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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
It's rather inescapable that today is Christmas on the forums, between everyone posting their own greetings, well wishes and the Christmas themed threads, it's clear what today is!
Obviously not everyone is where they want to be and not everyone has received a gift today. I just wanted to remind those of you in that situation; you are enough, you are special and although today can be tough, it does pass.
Be gentle with yourself folks.
My inbox is always open to anyone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's rather inescapable that today is Christmas on the forums, between everyone posting their own greetings, well wishes and the Christmas themed threads, it's clear what today is!
Obviously not everyone is where they want to be and not everyone has received a gift today. I just wanted to remind those of you in that situation; you are enough, you are special and although today can be tough, it does pass.
Be gentle with yourself folks.
My inbox is always open to anyone. "
Like I said, deep breath and refocus
It is one day
Much love to you and whatever battle good or bad that everyone is facing  |
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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"It's rather inescapable that today is Christmas on the forums, between everyone posting their own greetings, well wishes and the Christmas themed threads, it's clear what today is!
Obviously not everyone is where they want to be and not everyone has received a gift today. I just wanted to remind those of you in that situation; you are enough, you are special and although today can be tough, it does pass.
Be gentle with yourself folks.
My inbox is always open to anyone.
Like I said, deep breath and refocus
It is one day
Much love to you and whatever battle good or bad that everyone is facing "
Very true. |
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By *linyMan
over a year ago
Manchester/London |
"Can’t wait for it all to be over
I have no one and im so lonely and depressed
I hate Xmas  "
You are not alone, there are people thinking of you. There’s support here. Tomorrow is a new day and we’re already half way through this one.
BIG hugs X |
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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"Thank you for posting this message OP, It's truely what Christmas is all about.
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In previous years, fab folks have got me through hard Christmas periods. I know from experience that it does get better. That's not to detract or dismiss how people feel now but it's good to know that these things do pass. |
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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"Can’t wait for it all to be over
I have no one and im so lonely and depressed
I hate Xmas
You are not alone, there are people thinking of you. There’s support here. Tomorrow is a new day and we’re already half way through this one.
BIG hugs X"
Exactly this, well put. |
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Happy Wednesday people, I am one of those not celebrating Christmas as funds nor family allow it.
Today is just a day and for those not celebrating for whatever reason, enjoy your Wednesday and look after yourselves  |
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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"Happy Wednesday people, I am one of those not celebrating Christmas as funds nor family allow it.
Today is just a day and for those not celebrating for whatever reason, enjoy your Wednesday and look after yourselves "
Perfect! |
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By *onty1971Man
over a year ago
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Through Fab I met a Lady who is lonely as she is not with Family at Christmas and fairly skint.
So I teased her on a chat app with a Fantasy and she says she came.
At least I distracted her. She says she feels better.
I hope so.
Reaching out for at least 10 seconds to someone who is lonely or hates Christmas is worth it.
Well OP for starting this thread.
Happy Swinging in 2020 |
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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"This is what Christmas is all about caring for each other and this thread just reinforces it.
Well said OP.
I will be popping in and out allday if anyone wants a chat
Xxxxx"
I agree and thank you |
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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"Well said!! Mine was made better by calling a special someone 
The child catcher?
Ebay?
Etsy?
The SAS?
Still waiting for the SAS, but speaking to you made my morning xxx"
And mine. Mind you, I tell you every day what you mean to me |
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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"Through Fab I met a Lady who is lonely as she is not with Family at Christmas and fairly skint.
So I teased her on a chat app with a Fantasy and she says she came.
At least I distracted her. She says she feels better.
I hope so.
Reaching out for at least 10 seconds to someone who is lonely or hates Christmas is worth it.
Well OP for starting this thread.
Happy Swinging in 2020"
Reaching out is always good |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What a lovely thread, Tea Monkey.
Merry Christmas to all of you. I've just done the family thing and will now spend the rest of the day chilling with Tom. While I can cope with it now, when I first got divorced, I dreaded having to spend Christmas day without my child every other year.
It's all a state of mind.
xx Niki |
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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"What a lovely thread, Tea Monkey.
Merry Christmas to all of you. I've just done the family thing and will now spend the rest of the day chilling with Tom. While I can cope with it now, when I first got divorced, I dreaded having to spend Christmas day without my child every other year.
It's all a state of mind.
xx Niki"
I agree with you about it being a state of mind, it's one that you have to learn to a certain degree and almost 'deprogramme' yourself. It's never easy but it's good to see that there are lots of people in the same situation.
Thank you for your post |
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"You're a good soul, Mr. T. Monkey. We should all be a bit more monkey
Mrs TMN x
There's already quite enough monkeys!  
Yeah, but there's only one Tea Monkey! X
Thank goodness  "
Oh FFS, take a compliment already xx |
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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"You're a good soul, Mr. T. Monkey. We should all be a bit more monkey
Mrs TMN x
There's already quite enough monkeys!
Yeah, but there's only one Tea Monkey! X
Thank goodness
Oh FFS, take a compliment already xx "
OK, OK... Jeez!
Thank you two! |
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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"If anyone on their own wishes to message us just for a natter then please do, we dont like the thought of anyone being on their own this time of year x"
That's lovely. Sometimes being alone is unavoidable, theres no reason to be lonely though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Merry Wednesday to one and all. Xx
Oh yes, it is Wednesday isn't it!
I had to double check, but Im sure it is. Im d*unk on sunshine here 
Is that a line of prosecco? "
I wish I could bottle it I would be rich..... Rich I tell thee.
(The blazing from the sky, vit D kind) |
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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"Merry Wednesday to one and all. Xx
Oh yes, it is Wednesday isn't it!
