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Does a woman really want the truth?
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over a year ago
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"Ok so if my partner asks me does my ass look fat in this and it does my answer would be yes but I am expected to say no no that is what I mean"
Dont you go there! You could say, 'hun you have curves at the right places'. You are honest and she is happy!  |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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"Ok so if my partner asks me does my ass look fat in this and it does my answer would be yes but I am expected to say no no that is what I mean"
Some women say they want you to be honest, but the moment you’re honest they’ll have a shit fit.
And then some women say they want you to be honest and they really mean it.
It’s a minefield!  |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"Ok so if my partner asks me does my ass look fat in this and it does my answer would be yes but I am expected to say no no that is what I mean"
You can tell the truth in a tactful way though. You don't need to say "yes you look fat" just say "i prefer that other dress you wear, you look amazing in it" |
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"Ok so if my partner asks me does my ass look fat in this and it does my answer would be yes but I am expected to say no no that is what I mean
You can tell the truth in a tactful way though. You don't need to say "yes you look fat" just say "i prefer that other dress you wear, you look amazing in it" "
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"Ok so if my partner asks me does my ass look fat in this and it does my answer would be yes but I am expected to say no no that is what I mean"
what answer would you like if you asked her was you the best fuck she ever had? The truth or a lie  |
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"Ok so if my partner asks me does my ass look fat in this and it does my answer would be yes but I am expected to say no no that is what I mean"
All women are different. I asked the big ass question once and the guy said ‘oh god yes’ in a lustful way. I wore the dress lol
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By *ad ste OP Man
over a year ago
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"Ok so if my partner asks me does my ass look fat in this and it does my answer would be yes but I am expected to say no no that is what I mean
Dont you go there! You could say, 'hun you have curves at the right places'. You are honest and she is happy! "
That very true I personally like curves however certain clothes don't flatter those curves so in answer to the question does my ass look fat in this yes it does |
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By *ad ste OP Man
over a year ago
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"Ok so if my partner asks me does my ass look fat in this and it does my answer would be yes but I am expected to say no no that is what I mean what answer would you like if you asked her was you the best fuck she ever had? The truth or a lie "
The truth without question |
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"Ok so if my partner asks me does my ass look fat in this and it does my answer would be yes but I am expected to say no no that is what I mean
Dont you go there! You could say, 'hun you have curves at the right places'. You are honest and she is happy!
That very true I personally like curves however certain clothes don't flatter those curves so in answer to the question does my ass look fat in this yes it does"
Sorry but that did make me laugh 
Sometimes it pays to be diplomatic |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok so if my partner asks me does my ass look fat in this and it does my answer would be yes but I am expected to say no no that is what I mean what answer would you like if you asked her was you the best fuck she ever had? The truth or a lie
The truth without question "
as would anyone really . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok so if my partner asks me does my ass look fat in this and it does my answer would be yes but I am expected to say no no that is what I mean
You can tell the truth in a tactful way though. You don't need to say "yes you look fat" just say "i prefer that other dress you wear, you look amazing in it" "
Even if she doesnt?  Isnt that blatantly lieing?  |
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By *ad ste OP Man
over a year ago
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"Ok so if my partner asks me does my ass look fat in this and it does my answer would be yes but I am expected to say no no that is what I mean
Some women say they want you to be honest, but the moment you’re honest they’ll have a shit fit.
And then some women say they want you to be honest and they really mean it.
It’s a minefield! "
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By *ad ste OP Man
over a year ago
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"Ok so if my partner asks me does my ass look fat in this and it does my answer would be yes but I am expected to say no no that is what I mean
Some women say they want you to be honest, but the moment you’re honest they’ll have a shit fit.
I couldn't agree more
And then some women say they want you to be honest and they really mean it.
It’s a minefield! "
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"Ok so if my partner asks me does my ass look fat in this and it does my answer would be yes but I am expected to say no no that is what I mean
You can tell the truth in a tactful way though. You don't need to say "yes you look fat" just say "i prefer that other dress you wear, you look amazing in it"
Even if she doesnt? Isnt that blatantly lieing? "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Where can I get one and forever to read it "
Yeah, there may be different volumes and version of them too. So it might take a lifetime to nail it I guess! |
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By *ad ste OP Man
over a year ago
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"Do men want the truth, that all women are different, all situations are different, and they might have to think about it rather than applying a one size fits all answer? "
We are all very different but it is a interesting question if you really think about it |
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"Do men want the truth, that all women are different, all situations are different, and they might have to think about it rather than applying a one size fits all answer?
