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Just can’t get it up...
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I’m one of those girls who prefers older, more experienced guys. Most of them talk the talk but then can’t get it up in the bedroom. Either that or they don’t last very long and can’t go again and it’s pretty frustrating when you’re as highly sexed as me (problem just as frustrating for them too!)
I’m thinking of trying my first younger guy hoping they’ll be able to last the distance and know what buttons to press.
What do you prefer and why? |
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over a year ago
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"I prefer younger for the very reasons you have mentioned. I also feel that older men want nice sex whereas younger men prefer a good hard fucking session."
No we don’t darling |
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62, rock hard erections, been cumming 2/3 times a day since a boy, home in a swingers paradise, Fuerteventura, but sadly deemed too old for many swinging couples in their 50's!
Those in the know, know otherwise.....we do FFM most of the time.  |
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"I prefer younger for the very reasons you have mentioned. I also feel that older men want nice sex whereas younger men prefer a good hard fucking session."
You're clearly meeting the wrong older guys instead of those who can offer you both and more in between..  |
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"I’m one of those girls who prefers older, more experienced guys. Most of them talk the talk but then can’t get it up in the bedroom. Either that or they don’t last very long and can’t go again and it’s pretty frustrating when you’re as highly sexed as me (problem just as frustrating for them too!)
I’m thinking of trying my first younger guy hoping they’ll be able to last the distance and know what buttons to press.
What do you prefer and why?"
:-Well I (Dave) can only speak for myself, I don't have a problem getting it up but on the odd occasion we invite another guy to join us Tina prefers somebody younger as she says I do all the button pushing husband type things and he gets fucked and discarded  we have met younger guys who haven't been up to much in the bedroom, you just need to keep looking you will eventually find what you want I see you are from Liverpool, go to Townhouse |
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I prefer a man over 45. We've never met a guy of 45 or over who can't get an erection and if it did happen we're confident they would have the experience to know that it isn't the end of the world. I'm going to make a sweeping generalisation now and say I'm not keen on men under about 40 because they think they're doing me a favour. |
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Sounds like you need to meet an active older guy. One that worksout and has a healthy diet. While i wouldn't consider my man to be old (39) he never has a problem getting or maintaining an erection, and he loves to fuck hard. He can also cum 5 or 6 times in a row before he's "done". I say "done" as after 20 mins or so he's ready for round 2. lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't really have problems getting it up, I just struggle to finish sometimes and it gets a bit embarrassing. I worry that whoever I'm with might think it's because of her. I overthink too much. |
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I'm one of them that goes for hours (literally, I'm useless at a bukkake!) and can get it up on command, but I've seen lots of younger guys (at clubs, gangbangs etc) that can't. With older guys it'll be just age but I think younger guys struggle with nerves, pressure etc.
Viagra is available over the counter now though.. |
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"I don't really have problems getting it up, I just struggle to finish sometimes and it gets a bit embarrassing. I worry that whoever I'm with might think it's because of her. I overthink too much. "
What you think affects your cock |
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"I’m one of those girls who prefers older, more experienced guys. Most of them talk the talk but then can’t get it up in the bedroom. Either that or they don’t last very long and can’t go again and it’s pretty frustrating when you’re as highly sexed as me (problem just as frustrating for them too!)
I’m thinking of trying my first younger guy hoping they’ll be able to last the distance and know what buttons to press.
What do you prefer and why?"
Erectyle disfunction can be found in many males who cannot hold an errection. Even taking viagra does not count.
Foreplay before
Massage before
Only met one guy who had Erectyle disfunction from here
Alcohol also stops a cock performing
Age does not matter |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have struggled with erection issues and understand why women wouldn’t wish to meet me because of it. However the women I have met were patient and understanding and we had a great time anyway. I’m happy to be open about it and I have worked on things to help me, however it happens. It happened when I was younger too. Overexcitement, nerves, performance anxiety and condoms are frequently a cocktail that can cause issues for men, as well as certain medications. |
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"I have struggled with erection issues and understand why women wouldn’t wish to meet me because of it. However the women I have met were patient and understanding and we had a great time anyway. I’m happy to be open about it and I have worked on things to help me, however it happens. It happened when I was younger too. Overexcitement, nerves, performance anxiety and condoms are frequently a cocktail that can cause issues for men, as well as certain medications. "
Alcohol is also problematic at times too |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Thing is OP there isn't a man alive who doesn't have some issue with how his cock performs at some time in their life, whether that be problems getting or maintaining an erection, cumming too quickly, not cumming at all etc etc - any guy that says he hasn't, either hasn't experienced it yet, or is a liar.
Whilst it's true the older you get, the more prone you *might* be to issues due to underlying problems such as prostate, reduced or increased blood pressure etc, age really doesn't come into it at all - as others have said any number of factors can affect "performance" at any given time.
The key is how you deal with it, both as the individual affected, and the person they are with - make an issue out of it and the bigger the problem becomes, treat it sensitively and ignore it as much as you can and whilst it might not make a difference, it will certainly help.
Sex doesn't *have* to be about the man getting it up, or even penetration there are a whole heap of things that can be done which are just as mutually pleasurable and satisfying even if Mr Floppy does come to visit
If those things aren't for you, then fair enough, but making them sound like a bad thing, or a guys ability to "perform" as a bad thing (and not saying you have as such) is not at all helpful |
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"I’m one of those girls who prefers older, more experienced guys. Most of them talk the talk but then can’t get it up in the bedroom. Either that or they don’t last very long and can’t go again and it’s pretty frustrating when you’re as highly sexed as me (problem just as frustrating for them too!)
I’m thinking of trying my first younger guy hoping they’ll be able to last the distance and know what buttons to press.
What do you prefer and why?"
this sounds just like the majority of guys who talk the talk regardless of age... in my experience many get stage fright but with some encouragement and not making an issue.. you often find it isnt all bad.
I've found the above issues are not age specific |
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"From the conversation I’ve had with men of various ages it appears to be more about what is going on in their head than their nether regions that create the issues. "
Very much so. |
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"From the conversation I’ve had with men of various ages it appears to be more about what is going on in their head than their nether regions that create the issues.
Very much so."
That’s why meditative practices, deep breathing, massages and things that help you get out of your head and into your body help. |
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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago
mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds |
"I’m one of those girls who prefers older, more experienced guys. Most of them talk the talk but then can’t get it up in the bedroom. Either that or they don’t last very long and can’t go again and it’s pretty frustrating when you’re as highly sexed as me (problem just as frustrating for them too!)
I’m thinking of trying my first younger guy hoping they’ll be able to last the distance and know what buttons to press.
What do you prefer and why?"
If its happening a lot (most you say) the common denominator is you op look at what you're doing ..
theres a lot of biological chemistry for a guy to get and maintain an erection, the way some folk post threads and comment its as if they've seen nature documentaries and they treat guys like its the rut.
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"I’m one of those girls who prefers older, more experienced guys. Most of them talk the talk but then can’t get it up in the bedroom. Either that or they don’t last very long and can’t go again and it’s pretty frustrating when you’re as highly sexed as me (problem just as frustrating for them too!)
I’m thinking of trying my first younger guy hoping they’ll be able to last the distance and know what buttons to press.
What do you prefer and why?"
I usually go for older but not consciously, just coincidence. |
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