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By *uke OzadeMan
over a year ago
Ho Chi Minge City |
"People who demand face pics on first message but not willing to send theirs back. What’s that about?!
Surely it’s go to be a two way thing?"
I do love the faceless profiles demanding that with zero photos uploaded |
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"People who demand face pics on first message but not willing to send theirs back. What’s that about?!
Surely it’s go to be a two way thing?
I do love the faceless profiles demanding that with zero photos uploaded "
Exactly! Crazy isn’t it! |
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"Don't message them, we don't. The first sign of a demand and we're off.
Exactly. Who do they honestly think they are?!"
I don't know but we won't meet unless we've seen a face picture although recently nobody has asked to see ours. It does save time if someone sends a face picture straight off. |
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"Don't message them, we don't. The first sign of a demand and we're off.
Exactly. Who do they honestly think they are?!
I don't know but we won't meet unless we've seen a face picture although recently nobody has asked to see ours. It does save time if someone sends a face picture straight off."
I have to disagree. I think sending face pics reveals identity and the whole point in the way this site is setup is to have discretion if wanted. If someone wants to see your face then the least they can do is show respect and send theirs in reply. |
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"Don't message them, we don't. The first sign of a demand and we're off.
Exactly. Who do they honestly think they are?!
I don't know but we won't meet unless we've seen a face picture although recently nobody has asked to see ours. It does save time if someone sends a face picture straight off.
I have to disagree. I think sending face pics reveals identity and the whole point in the way this site is setup is to have discretion if wanted. If someone wants to see your face then the least they can do is show respect and send theirs in reply."
We don't ask for a face picture unless we're going to meet and if we ask we always return the favour. However lots of men send their face with a first message, we don't feel obliged to send ours back since we don't ask them to |
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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago
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"People who demand face pics on first message but not willing to send theirs back. What’s that about?!
Surely it’s go to be a two way thing?"
Like most of the many moany threads on fab, you can totally control the situation you're moaning about.
Any profile that doesn't sit right with you for whatever reason, block them so they don't keep re-appearing in your search and move on. |
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"People who demand face pics on first message but not willing to send theirs back. What’s that about?!
Surely it’s go to be a two way thing?
Like most of the many moany threads on fab, you can totally control the situation you're moaning about.
Any profile that doesn't sit right with you for whatever reason, block them so they don't keep re-appearing in your search and move on."
Yeah I agree. Not moaning though just wondering why people see it fit to receive face pics and not reply with theirs. Even when a lot promise they will send theirs in reply. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Females and couples can call the shots on fab due to supply and demand 
That's just not true. I could demand whatever I want, but you don't have to send it. You call your own shots. "
Ok then single guys rule fab  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can demand what I like on my profile. It's got nothing to do with supply and demand, it's to do with personal agency.
If you have a "No Pic, No Reply" policy then I won't send you a message, because I have a "No pic until we've talked" policy. And that's fine - I also have a "No penis in my bum" policy and I manage to coexist with "Penis in bum mandatory" people without feeling put out. Just want different things.
We manage to coexist entirely respectfully and peacefully. |
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"Ahh yeah that’s cool. I do think that if you ask someone to send theirs then it’s only respectful to send yours in return. Even if you don’t like them."
If somebody sends us a face pic and we don't have an attraction we will NOT send a face pic with our reply message. Why would we? We won't be meeting them and certainly don't feel like we have to send one. If people don't like that - tough. |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"Females and couples can call the shots on fab due to supply and demand
That's just not true. I could demand whatever I want, but you don't have to send it. You call your own shots.
Ok then single guys rule fab "
Everybody rules their own fab experience  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Everybody rules their own fab experience "
This but unironically. I've been "on the scene" for over a decade, I've only ever done what I'm comfortable doing (for example, not giving my face pic to all and sundry), and I've had loads of fun.
From swinging previously as a couple, and from talking to single women, I'm not convinced women rule fab any more than they rule the dating scene. They just get spammed to fuck by men, 90% of which either aren't serious about meeting (they just want the ego boost) or demand what they want and are surprised when women, given this information up-front, decide not to meet with them.