We are all very different but it is a interesting question if you really think about it"
So... If men are all different... Why do you assume all women are the same? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Would have thought it depends a lot on the people ... I'm an honest answer type always, though have got a modicum of diplomacy now which works a lot better for everyone! I always want honesty to be honest, if I dont look good just say! Etc ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok so if my partner asks me does my ass look fat in this and it does my answer would be yes but I am expected to say no no that is what I mean
Some women say they want you to be honest, but the moment you’re honest they’ll have a shit fit.
And then some women say they want you to be honest and they really mean it.
It’s a minefield! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How about men, do they want to hear the truth?
This one douse "
I only ask because an awful lot of the time when I tell a man I don't find him attractive they don't take it with good grace. I try wherever possible to avoid saying it and will say things like we're not compatible or we're not a match. When I'm put on the spot and forced to say it it never goes down well. Isn't this what you're talking about? |
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It depends how you say it. If a woman asks if her bum looks big in something she's really saying "do you find me attractive?" The best thing to say is that she looks bloody gorgeous and if the outfit really doesn't suit her "in your opinion" say you prefer her in the sexy red dress or whichever outfit you like her in. Otherwise just keep your mouth shut.
Women lie all the time to keep men happy why not repay the favour. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm happy that my other half would be honest and tell me how I really look, I know how much he loves me and sp his honest opinion is best, I would rather that and I change to something I look great in.
Plus we both now I have a fat bottom, him telling me isn't going to upset me! I think it's about knowing the person and knowing what will upset them or make them laugh |
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By *ad ste OP Man
over a year ago
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"It depends how you say it. If a woman asks if her bum looks big in something she's really saying "do you find me attractive?" The best thing to say is that she looks bloody gorgeous and if the outfit really doesn't suit her "in your opinion" say you prefer her in the sexy red dress or whichever outfit you like her in. Otherwise just keep your mouth shut.
Women lie all the time to keep men happy why not repay the favour."
Ok if she's got a dress and ask you if it looks good on her or not and it looks horrible but she really likes it and think she looks lovely in it be honest or not? |
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"It depends how you say it. If a woman asks if her bum looks big in something she's really saying "do you find me attractive?" The best thing to say is that she looks bloody gorgeous and if the outfit really doesn't suit her "in your opinion" say you prefer her in the sexy red dress or whichever outfit you like her in. Otherwise just keep your mouth shut.
Women lie all the time to keep men happy why not repay the favour.
Ok if she's got a dress and ask you if it looks good on her or not and it looks horrible but she really likes it and think she looks lovely in it be honest or not?"
If you are already out say she looks great. If you're at home or in the shop trying it on say it doesn't suit her "in your opinion". There's honesty with tact and there's honesty that will achieve nothing but upset. |
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"It depends how you say it. If a woman asks if her bum looks big in something she's really saying "do you find me attractive?" The best thing to say is that she looks bloody gorgeous and if the outfit really doesn't suit her "in your opinion" say you prefer her in the sexy red dress or whichever outfit you like her in. Otherwise just keep your mouth shut.
Women lie all the time to keep men happy why not repay the favour.
Ok if she's got a dress and ask you if it looks good on her or not and it looks horrible but she really likes it and think she looks lovely in it be honest or not?"
It depends on the woman and the situation. We're all individuals! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Okay I tried the Christmas dress on and it looks great... On the peg.
You tell me to try it on... When I do you say fuck in awful love... Honesty is that
Nothing more nothing less
I don't want yeah love you got great curves... Just your look will kill me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Women want to hear the truth until they hear something they don't like.
Then you have to lie or take a slap. "
Oh no we do not
Oi love those boxers well tight did you spin dry em... Tight boxers and you got balls in there too. Ain't going out with tight balls |
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By *ad ste OP Man
over a year ago
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"Women want to hear the truth until they hear something they don't like.
Then you have to lie or take a slap. "
I prefer the slab to be honest with you and the second you tell them that you liked it didn't slap you again |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I like to be tactfully honest and say something like it’s not ver flattering and perhaps make an alternative suggestion. I’ve never had an issue with saying it as I see it, but diplomatically and with positive intent. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How about men, do they want to hear the truth?
