By *heHookyMonsterMan over a year ago

Liverpool

We are all special

This is true - in one way or another!

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By *heHookyMonsterMan over a year ago

Liverpool

"Interested in both men’s and women’s thoughts.

And a smile

Be myself important

If he does not like me

Fuck him

Love it!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not drooling during the meet

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By *partharmonyCouple over a year ago

Ruislip

Getting to the right place and on time.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Will i get cum in my hair

This

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By *hunky GentMan over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Have they given me the right postcode??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Have they given me the right postcode??"

Did i type it in correctly (err that would be no, haha)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

They will actually be like the photo and not 8 stone heavier they accidently forgot to mention.. Yet recent date on pic just not the photo indate.

Why do you always get a spot?

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By *aughtyLondonGuyMan over a year ago

london

"They will actually be like the photo and not 8 stone heavier they accidently forgot to mention.. Yet recent date on pic just not the photo indate.

Why do you always get a spot? "

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By *hunky GentMan over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Have they given me the right postcode??

Did i type it in correctly (err that would be no, haha) "

The postcode you gave me was for Mars.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Pants or no pants

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"They will actually be like the photo and not 8 stone heavier they accidently forgot to mention.. Yet recent date on pic just not the photo indate.

Why do you always get a spot? "

Spot on the bot ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Have they given me the right postcode??

Did i type it in correctly (err that would be no, haha)

The postcode you gave me was for Mars.

I ended up in the middle of a housing estate

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By *hunky GentMan over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Have they given me the right postcode??

Did i type it in correctly (err that would be no, haha)

The postcode you gave me was for Mars.

I ended up in the middle of a housing estate

Yes, but the estate was in Mayfair. Xx

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Mostly performance related worries - but let them go as soon as I am en route and try and relax and just go with the flow after that.

By the time I've got round to actually meeting, I'm 99.99% confident that we'll get along and there will be an attraction there so none of those sort of things crop up as worries.

I do triple check I have everything I need though

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman over a year ago

kinky land

"Did I put the gaffa tape in the back of the van

. Excellent answer

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By *B69Woman over a year ago

Wiltshire

Most of the above at various times but having the chemistry and there being an attraction is more important

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By *hunky GentMan over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Most of the above at various times but having the chemistry and there being an attraction is more important "

If the lights are low and you squint a bit ill look better.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nasty smells. I always worry before I go down on a woman that she'll smell bad down there.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Will i get cum in my hair

Only if I stand on the other side of the room

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By *r MoriartyMan over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

Will she turn up

Will she look like her pictures

Will she have a hairy bumhole

Will she like the sandwiches I've brought her

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By *oiluvfunMan over a year ago

Penrith

"Interested in both men’s and women’s thoughts.

My being late

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By *andKBCouple over a year ago

Plymouth

My regular anxiety become fancy meet anxiety

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Will she turn up

Will she look like her pictures

Will she have a hairy bumhole

Will she like the sandwiches I've brought her

You take sandwiches

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"They will actually be like the photo and not 8 stone heavier they accidently forgot to mention.. Yet recent date on pic just not the photo indate.

Why do you always get a spot?

Spot on the bot ? "

Pain in the ass

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Will she turn up

Will she look like her pictures

Will she have a hairy bumhole

Will she like the sandwiches I've brought her

You take sandwiches

Yeah so do I, and nibbles and drinks

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Will she turn up

Will she look like her pictures

Will she have a hairy bumhole

Will she like the sandwiches I've brought her

You take sandwiches

Yeah so do I, and nibbles and drinks"

I don’t worry about that though, I just ask what they like

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Will she turn up

Will she look like her pictures

Will she have a hairy bumhole

Will she like the sandwiches I've brought her

You take sandwiches

Yeah so do I, and nibbles and drinks

I don’t worry about that though, I just ask what they like

Omg, sign me up!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Will she turn up

Will she look like her pictures

Will she have a hairy bumhole

Will she like the sandwiches I've brought her

You take sandwiches

Yeah so do I, and nibbles and drinks

I don’t worry about that though, I just ask what they like

Omg, sign me up!! "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"They will actually be like the photo and not 8 stone heavier they accidently forgot to mention.. Yet recent date on pic just not the photo indate.

Why do you always get a spot?

Spot on the bot ?

