"Ok whats this mean please
U ask someones advise on something they say do what you need to do what does that mean to u  "
It means that while the course of action may be not be easy, it will get you the best result in the end |
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"What was asked is private so i will not say btw before nosey folks turn up"
Then why dangle the carrot like that?
It usually means that they dont know what you should do because it's really something you should decide for yourself buddy. |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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A) They have either given you advice before and you’ve not followed it which has pissed them off, so they are telling you to do what you want.
B) They are not that bothered so are just telling you what you want to hear as they can’t be arsed with it.
C) They want you to be happy so they are telling you to pick the best option that suits you. That is, do what YOU want to do. Listen to your gut sort of thing.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"See this is why im confused so many possibility 
Can you not just say?
'I'm not sure what you mean, what are you saying?'
He says that enough as it is  "
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It means that they think that you will have the insight to know what to select to do. It's better too if you take the decision, rather than having it taken by someone else. Personal accountability, rather than outsourcing it, gives you a better chance of learning and growing. |
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