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By *ifeandhubby400 OP Couple
over a year ago
Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland |
curious do we/i have a right to be jealous of any meets when they see others ,we havent an arrangement and we see others albeit not often ,i think in my case i worry about being replaced by someone more appealing etc ,its my issue not theirs  |
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By *ifeandhubby400 OP Couple
over a year ago
Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland |
"No you don't have a right, unless you've both agreed not to see others. But if you're feeling jealous, you can't really help that I suppose. "
Agree dont have a right feel its more worried about being sidelined |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"No you don't have a right, unless you've both agreed not to see others. But if you're feeling jealous, you can't really help that I suppose. Agree dont have a right feel its more worried about being sidelined "
I'm thinking you're talking about folk that you've met meeting others, rather than your partner meeting others, am I right?
It's OK to feel it, but if you express that to the ones you're meeting, chances are they will run a mile. It's the nature of the site, people will meet other people. And if they replace you, well you'll find someone else, you can't keep everyone to yourself  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why would you be jealous? It's not a competition... Is it? Saying that, I had quite a few guys get shirty, if I got a new veri, when I was playing alot. It just meant they never got to meet me... Nsa means I answer to myself, alone. If I wanted to deal with jealousy I would have an owner and that is never happening  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had so called female friends on here tell me to not meet men they have met to which I told them they can't tell me who to meet just cause they have been there or want to continue meeting.
Seen the odd argument kick off in clubs from couple's too |
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"I think feeling jealousy or hurt or left out is natural. I do sometimes.
But I try very hard to handle it privately, because it's not appropriate given any of my dealings here. It's my problem. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"curious do we/i have a right to be jealous of any meets when they see others ,we havent an arrangement and we see others albeit not often ,i think in my case i worry about being replaced by someone more appealing etc ,its my issue not theirs "
I'm confused.
as a married couple you're jealous of the men/women you've met going on to meet other couples? |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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I know i couldn’t swing as a couple because whilst i’d have no issue with just myself getting extra sex (with his knowledge) i’d have a serious problem with sharing him. So unless it was a hotwife (is that right?) relationship where she gets the extra sex and he just gets her, i couldn’t do it.
I get very territorial. And i don’t share.
I like to be Queen Bee. |
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I think some men, and not exclusively men, use some women as bait to get into couples parties and the women love their man so much they will do almost anything to keep them including FF and swinging. If that's the case and I have seen in on occasion it's tantermount to abuse in my eyes.. I saw a couple at one club. He kept prowling off on his own for action and she kept looking for him and was teary and upset.. |
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Swinging is about sharing. There is no place for jealousy in our book.
People you meet will meet others, it's called swinging. Get yourselves out there and meet others, let go of the negative feelings and enjoy the good times. |
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"No but if they going to replace u they wouldnt be worth keep meeting that's how I look at it Thanks im starting to feel that way now it would be their loss  "
It’s not their loss tho is it? They have other options and so should you, sometimes you need extra options in this game as the “next best thing” is only a away  |
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"I think some men, and not exclusively men, use some women as bait to get into couples parties and the women love their man so much they will do almost anything to keep them including FF and swinging. If that's the case and I have seen in on occasion it's tantermount to abuse in my eyes.. I saw a couple at one club. He kept prowling off on his own for action and she kept looking for him and was teary and upset.. "
I agree that some women swing to keep their man happy. I played with a couple once and she ended up in tears, and they had a big argument in the club. Pathetic behaviour and they shouldn't be swinging until she can control her feelings. Swinging is meant to be fun. |
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By *ifeandhubby400 OP Couple
over a year ago
Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland |
"curious do we/i have a right to be jealous of any meets when they see others ,we havent an arrangement and we see others albeit not often ,i think in my case i worry about being replaced by someone more appealing etc ,its my issue not theirs
I'm confused. of the ones we meet more than once and maybe jealous was the wrong word ,being tossed aside for likewise couple but better is more a fear ,but maybe they are not for us in that case ,just in a weak moment just now .
as a married couple you're jealous of the men/women you've met going on to meet other couples?"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think some men, and not exclusively men, use some women as bait to get into couples parties and the women love their man so much they will do almost anything to keep them including FF and swinging. If that's the case and I have seen in on occasion it's tantermount to abuse in my eyes.. I saw a couple at one club. He kept prowling off on his own for action and she kept looking for him and was teary and upset..