The shocking thing about Fabs is how equal women are - and to people used to inequality in their favour, that feels unfair. |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"Everybody rules their own fab experience
This but unironically. I've been "on the scene" for over a decade, I've only ever done what I'm comfortable doing (for example, not giving my face pic to all and sundry), and I've had loads of fun.
From swinging previously as a couple, and from talking to single women, I'm not convinced women rule fab any more than they rule the dating scene. They just get spammed to fuck by men, 90% of which either aren't serious about meeting (they just want the ego boost) or demand what they want and are surprised when women, given this information up-front, decide not to meet with them.
The shocking thing about Fabs is how equal women are - and to people used to inequality in their favour, that feels unfair."
I wasn't being ironic. |
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"Ahh yeah that’s cool. I do think that if you ask someone to send theirs then it’s only respectful to send yours in return. Even if you don’t like them.
If somebody sends us a face pic and we don't have an attraction we will NOT send a face pic with our reply message. Why would we? We won't be meeting them and certainly don't feel like we have to send one. If people don't like that - tough."
The difference is... if you ask for one. If you ask for one then it’s only respectful to send one back if you say you will. Giving away your identity is a big deal for a lot of here. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
If you don't like it don't message. I won't message anyone who demands a face pic up front. I'll send a face pic after chatting for a while.
But like others have said run your profile what way you want but don't expect others to send pics back after you send them on.It is just the way it is in here. |
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"People who demand face pics on first message but not willing to send theirs back. What’s that about?!
Surely it’s go to be a two way thing?"
Demanding anything is bad form if you ask me, but we generally request a face pic and include ours in the message. If someone is particularly local, we might want to see them before we reveal ourselves... just to ensure it's not our employer, neighbours, or cousin (again).
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"Ahh yeah that’s cool. I do think that if you ask someone to send theirs then it’s only respectful to send yours in return. Even if you don’t like them.
If somebody sends us a face pic and we don't have an attraction we will NOT send a face pic with our reply message. Why would we? We won't be meeting them and certainly don't feel like we have to send one. If people don't like that - tough.
The difference is... if you ask for one. If you ask for one then it’s only respectful to send one back if you say you will. Giving away your identity is a big deal for a lot of here."
If we ask for a photo and they send us one and we don't like the look of them then no we won't send one back. Why should we? We are not meeting, we have made our decision. We don't force people to send one, we will ask politely and state if we think there is attraction we will send one back. How we run our profile isn't going to change for the butt hurt out there. |
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"Ahh yeah that’s cool. I do think that if you ask someone to send theirs then it’s only respectful to send yours in return. Even if you don’t like them.
If somebody sends us a face pic and we don't have an attraction we will NOT send a face pic with our reply message. Why would we? We won't be meeting them and certainly don't feel like we have to send one. If people don't like that - tough.
The difference is... if you ask for one. If you ask for one then it’s only respectful to send one back if you say you will. Giving away your identity is a big deal for a lot of here.
If we ask for a photo and they send us one and we don't like the look of them then no we won't send one back. Why should we? We are not meeting, we have made our decision. We don't force people to send one, we will ask politely and state if we think there is attraction we will send one back. How we run our profile isn't going to change for the butt hurt out there."
If i dont like the look of them then i will say not for me but will return a face pic as its only polite i feel. |
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"Ahh yeah that’s cool. I do think that if you ask someone to send theirs then it’s only respectful to send yours in return. Even if you don’t like them.
If somebody sends us a face pic and we don't have an attraction we will NOT send a face pic with our reply message. Why would we? We won't be meeting them and certainly don't feel like we have to send one. If people don't like that - tough.
The difference is... if you ask for one. If you ask for one then it’s only respectful to send one back if you say you will. Giving away your identity is a big deal for a lot of here.
If we ask for a photo and they send us one and we don't like the look of them then no we won't send one back. Why should we? We are not meeting, we have made our decision. We don't force people to send one, we will ask politely and state if we think there is attraction we will send one back. How we run our profile isn't going to change for the butt hurt out there.
If i dont like the look of them then i will say not for me but will return a face pic as its only polite i feel."
Totally agree. Can’t stand it when people can’t be polite and stick those decency unwritten rules. |
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"Ahh yeah that’s cool. I do think that if you ask someone to send theirs then it’s only respectful to send yours in return. Even if you don’t like them.
