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over a year ago
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Yes. Just getting over 3 weeks of flu and now I'm getting a cold. I've hated all of December.
I was too floored with exhaustion to get an xmas tree and set it up for my daughter. |
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"Ah good to hear hope you had a good one x ah not to worry just don’t understand why people can’t get on for one day "
It's often a lot of pressure and people put a lot of meaning in it. And people who don't get along put themselves together because they feel they have to. It's a pressure cooker. |
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It's actually a time of year where a lot of marriages break down, domestic crime goes up, etc... We just don't talk about it because people are encouraged to be happy.
It's not something you can fake... |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
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"It's actually a time of year where a lot of marriages break down, domestic crime goes up, etc... We just don't talk about it because people are encouraged to be happy.
It's not something you can fake... "
However, there is a lot of people who are happy,
not something to be put down. |
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"It's actually a time of year where a lot of marriages break down, domestic crime goes up, etc... We just don't talk about it because people are encouraged to be happy.
It's not something you can fake...
However, there is a lot of people who are happy,
not something to be put down."
Indeed not. But telling people to pretend can backfire horribly. And happy people trying to harangue people into being happy should stop. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sorry it was a shit one OP.
We had a quiet one and tried to make the best of it, lost my dad last month so not a lot of Christmas spirit in our family atm but we tried. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Sorry it was a shit one OP.
We had a quiet one and tried to make the best of it, lost my dad last month so not a lot of Christmas spirit in our family atm but we tried. "
I’m so sorry to hear if you’re up for a chat add my kik no messages left here gerd120 |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sorry it was a shit one OP.
We had a quiet one and tried to make the best of it, lost my dad last month so not a lot of Christmas spirit in our family atm but we tried. "
So sorry to hear that  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sorry it was a shit one OP.
We had a quiet one and tried to make the best of it, lost my dad last month so not a lot of Christmas spirit in our family atm but we tried.
I’m so sorry to hear if you’re up for a chat add my kik no messages left here gerd120"
I don't have kik but thank you for the offer xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sorry it was a shit one OP.
We had a quiet one and tried to make the best of it, lost my dad last month so not a lot of Christmas spirit in our family atm but we tried.
So sorry to hear that "
Xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Sorry it was a shit one OP.
We had a quiet one and tried to make the best of it, lost my dad last month so not a lot of Christmas spirit in our family atm but we tried.
I’m so sorry to hear if you’re up for a chat add my kik no messages left here gerd120
I don't have kik but thank you for the offer xx"
Wana chat here x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ah good to hear hope you had a good one x ah not to worry just don’t understand why people can’t get on for one day
It's often a lot of pressure and people put a lot of meaning in it. And people who don't get along put themselves together because they feel they have to. It's a pressure cooker. "
This is soo ture, living up to the image that living has gone and sold you can be tuff, capitalism, materialism hatred and war rules all, empathy, compassion, love, and respect, will falter. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ah good to hear hope you had a good one x ah not to worry just don’t understand why people can’t get on for one day
It's often a lot of pressure and people put a lot of meaning in it. And people who don't get along put themselves together because they feel they have to. It's a pressure cooker.
This is soo ture, living up to the image that living has gone and sold you can be tuff, capitalism, materialism hatred and war rules all, empathy, compassion, love, and respect, will falter. "
Good vs evil. Masculinity, vs femininity, light vs dark, heat vs cold, high vs low, strong vs weak. There is a battle of everything all around us. We all live a life, but completly separate relaitys. Makes yours a happy one. Merry Christmas, make the most out of every opportunity you get. Happiness is a state of mind, you lituraly choose you're own happiness, so long as you're not a product of you're envrioment. Peace love prosper. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve got a really nasty cough and cold. My taste buds are all fucked and I could barely taste dinner. My sense of smell has totally gone and I can’t smell anything, even perfume that’s right under my nose.
My daughter out my turkey in the oven for me and I didn’t realise til it was too late that it was upside down. Started carving it and wondered where all the meat was at 
Had a 3 hour nap after dinner even though I didn’t wake up til 11 ish and then realised that I hadn’t finished an assignment that’s due in tomorrow so I’ve just finished that.
