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What have you lied about to get a meet?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Have you ever told a fib to get a secure a meet on here?
Did you get away with it or were you found out?
Would you fib to get a meet? I think i’d defo tell a small lie about musical taste or liking radishes but not huge woppers like being a size 6 for example.  |
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"We haven't lied to get a meet but people have lied to us.
About what they look like or other"
Age, weight, marital status, preferences,height, in the case of couples willingness to participate, things like that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We lie about our location and exact date of birth although the general area and year are correct. "
Oh i am doing this too LOL ... I see it more as precautionary personal security than deliberate deceit  |
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"We lie about our location and exact date of birth although the general area and year are correct.
Oh i am doing this too LOL ... I see it more as precautionary personal security than deliberate deceit "
Yep. Our pictures tell the story of body type etc and our age tells the story of wrinkles to expect  |
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"Dont see the point in lieing tbh discretion is important to us hence limited pics and no names but if we where to find a genuine meet I'd tell you everything you wanted to know "
Everything!? We only talk in general terms about jobs and family if someone starts asking too many personal questions we back off |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"I haven't lied to anyone and I'm not aware of anyone lying to me. I have chatted to people who I don't believe the age on their profile though. "
I normally just add a few years on once they reach a certain age. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you ever told a fib to get a secure a meet on here?
Did you get away with it or were you found out?
Would you fib to get a meet? I think i’d defo tell a small lie about musical taste or liking radishes but not huge woppers like being a size 6 for example. "
Do I look like a politician |
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"I haven't lied to anyone and I'm not aware of anyone lying to me. I have chatted to people who I don't believe the age on their profile though.
I normally just add a few years on once they reach a certain age. "
I've had people claiming to only be a couple of years older than me and if they are they must have had a tough life . The thing is I'm still attracted to them and they're still going to be within my age limits but I guess it's hard to admit your profile isn't accurate. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm a bit evasive about my job and the exact area I live in, but other than that I'm entirely honest. Lying about something to get someone into bed is pretty low.
The most common lie I've come across is guys exaggerating their height. Recently I went to meet a 6 ft 2 guy for a drink and I almost didn't spot the 5 ft 10 version. |
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"I haven't lied to anyone and I'm not aware of anyone lying to me. I have chatted to people who I don't believe the age on their profile though.
I'm forever being told I look about 12 "
Haha same. A guy on the train the other day asked me if I was a student and then was surprised I was the same age as him  . |
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"Have you ever told a fib to get a secure a meet on here?
Did you get away with it or were you found out?
Would you fib to get a meet? I think i’d defo tell a small lie about musical taste or liking radishes but not huge woppers like being a size 6 for example. "
Nope, never lied and never would. One, I’m a terrible fibber and two, it would only come out at some point and destroy any trust that has been built. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Been lied to so many times and im happy to be just me what's the point in lying you get found out and then it gets uncomfortable on a meet "
First meet I had he lied
Photo was 30 years old...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have "white lied" not to get a meet (I am always worried about hurting peoples feelings) is that as bad?  "
Not at all. If you white lie am sure in the end you will come through with truth. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you ever told a fib to get a secure a meet on here?
Did you get away with it or were you found out?
Would you fib to get a meet? I think i’d defo tell a small lie about musical taste or liking radishes but not huge woppers like being a size 6 for example. "
Liar liar pants on fire... Is what a lot here do one way or the other |
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"Nope, never lied and never would. One, I’m a terrible fibber and two, it would only come out at some point and destroy any trust that has been built. "
Plus I should say I don’t understand people lying about their height. That is so easily going to be found out straight away.
Thankfully I am genuinely 6’04. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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'you want the truth! You can't handle it'.........
In general I think folk want some of the truth, where it suits their thinking.
Other things they are open to interpretation, and there's a lot they don't know how to process, so wouldn't care either way. |
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"Dont see the point in lieing tbh discretion is important to us hence limited pics and no names but if we where to find a genuine meet I'd tell you everything you wanted to know "
Your status Amazon wish list has a pic of (presumably) the male half, just FYI... Mr. |
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
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I don't reveal my exact location to anyone, that's purely because I value my privacy and safety. Other than that I choose to not give too much personal information regarding my job & family, for the same reasons. |
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I'm deliberately vague about personal details for safety reasons...until someone wins my trust and then I'm an open book.
I'm not looking for one-off encounters, so why would I begin a potential friendship on the basis of untruths? |
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I've never lied to get a meet, but I've lied to get out of one that wasn't going well. (Although I'm a really crap liar, you can read my face like an open book.)
I've been accused of lying about my age because I look mid twenties.
I've met men who have clearly lied about age, weight, height, smoking status, married status...  |
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"I am 99 but lied about my age because I didnt want the website to explode on my next birthday
You lied about LMP! I still haven't forgiven you. 
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This is a medical abbreviation that I hope isn't what you mean . |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"I am 99 but lied about my age because I didnt want the website to explode on my next birthday
You lied about LMP! I still haven't forgiven you.
This is a medical abbreviation that I hope isn't what you mean ."
Lemon Meringue Pie. I still haven't tasted his. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am 99 but lied about my age because I didnt want the website to explode on my next birthday
You lied about LMP! I still haven't forgiven you.
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This is true, I have only made one LMP in 2019! It is totally crazy, why have I only made one! |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"I am 99 but lied about my age because I didnt want the website to explode on my next birthday
You lied about LMP! I still haven't forgiven you.
This is true, I have only made one LMP in 2019! It is totally crazy, why have I only made one! "
'Mericans don't have lemon curd.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am 99 but lied about my age because I didnt want the website to explode on my next birthday
You lied about LMP! I still haven't forgiven you.
This is true, I have only made one LMP in 2019! It is totally crazy, why have I only made one!
'Mericans don't have lemon curd.
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True I did spend a lot of the year on the road, even if I got the ingredients it would be a struggle to make it on a camping stove in a kettle and I dont use lemon curd, I make my own filling from actual lemons. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does fibbing to the babysitter about where I'm off out to for the night count? 
Not unless the babysitter is on fab
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But then I wouldn't have had to leave the house in the first place surely? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I haven't lied to anyone and I'm not aware of anyone lying to me. I have chatted to people who I don't believe the age on their profile though.
I normally just add a few years on once they reach a certain age. "
Anyone aged 45 needs a good long looking at  |
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"I haven't lied to anyone and I'm not aware of anyone lying to me. I have chatted to people who I don't believe the age on their profile though.
I normally just add a few years on once they reach a certain age.
Anyone aged 45 needs a good long looking at "
I probably need carbon dating  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My profile is 100% accurate, but as most think profiles are 50% BS, it doesn’t do me any good!
I’ve lost a couple of meets on a former profile because I’ve been straight with people, when an untruth might have sealed the deal. |
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"I am 99 but lied about my age because I didnt want the website to explode on my next birthday
You lied about LMP! I still haven't forgiven you.
This is a medical abbreviation that I hope isn't what you mean .
Lemon Meringue Pie. I still haven't tasted his."
In my world it means last menstrual period . Sorry! |
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"I'm deliberately vague about personal details for safety reasons...until someone wins my trust and then I'm an open book.
I'm not looking for one-off encounters, so why would I begin a potential friendship on the basis of untruths? "
This is exactly the same for us |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be honest I use a little bit of white lie. I us one of my middle names instead of my frist name. But that mostly because I hate my frist name  so does that count ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I haven't, and wouldn't. I'm just not that desperate to meet people."
Same
But been lied to about age, smoker, and marital statues. The later is soul destroying when you find out after the fact x |
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