If somebody sends us a face pic and we don't have an attraction we will NOT send a face pic with our reply message. Why would we? We won't be meeting them and certainly don't feel like we have to send one. If people don't like that - tough.
The difference is... if you ask for one. If you ask for one then it’s only respectful to send one back if you say you will. Giving away your identity is a big deal for a lot of here.
If we ask for a photo and they send us one and we don't like the look of them then no we won't send one back. Why should we? We are not meeting, we have made our decision. We don't force people to send one, we will ask politely and state if we think there is attraction we will send one back. How we run our profile isn't going to change for the butt hurt out there.
If i dont like the look of them then i will say not for me but will return a face pic as its only polite i feel.
Totally agree. Can’t stand it when people can’t be polite and stick those decency unwritten rules."
Why should we give our face pics to people we don't want to meet? Stick being polite! When you have had all your photos and profile copied and used against you then maybe you will understand why some people won't give their face pics to total randoms on a sex site. Stopped being naive as fuck after that. |
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"Ahh yeah that’s cool. I do think that if you ask someone to send theirs then it’s only respectful to send yours in return. Even if you don’t like them.
If somebody sends us a face pic and we don't have an attraction we will NOT send a face pic with our reply message. Why would we? We won't be meeting them and certainly don't feel like we have to send one. If people don't like that - tough.
The difference is... if you ask for one. If you ask for one then it’s only respectful to send one back if you say you will. Giving away your identity is a big deal for a lot of here.
If we ask for a photo and they send us one and we don't like the look of them then no we won't send one back. Why should we? We are not meeting, we have made our decision. We don't force people to send one, we will ask politely and state if we think there is attraction we will send one back. How we run our profile isn't going to change for the butt hurt out there.
If i dont like the look of them then i will say not for me but will return a face pic as its only polite i feel.
Totally agree. Can’t stand it when people can’t be polite and stick those decency unwritten rules.
Why should we give our face pics to people we don't want to meet? Stick being polite! When you have had all your photos and profile copied and used against you then maybe you will understand why some people won't give their face pics to total randoms on a sex site. Stopped being naive as fuck after that."
But if they were attractive you would?. Good lookers are just as capable of copying and using your pics. |
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"Ahh yeah that’s cool. I do think that if you ask someone to send theirs then it’s only respectful to send yours in return. Even if you don’t like them.
If somebody sends us a face pic and we don't have an attraction we will NOT send a face pic with our reply message. Why would we? We won't be meeting them and certainly don't feel like we have to send one. If people don't like that - tough.
The difference is... if you ask for one. If you ask for one then it’s only respectful to send one back if you say you will. Giving away your identity is a big deal for a lot of here.
If we ask for a photo and they send us one and we don't like the look of them then no we won't send one back. Why should we? We are not meeting, we have made our decision. We don't force people to send one, we will ask politely and state if we think there is attraction we will send one back. How we run our profile isn't going to change for the butt hurt out there.
If i dont like the look of them then i will say not for me but will return a face pic as its only polite i feel.
Totally agree. Can’t stand it when people can’t be polite and stick those decency unwritten rules.
Why should we give our face pics to people we don't want to meet? Stick being polite! When you have had all your photos and profile copied and used against you then maybe you will understand why some people won't give their face pics to total randoms on a sex site. Stopped being naive as fuck after that.
But if they were attractive you would?. Good lookers are just as capable of copying and using your pics. "
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over a year ago
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Always the scariest thing about fab that part isn’t it?
I always open the face pic thinking “please don’t be someone from work, please don’t be someone from work...” haha |
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"Always the scariest thing about fab that part isn’t it?
I always open the face pic thinking “please don’t be someone from work, please don’t be someone from work...” haha"
Totally agree. Which is why it’s only respectful to reply with yours. So many on here either don’t reply with theirs or they just block. Not good. |
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"Ahh yeah that’s cool. I do think that if you ask someone to send theirs then it’s only respectful to send yours in return. Even if you don’t like them.
