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over a year ago
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"We all bang on about safe play only ... but I’ve never seen a condom covered cock in a mouth .. why do we see that as ok? "
I think the risk is far less with oral. In fact I think you've got more chance of getting something in your throat than your mouth unless you have a cut or something. |
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"We all bang on about safe play only ... but I’ve never seen a condom covered cock in a mouth .. why do we see that as ok?
I think the risk is far less with oral. In fact I think you've got more chance of getting something in your throat than your mouth unless you have a cut or something. "
Still getting something tho, throat or mouth |
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"We all bang on about safe play only ... but I’ve never seen a condom covered cock in a mouth .. why do we see that as ok?
I think the risk is far less with oral. In fact I think you've got more chance of getting something in your throat than your mouth unless you have a cut or something.
Still getting something tho, throat or mouth "
Put it this way I have had lots of oral and never picked up anything. Some of the people I have played with tested positive and still never picked up anything. I'm either very very (phenomenally) lucky or the chances are much much less. |
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"We all bang on about safe play only ... but I’ve never seen a condom covered cock in a mouth .. why do we see that as ok? "
is there a dr in the house who can explain the unsafe side of catching anything from a swallow your jizz as you unload it all down someones throat
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either orally or genitally, whether you swallow or not. With fluid-borne infections -- like HIV or Chlamydia -- swallowing fluids create those risks. With skin-to-skin transmitted infections like HPV or Herpes, no fluid needs even be present for an infection to be transmitted, so a person who didn't swallow and who was giving oral sex to a partner with one of those infections could still get the infection themselves that way. |
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"Look at the Terrance Higgins Trust website, they explain the risks pretty well in our opinion. "
THT are mainly discussing HIV though right? This quote is from their website
Remember that other STIs can also be passed on through oral sex, including herpes, gonorrhoea, chlamydia and syphilis. |
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"We all bang on about safe play only ... but I’ve never seen a condom covered cock in a mouth .. why do we see that as ok?
is there a dr in the house who can explain the unsafe side of catching anything from a swallow your jizz as you unload it all down someones throat
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I think you misunderstood.... i am fully aware of the risks... I am curious why most of us choose not to bang on about it as much as we do about safe intercourse (myself included) |
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"We all bang on about safe play only ... but I’ve never seen a condom covered cock in a mouth .. why do we see that as ok?
I think the risk is far less with oral. In fact I think you've got more chance of getting something in your throat than your mouth unless you have a cut or something.
Still getting something tho, throat or mouth
Put it this way I have had lots of oral and never picked up anything. Some of the people I have played with tested positive and still never picked up anything. I'm either very very (phenomenally) lucky or the chances are much much less."
It’s possible you may have HPV and not know it. About 80% of the sexually active population have it. It’s not regularly screened for, except for cervical screening now. It’s been linked with throat cancer, not to mention anal and penile in men. |
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"We all bang on about safe play only ... but I’ve never seen a condom covered cock in a mouth .. why do we see that as ok?
I think the risk is far less with oral. In fact I think you've got more chance of getting something in your throat than your mouth unless you have a cut or something.
Still getting something tho, throat or mouth
Put it this way I have had lots of oral and never picked up anything. Some of the people I have played with tested positive and still never picked up anything. I'm either very very (phenomenally) lucky or the chances are much much less.
It’s possible you may have HPV and not know it. About 80% of the sexually active population have it. It’s not regularly screened for, except for cervical screening now. It’s been linked with throat cancer, not to mention anal and penile in men."
There is a debate as to whether HPV is a sexually transmitted disease. If you can get it from kissing... |
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"We all bang on about safe play only ... but I’ve never seen a condom covered cock in a mouth .. why do we see that as ok?
is there a dr in the house who can explain the unsafe side of catching anything from a swallow your jizz as you unload it all down someones throat
I think you misunderstood.... i am fully aware of the risks... I am curious why most of us choose not to bang on about it as much as we do about safe intercourse (myself included) "
because it is a much lesser risk. Its similar for me the fact I love to drive a car fast and to its and my limits ..but I reduce the risk to myself and others by doing it on a track...
Not the best comparison but it is one that works for me x
There is a sliding scale of risk with certain sexual activities for risk of possible infection and oral is at the lower end.