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"Ah good to hear hope you had a good one x ah not to worry just don’t understand why people can’t get on for one day
It's often a lot of pressure and people put a lot of meaning in it. And people who don't get along put themselves together because they feel they have to. It's a pressure cooker.
This is soo ture, living up to the image that living has gone and sold you can be tuff, capitalism, materialism hatred and war rules all, empathy, compassion, love, and respect, will falter.
Good vs evil. Masculinity, vs femininity, light vs dark, heat vs cold, high vs low, strong vs weak. There is a battle of everything all around us. We all live a life, but completly separate relaitys. Makes yours a happy one. Merry Christmas, make the most out of every opportunity you get. Happiness is a state of mind, you lituraly choose you're own happiness, so long as you're not a product of you're envrioment. Peace love prosper. "
Love this reply, love love love |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ah good to hear hope you had a good one x ah not to worry just don’t understand why people can’t get on for one day
It's often a lot of pressure and people put a lot of meaning in it. And people who don't get along put themselves together because they feel they have to. It's a pressure cooker.
This is soo ture, living up to the image that living has gone and sold you can be tuff, capitalism, materialism hatred and war rules all, empathy, compassion, love, and respect, will falter.
Good vs evil. Masculinity, vs femininity, light vs dark, heat vs cold, high vs low, strong vs weak. There is a battle of everything all around us. We all live a life, but completly separate relaitys. Makes yours a happy one. Merry Christmas, make the most out of every opportunity you get. Happiness is a state of mind, you lituraly choose you're own happiness, so long as you're not a product of you're envrioment. Peace love prosper.
Love this reply, love love love"
Love conquers all my dear lady! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ah good to hear hope you had a good one x ah not to worry just don’t understand why people can’t get on for one day
It's often a lot of pressure and people put a lot of meaning in it. And people who don't get along put themselves together because they feel they have to. It's a pressure cooker.
This is soo ture, living up to the image that living has gone and sold you can be tuff, capitalism, materialism hatred and war rules all, empathy, compassion, love, and respect, will falter.
Good vs evil. Masculinity, vs femininity, light vs dark, heat vs cold, high vs low, strong vs weak. There is a battle of everything all around us. We all live a life, but completly separate relaitys. Makes yours a happy one. Merry Christmas, make the most out of every opportunity you get. Happiness is a state of mind, you lituraly choose you're own happiness, so long as you're not a product of you're envrioment. Peace love prosper.
Love this reply, love love love
Love conquers all my dear lady! "
Unless you're a swinger, In that case. Lust most probley does! Joking just been the Devils advocate |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ah good to hear hope you had a good one x ah not to worry just don’t understand why people can’t get on for one day
It's often a lot of pressure and people put a lot of meaning in it. And people who don't get along put themselves together because they feel they have to. It's a pressure cooker.
This is soo ture, living up to the image that living has gone and sold you can be tuff, capitalism, materialism hatred and war rules all, empathy, compassion, love, and respect, will falter.
Good vs evil. Masculinity, vs femininity, light vs dark, heat vs cold, high vs low, strong vs weak. There is a battle of everything all around us. We all live a life, but completly separate relaitys. Makes yours a happy one. Merry Christmas, make the most out of every opportunity you get. Happiness is a state of mind, you lituraly choose you're own happiness, so long as you're not a product of you're envrioment. Peace love prosper.
Love this reply, love love love
Love conquers all my dear lady!
Unless you're a swinger, In that case. Lust most probley does! Joking just been the Devils advocate "
I like your vibe, it shines brightly
And no I’m not flirting  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ah good to hear hope you had a good one x ah not to worry just don’t understand why people can’t get on for one day
It's often a lot of pressure and people put a lot of meaning in it. And people who don't get along put themselves together because they feel they have to. It's a pressure cooker.
This is soo ture, living up to the image that living has gone and sold you can be tuff, capitalism, materialism hatred and war rules all, empathy, compassion, love, and respect, will falter.