If somebody sends us a face pic and we don't have an attraction we will NOT send a face pic with our reply message. Why would we? We won't be meeting them and certainly don't feel like we have to send one. If people don't like that - tough.
The difference is... if you ask for one. If you ask for one then it’s only respectful to send one back if you say you will. Giving away your identity is a big deal for a lot of here.
If we ask for a photo and they send us one and we don't like the look of them then no we won't send one back. Why should we? We are not meeting, we have made our decision. We don't force people to send one, we will ask politely and state if we think there is attraction we will send one back. How we run our profile isn't going to change for the butt hurt out there.
If i dont like the look of them then i will say not for me but will return a face pic as its only polite i feel.
Totally agree. Can’t stand it when people can’t be polite and stick those decency unwritten rules.
Why should we give our face pics to people we don't want to meet? Stick being polite! When you have had all your photos and profile copied and used against you then maybe you will understand why some people won't give their face pics to total randoms on a sex site. Stopped being naive as fuck after that.
But if they were attractive you would?. Good lookers are just as capable of copying and using your pics. "
If I was meeting them I would. But why send a face pic to someone I have no intention of meeting? If you want to then carry on. |
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"If you ask for one and the person takes the step to send one then it’s only fair to meet them half way and send yours back. That’s why. Only fair to show who you are if you’ve seen who they are."
No don't agree. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I am looking for playmates, my face is visible but if it wasn't and I wasn't attracted to someone then why would I need to send it as that would probably be the end of the conversation |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only after agreeing to meet will we, send a face photo. If after viewing it they decide to change their mind then that's OK but Nobody has so far thankfully lol!. |
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"Only after agreeing to meet will we, send a face photo. If after viewing it they decide to change their mind then that's OK but Nobody has so far thankfully lol!. "
How do people agree to a meet, unless it's a social, without them seeing your faces?!  |
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I ask to see a face pic fairly early on. I have to be physically attracted to someone to have sex with them. I tell them that if I feel theres a possibility that we could meet after seeing their face picture that I will send one in return. If I receive their picture and decide theres no physical attraction I do not send a face pic back to them. I dont feel I need to as we will not be meeting. |
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"Don't message them, we don't. The first sign of a demand and we're off.
Exactly. Who do they honestly think they are?!
I don't know but we won't meet unless we've seen a face picture although recently nobody has asked to see ours. It does save time if someone sends a face picture straight off.
I have to disagree. I think sending face pics reveals identity and the whole point in the way this site is setup is to have discretion if wanted. If someone wants to see your face then the least they can do is show respect and send theirs in reply."
You wouldn't get a reply off me if you messaged first without a face pic. It's your choice not to send it, it's mine to ignore your message.... In my opinion, if they've seen yours first, then they don't like the look of you and won't bother replying or sending a pic.... Harsh this place!  |
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I’m shocked at peoples attitude toward this. Showing your face very revealing and brave. The least someone can do is show respect and return the favour.
The “if I/we don’t like the look then we won’t send one back” is so rude and utterly disrespectful. Can’t believe there are so many on here that think that attitude is ok  |
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"People who demand face pics on first message but not willing to send theirs back. What’s that about?!
Surely it’s go to be a two way thing?
I do love the faceless profiles demanding that with zero photos uploaded "
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"People who demand face pics on first message but not willing to send theirs back. What’s that about?!
Surely it’s go to be a two way thing?
I do love the faceless profiles demanding that with zero photos uploaded
This "
Thanks. Restores my faith in the site a bit. |
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By *hav02Man
over a year ago
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"I’m shocked at peoples attitude toward this. Showing your face very revealing and brave. The least someone can do is show respect and return the favour.
The “if I/we don’t like the look then we won’t send one back” is so rude and utterly disrespectful. Can’t believe there are so many on here that think that attitude is ok "
That's the sad harsh truth of the world we live in though.
I do enjoy FacePic Fridays, but not many return the deed, and that's only for a friendly forum fun!
It's a case of Man up and move on. |
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over a year ago
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"I’m shocked at peoples attitude toward this. Showing your face very revealing and brave. The least someone can do is show respect and return the favour.
The “if I/we don’t like the look then we won’t send one back” is so rude and utterly disrespectful. Can’t believe there are so many on here that think that attitude is ok "
What's the point of those sending one, who have decided they don't fancy you?