I had to double check, but Im sure it is. Im d*unk on sunshine here
Is that a line of prosecco?
I wish I could bottle it I would be rich..... Rich I tell thee.
(The blazing from the sky, vit D kind) "
Sunshine?! It's grey here but sounds amazing!
If you're d*unk on sunshine though, maybe a hat? |
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"If anyone on their own wishes to message us just for a natter then please do, we dont like the thought of anyone being on their own this time of year x
That's lovely. Sometimes being alone is unavoidable, theres no reason to be lonely though"
Exactly and we are happy to talk to anyone, even if they just want a moan x |
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"You're a good soul, Mr. T. Monkey. We should all be a bit more monkey
Mrs TMN x
There's already quite enough monkeys! "
Yeah, where's Funky when you need him?
Merry Christmas everyone, big Ace (((HUGS))) available to anyone who needs one x  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If anyone on their own wishes to message us just for a natter then please do, we dont like the thought of anyone being on their own this time of year x
That's lovely. Sometimes being alone is unavoidable, theres no reason to be lonely though
Exactly and we are happy to talk to anyone, even if they just want a moan x"
Reslly nice of you guys to offer that in my opinion good job |
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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"If anyone on their own wishes to message us just for a natter then please do, we dont like the thought of anyone being on their own this time of year x
That's lovely. Sometimes being alone is unavoidable, theres no reason to be lonely though
Exactly and we are happy to talk to anyone, even if they just want a moan x"
I agree. Moan, laugh, dispair, company... Its all good |
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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"You're a good soul, Mr. T. Monkey. We should all be a bit more monkey
Mrs TMN x
There's already quite enough monkeys!
Yeah, where's Funky when you need him?
Merry Christmas everyone, big Ace (((HUGS))) available to anyone who needs one x "
Funky, Mr, cuddle, bike...
It seems there's a monkey for every need!
Nice one Ace |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Merry Christmas to everyone, alone or otherwise...
We may not be where we want to be with who we wish to share our time with, yet that time is still precious and our lives they can change if that's what we wish for ourselves or others.
That change only we can make it, no one else can do it for us.
Today I wish you peace and whatever you wish for yourself. If you have a dream, then you can make it real.
Merry Christmas, peace, and love, but mostly love, there is nothing greater to give to another....
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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"If anyone on their own wishes to message us just for a natter then please do, we dont like the thought of anyone being on their own this time of year x
That's lovely. Sometimes being alone is unavoidable, theres no reason to be lonely though
Exactly and we are happy to talk to anyone, even if they just want a moan x
Reslly nice of you guys to offer that in my opinion good job"
Agreed |
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"If anyone on their own wishes to message us just for a natter then please do, we dont like the thought of anyone being on their own this time of year x
That's lovely. Sometimes being alone is unavoidable, theres no reason to be lonely though
Exactly and we are happy to talk to anyone, even if they just want a moan x
Reslly nice of you guys to offer that in my opinion good job"
Even if we have never spoke to them before we are here for them |
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"If anyone on their own wishes to message us just for a natter then please do, we dont like the thought of anyone being on their own this time of year x
That's lovely. Sometimes being alone is unavoidable, theres no reason to be lonely though
Exactly and we are happy to talk to anyone, even if they just want a moan x
I agree. Moan, laugh, dispair, company... Its all good"
Exactly |
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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"If anyone on their own wishes to message us just for a natter then please do, we dont like the thought of anyone being on their own this time of year x
That's lovely. Sometimes being alone is unavoidable, theres no reason to be lonely though
Exactly and we are happy to talk to anyone, even if they just want a moan x
Reslly nice of you guys to offer that in my opinion good job
Even if we have never spoke to them before we are here for them"
I'm exactly the same |
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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"If anyone on their own wishes to message us just for a natter then please do, we dont like the thought of anyone being on their own this time of year x
That's lovely. Sometimes being alone is unavoidable, theres no reason to be lonely though
Exactly and we are happy to talk to anyone, even if they just want a moan x
I agree. Moan, laugh, dispair, company... Its all good
Exactly"
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"If anyone on their own wishes to message us just for a natter then please do, we dont like the thought of anyone being on their own this time of year x
That's lovely. Sometimes being alone is unavoidable, theres no reason to be lonely though
Exactly and we are happy to talk to anyone, even if they just want a moan x
I agree. Moan, laugh, dispair, company... Its all good
Exactly
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(Ray)
So Lou made the kind gesture above and what do we get a fucking message with a dick pick ! There's a reason most couples block single men.
FFS it's Christmas she offers to chat to anyone who's feeling alone and twats turn up ! |
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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"If anyone on their own wishes to message us just for a natter then please do, we dont like the thought of anyone being on their own this time of year x
That's lovely. Sometimes being alone is unavoidable, theres no reason to be lonely though
Exactly and we are happy to talk to anyone, even if they just want a moan x
I agree. Moan, laugh, dispair, company... Its all good
Exactly
(Ray)
So Lou made the kind gesture above and what do we get a fucking message with a dick pick ! There's a reason most couples block single men.
FFS it's Christmas she offers to chat to anyone who's feeling alone and twats turn up ! "
Unfortunately some people use any opportunity to try and take advantage. Don't let the idiots get in the way or detract from the good ones.
The offer of helping others was a positive and caring gesture. I'm sure that many appreciate it. |
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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"(Ray)
Lou doesn't want to block anyone after her gesture to chat to anyone as she's a big softy lol
I've respected her wishes, just a shame the few spoil it "
As with anything in life; there are always idiots. They only spoil it if you let them. |
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