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"We all bang on about safe play only ... but I’ve never seen a condom covered cock in a mouth .. why do we see that as ok?
is there a dr in the house who can explain the unsafe side of catching anything from a swallow your jizz as you unload it all down someones throat
I think you misunderstood.... i am fully aware of the risks... I am curious why most of us choose not to bang on about it as much as we do about safe intercourse (myself included) "
of course it should always be safe but people will do what they want when they want regardless and
happy christmas
you are right we do not bang on about sucking a cock with a condom |
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"We all bang on about safe play only ... but I’ve never seen a condom covered cock in a mouth .. why do we see that as ok?
is there a dr in the house who can explain the unsafe side of catching anything from a swallow your jizz as you unload it all down someones throat
I think you misunderstood.... i am fully aware of the risks... I am curious why most of us choose not to bang on about it as much as we do about safe intercourse (myself included)
of course it should always be safe but people will do what they want when they want regardless and
happy christmas
you are right we do not bang on about sucking a cock with a condom "
My reason is cos i love it! ha .. simple! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We all bang on about safe play only ... but I’ve never seen a condom covered cock in a mouth .. why do we see that as ok?
is there a dr in the house who can explain the unsafe side of catching anything from a swallow your jizz as you unload it all down someones throat
I think you misunderstood.... i am fully aware of the risks... I am curious why most of us choose not to bang on about it as much as we do about safe intercourse (myself included)
of course it should always be safe but people will do what they want when they want regardless and
happy christmas
you are right we do not bang on about sucking a cock with a condom "
It's not just sucking cock. Oral transfer goes both ways. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We all bang on about safe play only ... but I’ve never seen a condom covered cock in a mouth .. why do we see that as ok?
is there a dr in the house who can explain the unsafe side of catching anything from a swallow your jizz as you unload it all down someones throat
I think you misunderstood.... i am fully aware of the risks... I am curious why most of us choose not to bang on about it as much as we do about safe intercourse (myself included) "
There would just be no fun left in any of it anymore and we may aswell join a monastery  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We all bang on about safe play only ... but I’ve never seen a condom covered cock in a mouth .. why do we see that as ok? "
ignorance is bliss maybe, don't kiss under the mistletoe with anyone else but me  |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
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"I do not like giving oral with a condom on, I just wouldn't do it. I think the benefits outweigh the risks. 
Sounds like it isn't much of a risk then"
Well, I've been sexually active for 20 years, never given a blowjob with a condom and I've never caught anything. |
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"I do not like giving oral with a condom on, I just wouldn't do it. I think the benefits outweigh the risks.
Sounds like it isn't much of a risk then
Well, I've been sexually active for 20 years, never given a blowjob with a condom and I've never caught anything."
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"I like to fuck a blender on thursdays
Can you film it and send me the vid? no u cannot have my penis
Penis unwanted.
Video evidence of penis in blender.....  "
sorry i dont share that kind of amature porn anymore |
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"It’s safer but not totally. The only safe sex is no sex
ooo that is harsh life
sad but true  knowing my luck, I’d get something from having a wank Yeah your right. Tennis elbow.  "
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
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"We all bang on about safe play only ... but I’ve never seen a condom covered cock in a mouth .. why do we see that as ok?
is there a dr in the house who can explain the unsafe side of catching anything from a swallow your jizz as you unload it all down someones throat
I think you misunderstood.... i am fully aware of the risks... I am curious why most of us choose not to bang on about it as much as we do about safe intercourse (myself included)
There would just be no fun left in any of it anymore and we may aswell join a monastery "
Monk & Nun role play, interesting
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"I do not like giving oral with a condom on, I just wouldn't do it. I think the benefits outweigh the risks.
Sounds like it isn't much of a risk then
Well, I've been sexually active for 20 years, never given a blowjob with a condom and I've never caught anything."
Well your very lucky then..I had a friend who went to cap dag and caught clamidia of the mouth! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I do not like giving oral with a condom on, I just wouldn't do it. I think the benefits outweigh the risks.
Sounds like it isn't much of a risk then
Well, I've been sexually active for 20 years, never given a blowjob with a condom and I've never caught anything.
Well your very lucky then..I had a friend who went to cap dag and caught clamidia of the mouth!"
It does happen granted. I've never picked up anything and get tested regularly. And you know what a slut I am....  |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
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"I do not like giving oral with a condom on, I just wouldn't do it. I think the benefits outweigh the risks.
Sounds like it isn't much of a risk then
Well, I've been sexually active for 20 years, never given a blowjob with a condom and I've never caught anything.
Well your very lucky then..I had a friend who went to cap dag and caught clamidia of the mouth!"
Yep, it's a risk. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I do not like giving oral with a condom on, I just wouldn't do it. I think the benefits outweigh the risks.
