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Am I a swing snob??
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Just had a message from someone that had been on the site 9 hours. Asked to meet. I explained I’m not meeting at the moment and the abuse was VILE!
Now I find 1-2-1 meets boring. I’d rather spend my free time with my established connections in a club. I also wouldn’t really jump to meet a newbie from 9 hours ago as A) they obviously have no knowledge of swing etiquette speaking to people like THAT. B) they could be Unlos Tomorrow and I kinda see that as a waste of time and C) I’ve had folk I’ve chatted to YEARS I’d still like to arrange stuff with.
Can’t decide wether I’m cliquey, a snob or just sick of people’s shit!!!!!
And breathe, lass.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Heck no got to stick with what works for you. Also for woman on here you have the time to get to make sure you like contacts. 9 hours is rushing it a tad  |
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over a year ago
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"Just had a message from someone that had been on the site 9 hours. Asked to meet. I explained I’m not meeting at the moment and the abuse was VILE!
Now I find 1-2-1 meets boring. I’d rather spend my free time with my established connections in a club. I also wouldn’t really jump to meet a newbie from 9 hours ago as A) they obviously have no knowledge of swing etiquette speaking to people like THAT. B) they could be Unlos Tomorrow and I kinda see that as a waste of time and C) I’ve had folk I’ve chatted to YEARS I’d still like to arrange stuff with.
Can’t decide wether I’m cliquey, a snob or just sick of people’s shit!!!!!
And breathe, lass.
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Nah. You’re not snobby. You’re just top tottie in high demand. Go forth and conquer whoever you wish to do so my friend... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just had a message from someone that had been on the site 9 hours. Asked to meet. I explained I’m not meeting at the moment and the abuse was VILE!
Now I find 1-2-1 meets boring. I’d rather spend my free time with my established connections in a club. I also wouldn’t really jump to meet a newbie from 9 hours ago as A) they obviously have no knowledge of swing etiquette speaking to people like THAT. B) they could be Unlos Tomorrow and I kinda see that as a waste of time and C) I’ve had folk I’ve chatted to YEARS I’d still like to arrange stuff with.
Can’t decide wether I’m cliquey, a snob or just sick of people’s shit!!!!!
And breathe, lass.
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Lets put it to the test...
How you doin  |
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"Just had a message from someone that had been on the site 9 hours. Asked to meet. I explained I’m not meeting at the moment and the abuse was VILE!
Now I find 1-2-1 meets boring. I’d rather spend my free time with my established connections in a club. I also wouldn’t really jump to meet a newbie from 9 hours ago as A) they obviously have no knowledge of swing etiquette speaking to people like THAT. B) they could be Unlos Tomorrow and I kinda see that as a waste of time and C) I’ve had folk I’ve chatted to YEARS I’d still like to arrange stuff with.
Can’t decide wether I’m cliquey, a snob or just sick of people’s shit!!!!!
And breathe, lass.
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The 9 hours is irrelevant, he could have joined 5 minutes ago and be absolutely perfect.
What's important is that you found out his true type before you've met him and had a lucky escape.
You're gorgeous when he wants to get laid but vile when you politely turn him down, wtf is that all about
Another guy who thinks it's a fuck and go site full of easy women |
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By *ove3funCouple
over a year ago
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No he's in the wrong here.
Not even related to here but I put a post on Facebook asking for advice on a local service, within a few minutes a weirdo highjacked the post with messages about getting naked and inboxed me with 'I want to love you'  |
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"Just had a message from someone that had been on the site 9 hours. Asked to meet. I explained I’m not meeting at the moment and the abuse was VILE!
Now I find 1-2-1 meets boring. I’d rather spend my free time with my established connections in a club. I also wouldn’t really jump to meet a newbie from 9 hours ago as A) they obviously have no knowledge of swing etiquette speaking to people like THAT. B) they could be Unlos Tomorrow and I kinda see that as a waste of time and C) I’ve had folk I’ve chatted to YEARS I’d still like to arrange stuff with.
Can’t decide wether I’m cliquey, a snob or just sick of people’s shit!!!!!
And breathe, lass.
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It's called having good taste, we are with you 100% |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A swing snob?
Maybe... But given that everything is comparative, you'd probably feel pretty grimey about yourself if you didn't employ some fab armour... |
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You're not a snob at all. Your body, your choice lovely
We only meet in clubs. See so many horror stories on here about time wasters, weirdos etc just couldn't be bothered with the hassle
Michele x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just had a message from someone that had been on the site 9 hours. Asked to meet. I explained I’m not meeting at the moment and the abuse was VILE!
Now I find 1-2-1 meets boring. I’d rather spend my free time with my established connections in a club. I also wouldn’t really jump to meet a newbie from 9 hours ago as A) they obviously have no knowledge of swing etiquette speaking to people like THAT. B) they could be Unlos Tomorrow and I kinda see that as a waste of time and C) I’ve had folk I’ve chatted to YEARS I’d still like to arrange stuff with.
Can’t decide wether I’m cliquey, a snob or just sick of people’s shit!!!!!
And breathe, lass.
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Tired of the bullshit is all.. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Haha I think I was on here at least a week before I had the bottle to actually send a message!
Christmas boredom has set in already for some folks."
I wonder what Fab will be like over Christmas? Either totally dead or totally buzzing I guess.. |
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"Just had a message from someone that had been on the site 9 hours. Asked to meet. I explained I’m not meeting at the moment and the abuse was VILE!
