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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
Hillside desolate |
50 times this week? Is that a typo? I'd say you're spreading yourself too thin if you agreed to meet 50 people in a week, they maybe got that vibe that you were juggling too many people at once. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"50 times this week? Is that a typo? I'd say you're spreading yourself too thin if you agreed to meet 50 people in a week, they maybe got that vibe that you were juggling too many people at once. "
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
Hillside desolate |
"50 times this week? Is that a typo? I'd say you're spreading yourself too thin if you agreed to meet 50 people in a week, they maybe got that vibe that you were juggling too many people at once. "
Oooh I think he meant 3 this week, 50 altogether!  |
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"50 times this week? Is that a typo? I'd say you're spreading yourself too thin if you agreed to meet 50 people in a week, they maybe got that vibe that you were juggling too many people at once. "
I think 50 times, 3 this week ... punctuation would be key  |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
Hillside desolate |
"Some just say they would like to meet just to keep you happy and not say no thanks. Less hassle for them.
Then block near the time "
I don't know how people can work fab like that, it would stress me out and I'd feel bad about it. |
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We've had it happen to us a few times. We laugh and continue on our merry way. It's easier for couples though, we have each other to commiserate with or wonder why, when they seemed so keen they suddenly changed their mind. |
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"Some just say they would like to meet just to keep you happy and not say no thanks. Less hassle for them.
Then block near the time
I don't know how people can work fab like that, it would stress me out and I'd feel bad about it. "
Anonymity prevents people from acknowledging there's an actual person behind the message |
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There's lots of msg wankers , had one last year , he seemed ok but turned out to be a bit of freak , got very aggressive when I cudnt drop everything for him when it suited him and threw childish tantrums , I dodged a very iffy bullet ,be careful who get chatting to ppl |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can happen at any time, even with someone you have met on several occasions. Some like the chase, others the attention but get bored, or you’re dealing/speaking to just utter trash who need to be scrapped off the bottom of your shoe at the earliest convenience. |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"This has happend to me about 50 times 3 this week very frustrating why do people do it!  "
Happens all the time, I had a meet arranged recently, we confirmed on the day, by the time it came to meet he had left the site  |
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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago
mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds |
"This has happend to me about 50 times 3 this week very frustrating why do people do it! "
If its happening a lot (if your numbers are true it is) you're the common denominator.
Change your selection process or what you're doing.  |
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"This has happend to me about 50 times 3 this week very frustrating why do people do it!
50 potential meets with a picture of your hand? Well done  "
I think some guys are fantasists on here , this just proves it as far I see |
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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago
Bognor Regis |
It's happened to me many times. At first, I was too brittle..I took it way too personally, like there was something wrong with me. Now, whilst it's not nice (especially if you're not very self assured like me).. I just accept that I'll never know why someone ghosts me & I just forget them & move on. |
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Arranged meet without cancellation is a no show.
If it's the concept of a meet, without full and final arrangements, then it's conceptual and thus provisional.
Report no shows to Admin.
And expect that most people that you start to discuss potential meets with will not have full compatibility. That's healthy, as we should only want to meet those who are fully compatible. People have preferences that are sacrosanct and availability for no strings meets is lower priority than family, jobs etc and it's often a slow process. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Whatsapped and vid chatted with a guy for 2 weeks, solid meet arranged and future club plans, je had veris, then i got ghosted the day before and still had no response 4 days later. |
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"Whatsapped and vid chatted with a guy for 2 weeks, solid meet arranged and future club plans, je had veris, then i got ghosted the day before and still had no response 4 days later."
Wow Ivy how someone could do that id never know after all if it was me id be excited and over the moon xx |
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