Good vs evil. Masculinity, vs femininity, light vs dark, heat vs cold, high vs low, strong vs weak. There is a battle of everything all around us. We all live a life, but completly separate relaitys. Makes yours a happy one. Merry Christmas, make the most out of every opportunity you get. Happiness is a state of mind, you lituraly choose you're own happiness, so long as you're not a product of you're envrioment. Peace love prosper.
Love this reply, love love love
Love conquers all my dear lady!
Unless you're a swinger, In that case. Lust most probley does! Joking just been the Devils advocate
I like your vibe, it shines brightly
And no I’m not flirting "
Good job you made that clear, there was sure to be a random cock Pic pop up in you're private messages. But now I know you're not flirting.... Phew sarcasm by the way! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ah good to hear hope you had a good one x ah not to worry just don’t understand why people can’t get on for one day
It's often a lot of pressure and people put a lot of meaning in it. And people who don't get along put themselves together because they feel they have to. It's a pressure cooker.
This is soo ture, living up to the image that living has gone and sold you can be tuff, capitalism, materialism hatred and war rules all, empathy, compassion, love, and respect, will falter.
Good vs evil. Masculinity, vs femininity, light vs dark, heat vs cold, high vs low, strong vs weak. There is a battle of everything all around us. We all live a life, but completly separate relaitys. Makes yours a happy one. Merry Christmas, make the most out of every opportunity you get. Happiness is a state of mind, you lituraly choose you're own happiness, so long as you're not a product of you're envrioment. Peace love prosper.
Love this reply, love love love
Love conquers all my dear lady!
Unless you're a swinger, In that case. Lust most probley does! Joking just been the Devils advocate
I like your vibe, it shines brightly
And no I’m not flirting
Good job you made that clear, there was sure to be a random cock Pic pop up in you're private messages. But now I know you're not flirting.... Phew sarcasm by the way! "
I perved your profile it’s ok I don’t need a private pic now lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ah good to hear hope you had a good one x ah not to worry just don’t understand why people can’t get on for one day
It's often a lot of pressure and people put a lot of meaning in it. And people who don't get along put themselves together because they feel they have to. It's a pressure cooker.
This is soo ture, living up to the image that living has gone and sold you can be tuff, capitalism, materialism hatred and war rules all, empathy, compassion, love, and respect, will falter.
Good vs evil. Masculinity, vs femininity, light vs dark, heat vs cold, high vs low, strong vs weak. There is a battle of everything all around us. We all live a life, but completly separate relaitys. Makes yours a happy one. Merry Christmas, make the most out of every opportunity you get. Happiness is a state of mind, you lituraly choose you're own happiness, so long as you're not a product of you're envrioment. Peace love prosper.
Love this reply, love love love
Love conquers all my dear lady!
Unless you're a swinger, In that case. Lust most probley does! Joking just been the Devils advocate
I like your vibe, it shines brightly
And no I’m not flirting
Good job you made that clear, there was sure to be a random cock Pic pop up in you're private messages. But now I know you're not flirting.... Phew sarcasm by the way!
I perved your profile it’s ok I don’t need a private pic now lol"
Bet you're mouths watering though.....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ah good to hear hope you had a good one x ah not to worry just don’t understand why people can’t get on for one day
It's often a lot of pressure and people put a lot of meaning in it. And people who don't get along put themselves together because they feel they have to. It's a pressure cooker.
This is soo ture, living up to the image that living has gone and sold you can be tuff, capitalism, materialism hatred and war rules all, empathy, compassion, love, and respect, will falter.
Good vs evil. Masculinity, vs femininity, light vs dark, heat vs cold, high vs low, strong vs weak. There is a battle of everything all around us. We all live a life, but completly separate relaitys. Makes yours a happy one. Merry Christmas, make the most out of every opportunity you get. Happiness is a state of mind, you lituraly choose you're own happiness, so long as you're not a product of you're envrioment. Peace love prosper.