Now I find 1-2-1 meets boring. I’d rather spend my free time with my established connections in a club. I also wouldn’t really jump to meet a newbie from 9 hours ago as A) they obviously have no knowledge of swing etiquette speaking to people like THAT. B) they could be Unlos Tomorrow and I kinda see that as a waste of time and C) I’ve had folk I’ve chatted to YEARS I’d still like to arrange stuff with.
Can’t decide wether I’m cliquey, a snob or just sick of people’s shit!!!!!
And breathe, lass.
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Stick with what works for you , snobby I don't think so , just selective and for very good reason |
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"Haha I think I was on here at least a week before I had the bottle to actually send a message!
Christmas boredom has set in already for some folks.
I wonder what Fab will be like over Christmas? Either totally dead or totally buzzing I guess.."
I wasn’t here last year so no idea what it’s normally like, but the increase in new profiles has a definite link to the lack of quality messages I’m getting.
Ho Ho Ho - block, delete, repeat
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"Just had a message from someone that had been on the site 9 hours. Asked to meet. I explained I’m not meeting at the moment and the abuse was VILE!
Now I find 1-2-1 meets boring. I’d rather spend my free time with my established connections in a club. I also wouldn’t really jump to meet a newbie from 9 hours ago as A) they obviously have no knowledge of swing etiquette speaking to people like THAT. B) they could be Unlos Tomorrow and I kinda see that as a waste of time and C) I’ve had folk I’ve chatted to YEARS I’d still like to arrange stuff with.
Can’t decide wether I’m cliquey, a snob or just sick of people’s shit!!!!!
And breathe, lass.
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You don't have to justify your choices to anyone.
Delete block and then forget about the eejits |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Guys come on here thinking it's one giant fuckfest. Some think it's ok to be vile to women when they don't get their own way because 'it's only Fab' - like Fab is some kind of other planet. Just delete and block. You don't need this ignorance in your life. There are so many good parts to this lifestyle. Nobody is 'owed a fuck'. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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sounds like you managed to find another total tosspot who knows nothing about swinging. Sadly some arsewipes do think that they have the right to demand anything of women.
he's probably gone unlos by now |
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As the saying goes "there's nothing so odd as folk". He is clearly a passive aggressive type, who probably has a strange existence. His resonse is like a child who has had his toys removed. We found people sometimes don't always get it. We have it plastered all over our profile we don't do meets and only play at clubs but people still message asking for meets. We ignore them now. We find clubs a safe environment to play as you can control any poor behaviour and avoid any dick heads. |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
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"Haha I think I was on here at least a week before I had the bottle to actually send a message!
Christmas boredom has set in already for some folks.
I wonder what Fab will be like over Christmas? Either totally dead or totally buzzing I guess..
I wasn’t here last year so no idea what it’s normally like, but the increase in new profiles has a definite link to the lack of quality messages I’m getting.
Ho Ho Ho - block, delete, repeat
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I was bored earlier & had a quick look at “New women” to find pages filled with no pic basic short profiles with the odd fake pic profile thrown in for good measure. Took more than three pages before I found a profile I believed might be genuine.
Feel quite sorry for genuine newbies really but they are all blocked by us.
No doubt they still get a zillion messages each though
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldnt say your a snob... id go as far as saying alot of guys and girls on here think being on this site you/we can be used at the drop of a hat. My experience is many on here are much more picky who we sleep with than those in vanilla world. Ive had abuse this week of a woman i didnt want to sleep with, i told her i wasnt meeting but happy to chat and see where it goes... another added to my block list |
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By *abrina59TV/TS
over a year ago
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Dear dear how could you turn down such an offer.
He's put so much effort into his time on fab and he obviously has the charm to sweep any woman of their feet
All girls should be falling at his feet no matter who we are.
He must have emptied the thousands of messages from the women of fab to concentrate all his effort on attracting you.
(Opps just of now get my tongue out of my cheek lol) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Even if you are a 'snob' it all about choice and wish and that is what swinging to me is all about. Fun, broadening your horizons, improving your sex life. Go forth and fuck who you like gow you like its your perogotive |
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"Just had a message from someone that had been on the site 9 hours. Asked to meet. I explained I’m not meeting at the moment and the abuse was VILE!
Now I find 1-2-1 meets boring. I’d rather spend my free time with my established connections in a club. I also wouldn’t really jump to meet a newbie from 9 hours ago as A) they obviously have no knowledge of swing etiquette speaking to people like THAT. B) they could be Unlos Tomorrow and I kinda see that as a waste of time and C) I’ve had folk I’ve chatted to YEARS I’d still like to arrange stuff with.
Can’t decide wether I’m cliquey, a snob or just sick of people’s shit!!!!!
And breathe, lass.
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Unfortunately it sounds as if you were in the receiving end of the entitled 'I'm on a swinging site and so deserve sex.
Was totally undeserved as you are completely in the right to chose who you do, and don't meet xxx |
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"Just had a message from someone that had been on the site 9 hours. Asked to meet. I explained I’m not meeting at the moment and the abuse was VILE!
Now I find 1-2-1 meets boring. I’d rather spend my free time with my established connections in a club. I also wouldn’t really jump to meet a newbie from 9 hours ago as A) they obviously have no knowledge of swing etiquette speaking to people like THAT. B) they could be Unlos Tomorrow and I kinda see that as a waste of time and C) I’ve had folk I’ve chatted to YEARS I’d still like to arrange stuff with.
Can’t decide wether I’m cliquey, a snob or just sick of people’s shit!!!!!
And breathe, lass.
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It’s your time/ body to do with as you please  |
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