Pain in the ass"

Use lube x

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By *agneto.Man over a year ago

Bham

Will they murder me? Will there be awkward silences. What underwear is she wearing. Have I definitely got condoms. Is my hair alright.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Am I going to wake up?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Will she turn up

Will she look like her pictures

Will she have a hairy bumhole

Will she like the sandwiches I've brought her

Hairy bum hole looooool

Only in Norfolk

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Will I be safe? "

This is the one for men and women. A first meet no matter what is putting a lot of faith in that person to be who they say they are and I’m not on about just in terms of looks. Could be completely different in many ways.

Another thing that goes through my mind is I hope they are actually where they say they are. No shows really suck for everyone

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By *orthern StarsCouple over a year ago

Durham

"If I've missed any rogue hairs whilst shaving.

If ive missed any rogue whiskers whilst plucking

If I eat, will they tell me if I look like Ace Ventura? Shall I take a toothbrush just in case?

Have a had a poo today? Will I need one? When did I last eat? If I eat I may need a poo, if I don't I may end up with empty gut breath

What shall I wear? Dear god what shall I wear?

Fuck it, it'll all end up in my gob whatever I do so tie it back ya daft bitch.

Did I eat yet, I've forgotten.

Time the washing machine so everything is super fresh.

Shit, what perfume?

Fuck a duck, what eye shadow?

Shit, I need to choose my outfit to know what eyeshadow.

Are my elbows feeling elbowy? I need them at full elbow strength in case I need to bust someones nose if they turn out to be a freako liar stalker murderer.

Not much to worry about then

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hairy ladies bum hole has done me

Tears real tears

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By *icentiousCouple over a year ago

Up on them there hills

How she comes down from subspace.

It is very intense and intimate.

With a regular submissive type person you can prepare, a little B/d play is equally important.

However, she needs to come down ecologically and no one is the same.

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By *BWBI2019Woman over a year ago

Leeds

1: That they think I look different or bigger in real life than in my pictures. (I do try to be upfront and have unfiltered pictures at all angles on my profile)

2: Making sure that I smell like happiness and rainbows with a hint of wife material through out the meet.

3: Over night meets freak me out, I couldn't possibly be caught snoring unless by a potential life partner haha!

4: SAFETY that's why the idea of clubs is more appealing to me now.

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By *ittlemiss1985Woman over a year ago

Lansing

"Will I be safe?"

Basically this everytime, especially after a local guy was found murdered after meeting someone off Grinder yesterday.

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By *hunky GentMan over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

What planet are they from?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What planet are they from?

Hairy bum hole ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What planet are they from?

Hairy bum hole ?

One knuckle or two

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What planet are they from?

Hairy bum hole ?

One knuckle or two

Up to the wrist ?

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By *hunky GentMan over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"What planet are they from?

Hairy bum hole ?

One knuckle or two

Up to the wrist ?

One fist or two.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What planet are they from?

Hairy bum hole ?

One knuckle or two

Up to the wrist ?

One fist or two.

Hard core

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By *hunky GentMan over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"What planet are they from?

Hairy bum hole ?

One knuckle or two

Up to the wrist ?

One fist or two.

Hard core

I'm not as vanilla as you think.

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By *icentiousCouple over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Oh multiple orgasms, if they go on forever, when is it safe to put my dick in her mouth,

So overrated.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Will I be too fat in the flesh?

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By *akequeen90Couple over a year ago

Sydney

Is he/she/they someone that we know?

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By *attb179Man over a year ago

London

"Will there be chemistry..."

Very much this.

If there's chemistry there's no awkwardness at all

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By *amasutra79Man over a year ago

Limehouse

Will I cum too quick

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

does my bum look big in this ?

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By *acey_RedWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

"Will I cum too quick "

Yes

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By *mmmMaybeCouple over a year ago

West Wales

Will we still be awake at 2am?

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By *attb179Man over a year ago

London

"Will I cum too quick "

Gave up on worrying about this lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Will we still be awake at 2am?

Hmmm... Maybe?!

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By *attb179Man over a year ago

London

Will she turn up

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Is she vegan

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By *mmmMaybeCouple over a year ago

West Wales

"Will we still be awake at 2am?

Hmmm... Maybe?! "

How’s the devil in your knickers?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is she vegan

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Will we still be awake at 2am?

Hmmm... Maybe?!

How’s the devil in your knickers?

Stirring

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By *mmmMaybeCouple over a year ago

West Wales

"Is she vegan

If so will it be too cold to leave the windows open?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Awkward silences/lack of 'spark'

Physical rejection

Being murdered

In that order.

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