I'm here to learn, not to have a go! |
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"I’m shocked at peoples attitude toward this. Showing your face very revealing and brave. The least someone can do is show respect and return the favour.
The “if I/we don’t like the look then we won’t send one back” is so rude and utterly disrespectful. Can’t believe there are so many on here that think that attitude is ok
What's the point of those sending one, who have decided they don't fancy you?
I'm here to learn, not to have a go! "
Because if you send a face pic you’re revealing identity. It’s common decency to reply with yours so the sender knows who’s seen them. Even if it’s a polite... “you’re not my type, thanks”. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"People who demand face pics on first message but not willing to send theirs back. What’s that about?!
Surely it’s go to be a two way thing?
I do love the faceless profiles demanding that with zero photos uploaded "
Me too. But that's the power of pussy. They make demands because they're in demand.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m shocked at peoples attitude toward this. Showing your face very revealing and brave. The least someone can do is show respect and return the favour.
The “if I/we don’t like the look then we won’t send one back” is so rude and utterly disrespectful. Can’t believe there are so many on here that think that attitude is ok
What's the point of those sending one, who have decided they don't fancy you?
I'm here to learn, not to have a go!
Because if you send a face pic you’re revealing identity. It’s common decency to reply with yours so the sender knows who’s seen them. Even if it’s a polite... “you’re not my type, thanks”."
Crikey.... Its soo important to you about your identity being known. Is the swinging world really for you - sounds like a dirty little secret to be kept hidden!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"People who demand face pics on first message but not willing to send theirs back. What’s that about?!
Surely it’s go to be a two way thing?
I do love the faceless profiles demanding that with zero photos uploaded
Me too. But that's the power of pussy. They make demands because they're in demand.
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Or the desperation of some men?! I wouldn't send a message to someone with no pictures, let alone my face |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Me too. But that's the power of pussy. They make demands because they're in demand."
It's impressive how quickly we circle back to this argument. We're all being oppressed by the all-powerful vagina! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Only after agreeing to meet will we, send a face photo. If after viewing it they decide to change their mind then that's OK but Nobody has so far thankfully lol!.
How do people agree to a meet, unless it's a social, without them seeing your faces?! "
It's quite easy. In the past we have has some fantastic meets without even seeing each others faces beforehand.
It's not all about looks! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm considering meeting someone soon without seeing their face first. He does look like a God from the neck down, and he's a sweetheart, and I'm feeling brave  "
Keep the face a gift until its do time lol |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm considering meeting someone soon without seeing their face first. He does look like a God from the neck down, and he's a sweetheart, and I'm feeling brave
Keep the face a gift until its do time lol"
He's seen mine, but I told him not to send his yet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm considering meeting someone soon without seeing their face first. He does look like a God from the neck down, and he's a sweetheart, and I'm feeling brave
Keep the face a gift until its do time lol
He's seen mine, but I told him not to send his yet "
Extra level of excitement, nice one |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"Well i hope he turns out like you imagine nsa x good luck x how are you going to recognise him will he be wearing a twirling red bow tie x "
I'll get him to arrive as per his profile pics, topless, tattooed and ripped  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well i hope he turns out like you imagine nsa x good luck x how are you going to recognise him will he be wearing a twirling red bow tie x
I'll get him to arrive as per his profile pics, topless, tattooed and ripped "
Nice  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm considering meeting someone soon without seeing their face first. He does look like a God from the neck down, and he's a sweetheart, and I'm feeling brave "
Like me naked attraction to a cock and body not looks |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm considering meeting someone soon without seeing their face first. He does look like a God from the neck down, and he's a sweetheart, and I'm feeling brave
Like me naked attraction to a cock and body not looks "
that's a good attraction x |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm considering meeting someone soon without seeing their face first. He does look like a God from the neck down, and he's a sweetheart, and I'm feeling brave
Like me naked attraction to a cock and body not looks "
Oh yes and his penis is quite beautiful too  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Females and couples can call the shots on fab due to supply and demand
That's just not true. I could demand whatever I want, but you don't have to send it. You call your own shots.
Ok then single guys rule fab "
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