I agree that some women swing to keep their man happy. I played with a couple once and she ended up in tears, and they had a big argument in the club. Pathetic behaviour and they shouldn't be swinging until she can control her feelings. Swinging is meant to be fun."
It's a wee bit unfair to put it on her |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know i couldn’t swing as a couple because whilst i’d have no issue with just myself getting extra sex (with his knowledge) i’d have a serious problem with sharing him. So unless it was a hotwife (is that right?) relationship where she gets the extra sex and he just gets her, i couldn’t do it.
I get very territorial. And i don’t share.
I like to be Queen Bee."
. This. But I’ve never hidden the fact I don’t and won’t share. It’s not for me so I don’t do it. I think if you’re not 100% with something then don’t do it. |
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"I think some men, and not exclusively men, use some women as bait to get into couples parties and the women love their man so much they will do almost anything to keep them including FF and swinging. If that's the case and I have seen in on occasion it's tantermount to abuse in my eyes.. I saw a couple at one club. He kept prowling off on his own for action and she kept looking for him and was teary and upset..
I agree that some women swing to keep their man happy. I played with a couple once and she ended up in tears, and they had a big argument in the club. Pathetic behaviour and they shouldn't be swinging until she can control her feelings. Swinging is meant to be fun.
It's a wee bit unfair to put it on her"
But it was her who started the argument and had the issue. Not her husband. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I constantly get jealous on here and don't even really meet or speak to anyone it's just natural I just don't say anything about it."
I don’t get jealous. Never have. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think some men, and not exclusively men, use some women as bait to get into couples parties and the women love their man so much they will do almost anything to keep them including FF and swinging. If that's the case and I have seen in on occasion it's tantermount to abuse in my eyes.. I saw a couple at one club. He kept prowling off on his own for action and she kept looking for him and was teary and upset..
I agree that some women swing to keep their man happy. I played with a couple once and she ended up in tears, and they had a big argument in the club. Pathetic behaviour and they shouldn't be swinging until she can control her feelings. Swinging is meant to be fun.
It's a wee bit unfair to put it on her
But it was her who started the argument and had the issue. Not her husband."
It's the husband making her ???  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I constantly get jealous on here and don't even really meet or speak to anyone it's just natural I just don't say anything about it.
I don’t get jealous. Never have. "
I do constantly |
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"I think some men, and not exclusively men, use some women as bait to get into couples parties and the women love their man so much they will do almost anything to keep them including FF and swinging. If that's the case and I have seen in on occasion it's tantermount to abuse in my eyes.. I saw a couple at one club. He kept prowling off on his own for action and she kept looking for him and was teary and upset..
I agree that some women swing to keep their man happy. I played with a couple once and she ended up in tears, and they had a big argument in the club. Pathetic behaviour and they shouldn't be swinging until she can control her feelings. Swinging is meant to be fun.
It's a wee bit unfair to put it on her
But it was her who started the argument and had the issue. Not her husband."
You never know what's going on in the background. He might have pressured her into it or gone past their agreement or done something to push her over the edge. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's completely natural. You don't have a right as such but jealousy is a feeling that can't always be controlled. How you manage that feeling is how you deal with it.
I sometimes get jealous but I've learnt that anytime I feel that way not to bottle it up but chat openly with beast about what I'm feeling why I'm feeling it and what we can do to deal with it. It has worked brilliantly for us and we are completely open with each other - communication is always the key to curb issues |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Very understandable. If you are into someone it isn't that nice to read about them with somebody else.
Keep your nerve and don't ever show any neediness.
Personally, if someone is choosing bro spend time with somebody else over me I back off and leave them to it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think some men, and not exclusively men, use some women as bait to get into couples parties and the women love their man so much they will do almost anything to keep them including FF and swinging. If that's the case and I have seen in on occasion it's tantermount to abuse in my eyes.. I saw a couple at one club. He kept prowling off on his own for action and she kept looking for him and was teary and upset..