This one douse
I only ask because an awful lot of the time when I tell a man I don't find him attractive they don't take it with good grace. I try wherever possible to avoid saying it and will say things like we're not compatible or we're not a match. When I'm put on the spot and forced to say it it never goes down well. Isn't this what you're talking about? "
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"How about men, do they want to hear the truth?
This one douse
I only ask because an awful lot of the time when I tell a man I don't find him attractive they don't take it with good grace. I try wherever possible to avoid saying it and will say things like we're not compatible or we're not a match. When I'm put on the spot and forced to say it it never goes down well. Isn't this what you're talking about?
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Yes, funny how women are unpredictable and irrational... but it's different when men do exactly the same thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok so if my partner asks me does my ass look fat in this and it does my answer would be yes but I am expected to say no no that is what I mean"
I guess it depends on your definition of what 'fat' actually is. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Doese a woman really want the truth the whole truth all of the time and is it right to ask someone to lie some of the time?"
the answer is no plain and simple, erotics tip is the best way to deal with it, compliment the good things and stay away from the negatives being brutally honest never works with anyone |
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By (user no longer on site)
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My ex use to say..
"do I look fat?"
No babe
"Do I look fat in this though?"
No you look good
"I do look fat, don't I?“
Hmm well yeah abit
“YEAH WELL FUCK YOU TOO"
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By *ad ste OP Man
over a year ago
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"How about men, do they want to hear the truth?
This one douse
I only ask because an awful lot of the time when I tell a man I don't find him attractive they don't take it with good grace. I try wherever possible to avoid saying it and will say things like we're not compatible or we're not a match. When I'm put on the spot and forced to say it it never goes down well. Isn't this what you're talking about?
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I would always prefer somebody to be honest with me so if I met you and I didn't look like my pictures then I would fully expect you to turn around and say you don't look like your pictures you and ugly if that's what you're thought was |
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"I often ask Mr N if I look ok. He will say if I don't. I have a habit of picking old lady clothes  he bloomin soon tells me
See true honstty between two people that is a beautiful thing"
Yes but he knows me very well, he wouldn't tell me I looked awful if we were already out somewhere and there was nothing I could do about it. He would understand that I'd feel horrible and it would probably take the shine off the outing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I like to be tactfully honest and say something like it’s not ver flattering and perhaps make an alternative suggestion. I’ve never had an issue with saying it as I see it, but diplomatically and with positive intent."
I would say to you back
Oi love
Be brutal
Does it really look that good 
Ooo I love your dishonesty
I did not want diplomatically correct
Say it how it is
It looks awful |
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By *ad ste OP Man
over a year ago
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"Ok so if my partner asks me does my ass look fat in this and it does my answer would be yes but I am expected to say no no that is what I mean
I guess it depends on your definition of what 'fat' actually is. "
The question wasn't about fat it was does my ass look fat in this you could have a real skinny ass and a bad fitting pants that doesn't accentuate your curves |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Doese a woman really want the truth the whole truth all of the time and is it right to ask someone to lie some of the time?"
The truth is always easier to handle than deceit.
There are white lies, but the result of which are not life changing. |
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By *ad ste OP Man
over a year ago
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"Doese a woman really want the truth the whole truth all of the time and is it right to ask someone to lie some of the time?
The truth is always easier to handle than deceit.
There are white lies, but the result of which are not life changing. "
Everybody is different each to their own but to me a lie is a lie |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I often ask Mr N if I look ok. He will say if I don't. I have a habit of picking old lady clothes he bloomin soon tells me
See true honstty between two people that is a beautiful thing
Yes but he knows me very well, he wouldn't tell me I looked awful if we were already out somewhere and there was nothing I could do about it. He would understand that I'd feel horrible and it would probably take the shine off the outing. "
True... I suppose I am lucky
Do remember times when family say that looks awful my gran was like that grandad said that makes your arse stick out. Then I got an inferior complex about my body
Never had a bf or husband or partner who said I look awful. Maybe they were liars |
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"Ok so if my partner asks me does my ass look fat in this and it does my answer would be yes but I am expected to say no no that is what I mean
I guess it depends on your definition of what 'fat' actually is.
