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"If you got offered a reset button for life would you press it?"
Would I start off knowing what I know now? Do I have to press it right away or can I keep it till I'm on my deathbed? If I'm just going to repeat the last 39 years then I wouldn't press it. |
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over a year ago
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Hell no. I had a self 30year old challenge, i hit it smashed it out the water.
The only thing im missing is having a child of my own.
If id been asked this at 23 id have said yes. |
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No.
I've been through a lot of shit in my life, but I'm proud of who I am and I'm happy with where I am at the moment.
Yes there are things I need to change, some of which I work on, others I just quietly ignore, but I know that whatever comes my way I'll get through it and continue to thrive.
Why on earth would I give up all those lessons that were so hard-learned? |
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Omg absolutely not! I've just got both of my two wonderful children to adulthood. They're awesome and we've been through lots together and all learned and we actually like ourselves. Without the past I wouldn't be who I am today and neither would be my kids! Always felt, when talked about exactly this in the past, that's it's a cowards way out and surely... do you not like yourself very much? |
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No because I wouldn't want to live through some of my horrific child hood again and I may not get my wonderful son the second time around.
Life has been hard but it would have been a hell of a lot harder without having my son in it. |
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"I would be so very tempted but no I wouldn't.
I couldn't not have those closest to me not in my life."
This is the thing. If you reset your life, you're resetting theirs too.. |
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"I would be so very tempted but no I wouldn't.
I couldn't not have those closest to me not in my life.
This is the thing. If you reset your life, you're resetting theirs too.."
I'm being a bit thick here but do we get to keep them? |
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"I would be so very tempted but no I wouldn't.
I couldn't not have those closest to me not in my life.
This is the thing. If you reset your life, you're resetting theirs too..
I'm being a bit thick here but do we get to keep them?"
Well you don't know, as you take a different path, they may never be a part of your life.. |
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"I would be so very tempted but no I wouldn't.
I couldn't not have those closest to me not in my life.
This is the thing. If you reset your life, you're resetting theirs too..
I'm being a bit thick here but do we get to keep them?
Well you don't know, as you take a different path, they may never be a part of your life.."
That was my thoughts, so I'd have to decline |
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"No because I wouldn't want to live through some of my horrific child hood again and I may not get my wonderful son the second time around.
Life has been hard but it would have been a hell of a lot harder without having my son in it. "
Aww sweet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Would you come back with knowledge of what you’d been through? Or just start life over again?
Or when you came to certain points in life you had flashbacks to your previous life? |
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"I'm strong. Life has made me incredibly strong. People say, see, look at the good that came from it.
The pain and the trauma and the lasting scars... not worth it. "
Good for you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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No, I'm a mum wouldn't change that for anything.
I like to believe everything shapes us and what not. What I would like to have changed is how long it took me to realise I was good enough and worth so much more than how I allowed myself to be treated. X |
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