Sounds like it isn't much of a risk then
Well, I've been sexually active for 20 years, never given a blowjob with a condom and I've never caught anything.
Well your very lucky then..I had a friend who went to cap dag and caught clamidia of the mouth!
Yep, it's a risk."
Put it another way. The chance of infection is so low that if everyone used condoms these things would eventually die out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I like to fuck a blender on thursdays
A Chinese mate of mind has a girlfriend called Blender
Psml  "
thats not ehat i meant by saying i ordered a chinese last week |
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"I do not like giving oral with a condom on, I just wouldn't do it. I think the benefits outweigh the risks.
Sounds like it isn't much of a risk then
Well, I've been sexually active for 20 years, never given a blowjob with a condom and I've never caught anything.
Well your very lucky then..I had a friend who went to cap dag and caught clamidia of the mouth!
It does happen granted. I've never picked up anything and get tested regularly. And you know what a slut I am.... "
Same! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I do not like giving oral with a condom on, I just wouldn't do it. I think the benefits outweigh the risks.
Sounds like it isn't much of a risk then
Well, I've been sexually active for 20 years, never given a blowjob with a condom and I've never caught anything.
Well your very lucky then..I had a friend who went to cap dag and caught clamidia of the mouth!
It does happen granted. I've never picked up anything and get tested regularly. And you know what a slut I am....
Same! "
You've never picked up anything or.....? |
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Yeah there's no such thing as safe sex. You can just take precautions. The precautions each of us take are individual. I do also sometimes wonder how many people ask for throat swabs when they get tested. I'm surprised more clinics don't suggest them really. |
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"Yeah there's no such thing as safe sex. You can just take precautions. The precautions each of us take are individual. I do also sometimes wonder how many people ask for throat swabs when they get tested. I'm surprised more clinics don't suggest them really."
Maybe they should start. .... |
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It does happen granted. I've never picked up anything and get tested regularly. And you know what a slut I am....
Same!
You've never picked up anything or.....? "
Never picked up anything and i'm a slut |
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"Yeah there's no such thing as safe sex. You can just take precautions. The precautions each of us take are individual. I do also sometimes wonder how many people ask for throat swabs when they get tested. I'm surprised more clinics don't suggest them really."
My clinic always asked what i want, to which i always reply - EVERYTHING .. why go if you arent getting the full MOT? |
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"When I've met men in the past I used condoms for oral too.
How do you find that? how do they find that? still good?"
I didn't get any complaints, my oral tends to be very wet so there's not much chafing which can be a problem. And the taste isn't pleasant but I get used to it pretty quickly and enthusiasm takes over.
Overall, it's obviously more enjoyable without a condom but I just like to use one to lower the risk of picking anything up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yeah there's no such thing as safe sex. You can just take precautions. The precautions each of us take are individual. I do also sometimes wonder how many people ask for throat swabs when they get tested. I'm surprised more clinics don't suggest them really.
Maybe they should start. .... "
I get a mouth swab when I get tested (everything gets swabbed). But anyone who tries to swab my throat will get my cookies in their lap... |
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It does happen granted. I've never picked up anything and get tested regularly. And you know what a slut I am....
Same!
You've never picked up anything or.....?
Never picked up anything and i'm a slut "
Did I mention that I really like you?  |
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"When I've met men in the past I used condoms for oral too.
How do you find that? how do they find that? still good?
I didn't get any complaints, my oral tends to be very wet so there's not much chafing which can be a problem. And the taste isn't pleasant but I get used to it pretty quickly and enthusiasm takes over.
Overall, it's obviously more enjoyable without a condom but I just like to use one to lower the risk of picking anything up."
I see you are bisexual. Do you have oral sex with women? Just curious... |
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It does happen granted. I've never picked up anything and get tested regularly. And you know what a slut I am....
Same!
You've never picked up anything or.....?
Never picked up anything and i'm a slut
Did I mention that I really like you? "
Ha |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
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"I do not like giving oral with a condom on, I just wouldn't do it. I think the benefits outweigh the risks.
Sounds like it isn't much of a risk then
Well, I've been sexually active for 20 years, never given a blowjob with a condom and I've never caught anything.
Well your very lucky then..I had a friend who went to cap dag and caught clamidia of the mouth!
Yep, it's a risk.
Put it another way. The chance of infection is so low that if everyone used condoms these things would eventually die out. "
Do you insist on condoms and dams for oral? |
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"I do not like giving oral with a condom on, I just wouldn't do it. I think the benefits outweigh the risks.