The question wasn't about fat it was does my ass look fat in this you could have a real skinny ass and a bad fitting pants that doesn't accentuate your curves"
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The thing is though your idea of what looks nice might be different to the woman who's asking. You might like skin right trousers that show a knicker line (some guys on here recently said they did) and your truth is that it looks great but if someone asked me if say it looked awful. This is where truth becomes a blurred line |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Doese a woman really want the truth the whole truth all of the time and is it right to ask someone to lie some of the time?the answer is no plain and simple, erotics tip is the best way to deal with it, compliment the good things and stay away from the negatives being brutally honest never works with anyone "
Unless they ask for it? 
Hey mate. Hope you are well! |
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By *ad ste OP Man
over a year ago
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"Ok so if my partner asks me does my ass look fat in this and it does my answer would be yes but I am expected to say no no that is what I mean
I guess it depends on your definition of what 'fat' actually is.
The question wasn't about fat it was does my ass look fat in this you could have a real skinny ass and a bad fitting pants that doesn't accentuate your curvesI
The thing is though your idea of what looks nice might be different to the woman who's asking. You might like skin right trousers that show a knicker line (some guys on here recently said they did) and your truth is that it looks great but if someone asked me if say it looked awful. This is where truth becomes a blurred line"
The person asking is asking what you think therefore it is the truth |
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"How about men, do they want to hear the truth?
This one douse
I only ask because an awful lot of the time when I tell a man I don't find him attractive they don't take it with good grace. I try wherever possible to avoid saying it and will say things like we're not compatible or we're not a match. When I'm put on the spot and forced to say it it never goes down well. Isn't this what you're talking about?
I would always prefer somebody to be honest with me so if I met you and I didn't look like my pictures then I would fully expect you to turn around and say you don't look like your pictures you and ugly if that's what you're thought was"
I would never, ever call someone ugly, honey. That's not honesty, that's just rude and nasty. If I felt your pictures weren't representative I might say so and abandon the meet. But I'd never say that. Saying I'm not attracted to someone isn't calling them ugly and it doesn't mean I think they're ugly. |
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"Doese a woman really want the truth the whole truth all of the time and is it right to ask someone to lie some of the time?
The truth is always easier to handle than deceit.
There are white lies, but the result of which are not life changing.
Everybody is different each to their own but to me a lie is a lie"
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Do you think there's a difference between truth and opinion? |
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"Ok so if my partner asks me does my ass look fat in this and it does my answer would be yes but I am expected to say no no that is what I mean"
(Lou)If I asked Ray if my arse looked big in something I would want the truth x |
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"Ok so if my partner asks me does my ass look fat in this and it does my answer would be yes but I am expected to say no no that is what I mean
I guess it depends on your definition of what 'fat' actually is.
The question wasn't about fat it was does my ass look fat in this you could have a real skinny ass and a bad fitting pants that doesn't accentuate your curvesI
The thing is though your idea of what looks nice might be different to the woman who's asking. You might like skin right trousers that show a knicker line (some guys on here recently said they did) and your truth is that it looks great but if someone asked me if say it looked awful. This is where truth becomes a blurred line
The person asking is asking what you think therefore it is the truth"
You are being true to your opinion but your opinion isn't truth. When it comes to how someone looks in an outfit there isn't a true answer, only varying opinions. The outfits Mr N loves me in I never wear to visit my parents because my mum would have them. Who's telling the truth? |
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"Ok so if my partner asks me does my ass look fat in this and it does my answer would be yes but I am expected to say no no that is what I mean
I guess it depends on your definition of what 'fat' actually is.
The question wasn't about fat it was does my ass look fat in this you could have a real skinny ass and a bad fitting pants that doesn't accentuate your curvesI
The thing is though your idea of what looks nice might be different to the woman who's asking. You might like skin right trousers that show a knicker line (some guys on here recently said they did) and your truth is that it looks great but if someone asked me if say it looked awful. This is where truth becomes a blurred line
The person asking is asking what you think therefore it is the truth
You are being true to your opinion but your opinion isn't truth. When it comes to how someone looks in an outfit there isn't a true answer, only varying opinions. The outfits Mr N loves me in I never wear to visit my parents because my mum would have them. Who's telling the truth?"
Hate them, she most certainly wouldn't have them lol |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"Personally yes always.. prefer brutal to false flattery.