Love this reply, love love love
Love conquers all my dear lady!
Unless you're a swinger, In that case. Lust most probley does! Joking just been the Devils advocate
I like your vibe, it shines brightly
And no I’m not flirting
Good job you made that clear, there was sure to be a random cock Pic pop up in you're private messages. But now I know you're not flirting.... Phew sarcasm by the way!
I perved your profile it’s ok I don’t need a private pic now lol
Bet you're mouths watering though..... "
No comment as that would be flirting  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ah good to hear hope you had a good one x ah not to worry just don’t understand why people can’t get on for one day
It's often a lot of pressure and people put a lot of meaning in it. And people who don't get along put themselves together because they feel they have to. It's a pressure cooker.
This is soo ture, living up to the image that living has gone and sold you can be tuff, capitalism, materialism hatred and war rules all, empathy, compassion, love, and respect, will falter.
Good vs evil. Masculinity, vs femininity, light vs dark, heat vs cold, high vs low, strong vs weak. There is a battle of everything all around us. We all live a life, but completly separate relaitys. Makes yours a happy one. Merry Christmas, make the most out of every opportunity you get. Happiness is a state of mind, you lituraly choose you're own happiness, so long as you're not a product of you're envrioment. Peace love prosper.
Love this reply, love love love
Love conquers all my dear lady!
Unless you're a swinger, In that case. Lust most probley does! Joking just been the Devils advocate
I like your vibe, it shines brightly
And no I’m not flirting
Good job you made that clear, there was sure to be a random cock Pic pop up in you're private messages. But now I know you're not flirting.... Phew sarcasm by the way!
I perved your profile it’s ok I don’t need a private pic now lol
Bet you're mouths watering though.....
No comment as that would be flirting "
You're right! We wouldent want too do that! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ah good to hear hope you had a good one x ah not to worry just don’t understand why people can’t get on for one day
It's often a lot of pressure and people put a lot of meaning in it. And people who don't get along put themselves together because they feel they have to. It's a pressure cooker.
This is soo ture, living up to the image that living has gone and sold you can be tuff, capitalism, materialism hatred and war rules all, empathy, compassion, love, and respect, will falter.
Good vs evil. Masculinity, vs femininity, light vs dark, heat vs cold, high vs low, strong vs weak. There is a battle of everything all around us. We all live a life, but completly separate relaitys. Makes yours a happy one. Merry Christmas, make the most out of every opportunity you get. Happiness is a state of mind, you lituraly choose you're own happiness, so long as you're not a product of you're envrioment. Peace love prosper.
Love this reply, love love love
Love conquers all my dear lady!
Unless you're a swinger, In that case. Lust most probley does! Joking just been the Devils advocate
I like your vibe, it shines brightly
And no I’m not flirting
Good job you made that clear, there was sure to be a random cock Pic pop up in you're private messages. But now I know you're not flirting.... Phew sarcasm by the way!
I perved your profile it’s ok I don’t need a private pic now lol
Bet you're mouths watering though.....
No comment as that would be flirting
You're right! We wouldent want too do that! "
Nearly got ya though! Kudos. Kudos. |
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(Lou) we changed our settings for yesterday and posted on another thread for anyone who was alone and wanted a natter to message us, unfortunately all we got were dick pics  Ray did warn me but I hate the thought of people being alone at Christmas with no one to talk to, which is why Ray agreed for me to do it, though feel like the few have now spoilt it for me doing it again next Christmas |
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By *onty1971Man
over a year ago
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"(Lou) we changed our settings for yesterday and posted on another thread for anyone who was alone and wanted a natter to message us, unfortunately all we got were dick pics Ray did warn me but I hate the thought of people being alone at Christmas with no one to talk to, which is why Ray agreed for me to do it, though feel like the few have now spoilt it for me doing it again next Christmas "
Thank you for trying.
Hope the some who were genuine appreciated it.
I think I only helped one Lady yesterday. She got off on dirty chat and felt better and more relaxed to face the day.