Sounds like it isn't much of a risk then
Well, I've been sexually active for 20 years, never given a blowjob with a condom and I've never caught anything.
Well your very lucky then..I had a friend who went to cap dag and caught clamidia of the mouth!
Yep, it's a risk.
Put it another way. The chance of infection is so low that if everyone used condoms these things would eventually die out.
Do you insist on condoms and dams for oral?"
No don't use dental dams or condoms for oral.
I've been in a lot of clubs and hardly ever seen a man getting a blowjob with a condom on. I wouldn't know what a dental dam looks like.
I'm not going to commit fabicide by saying how many people I've had oral sex with but it's a lot. But won't have bareback sex with anyone except my gf without exception. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Covered oral, I don't see the point to be honest
I'm far far more likely to die in a car crash on my way to lick & rim a sexy woman than catch and die from contracting some oral STD |
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By *adyx4Woman
over a year ago
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"I like to fuck a blender on thursdays
Can you film it and send me the vid? no u cannot have my penis
Penis unwanted.
Video evidence of penis in blender..... sorry i dont share that kind of amature porn anymore"
What about amateur? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I like to fuck a blender on thursdays
Can you film it and send me the vid? no u cannot have my penis
Penis unwanted.
Video evidence of penis in blender..... sorry i dont share that kind of amature porn anymore
What about amateur? "
touchè! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I like to fuck a blender on thursdays
Can you film it and send me the vid? no u cannot have my penis
Penis unwanted.
Video evidence of penis in blender..... sorry i dont share that kind of amature porn anymore
What about amateur? "
no i dont do that nether never liked french lessons |
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"I like to fuck a blender on thursdays
Can you film it and send me the vid? no u cannot have my penis
Penis unwanted.
Video evidence of penis in blender..... sorry i dont share that kind of amature porn anymore
What about amateur?
touchè!"
what i just say man  |
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"We all bang on about safe play only ... but I’ve never seen a condom covered cock in a mouth .. why do we see that as ok? "
seriously, how many women get pleasure from sucking rubber? For me the point is my pleasure, taste of cock and cum. Sucking on rubber is only a pleasure for the man and probably delays the cum, yawn.
Only time I ever did condom was when i was getting paid for it |
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"We all bang on about safe play only ... but I’ve never seen a condom covered cock in a mouth .. why do we see that as ok?
seriously, how many women get pleasure from sucking rubber? For me the point is my pleasure, taste of cock and cum. Sucking on rubber is only a pleasure for the man and probably delays the cum, yawn.
Only time I ever did condom was when i was getting paid for it"
Is it even a pleasure for the man? |
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"We all bang on about safe play only ... but I’ve never seen a condom covered cock in a mouth .. why do we see that as ok?
seriously, how many women get pleasure from sucking rubber? For me the point is my pleasure, taste of cock and cum. Sucking on rubber is only a pleasure for the man and probably delays the cum, yawn.
Only time I ever did condom was when i was getting paid for it
Is it even a pleasure for the man?"
Ever had a foot massage when you're wearing gum boots?
Gotta say at this point, if condoms are your thing. Flavoured condoms at least.
Another issue with condoms is teeth. A slight nick and they are ready to tear when used for penetrative sex, making sex riskier not safer. |
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"I like to fuck a blender on thursdays
Can you film it and send me the vid? no u cannot have my penis
Penis unwanted.
Video evidence of penis in blender..... sorry i dont share that kind of amature porn anymore
What about amateur?
touchè!what i just say man "
Merry Christmas Jake |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
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"I do not like giving oral with a condom on, I just wouldn't do it. I think the benefits outweigh the risks.
Sounds like it isn't much of a risk then
Well, I've been sexually active for 20 years, never given a blowjob with a condom and I've never caught anything.
Well your very lucky then..I had a friend who went to cap dag and caught clamidia of the mouth!
Yep, it's a risk.
Put it another way. The chance of infection is so low that if everyone used condoms these things would eventually die out.
Do you insist on condoms and dams for oral?
No don't use dental dams or condoms for oral.
I've been in a lot of clubs and hardly ever seen a man getting a blowjob with a condom on. I wouldn't know what a dental dam looks like.
I'm not going to commit fabicide by saying how many people I've had oral sex with but it's a lot. But won't have bareback sex with anyone except my gf without exception. "
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There is s science known as acceptable risk. It is mathematical and determines everything from how nany engines you have onna jet to how many filliments are in brake lights. |
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Never done oral with a condom. 