I agree that some women swing to keep their man happy. I played with a couple once and she ended up in tears, and they had a big argument in the club. Pathetic behaviour and they shouldn't be swinging until she can control her feelings. Swinging is meant to be fun.
It's a wee bit unfair to put it on her
But it was her who started the argument and had the issue. Not her husband.
You never know what's going on in the background. He might have pressured her into it or gone past their agreement or done something to push her over the edge. "
And everyone has to start somewhere. Sometimes you don't know how you're gonna feel until you jump in and do it.
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I don't think you need to have a right to feel what you're feeling - they are your emotions and natural for some OP. I think sometimes though 'jealousy' is a sort of quick to call it that emotion. Do some proper self reflection and take time to work out what it is you're feeling. You say in your OP about being replaced, do you have reason to believe so? Are you happy in who you are and your relationship?
Sometimes some aspects of swinging aren't right for us, it's good you've got enough self awareness to realise your uncomfortable with it. I think one of the worst things you can do is involve others unwillingly when you're having those wobbles.
I hope you realise what works for you soon and have more positive emotions towards it, whatever it may be. |
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"I think some men, and not exclusively men, use some women as bait to get into couples parties and the women love their man so much they will do almost anything to keep them including FF and swinging. If that's the case and I have seen in on occasion it's tantermount to abuse in my eyes.. I saw a couple at one club. He kept prowling off on his own for action and she kept looking for him and was teary and upset..
I agree that some women swing to keep their man happy. I played with a couple once and she ended up in tears, and they had a big argument in the club. Pathetic behaviour and they shouldn't be swinging until she can control her feelings. Swinging is meant to be fun."
OMG.. until she can control her feelings ?
You mean he should stop his exploitation ... |
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"I think some men, and not exclusively men, use some women as bait to get into couples parties and the women love their man so much they will do almost anything to keep them including FF and swinging. If that's the case and I have seen in on occasion it's tantermount to abuse in my eyes.. I saw a couple at one club. He kept prowling off on his own for action and she kept looking for him and was teary and upset..
I agree that some women swing to keep their man happy. I played with a couple once and she ended up in tears, and they had a big argument in the club. Pathetic behaviour and they shouldn't be swinging until she can control her feelings. Swinging is meant to be fun.
It's a wee bit unfair to put it on her
But it was her who started the argument and had the issue. Not her husband.
It's the husband making her ??? "
Possibly, but then she shouldn't be there at that. This is part of the problem, women do swinging to please their men. |
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"I think some men, and not exclusively men, use some women as bait to get into couples parties and the women love their man so much they will do almost anything to keep them including FF and swinging. If that's the case and I have seen in on occasion it's tantermount to abuse in my eyes.. I saw a couple at one club. He kept prowling off on his own for action and she kept looking for him and was teary and upset..
I agree that some women swing to keep their man happy. I played with a couple once and she ended up in tears, and they had a big argument in the club. Pathetic behaviour and they shouldn't be swinging until she can control her feelings. Swinging is meant to be fun.
OMG.. until she can control her feelings ?
You mean he should stop his exploitation ..."
Expoloitation? Sorry, please excuse my ignorance, but I'm not quite with you? |
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By *ifeandhubby400 OP Couple
over a year ago
Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland |
"I don't think you need to have a right to feel what you're feeling - they are your emotions and natural for some OP. I think sometimes though 'jealousy' is a sort of quick to call it that emotion. Do some proper self reflection and take time to work out what it is you're feeling. You say in your OP about being replaced, do you have reason to believe so? Are you happy in who you are and your relationship?
Sometimes some aspects of swinging aren't right for us, it's good you've got enough self awareness to realise your uncomfortable with it. I think one of the worst things you can do is involve others unwillingly when you're having those wobbles.
I hope you realise what works for you soon and have more positive emotions towards it, whatever it may be."
Thankyou .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think some men, and not exclusively men, use some women as bait to get into couples parties and the women love their man so much they will do almost anything to keep them including FF and swinging. If that's the case and I have seen in on occasion it's tantermount to abuse in my eyes.. I saw a couple at one club. He kept prowling off on his own for action and she kept looking for him and was teary and upset..