Happy swinging in 2020 all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"(Lou) we changed our settings for yesterday and posted on another thread for anyone who was alone and wanted a natter to message us, unfortunately all we got were dick pics Ray did warn me but I hate the thought of people being alone at Christmas with no one to talk to, which is why Ray agreed for me to do it, though feel like the few have now spoilt it for me doing it again next Christmas "
That's a thoughtful thing to do, shame it got spoilt, and the sad thing is maybe some of those who sent the pics could do with something positive going on in their lives.
I had a good xmas (although I am accused of being a Griswald at times!) As a kid Christmas was pretty grotty so made an effort to enjoy it more as an adult, I would say see if you can make next Christmas better (if you want to) and think of what changes you can make to achieve it (environment, relationships, health etc.) Theres a bit of time to make good changes.
Best wishes all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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When I read threads like this I'm glad I don't celebrate it anymore. I just want it over and back to normal, mine wasn't shit it's just a day I try to avoid and am glad when it's over |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ah good to hear hope you had a good one x ah not to worry just don’t understand why people can’t get on for one day "
No disrespect intended but I hate this attitude. I haven't spoken to my family for years and the amount of times over Christmas I have to explain that no we dont have some sort of truce and play happy families at Christmas is surprisingly high.
But what's upsetting is the amount of people that clearly think putting on a front and pretending everyone is happy is the right thing to do and that keeping up appearances is more important than mental wellbeing |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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"(Lou) we changed our settings for yesterday and posted on another thread for anyone who was alone and wanted a natter to message us, unfortunately all we got were dick pics Ray did warn me but I hate the thought of people being alone at Christmas with no one to talk to, which is why Ray agreed for me to do it, though feel like the few have now spoilt it for me doing it again next Christmas "
I really hope that it doesn't. Like I said to you yesterday; this sort of thing only spoils it if you allow it to. I started that thread because there are people who needed the support, your offer to help too was a very kind gesture.
Irrespective of chancers and idiots, there are always those that need help and I think, they shouldn't miss out for others misdeeds |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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"Ah good to hear hope you had a good one x ah not to worry just don’t understand why people can’t get on for one day
No disrespect intended but I hate this attitude. I haven't spoken to my family for years and the amount of times over Christmas I have to explain that no we dont have some sort of truce and play happy families at Christmas is surprisingly high.
But what's upsetting is the amount of people that clearly think putting on a front and pretending everyone is happy is the right thing to do and that keeping up appearances is more important than mental wellbeing "
I agree. I get very similar conversations.
It's amazing how people try to get you to conform to their image of Christmas! |
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"Ah good to hear hope you had a good one x ah not to worry just don’t understand why people can’t get on for one day
No disrespect intended but I hate this attitude. I haven't spoken to my family for years and the amount of times over Christmas I have to explain that no we dont have some sort of truce and play happy families at Christmas is surprisingly high.
But what's upsetting is the amount of people that clearly think putting on a front and pretending everyone is happy is the right thing to do and that keeping up appearances is more important than mental wellbeing
I agree. I get very similar conversations.
It's amazing how people try to get you to conform to their image of Christmas! "
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By (user no longer on site)
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Know what.....we all survived it, all lived to tell the tale including myself. Mine wasnt the greatest but its a day, 24hrs same as every other and to be fair, we could be so much worse off. Once everyone stops trying to fit into this christmas mould then the happier we will be.
Yours Sincerely
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By (user no longer on site)
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No, I had a great Christmas despite both myself and one of my kids being sick, for the first Christmas in years I didn't have to spend it looking at my parents in various stages of suffering as they have both passed.
The ridiculous expectations that surround Christmas are not something I pander to any longer, nor do I expect my kids to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes. Just getting over 3 weeks of flu and now I'm getting a cold. I've hated all of December.
I was too floored with exhaustion to get an xmas tree and set it up for my daughter."
Euchinacae excuse spelling
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ah good to hear hope you had a good one x ah not to worry just don’t understand why people can’t get on for one day "
Christmas can be a very wrought time for a lot of people. Christmas for some is stressful.