The truth doesn't have to be brutal though.
True.. but I’d still choose truth even if it had to be..if that makes sense.. "
It does |
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"Doese a woman really want the truth the whole truth all of the time and is it right to ask someone to lie some of the time?"
Like do I give a hoot about my antlers
Can hear folk going
She looks daft
Makes her ugly
She ugly anyway
She got big tits
She don't dress well...
She fat
Can't stand fat
Judging people is what a lot of us do on each other
People judge way too much
Truth can hurt when you are judging people you know swfa about.
Truth is good
Was that fuck good, no it was crap.
Truth hurts and some of us here can't accept it when we say NO thank you. |
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By *ad ste OP Man
over a year ago
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"Doese a woman really want the truth the whole truth all of the time and is it right to ask someone to lie some of the time?
The truth is always easier to handle than deceit.
There are white lies, but the result of which are not life changing.
Everybody is different each to their own but to me a lie is a lieI
Do you think there's a difference between truth and opinion?"
Yes there is a difference between truth and opinion if you're asked a direct question then it's there is only two answers truth or lie |
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"Doese a woman really want the truth the whole truth all of the time and is it right to ask someone to lie some of the time?
The truth is always easier to handle than deceit.
There are white lies, but the result of which are not life changing.
Everybody is different each to their own but to me a lie is a lieI
Do you think there's a difference between truth and opinion?
Yes there is a difference between truth and opinion if you're asked a direct question then it's there is only two answers truth or lie"
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To an extent but as an example Mr N and I see colours slightly differently. There are certain colours that if you showed me I'd say they were green and if you showed him he'd say they were blue. We're both telling the truth but the answers are a lie to one of us.
All I'm saying is that as much as I'd like it to be, the truth isn't always as easy as it seems |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why do guys always make out women are so hard to understand ????
Trying to understand the way some of the guys minds on here work is a nightmare.
I like honest and upfront myself. Im a big girl I can take it.
If I asked a guy does my bum look big in this and he said yes if I liked the way it looked Id still wear it. I dress for me nobody else |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am emotionally exhausted after being given a vicious circle of untruths contradictions and mind games, then got called pathetic
Honesty, truth are rarities for sure.
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By (user no longer on site)
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The ass big in this question is a minefield, it is not just the answer that has to be right, but the timing of the answer. To quick, and you 'haven't even bothered to look' tantrum starts, to slow and any answer means 'you think I have a fat ass and am not fit to leave the house'.
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"The ass big in this question is a minefield, it is not just the answer that has to be right, but the timing of the answer. To quick, and you 'haven't even bothered to look' tantrum starts, to slow and any answer means 'you think I have a fat ass and am not fit to leave the house'.
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Women, you cannot live with them, you cannot live without them too! Poor men! |
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"The ass big in this question is a minefield, it is not just the answer that has to be right, but the timing of the answer. To quick, and you 'haven't even bothered to look' tantrum starts, to slow and any answer means 'you think I have a fat ass and am not fit to leave the house'.
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"The ass big in this question is a minefield, it is not just the answer that has to be right, but the timing of the answer. To quick, and you 'haven't even bothered to look' tantrum starts, to slow and any answer means 'you think I have a fat ass and am not fit to leave the house'.
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By *ad ste OP Man
over a year ago
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"We want the truth,it makes life so much easier to handle than to wonder if game's are being played and lies being told."
That is so true no lies no games and if you do have to tell a lie to keep the peace then what lies and games has the other person playing because they think they need to keep the peace too |
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"How about men, do they want to hear the truth?
This one douse
I only ask because an awful lot of the time when I tell a man I don't find him attractive they don't take it with good grace. I try wherever possible to avoid saying it and will say things like we're not compatible or we're not a match. When I'm put on the spot and forced to say it it never goes down well. Isn't this what you're talking about? "
I also get this i try to say we are too far from each other or sorry i dont think we have much in common they just keep pushing so if i then say your not my type i get a shit load of abuse and its the block button,in answer to your first question though i asked it once and reply i got was" oh hunni your ass doesn't look bug in those jeans, it looks big in everything " i never laughed so much as his shocked face stopped what he was doing realised he had said it out loud and was waiting for the slap i just shrugged and said fairplay  my gran always told me if you don't want the answer don't ask the question it just might be the truth,i always want truth no matter what |
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