I agree that some women swing to keep their man happy. I played with a couple once and she ended up in tears, and they had a big argument in the club. Pathetic behaviour and they shouldn't be swinging until she can control her feelings. Swinging is meant to be fun.
It's a wee bit unfair to put it on her
But it was her who started the argument and had the issue. Not her husband.
It's the husband making her ???
Possibly, but then she shouldn't be there at that. This is part of the problem, women do swinging to please their men. "
Exactly making her do it to please him |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Love threads like this when most people pretend they dont get jealous 
Swingers superiority bollox you dont "
I get jealous when I see my gfs on here speaking to other men |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Love threads like this when most people pretend they dont get jealous
Swingers superiority bollox you dont
I get jealous when I see my gfs on here speaking to other men "
and theres nothing wrong with that its a natural reaction its what you do with the feeling that matters |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I constantly get jealous on here and don't even really meet or speak to anyone it's just natural I just don't say anything about it.
I don’t get jealous. Never have.
I do constantly"
Depends what you want though. I’ve no need to get jealous as I only meet one person regularly at a time. If they did meet someone else I simply wouldn’t see them again so no need for jealousy. I suppose if you meet lots of different people then jealousy could creep in. I don’t know as I’ve never done that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Love threads like this when most people pretend they dont get jealous
Swingers superiority bollox you dont
I get jealous when I see my gfs on here speaking to other men "
But you don’t know about the pms |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Love threads like this when most people pretend they dont get jealous
Swingers superiority bollox you dont
I get jealous when I see my gfs on here speaking to other men and theres nothing wrong with that its a natural reaction its what you do with the feeling that matters"
I try and make them jealous then |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Love threads like this when most people pretend they dont get jealous
Swingers superiority bollox you dont
I get jealous when I see my gfs on here speaking to other men and theres nothing wrong with that its a natural reaction its what you do with the feeling that matters
I try and make them jealous then "
That’s just playing silly games. Not healthy at all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Love threads like this when most people pretend they dont get jealous
Swingers superiority bollox you dont
I get jealous when I see my gfs on here speaking to other men and theres nothing wrong with that its a natural reaction its what you do with the feeling that matters
I try and make them jealous then
That’s just playing silly games. Not healthy at all. "
Agreed but I'm childish and a knob |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Love threads like this when most people pretend they dont get jealous
Swingers superiority bollox you dont
I get jealous when I see my gfs on here speaking to other men and theres nothing wrong with that its a natural reaction its what you do with the feeling that matters
I try and make them jealous then
That’s just playing silly games. Not healthy at all. "
He’s a amateur  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Love threads like this when most people pretend they dont get jealous
Swingers superiority bollox you dont
I get jealous when I see my gfs on here speaking to other men and theres nothing wrong with that its a natural reaction its what you do with the feeling that matters
I try and make them jealous then
That’s just playing silly games. Not healthy at all. He’s a amateur "
Let me bow down to you because your a pro obv |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Love threads like this when most people pretend they dont get jealous
Swingers superiority bollox you dont
I get jealous when I see my gfs on here speaking to other men and theres nothing wrong with that its a natural reaction its what you do with the feeling that matters
I try and make them jealous then
That’s just playing silly games. Not healthy at all. He’s a amateur "
Just a spring chick |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Love threads like this when most people pretend they dont get jealous
Swingers superiority bollox you dont
I get jealous when I see my gfs on here speaking to other men and theres nothing wrong with that its a natural reaction its what you do with the feeling that matters
I try and make them jealous then
That’s just playing silly games. Not healthy at all. He’s a amateur
Let me bow down to you because your a pro obv "
I’m not the one with the begging threads |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Love threads like this when most people pretend they dont get jealous
Swingers superiority bollox you dont
I get jealous when I see my gfs on here speaking to other men and theres nothing wrong with that its a natural reaction its what you do with the feeling that matters
I try and make them jealous then
That’s just playing silly games. Not healthy at all.