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"(Lou) we changed our settings for yesterday and posted on another thread for anyone who was alone and wanted a natter to message us, unfortunately all we got were dick pics Ray did warn me but I hate the thought of people being alone at Christmas with no one to talk to, which is why Ray agreed for me to do it, though feel like the few have now spoilt it for me doing it again next Christmas
Thank you for trying.
Hope the some who were genuine appreciated it.
I think I only helped one Lady yesterday. She got off on dirty chat and felt better and more relaxed to face the day.
Happy swinging in 2020 all."
No genuine ones |
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"(Lou) we changed our settings for yesterday and posted on another thread for anyone who was alone and wanted a natter to message us, unfortunately all we got were dick pics Ray did warn me but I hate the thought of people being alone at Christmas with no one to talk to, which is why Ray agreed for me to do it, though feel like the few have now spoilt it for me doing it again next Christmas
That's a thoughtful thing to do, shame it got spoilt, and the sad thing is maybe some of those who sent the pics could do with something positive going on in their lives.
I had a good xmas (although I am accused of being a Griswald at times!) As a kid Christmas was pretty grotty so made an effort to enjoy it more as an adult, I would say see if you can make next Christmas better (if you want to) and think of what changes you can make to achieve it (environment, relationships, health etc.) Theres a bit of time to make good changes.
Best wishes all."
Me and Ray had an amazing Christmas and we just wanted to help others, gonna get my thinking cap on to see how I can help next year |
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"(Lou) we changed our settings for yesterday and posted on another thread for anyone who was alone and wanted a natter to message us, unfortunately all we got were dick pics Ray did warn me but I hate the thought of people being alone at Christmas with no one to talk to, which is why Ray agreed for me to do it, though feel like the few have now spoilt it for me doing it again next Christmas
I really hope that it doesn't. Like I said to you yesterday; this sort of thing only spoils it if you allow it to. I started that thread because there are people who needed the support, your offer to help too was a very kind gesture.
Irrespective of chancers and idiots, there are always those that need help and I think, they shouldn't miss out for others misdeeds "
It would have been nice to have had at least 1 genuine message but we didnt |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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"(Lou) we changed our settings for yesterday and posted on another thread for anyone who was alone and wanted a natter to message us, unfortunately all we got were dick pics Ray did warn me but I hate the thought of people being alone at Christmas with no one to talk to, which is why Ray agreed for me to do it, though feel like the few have now spoilt it for me doing it again next Christmas
I really hope that it doesn't. Like I said to you yesterday; this sort of thing only spoils it if you allow it to. I started that thread because there are people who needed the support, your offer to help too was a very kind gesture.
Irrespective of chancers and idiots, there are always those that need help and I think, they shouldn't miss out for others misdeeds
It would have been nice to have had at least 1 genuine message but we didnt "
I only had a couple. Often just knowing the help is there and you're not alone is the key point. |
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"Ah good to hear hope you had a good one x ah not to worry just don’t understand why people can’t get on for one day
No disrespect intended but I hate this attitude. I haven't spoken to my family for years and the amount of times over Christmas I have to explain that no we dont have some sort of truce and play happy families at Christmas is surprisingly high.
But what's upsetting is the amount of people that clearly think putting on a front and pretending everyone is happy is the right thing to do and that keeping up appearances is more important than mental wellbeing "
Spot on. Why is there an assumption that you should put differences aside because it’s family? Fuck that. An asshat it an asshat regardless of blood ties. I don’t tolerate asshats. I spent my Christmas alone and it was great. Everything was exactly as I liked it |
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"Had some bad news today that happened yesterday so not having the best boxing day really.
Sorry to hear that *hug* "
Thank you. Just heard the person involved is doing ok at the moment. So that's good news |
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"Had some bad news today that happened yesterday so not having the best boxing day really.
Sorry to hear that *hug*
Thank you. Just heard the person involved is doing ok at the moment. So that's good news "
That's a big positive it's hard in any bad situation to focus on the positives but there's always something if you look, use that to help the person and they can feed off that x
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