Agreed but I'm childish and a knob "
You’re funny though and make me laugh so you can stay |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Love threads like this when most people pretend they dont get jealous
Swingers superiority bollox you dont
I get jealous when I see my gfs on here speaking to other men and theres nothing wrong with that its a natural reaction its what you do with the feeling that matters
I try and make them jealous then
That’s just playing silly games. Not healthy at all. He’s a amateur
Let me bow down to you because your a pro obv I’m not the one with the begging threads "
You just beg with your comments  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Love threads like this when most people pretend they dont get jealous
Swingers superiority bollox you dont
I get jealous when I see my gfs on here speaking to other men and theres nothing wrong with that its a natural reaction its what you do with the feeling that matters
I try and make them jealous then
That’s just playing silly games. Not healthy at all. He’s a amateur
Let me bow down to you because your a pro obv I’m not the one with the begging threads "
both of you stop this nonesence or il call both ya mums |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Love threads like this when most people pretend they dont get jealous
Swingers superiority bollox you dont
I get jealous when I see my gfs on here speaking to other men and theres nothing wrong with that its a natural reaction its what you do with the feeling that matters
I try and make them jealous then
That’s just playing silly games. Not healthy at all.
Agreed but I'm childish and a knob
You’re funny though and make me laugh so you can stay "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Love threads like this when most people pretend they dont get jealous
Swingers superiority bollox you dont
I get jealous when I see my gfs on here speaking to other men and theres nothing wrong with that its a natural reaction its what you do with the feeling that matters
I try and make them jealous then
That’s just playing silly games. Not healthy at all. He’s a amateur
Let me bow down to you because your a pro obv I’m not the one with the begging threads both of you stop this nonesence or il call both ya mums "
They’ll be over my knee in a minute! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I recently encountered someone who was very jealous and possessive and didn't want me meeting others. I hated it. Yet he had another woman the whole time.
I hate jealousy but I can understand the feeling of bit wanting to sidelined for another |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Love threads like this when most people pretend they dont get jealous
Swingers superiority bollox you dont
I get jealous when I see my gfs on here speaking to other men and theres nothing wrong with that its a natural reaction its what you do with the feeling that matters
I try and make them jealous then
That’s just playing silly games. Not healthy at all. He’s a amateur
Let me bow down to you because your a pro obv I’m not the one with the begging threads
You just beg with your comments "
Only dogs beg. Here’s one for you. If one of you’re imaginary gfs gets left a verification how would you react? |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"Love threads like this when most people pretend they dont get jealous
Swingers superiority bollox you dont
I get jealous when I see my gfs on here speaking to other men and theres nothing wrong with that its a natural reaction its what you do with the feeling that matters
I try and make them jealous then
That’s just playing silly games. Not healthy at all. He’s a amateur
Let me bow down to you because your a pro obv I’m not the one with the begging threads
You just beg with your comments Only dogs beg. Here’s one for you. If one of you’re imaginary gfs gets left a verification how would you react?"
This feels like the beginning of a bromance |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Love threads like this when most people pretend they dont get jealous
Swingers superiority bollox you dont
I get jealous when I see my gfs on here speaking to other men and theres nothing wrong with that its a natural reaction its what you do with the feeling that matters
I try and make them jealous then
That’s just playing silly games. Not healthy at all. He’s a amateur
Let me bow down to you because your a pro obv I’m not the one with the begging threads
You just beg with your comments Only dogs beg. Here’s one for you. If one of you’re imaginary gfs gets left a verification how would you react?"
Well stop begging for attention with your comments.
Its about quality not quantity boss |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Love threads like this when most people pretend they dont get jealous
Swingers superiority bollox you dont
I get jealous when I see my gfs on here speaking to other men and theres nothing wrong with that its a natural reaction its what you do with the feeling that matters
I try and make them jealous then
That’s just playing silly games. Not healthy at all. He’s a amateur
Let me bow down to you because your a pro obv I’m not the one with the begging threads
You just beg with your comments Only dogs beg. Here’s one for you. If one of you’re imaginary gfs gets left a verification how would you react?
This feels like the beginning of a bromance "
It’s the big knob I’m jealous of  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Love threads like this when most people pretend they dont get jealous
Swingers superiority bollox you dont
I get jealous when I see my gfs on here speaking to other men and theres nothing wrong with that its a natural reaction its what you do with the feeling that matters
I try and make them jealous then
That’s just playing silly games. Not healthy at all. He’s a amateur
Let me bow down to you because your a pro obv I’m not the one with the begging threads
You just beg with your comments Only dogs beg. Here’s one for you. If one of you’re imaginary gfs gets left a verification how would you react?
Well stop begging for attention with your comments.
Its about quality not quantity boss "
So anyone with lots of verifications don’t believe in quality. Interesting...
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over a year ago
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"Love threads like this when most people pretend they dont get jealous
Swingers superiority bollox you dont
I get jealous when I see my gfs on here speaking to other men and theres nothing wrong with that its a natural reaction its what you do with the feeling that matters
I try and make them jealous then
That’s just playing silly games. Not healthy at all. He’s a amateur
Let me bow down to you because your a pro obv I’m not the one with the begging threads
You just beg with your comments Only dogs beg. Here’s one for you. If one of you’re imaginary gfs gets left a verification how would you react?
Well stop begging for attention with your comments.
Its about quality not quantity boss
So anyone with lots of verifications don’t believe in quality. Interesting...
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No I just haven't been offered a quality meet. Thought I would explain that as you seemed to be unable to understand that and that's my final comment |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"And so downhill it goes
Good point I won't stoop to this man's level and keep commenting
Sadly... you already went there, again .... it's the reaction they're trying to get from you"
Obviously banter ain’t allowed on the forums. I’ll take it elsewhere. Sorry mr gorgeous I didn’t know you was the sensitive type. My apologies  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is this how frustrated u lot get when i go off on a row i get it now
No row here. I just know who to avoid in the future as some can’t take a joke. "
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"curious do we/i have a right to be jealous of any meets when they see others ,we havent an arrangement and we see others albeit not often ,i think in my case i worry about being replaced by someone more appealing etc ,its my issue not theirs "
I wouldn't see that as jealousy, more of an insecurity really, and when you're on a site like this where there are literally thousands of women with stunning photos, I think it's probably quite understandable (particularly if you're discerning and have taken your time to find one or two exceptional playmates) to wonder if they'll find someone else they meet more appealing or more entertaining, and if you'll become the backup plan when their latest favourite isn't available, or worse yet, get dropped completely.
I can't say that doesn't happen, because we all know it does. Whether you're a man, woman or couple, there will be times when someone else will be more of a 'novelty' for a while.... The thrill and excitement and newness of the unknown... And for some, that is more exciting than the meet itself, so they rarely meet anyone more than once, as they are constantly trying to maintain that 'new meet high' and need to keep meeting new people. Others realise that they don't get the same 'high' from everyone they meet, and sometimes quite quickly find themselves drawn back to the same person again and again, someone with whom they have exceptional sexual chemistry.
If you're meeting someone regularly, you're unlikely to be supplanted by someone else... They already know they've something good going |
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By *ifeandhubby400 OP Couple
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"curious do we/i have a right to be jealous of any meets when they see others ,we havent an arrangement and we see others albeit not often ,i think in my case i worry about being replaced by someone more appealing etc ,its my issue not theirs
I wouldn't see that as jealousy, more of an insecurity really, and when you're on a site like this where there are literally thousands of women with stunning photos, I think it's probably quite understandable (particularly if you're discerning and have taken your time to find one or two exceptional playmates) to wonder if they'll find someone else they meet more appealing or more entertaining, and if you'll become the backup plan when their latest favourite isn't available, or worse yet, get dropped completely.
I can't say that doesn't happen, because we all know it does. Whether you're a man, woman or couple, there will be times when someone else will be more of a 'novelty' for a while.... The thrill and excitement and newness of the unknown... And for some, that is more exciting than the meet itself, so they rarely meet anyone more than once, as they are constantly trying to maintain that 'new meet high' and need to keep meeting new people. Others realise that they don't get the same 'high' from everyone they meet, and sometimes quite quickly find themselves drawn back to the same person again and again, someone with whom they have exceptional sexual chemistry.
If you're meeting someone regularly, you're unlikely to be supplanted by someone else... They already know they've something good going "
Thanks wise words and i must say we havent been given the impression they are not more than happy to meet us and us alone . |
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